Don't Settle for Less!

Women not only deserve a man who doesn‘t abuse -- women deserve true blue, red-blooded, bonified, genuine, deep down, heart and soul, worth their weight in gold -- GOOD BOYS! Ah, yes...genuine Good Boys...the reason men were invented in the first place...the reason your ex-boyfriend is gonna PALE in the face of your new man when you find him...ha ha! (Ah, yes, your ex...the ass..the jerk...the mother ffff...nevermind)

This page is for the women who aren‘t sure what a Good Boy is. If you‘re used to dating abusers, I bet you think the guy you‘re with now is terrific--even though he still somehow manages to make you feel like crap and cry on a pretty regular basis. Men can MAKE YOU CRY even when they are not "Classic Abusers." And you don‘t deserve a jerk that makes you cry. Or if you‘re single - - learn what a Good Boy is before you start dating again! Don‘t settle for some jerk just because "he‘s way nice compared to my ex abuser!" Whatever! Don‘t settle.

What is a Good Boy? (Besides a cute nickname) And why do you deserve one? Because everybody deserves to be respected emotionally, physically, mentally and spiritually. If you date men who give you less than you deserve, it‘s no one‘s responsibility but yours to demand better. If your boy doesn‘t have these characteristics below, I bet you find yourself crying over him late at night...dump him. And if you‘re out dating, make sure you get a Good one.
 

Let‘s define the words "Good Boy."
Basically, a good boy treats you how? Well, he treats you GOOD!

• He helps you feel safe and comfortable.
• He apologizes when he‘s wrong and admits it openly.
• He‘s honest, even when being honest is uncomfortable.
• He would never, ever control who you talk to/where you go/what you wear/what you do.
• He goes out of his way to call you or visit (if he knows it‘s that important to you)
• He would never insult you, your friends, your job or your school.
• He takes your feelings seriously and if you tell him something isn‘t working for you--he tries to change it so it does.
• He does what he says he‘ll do (call, visit, complete something he promised he‘d complete)
• He is honest about his plans--where he goes or what he tells you he‘s doing (no lies!)
• He‘s proud of you so he includes you in his life whenever he can (introduces you to family and friends)
• He does not forget or brush off dates or holidays (this guy NEVER stands you up)
• He doesn‘t make you wonder how he feels--he tells you how he feels (I love you/I miss you/I care about you/I‘m upset/We can work this out/I‘m wrong/et cet.)
• He doesn‘t hang up on you--he‘s too mature for that.
• When something is wrong--he tells you--and it‘s important to him you work it out.
• No yelling, or silent treatments--he‘s grown up enough to talk until miscommunications are cleared up!
• He won‘t go to bed mad if that bothers you--he‘ll talk when you need to.
• He takes responsibility for his actions--if he breaks something--he‘ll fix it!
• He‘ll take his girl out if she asks him to!
• He doesn‘t cower and run/hide at the thought of a serious conversation or peaceful "confrontation"---he cares enough about you to sit his ass down and talk.
• He wants you to be happy and you can tell by how frequently he pleases you.
• He doesn‘t forget to thank you for all you do for him.
• You frequently have reasons to thank him! And he appreciates your gestures.
• He makes you feel wanted, appreciated and secure in the relationship.
• You know he likes your company and it‘s not all about sex.
• He‘d never pressure you to do something in bed you don‘t want to do.
• He would never let his friends yell at you or insult you. In fact, he‘ll tell them to shove it if they act irresponsibly toward you!
• He‘d never act cold if you‘re in tears--he comforts you.
• He doesn‘t expect you to be the one doing all the giving (emotionally or otherwise) because he cares about your needs!
• He does the "little things" that count. (Those vary from woman to woman)
• He forgives you when you apologize or admit you‘re wrong--and he doesn‘t throw it up in your face later.
• He never flirts with your friends.
• He‘d never cheat.
• He‘d tell you if he‘s interested in someone else--no backstabbing.
• If you ask for something and he can do it or get it--consider it done!
• He is not addicted to drugs or alcohol!
• He keeps you and your wants/needs high on his list of priorities--and it shows!