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Topic: Is your husband addicted to porn?
Subject: Is your husband addicted to porn? - Posted: 11/17/2006 5:26:15 PM
virtousone wrote:
Is your husband addicted to porn ? Well mine is and it just messed up everything he thinks that it is normal and tries to justify his stupid actions. He tries to turn the spot light on me and say that I am being nosey and lurking .I can‘nt help it if he is on line and I walk in he clicks aff and forgets to sign off. So when I get on the computer I run into his websites.  How fooloish is he. Please give me some advice.


I am so sorry to hear that he is addicted to porn! As with most addicts it‘s likely he won‘t figure it out until he starts losing important things because of his addiction. I am not advocating you leave him though. I hope you do what‘s best for you and (your dependents). Can you go to couples therapy? This must be hurting you. Athena

Topic: A woman in mans clothing; Rowling
Subject: A woman in mans clothing; Rowling - Posted: 11/24/2006 9:37:30 AM

Unfortunately, for J.K. Rowling she was not allowed to be a woman, at least she wasn‘t able to factually represent herself as a female at first. Did you know her publisher pressured her to pick up a masculine pseudonym? He said that girls will read from a male or female author, but boys will only read male authors, generally. So she used J. K. Rowling, just picking out a middle initial and slapping it on, she didn‘t have one before!
Yes, yes, sad, sad, that under read boys are still to some extent "penis-centered", imagining that a woman can‘t speak to their unique and superior station in life. What I am really getting at here is Joann Rowling has not only spoken to girls & boys, she has literally changed the world. She is the most well known contemporary writer in the world and has for the most part touched the lives of children and adults, regardless of religion, ethnic claims or class. Her writing is as clear as the glass of a window letting in everything. In this respect a better writer than my beloved J.R.R. Tolkien. She also seems to pin down the emotional atoms and the big picture of how love, death and friendship affect a person. Again even devastated Frodo was told to stuff down his sadness when Gandolf the Grey died and carry on, instead of being brave like Harry and looking for the meaning of deaths to him and his life.
Fascinating, though, the Sunday Telegraph calls Tolkeins‘ big book, "... the greatest work of imaginative fiction of the twentieth century." And his well-deserved praise gets better and better believe me. Joann Rowling on the other hand has not enjoyed the same praise although it is equally deserved. Perhaps even more deserved, Tolkien was Oxford educated and enjoyed wealth and a high status all of his life, whereas, Rowling was more of a fighter, she wrote her most popular stories after a stint in Exeter studying French! She wrote while she was a young, penniless single mother, a stronger person I guess.
World wide there is another phenomenon as well, women who do equal work do not make as much money as their penised counterparts. I do like to imagine our little blue island is getting more honest though. A place where one of the best writers the world has known will be judged by the quality of her work rather than her name or gender! Athena Quinn

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Topic: How NOT to be played
Subject: How NOT to be played - Posted: 5/1/2007 3:55:27 AM

Hello other Amazing Ladies! Let‘s think of all the reasons why it‘s a bad idea to get played. Uh soo many, but first thing that jumps to my mind is if you are played there is a higher std risk. Any other reasons????? Now! How do you keep from getting played? Please HELP!


Topic: How to avoid players
Subject: How to avoid players - Posted: 5/1/2007 3:59:58 AM
Please help! Give me your best on how to avoid players. And why to avoid being played. Why you should not be a player.... blah blah blah.  Thanks!

Topic: PLAYED
Subject: PLAYED - Posted: 5/1/2007 4:04:01 AM
Hi All! Please give me your best. I need to know what to look for to find out if I‘m getting played! Also, how do you get your self-esteem back after being played has ruined you?

Topic: Fairy Tale
Subject: Fairy Tale - Posted: 8/30/2007 4:36:01 PM
 

 


Once upon a time

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in a land far away,

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a beautiful, independent,

self-assured princess

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happened upon a frog as she sat

contemplating ecological issues

on the shores of an unpolluted pond

in a verdant meadow near her castle.

