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| Topic: Happy Halloween! What are you or your kids dressing as?
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| Subject: Happy Halloween! What are you or your kids dressing as? - Posted: 11/1/2006 11:47:36 AM
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| akagiggles36 wrote: | | My son is going as the character from Scream and my daughter is going to be a "Punk Rock Skeleton". As for me...I‘m going as the Sand Man. I will have to post pictures of my yard...we really creeped it out this year!!! I‘ll post those tomorrow!! |
GRRRRRRRRRRRRR..... I‘ve been trying to load the pictures but it‘s not letting me....what‘s up with that???
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Click the little tree above the message (when you reply or post a message) and then upload them into your WomanSaver‘s photo album from where they are on your hard drive. They must be in jpg format.
Kitty, your story had me rolling with laughter!!
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| Topic: from Animal Planet
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| Subject: from Animal Planet - Posted: 11/1/2006 11:50:57 AM
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| I love the Animal Planet chanel. I don‘t watch TV often, but when I do, I watch that. Thanks for posting. I wish I had more time to do charity for animal organizations also.
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| Topic: him and her
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| Subject: him and her - Posted: 11/1/2006 11:52:43 AM
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ha ha ha!! I just saw this. Good one, Slappster.
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| Topic: Happy Halloween! What are you or your kids dressing as?
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| Subject: Happy Halloween! What are you or your kids dressing as? - Posted: 11/1/2006 12:56:20 PM
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| akagiggles36 wrote: |
| BustySpumonte wrote: | | Somethings wronge with photo uploader. I can‘t do it either and I‘m a pro at it. |
Thank Gawd...I thought I was going nuts...
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Tech support has been notified and should have it resolved shortly. Can‘t wait to see those Halloween shots.
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| Topic: CALL WOMANSAVER‘S TOLL FREE # TO SHARE YOUR STORY
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| Subject: CALL WOMANSAVER‘S TOLL FREE # TO SHARE YOUR STORY - Posted: 11/2/2006 8:18:35 AM
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| AquaGirl wrote: |
ok LMWS, I finally left a message for you...
Yikes! I hate my voice! And I think I spoke too fast...
But let me know if it was ok. :)
-Aqua
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Very cute! You sounded a bit nervous because you were talking quite fast but that makes it "real." I will definitely be able to use it. It made me smile when I listened to it. Thank you, AG.
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| Topic: Lady1981
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| Subject: Lady1981 - Posted: 11/2/2006 9:09:19 AM
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lol
Great jokes!!!
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| Topic: Don‘t mess with little ol‘ ladies!
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| Subject: Don‘t mess with little ol‘ ladies! - Posted: 11/2/2006 7:40:53 PM
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| AquaGirl wrote: |
| LittleMissWomansaver wrote: | ha ha ha!!!
Little, old ladies RULE! Some day we will all be little ole‘ ladies (and gents).
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OMG, I can just see it now:
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ha ha ha....You are so on a "roll" Aqua!
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| Topic: My favorite youtube video EVER!
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| Subject: My favorite youtube video EVER! - Posted: 11/2/2006 8:42:03 PM
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Since everyone seems to be in such good spirits and are sharing all their jokes, I thought I would share on of my favorites.
Many of you have probably already seen it. It‘s the Dave Chappelle Oprah pregnant skit.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HDougirg_N4
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| Topic: Happy Halloween! What are you or your kids dressing as?
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| Subject: Happy Halloween! What are you or your kids dressing as? - Posted: 11/3/2006 11:39:19 AM
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| akagiggles36 wrote: | |
AHHH HAAAA....I got it...It doesn‘t like the Pictures I have in my file...but if I save them from a different file...it lets me post them...too weird and hard to explain...but here it is FINALLY.... 
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Wow, Giggles. You decorated your yard great! Love the spider webs. You should go into the professional Halloween yard decorating business. Who is the witch sitting on your stairs?
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| Topic: What colors were at your wedding?
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| Subject: What colors were at your wedding? - Posted: 11/3/2006 11:40:41 AM
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| n/a Never married.
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| Topic: Are you addicted to the internet by Gina Hughes
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| Subject: Are you addicted to the internet by Gina Hughes - Posted: 11/3/2006 1:00:42 PM
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I‘ve been addicted to internet since 97, but I am more a workaholic, than internet addict. One of my 2007 resolutions is to spend less time on the net and more time amongst nature. However, considering I average about 50-100 emails per day (spam not included), that is going to be tough.
