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Topic: Is he lying to me?
Subject: Is he lying to me? - Posted: 5/4/2010 11:00:28 AM
Ive been dating a guy for some time now and every time we are together something "convieniently" comes up with a girl he slept with before we began dating. Ive asked him about it on several different occations and I keep getting the same story, "She ment nothing to me then, so why would she now?" "Nothing is happening between her and I, Im in love with you and only you!" But yet, still he goes to her every time she calls him and says she needs help with something or when she says there is some drama she needs help controlling going on at her place. So my question is, is he telling me the truth about not having any remaining feelings for her? Is he lying to me? Or am I just over reacting?

Topic: Is he lying to me?
Subject: Is he lying to me? - Posted: 5/5/2010 8:46:50 AM

He is my boyfriend, he has been for a few months now. He has defined our relationship as something he would like to last "Forever." He has said to me that he just wants to help her but something didn‘t feel right when he said it.

Yes, I have met her a few times and spent time around her and I‘ve noticed certain looks she gives to my boyfriend and they definately seem more then casual. The fact is she is currently dating my brother. I have never asked her how what her version of the relationship is or what it means. However I have a strong feeling that she feels a lot more for my boyfriend then whay my man defines as "friends."

Should I perhaps ask him more questions about it? Or confront her and ask her?


Topic: Is he lying to me?
Subject: Is he lying to me? - Posted: 5/5/2010 8:53:42 AM

shelbelle,

Generally I am as well the first person my friends call for advice but I have never let that get in the way of spending one-on-one time with my partner. Because to me when I am with my partner I don‘t want to be bothered at that time due it getting in the way of my relationship, unless it is really severe. Such as someone getting into and accident and is in the hospital.

I wonder the same, Why doesn‘t he tell his ex to find another person to help her at that particular moment? I have attempted to ask him that but he refuses to answer stating that I am not being "practical", "fair" or that I am just "over reacting."


Topic: Is he lying to me?
Subject: Is he lying to me? - Posted: 5/17/2010 7:08:24 AM

No I don‘t want to live my life always being second so I brought it up again to him and FINALLY he agreed with me.. He doesn‘t talk to her anymore due to the fact I fought with him about it for almost 2 hours. I told him that if he decides to keep talking to her and helping her that he will loose me because I don‘t want to be second because I am the one he‘s with, not her.

The self-centered bitch sent my brother to jail for attempting to confront her about her relationship with my man !! Honestly she‘s 28 meanwhile she acts like she‘s 10!! It‘s called karma, what goes around comes around and she has a whole other thing comming.

Thank you everyone for your advice it is much appreciated! :)


Topic: Is he lying to me?
Subject: Is he lying to me? - Posted: 6/1/2010 9:38:20 AM

My brother didn‘t get bail.. He‘s still sitting in a cell for no reason because of her... My brother dumped her as soon as she got the cops to put him in cuffs.. Now she doesn‘t talk to me or my man! YAY!!!! :) she finally got the clue!

CHEERS to having a drama free relationship.. Now all I have to do is keep an eye out on him, even then I‘m not really worried. I trust him, mostly. I mean I still have my few doughts but then again who doesn‘t?


Topic: Is he lying to me?
Subject: Is he lying to me? - Posted: 6/11/2010 8:02:55 AM
hellhathnofury wrote:
dangerouslynlove92 wrote:
Ive been dating a guy for some time now and every time we are together something "convieniently" comes up with a girl he slept with before we began dating. Ive asked him about it on several different occations and I keep getting the same story, "She ment nothing to me then, so why would she now?" "Nothing is happening between her and I, Im in love with you and only you!" But yet, still he goes to her every time she calls him and says she needs help with something or when she says there is some drama she needs help controlling going on at her place. So my question is, is he telling me the truth about not having any remaining feelings for her? Is he lying to me? Or am I just over reacting?


Hi, why would you want to be involved with a man who regularly sleeps with a woman who means "nothing" to him? What kind of a person does that? Does she know that she meant "nothing" to him- I bet she doesnt! Its not like hes going to say to her "can we have sex now but btw you dont mean anything to me at all...is that ok". Will he tell his next girfriend that you meant "nothing" to him?

Dont make excuses for him!

Dont blame this on her!

Just get rid and find someone who sleeps with people who mean something to him- that kind of a person is usually mature enough to consider having a relationahip with.



My boyfriend and I don‘t talk to her anymore.. She has nothing to do with our relationship anymore and to top it all off he doesn‘t go out unless I am with him.. On his own choice. So, if he‘s willing to change his life around because he doesn‘t want to risk loosing me (as he put it) then why should I be blaming anything on him? Considering that the situation has changed drastically since that insident.. I know for a fact that she had initiated the sex they had and she continued to initiate encounters with him to piss me off and try to steal him. He made it clear to her as well that he wanted and wants nothing to do with her and that one time they had sex was a complete accident. I don‘t mean to be rude or anything I just don‘t see why I should still be holding it against him since he has done so much to improve and gain some of my trust back.. 





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