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The frog hopped into the princess‘ lap

and said: " Elegant Lady,

I was once a handsome prince,

until an evil witch cast a spell upon me.

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One kiss from you, however,

and I will turn back

into the dapper, young prince that I am

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and then, my sweet, we can marry

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and set up housekeeping in your castle

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with my mother,

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where you can prepare my meals,

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clean my clothes, bear my children,

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and forever feel

grateful and happy doing so. "

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That night,

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as the princess dined sumptuously

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on lightly sauteed frog legs

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seasoned in a white wine

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and onion cream sauce,

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she chuckled and thought to herself:

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I don‘t freakin think so.


Topic: Car jacker meet my kids! (My true story)
Subject: Car jacker meet my kids! (My true story) - Posted: 8/30/2007 4:39:55 PM

My mom was running to the store in her Ambassador Rambler, her three kids and her niece and nephew wanted to come along for the ride. After her errand she realized she had still to mail off a letter. She pulled curbside and ran across the street to the mail box.  Another car loaded with young hoodlums, came aside the car and stopped between her and the Rambler, the Rambler had steamed up windows. A hoodlum hopped into the drivers side of the Rambler. Mom ran over to the car, yelling as loud as possible, "What the hell do you think you are doing!?!"  It was then he must have seen five shining toddler faces in the backseat! Upon seeing this and the woman who was ready to clean his clock blocking his path he must have considered the "error of his ways". The guy  jumped out of the Rambler and he leapt back into the "hoodlum" car and sped off. My mom thinks she said a few choice words too, she was frightened for the kids, the hoodlum must have been frightened OF the kids. Getting a car and kids in the same heist must have been more than the would-be criminal had bargained for. Athena Quinn


Topic: Marshalls list
Subject: Marshalls list - Posted: 8/30/2007 7:06:33 PM

Dr. Bethany Marshall- Is he right for you?

Is he interested in you?
When you first meet him, you should feel that he wants you. It may be conveyed by a look, a touch, a compliment or attention to detail. It should be backed up by his willingness to make a plan and move the relationship forward. Constant calling, e-mailing and text-messaging is not true contact since he cannot touch you, see you, adore you or get to know you.
 
Is he accomplished?
Soon after meeting him, you will discover that he has appropriately achieved in at least one area of his life. If he went to college he now has a good job. If he inherited his parents‘ business, he has learned how to successfully manage it. His efforts continue to generate new opportunities, new skills, new challenges or new possessions.
Is he a Stand-up Guy?
He says what he means and means what he says. And the words that he speaks are backed up by action that coincides. Even if he cannot give a guarantee, the relationship is always moving forward. Thus, you will never find yourself drunk-dialing at 2AM because you fear he is out with another girl.
Is he into you?
It will feel reciprocal and mutual. Do you feel that what he gives is as valuable and meaningful as what you offer? Is he as devoted to you as you are to him? Healthy relationships are based upon mutual give and take. If the only thing that you are getting out of this relationship is text messages, e-mails or occasional plans, you are not getting what you need.
He is consistant.
He will have good friends and you will like who he is when he‘s with them. You are confident that he is the man you know and love whether he‘s with you or apart from you. When he‘s out of sight, he does not turn into somebody else. Conversely, when you include him with your friends, you know who he will be -- charming and engaging, enhancing instead of detracting.
 
he‘s understanding
He will like you for who you are. Even if you have a bad day or say something that he does not like, his adoration will remain steady and his view of you will remain the same. Beware of the guy whose perception changes whenever you deviate from his expectations. You should not feel that you must suppress your personality in order to hold onto his approval.
He is not Judgemental
He will never view you as unconditionally bad or make you feel terrible about yourself. Even in the midst of an argument, he will be able to see both the good and the bad in you. He will not stay mad at you once the argument is over. And he will move on instead of clinging to bad feelings or suspicions. He loves you and sees you as a good person, no matter what.
If he is right for you, he will tolerate the unexpected and the unknown because he trusts you.  He will not pin you down or put a leash on you every moment of the day in order to feel secure. Instead, he will respect your boundaries and give you the privacy and independence you deserve. Conversely, he will not block you out or use distance to keep the upper hand.
 