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| Topic: Borat - the movie
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| Subject: Borat - the movie - Posted: 11/5/2006 10:33:29 AM
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Holy shit! I went to go see the Borat movie this weekend and I have never seen such a hard-core comedy in my life. My mouth dropped open quite a few times but nevertheless....laughed quite a bit. I didn‘t know than an "R" rating allowed the showing of a guy‘s hairy balls. lol If you are easily offended, I don‘t recommend this movie.
Borat will probably cause protests from gays and especially Jews...unless of course, they have an easy-going sense of humor.
Has anyone else seen it yet?
Movie scene - poop in a baggy at the dinner table was so gross.
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| Topic: Are we are accused of wearing OUR jeans to tight!
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| Subject: Are we are accused of wearing OUR jeans to tight! - Posted: 11/7/2006 10:28:52 AM
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Holy moly!!! That last one.......barf.
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| Topic: The other woman responding to my survey
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| Subject: The other woman responding to my survey - Posted: 11/7/2006 10:33:50 AM
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| mhixson wrote: | |
I had to remove my survey because my ex is using my children againts me. Everything I put on it is true, I don‘t have anything to hide. I was wanting to know if it is possible that it can be used againts me, like harrassment or stalking?
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If you tell the truth, there is nothing he can do. The truth is 100% defense to libel and you are covered under the First Amendment, Freedom of Speech. You can explain that to him if he isn‘t familiar with the law.
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| Topic: Sexually abused teen seeks healing help tips
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| Subject: Sexually abused teen seeks healing help tips - Posted: 11/7/2006 10:41:45 AM
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 inalucar!
There is nothing wrong with having an aversion to porn, especially considering your past history of sexual, incestual abuse. Your father is the lowest of life forms and the fact that your mother didn‘t help you, makes her just as low.
Your partner should be considerate and understanding of your past abuse. If he‘s not, your not with the right man.
I suggest finding a support group for sexually abused women and seeking some therapy to help your healing process. There are many excellent resources on the net if you take some time to search.
I am truely sad that your father had such little respect for his daughter. Unfortunately, when a man like this molests, he usually strikes again on another innocent victim. If you think this is the case, please do what you can to stop him. Your father should be in jail for his actions.
Feel free to vent or post here any time.
Stay strong,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: My life is slowly crumbling
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| Subject: My life is slowly crumbling - Posted: 11/7/2006 10:52:34 AM
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Utterly!
Oh, my god Utterly. Please, please, please do NOT give this guy a second, third, fourth chance.
Please re-read what you wrote. How can you possibly think that you have experienced is not abuse? Did he not hit you hard enough? Did he not call you bad enough names? Did he not destroy enough of your property? How badly does he have to treat you for you to consider it abuse?
Just one of the items your partner did to you would be enough for me to enforce a no contact policy and never have anything to do with him again. You said yourself, you went out and realized there was another world without him. A world without control, fear, and abuse. Go find that world.
Respect yourself enough to demand better. Just because someone says they love you and they‘ll change, doesn‘t mean they will. The abuse you are describing is quite severe so I am willing to bet all the tea in China that it will happen again. Unless he has joined Alcoholics Anonymous and is seeking therapy, you don‘t have a prayer. Even if he is, you shouldn‘t be in contact with him until he is completely clean and sober.
Dump him and don‘t think twice about it.
Control is not love.
If you need strength, come here and post or give advice. Read the articles and search the blog to become more educated on what abuse is.
If you had a daughter in your situation, what advice would you give her?
Stay strong and enforce NO CONTACT.
Good luck, sweetie.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Something has caught my attention
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| Subject: Something has caught my attention - Posted: 11/7/2006 10:59:43 AM
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| gia1967 wrote: | | 1) He‘s trying to get B out of the picture because he thinks he has a chance.
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This is a no brainer, Gia.
1) as your wrote above.
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| Topic: Britney is K-Fed Up! Files for Divorce.
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| Subject: Britney is K-Fed Up! Files for Divorce. - Posted: 11/8/2006 8:48:10 AM
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| It‘s about time.
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| Topic: Something has caught my attention
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| Subject: Something has caught my attention - Posted: 11/8/2006 8:58:01 AM
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| gia1967 wrote: | Then he proceeded to try to make me think B. had found a new girl. And then tried to get me to go out on a date with him. I have no need to talk to him again. I found out what I need to know.
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Gia, you‘ve figured out his ulterior motives. From what you wrote, it sounds like he may have said things to confuse you on purpose. I agree that distancing yourself from him/no contact seems like the best thing for you right now.
Good luck with your situation. :)
LMWS, Site Creator
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| Topic: Grand Gestures
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| Subject: Grand Gestures - Posted: 11/8/2006 9:09:29 AM
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Hi Gia,
I‘ve read your facts and think that both you and she should dump him -way too much negative drama. His behavior seems selfish and he has tried to use both you and her i.e., financially, for sex, to bail him out, as an ego boost, etc... He will not be able to be a proper partner for anyone, especially since he is an alcohlic who is still drinking. Lorrie, one of our active members, is quite knowledgeable about alcoholism and may be able to shed further light on his behavior.
Right now, I think it is best for you to distance yourself from both of these men. Stay single for a while or set your sites on finding someone new who does not disrespect you like this guy.
Focus your energies on yourself and your goals.
LMWS
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| Topic: what happen to the ask a guy section??
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| Subject: what happen to the ask a guy section?? - Posted: 11/8/2006 10:52:54 AM
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| CHGirl wrote: | |
I guess I missed what happened to make that area go away. Sounds like it was nasty but not guy involded? Did the guys get out of hand? Why was that area taken away? Whatever... the girls always have good thoughts to share
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Trying to put the emphasis on women as per suggestions from various people involved in the website. Thus the addition of the private "Women‘s Only" forum. Men are always welcome to give advice in the other forums and there is still a section for them specifically to ask for help from women. Things may change again in the future....they always do. :)
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| Topic: Update
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| Subject: Update - Posted: 11/8/2006 10:54:55 AM
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DC, you put that foot down and don‘t lift it up again!! I need a little emoticon sign that says "proceed with caution." lol
Thanks for calling the toll free #. You sounded great. I have plenty of material to work with now thanks to all the callers. :)
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| Topic: Are we are accused of wearing OUR jeans to tight!
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| Subject: Are we are accused of wearing OUR jeans to tight! - Posted: 11/8/2006 10:59:05 AM
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| AquaGirl wrote: |
mmm... Thanks for those wonderful images... What a great way to start the day!
You go boys!
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Euwwww..... do any of the ladies here get turned on by seeing guy‘s schlong‘s in tight outfits like this becaue I don‘t. I know men are different and many get turned on when women wear tight outfits. ....I prefer to let my imagination do it‘s work rather than seeing the outline of a guys schlong. Nevertheless, these guys have to wear tight outfits for their sport. I wonder if gay men like to see this. My guess would be "yes."
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| Topic: Grand Gestures
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| Subject: Grand Gestures - Posted: 11/8/2006 7:12:33 PM
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| gia1967 wrote: | | But I do know that I am taking a break : )
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| Topic: Should I leave
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| Subject: Should I leave - Posted: 11/8/2006 7:28:02 PM
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Stephj!
You need to create a master plan to get out. I think you know in your heart this isn‘t going to stop. You need to protect yourself and your children. If you stay, your children will learn that abuse is okay because their mother puts up with it and therefore, the cycle will continue. It is a proven fact that children who witness abuse have a much more likely probability to become abusers or allow themselves to be abused, like yourself. Your husband has probably already done some serious psychological damage to your children.
Arrange a time to meet with your parents and ask them for their help and advice. Explain to them that you feel scared for your own and your children‘s safety. I know you said they already know but try telling them how bad it has really gotten.
Your husband won‘t allow you to interact with your parents because that is simply another control tactic....to isolate you and your children from a way out. He controls you physically, financially, and emotionally. You are a prisoner in your own home.
Do NOT tell your husband you are going to your parents or if you do, make up some type of emergency story so he doesn‘t get suspicious. Next, make an appointment with a divorce attorney to find out your rights. Again, do NOT tell your husband. You have two children and will get plenty of alimony and child support to survive. You could also pick up the yellow pages or search on the internet for domestic violence shelters in your area and they can help guide you.
You are lucky that he hasn‘t injured you permanently YET. You need to sit down and think clearly about what a dangerous situation you are keeping yourself and your children in. It doesn‘t matter how many times he apologizes. Someone who loves you does NOT hit you or verbally abuse you. I repeat, someone who loves you does NOT hit you or verbally abuse you.
Have your master plan ready because I am willing to "bet the house" that he will hit you again and again and again and apologize again and again and again.
If you need support or guidance, there is always someone here to help you.
Master escape plan, Steph. Don‘t forget.
Stay courageous and strong for yourself and your children.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: I Survived
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| Subject: I Survived - Posted: 11/8/2006 7:33:54 PM
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Alive.