He has a learning curve.  He is willing to learn from his mistakes and to modify his actions. For instance, if he begins a friendship with a flirtatious girl and you let him know that this is creating a problem, he will be concerned about your feelings and come up with a solution. When you discuss relationship obstacles, he works on them.
 
He is a proactive
He will seek his own solutions. If he has a problem he will reach out to others for help, find resources, have a conversation, go to therapy, attend a 12-step program -- anything that will move him closer to making the changes that he needs to make. Pride, laziness or stubbornness will not keep him from taking the steps that he needs to have a relationship with you.
He is not controlling
He will not try to have power over you. He won‘t leave you wondering where he is and what he is doing. Or leave you hanging just to prove a point. Even if he has more money, status and power, he will not make you feel that you would be nothing without him. He is willing to listen, meet your needs and include you in mutual decision making.
 

The great Poet Rainer Maria Rilke wrote: "Be patient towards all that is unsolved in your heart, and learn to love the questions themselves."

Topic: Lying Woman!
Subject: Lying Woman! - Posted: 8/31/2007 4:55:10 PM
The Seamstress - A Parable One day, when a seamstress was sewing while sitting close to a river, her thimble fell into the river. When she cried out, the Lord appeared and asked, "My dear child, why are you crying?"

The seamstress replied that her thimble had fallen into the water and that she needed it to help her husband in making a living for their family.

The Lord dipped His hand into the water and pulled up a golden thimble set with pearls.

"Is this your thimble?" the Lord asked

The seamstress replied, "No."

The Lord again dipped into the river. He held out a silver thimble ringed with sapphires.

"Is this your thimble?" the Lord asked.

Again, the seamstress replied, "No."

The Lord reached down again and came up with a leather thimble. "Is this your thimble?" the Lord asked.

The seamstress replied, "Yes."

The Lord was pleased with the woman‘s honesty and gave her all three thimbles to keep, and the seamstress went home happy.

Some years later, the seamstress was walking with her husband along the riverbank, and her husband fell into the river and disappeared under the water. When she cried out, the Lord again appeared and asked her, why are you crying?"

"Oh Lord, my husband has fallen into the river!"

The Lord went down into the water and came up with George Clooney. "Is this your husband?" the Lord asked. "Yes!" cried the seamstress. The Lord was furious. "You lied! That is an untruth!"

The seamstress replied, "Oh, forgive me, my Lord it is a misunderstanding. You see, if I had said ‘no‘ to George Clooney, you would have come up with Brad Pitt. Then if I said ‘no‘ to him, you would have come up with my husband. Had I then said ‘yes,‘ you would have given me all three. Lord, I‘m not in the best of health and would not be able to take care of all three husbands, so THAT‘S why I said ‘yes‘ to George Clooney.

And so the Lord let her keep him.

The moral of this story is: Usually when  a woman lies, it‘s for a good and honorable reason, and in the best interest of others.

That‘s our story, and we‘re sticking to it.

Signed,

All Us Women

Verified by my Sister.... Cool Cat...lol_

Topic: My Boyfriend Is driving me CRAZY
Subject: My Boyfriend Is driving me CRAZY - Posted: 8/31/2007 9:35:49 PM
I hate to be negative, but I also hate my boyfriend and just have to let that out! Always cussing me and degrading and humiliating me. Let me stand on the highest building in Sacramento and scream "Kamal Jeet Singh. You are a two-faced  liar and I hate you!!!" Wish I could find a job FAST and get out of his clutches!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I hate you Kamal.


 

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