Thank you for sharing your story. There is a member named StephJ who just posted in this Abuse Forum who is currently in an abusive situation with her children. If you read this message, please read her post and give her advice. She‘s in a really bad situation and needs help to get out.
Thank you.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: I don‘t know what to do.
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| Subject: I don‘t know what to do. - Posted: 11/8/2006 7:40:39 PM
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| confused01 wrote: | | but I plan to leave if we start arguing,or yells at me.
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Yeahhh, your above statement means you will be leaving because it almost always happens again. Please have your plan ready so when it does happen, you can put it into action.
Show strength and courage for the safety or you and your children.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Problems with this Website
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| Subject: Problems with this Website - Posted: 11/9/2006 5:34:09 PM
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Hi,
It usually takes tech support about 24 hours to respond. However, they have contacted you and solved the issue.
Thanks
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| Topic: Back from the dead :-)
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| Subject: Back from the dead :-) - Posted: 11/9/2006 7:36:23 PM
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Chiiiiiik!!!! Your back.
Missed you and your words like crazy. How are you? What‘s going on in your life???
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| Topic: This is incredible...
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| Subject: This is incredible... - Posted: 11/9/2006 7:38:16 PM
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| Euwwww....grossest thread ever! lol
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| Topic: For Those Who Drag Ass In The Mornin
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| Subject: For Those Who Drag Ass In The Mornin - Posted: 11/10/2006 9:20:15 AM
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| That seems strange...a tea that is called "tension TAMER" causes you to get up and go?? From the name it sounds like an herbal tea that is suppose to calm you. Does it have the same effect without the 5 packs of sugar? I can‘t use sugar because I am hypoglycemic. I‘ll check it out.
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| Topic: How to leave abusive husband
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| Subject: How to leave abusive husband - Posted: 11/10/2006 9:32:53 AM
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| maryjo wrote: | | So here‘s the problem my husband is controlling. He won‘t take me to the places I need to go and won‘t teach me how to drive because he thinks my parents should have done this, but I have 5 other sister who‘s husband taught them how to drive and he uses this as a tool to make me depend on him he also is phsyicial, mentally,sexually abusive. He tell me that I can‘t tend to my children. He won‘t take me to the mental heath doctor then tells me that if I try to leave I wouldn‘t get the kids because I‘am not on my medician. He won‘t take me to see my mom unless there is something in it for him. He demands sex everynight and if I don‘t do what he wants he gets mad. He also thinks that when I am on my period he should get a blow job every day. He calles me names all the time like fussy head bitch and if the kids get hurt doing thing that kids do it is my fault because I should have been watching them better. I have left before and went to a safe house because he beat me up over staying the night at the hospital with my mom, me and my sisters where taking turns staying, so that my daddy who was also very sick could get some rest. He also thinks that I should rub his legs EVERY night and last night I was tried myself after spend the whole day chasing after my two little girl ages 3 and 2 and my back was hurt really bad because I have had 2 back surgery and the pain pills I need for it he will not take me to get. I dont know what to do ,if I leave I would have to go to a safe house because if I went any where else he would come there and I am scared of what he would do and if I go to the safe house I could not see my mom at all and she is in very bad shape. He also says he would do every thing in is power to make sure I would not get the kids even if it meant they would go to foster care. |
Maryjo!
First off, don‘t believe a THING your husband says. He will NOT get custody of your children and as long as you are a good mother, they will not go to foster care. If however, your children are growing up watching their mother get abused and degraded by a man, they will learn and think that it is okay for a man to do that to them also. This is not only a dangerous situation for you to be in, it is a dangerous situation for your children. Get out!
If I were you, here are the steps I would take to get away from him.
1. Tell every single one of your sisters what is happening and reach out to them and their husbands for temporary help.
2. Have one of your sisters teach you how to drive. Screw what your husband says. Put your foot down and say that they are going to teach you no matter what he says.
3. If he ever hits you again, tell him you will not only call the police, you will make sure he never sees his children again.
4. After you get your drivers license, make a secret, free appointment with a divorce attorney to find out your rights and how much alimony and child support you will be entitled to.
5. Make copies of ALL important documents and hide them somewhere where he will never find them. Take these to the attorney.
It‘s time for you to stand up for yourself and the safety of your children. If he lays one more hand on you, go to the nearest safe house and then follow the directions above.
After you leave, your husband will most likely come back begging, pleading and crying for you to come back and promise that he will change. (they always do). Don‘t go back because it will only happen again.
Your husband does not love or respect you at all. He treats you worse than a slave. Love should never hurt. Remember that. You do not deserve this. Therefore, it is up to you now to take action to change your situation.
Do NOT tell your husband about your plan to leave him because he may become violent. Take small, calculated, secret plans of action. Think of it as escaping from an abusive jail that you are being kept in.
If you need strength, support or advice, come here and post. Many of the women here have been through similar situations as you and they broke free.
Stay strong for the sake of you and your children.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Horse lovers read this
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| Subject: Horse lovers read this - Posted: 11/10/2006 9:35:52 AM
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| That is the most beautiful photo.
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| Topic: looking for some help ladies
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| Subject: looking for some help ladies - Posted: 11/10/2006 9:38:34 AM
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| Like the others said, need more details to respond properly. You don‘t want to involve yourself directly, so staying anonymous is usually the best bet i.e., anonymous letter or email to him, anonymous note left on his car windshield, etc...
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| Topic: Ask a guy???
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| Subject: Ask a guy??? - Posted: 11/10/2006 1:21:40 PM
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DaGuru and Mattsc left. I spoke with Dag many times by phone and he‘s focusing on his family now. Hopeless Dreamer and TOW are still around. Surf pops his head in once in a while. Have no info on the others. The site never had more than a hand full of men post at one time.
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| Topic: For Those Who Drag Ass In The Mornin
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| Subject: For Those Who Drag Ass In The Mornin - Posted: 11/10/2006 1:26:40 PM
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| Yes, I have heard that about Vitamin B‘s. I‘m going to try it, Beaver. :)
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| Topic: For Those Who Drag Ass In The Mornin
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| Subject: For Those Who Drag Ass In The Mornin - Posted: 11/10/2006 2:42:04 PM
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| lorrie wrote: | | LittleMissWomansaver wrote: | | Yes, I have heard that about Vitamin B‘s. I‘m going to try it, Beaver. :) |
too much vit. b, is not always a good thing. |
It makes your pee turn really yellow-orange.
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| Topic: who is the man you can‘t get rid of?
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| Subject: who is the man you can‘t get rid of? - Posted: 11/10/2006 2:46:53 PM
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| bankgirl wrote: |
Hey---I‘m BAAACK. Can you believe I was afraid to post because I knew ex knew I was on site. Didn‘t want him reading my posts....because this was my "safe" place. Also, "bankgirl" name is pretty self explanatory.....maybe should change. On the other hand---don‘t really care if he reads. I missed being here. You are my people...:)
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 Bankgirl! :)
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| Topic: Should I leave
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| Subject: Should I leave - Posted: 11/10/2006 2:56:40 PM
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| stephj2005 wrote: | | I am leaving to go to my mom and dad‘s house tomorrow. My children and I are staying until Tuesday. We are having a big welcome home party for my dad! I will tell them the truth then. I really will. Just now, my little girl told me that because she left her purse in my bathroom, "HE" told her to go and pick it up and then popped her on her bottom and pointed his finger at her with mean eyes. I realized today that I am depressed. BADLY! How will I pay for an attorney? I have 0 money. I am going to be the laughing stock of our small town. I do not live in Overland Park. I used to live there. If I put my real location people may put 2 and 2 together and know who I am. Why do I want to believe him when he says he will change? When in 3 seconds after he says it he says something abusive to me. I do not understand myself. I thought I would never let myself be in a situation like this. It kills me. |
Steph, you want to believe him but the truth is I don‘t think he CAN change - not without outside professional help. Prayer alone will not solve his anger management problem. He has deep anger issues that need to be solved through therapy and perhaps medication. He‘s going to do it again and I can tell from reading your post you already know that. 5 times is more than enough chances.
It‘s good that you are telling the truth to your parents. Together you can work to find a plan out of this. You staying with an abusive man is WORSE for you and your children than you spending less time with them.
Ask your attorney to work with you on payment options. Perhaps you can pay them after everything is settled or work out a longer payment plan that is stretched out over a period of times. If there is a will, there‘s a way.
My gut instinct tells me that if you don‘t leave now, you will leave in the very near future. Don‘t worry about what other people think about you. Who gives a shit!? What matters is you and your children‘s well being. If the people in your town really knew the truth about the abuse you have suffered, I doubt anyone would laugh.
I‘m proud of you for taking the first step in being honest and communicating with your parents. Ask them for their advice.
Don‘t second guess yourself again. You are doing the right thing.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Only A Cell #
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| Subject: Only A Cell # - Posted: 11/10/2006 3:07:19 PM
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RC!
Type in "reverse telephone number" into google or various versions of that phrase. Try http://www.publicrecordcenter.com for reverse cell phone look up options. You can also try services like zabasearch.com who may be able to help you for a small fee.
Click the "Read" menu button above and then the "Catch A Cheater" section for free tips on how to catch a cheater.
Note, if you catch him, please make sure you have your entire plan of action to leave in place BEFORE you accuse him. If you allow your emotions to take over and accuse him, he will simply lie and deny. You need to protect yourself and your children financially and make copies of all important documents and talk to a divorce attorney before you let him know you have proof. In addition, do not let him know how you caught him because he may use this against you later on in court.
Now put on your detective hat and get to work.
Feel free to vent or give advice here any time.
Good luck,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator :)
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| Topic: Only A Cell #
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| Subject: Only A Cell # - Posted: 11/10/2006 3:09:59 PM
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| sickofcheaters wrote: | |
This is hard, with no computer, credit cards, etc. I‘m not saying you should do this, but I‘ll tell you what I did. I put a digital voice recorder in his car and recorded his conversation with her. I don‘t know what the legal ramifications are, but I wasn‘t looking for evidence for divorce court, I just wanted proof he couldn‘t deny or explain away. It worked. I got enough and he had to come clean. I got one with the longest recording time I found and voice activation so it wouldn‘t be recording nothing for hours. I made sure there where no beeps or blinking lights that could be spotted (actually I duct taped over a light). I duct taped it securely under the front passenger seat, hidden from sight, microphone up. It seemed like the best place in his car. Some of it was hard to make out with the loud music, but I could hear enough so he couldn‘t deny anymore. Good luck to you.
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The digital recorder in car method is the main method that many of the women I know have used to catch their cheater. Please note that it is not legal to place a recorder into a car that you don‘t own so if you do so, you do it at your own risk. It would be best not to divulge your detective secrets.
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| Topic: Borat - the movie
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| Subject: Borat - the movie - Posted: 11/10/2006 3:12:24 PM
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| DefyAnt wrote: | | Not since Blazing Saddles has a movie been this offensive. Oh other films have tried, but this movie brings film comedy to a new level of offensiveness. At least a dozen people walked out and never came back.
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Yes, the Borat movie has raised the comedy bar of offensiveness. We will probably have to wait another few years for this bar to be topped again.
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| Topic: Stupid man, stupid me
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| Subject: Stupid man, stupid me - Posted: 11/10/2006 5:26:23 PM
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Way to show your strength, WomanSaver! I‘ll bet you are thinking "why didn‘t I do this sooner." :)
LMWS, Site Creator
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| Topic: For Those Who Drag Ass In The Mornin
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| Subject: For Those Who Drag Ass In The Mornin - Posted: 11/10/2006 5:33:08 PM
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| This is a good question for Dr. WomanSaver! I hope she reads this thread.
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| Topic: Borat - the movie
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| Subject: Borat - the movie - Posted: 11/12/2006 11:28:54 PM
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| theclayman wrote: |
I haven‘t seen Borat yet, but as far as the bar being topped I‘d have to say that ‘The Aristocrats‘ would be right up there. Have you seen it? Cheers, The Clayman
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No, I haven‘t seen it. I‘ll put it on my movies-to-see list. Thanks Clayman!
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| Topic: God give me strength
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| Subject: God give me strength - Posted: 11/12/2006 11:38:26 PM
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20andfedup!
You are doing the right thing so stop second guessing yourself. Your goal now is to get full custody of your daughter so he doesn‘t have visitation rights. He‘s already proven himself to be very dangerous and unless he goes into anger management counseling for treatment, it‘s not safe for him to be around his daughter. I would demand that.
What you need to do now is work on your low self esteem. You also need to learn how to enjoy being alone. You can‘t be happy with someone else until you are happy with yourself. Your ex partner didn‘t love you. Someone who loves a person does not hit them.
Pick up a book on increasing your self esteem and read some of the articles on the blog and in the "articles" section under the "Read" menu category so you can understand your behavior.
It really worries me that you still love someone who beat you and treated you like shit. Start working on respecting yourself. Don‘t ever allow a man to do this to you and if he does it even once, you must be strong enough to walk away and never turn back.
It may also help to read some of the other ladies posts here because many have been in similar situations and they are now strong and independent which is my hope for you.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Try it again?
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| Subject: Try it again? - Posted: 11/12/2006 11:44:59 PM
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Worriedmommy!
Unfortunately, many abusive men go back to their abusive behavior after a period of time. If he is mean to you on the phone, he probably hasn‘t changed. However, it isn‘t possible to tell from such a long distance away.
Make a master escape plan of how you plan to leave just in case the abuse starts again. Contact an attorney to find out your rights to alimony and child support and make copies of all important documents. Do this all in secrecy, of course. That way, you have a way to get you and your children to a safe environment. Children who witness abuse are more likely to become abusers and/or be abused as adults. If you children witness you putting up with abuse, they will think it is okay because mommy puts up with it.
From reading your post, it sounds to me like your gut instinct is telling you he hasn‘t changed. You should go with your gut instinct.
....now start taking steps to create your master escape plan.
Feel free to vent or give advice here any time.
Good luck,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Should I leave
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| Subject: Should I leave - Posted: 11/12/2006 11:50:04 PM
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| stephj2005 wrote: | |
I honestly cannot tell you how much you guys help me. I feel as though I really have noone else to talk to that isn‘t already emotionally connected. I went to visit my daddy and my step-mom today. They told me to seek professional help to find out my options...legally. My 5 year old went outside and drew pictures with sidewalk chalk and my daddy just e-mailed me to tell me that she drew a picture of someone with a sad face, but she wouldn‘t tell him who it was. That just hurt me so bad. What have I done to her?? I am planning to leave the week of Thanksgiving. My family is going to help me. Wish me luck!
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Steph, this is the best news I have heard all week. 
You are now taking action to change your situation. That takes guts. You and your children are going to be okay. It may be hard for a while and you may not be able to spend as much time with your kids but most important of all, you and your children will finally be safe.
I am happy that my website has been able to give you positive guidance. :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: cold verbally abusive husband need advice
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| Subject: cold verbally abusive husband need advice - Posted: 11/12/2006 11:56:42 PM
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FamousAmos!
Yes, I agree with Rhi. From what you described, it sounds like your husband is gay. He still has sex with you merely to get himself off. That‘s why he doesn‘t want to touch or kiss you. I am also willing to bet that he is having sexual relations with other men that you have no idea about. Please click the "Read" menu button above and read the "Catch a Cheater" section. Have you checked his cell phone records, his computer history, etc...? Plus, there is nothing left your marriage if you are cheating which isn‘t fair.
You sound miserable so get out. Secretly make an appointment with a divorce attorney to find out your rights to alimony and child support. It‘s very unhealthy for your children to witness their mother being verbally abused. They will think it is okay for them to be abused or become abusers as adults because that‘s what they grew up seeing. For yours and your children‘s sake, please take the necessary steps to leave.
Feel free to vent or seek advice here any time if you need strength.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: The Secret - Movie
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| Subject: The Secret - Movie - Posted: 11/13/2006 12:30:23 AM
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Hey Clay,
I just ordered the movie, Secret. If it is anything like "What the Bleep," I will love it!
Oh no, are you getting a divorce after 21 years? :( Say it isn‘t so.
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| Topic: ever love a man that loved the women in you?
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| Subject: ever love a man that loved the women in you? - Posted: 11/13/2006 4:44:12 PM
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| yes
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| Topic: For Those Who Drag Ass In The Mornin
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| Subject: For Those Who Drag Ass In The Mornin - Posted: 11/13/2006 4:48:12 PM
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| It has catnip listed as an ingredient. Catnip is a depressant and when I can‘t sleep I drink catnip tea and it puts be to sleep within an hour. Strange combo in that tea. Ginsing is an upper and catnip is a downer. I still haven‘t tried it yet but I bought it. I‘ll try it tomorrow morning.
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| Topic: Fun and games in Iraq.
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| Subject: Fun and games in Iraq. - Posted: 11/13/2006 4:55:11 PM
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| I know they are just joking, but for some reason I got very uncomfortable watching that video.
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| Topic: Courage...
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| Subject: Courage... - Posted: 11/13/2006 6:49:28 PM
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| hotmama973355 wrote: | | My most courageous moment came when my ex had bound me and place a mattress and box spring on top of me I knew I was going to die because I couldn‘t breathe.. I don‘t remember how I got the box springs and mattress off of me but I remember hopping to the front door and I had to use my hands like paws to get the door open as they were tied and a woman just happened to be walking by and I just forward on her and knocked her over and she realized something horrible was going on she took the gag off me and I hollered to call 911(I only had on a bra and panties) everyone opened their doors and they all came out and started calling the police I started dragging myself to the manager who was outside and my ex came back up the steps and came near me and the manager told him to get away the police came arrested him. That is the last time I have seen him other than court. I know I survived for a reason. |
Oh my god, hotmamma. That is an incredible story. You are sooo lucky to still be alive. Yup, you are definitely still here for a reason and I‘m happy that you are still alive and kickin‘. I am also honored that you are here sharing your advice with other abused and cheated on women!
Great thread!
Fear is my demon. Fear immobilizes me and prevents me from making change.
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| Topic: What‘s your tattoo?
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| Subject: What‘s your tattoo? - Posted: 11/15/2006 8:14:46 AM
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| not applicable....but I never say never.
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| Topic: Survey: 90 percent of Britons don‘t cheat
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| Subject: Survey: 90 percent of Britons don‘t cheat - Posted: 11/15/2006 5:22:35 PM
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I would need to see the details of the demographics surveyed. If that was true, the UK section of this site wouldn‘t be growing so fast. However, if it is true, American women will want to move to the UK.
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| Topic: Chest Pain
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| Subject: Chest Pain - Posted: 11/16/2006 11:32:47 AM
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| DC, do you have ANY other symptoms besides chest pain?
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| Topic: where‘s judy, summerbreeze ......
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| Subject: where‘s judy, summerbreeze ...... - Posted: 11/16/2006 6:35:18 PM
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| Judy left....looooong story. Some members had some problems with each other and left. Summer is keeping very busy with a new boyfriend and I read her posts sometimes on her myspace account. She looks very happy! :)
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| Topic: New Pictures
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| Subject: New Pictures - Posted: 11/16/2006 6:36:46 PM
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| You look beautiful DC!!!
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| Topic: pooping in to say hi!
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| Subject: pooping in to say hi! - Posted: 11/16/2006 6:40:01 PM
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Hey CB, wassup? Funny that you mention midget tossing. As most of you know, I am only 5 feet tall....well 5 feet and 1/2" to be exact. In high school my friends used to pick me up and throw me in the air and then they would say they are going to "midget toss" me around. Common nicknames for me were "shrimp, squirt, and gidget."
......good times.....
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| Topic: Why would a man..............
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| Subject: Why would a man.............. - Posted: 11/17/2006 12:22:47 PM
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Rave.
...because he is experiencing the feeling called "guilt."
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| Topic: I like this Dove commercial
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| Subject: I like this Dove commercial - Posted: 11/17/2006 12:25:02 PM
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| Topic: Going out this Thanksgiving?
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| Subject: Going out this Thanksgiving? - Posted: 11/20/2006 3:10:00 PM
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| Topic: I like this Dove commercial
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| Subject: I like this Dove commercial - Posted: 11/20/2006 3:11:55 PM
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| AquaGirl wrote: |
So true!
The images we see in ads today are totally unrealistic and don‘t portray the human body in its natural form. Even after spending ridiculous amounts on personal trainers, fashion consultants, hair stylists, make up artists, and who knows what else, the photos of models are retouched and altered using computers... So ofcourse it‘s unrealistic for women to expect to look like that...
Self confidence comes from within... If you are happy with who you are, thats all that matters... It doesn‘t matter what the world or anyone else expects of you. Just my thoughts. :)
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I wish the young women of the world thought that way also.
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| Topic: same sites?
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| Subject: same sites? - Posted: 11/20/2006 5:46:36 PM
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| mandjforever wrote: | |
is there a site like this, but for men? if so, whats it called?
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Men may post at http://www.rateb4udate.com
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| Topic: Back from the dead :-)
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| Subject: Back from the dead :-) - Posted: 11/20/2006 9:48:54 PM
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| chick1110 wrote: |
| LittleMissWomansaver wrote: | Chiiiiiik!!!! Your back.
Missed you and your words like crazy. How are you? What‘s going on in your life???
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Hi girlie
I‘m doing okay...I sent you an email b‘day card but you never opened it.
You should have the card was funny...:-) How is your mom and Gmom?
I was worried about you...I hope you are doing well.
Love ya
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Hey Chick,
I‘m sorry for all your losses. They say bad things tend to happen in 3‘s, so you are now due for a bunch of good luck!
My grandmother lost use of her hand and I spend every weekend with her helping her do simple things like open cans, go grocery shopping, pay the bills, etc... She is very lonely since my grandfather‘s passing last year and she cries a lot. She‘ll be surrounded by family this Thanksgiving so I think that will cheer her up. My mother had some internal lung damage from the car accident and then shortly after broke her foot. We‘ve had such bad luck in my family also in the past year.
You should take some photos of your house and post them on the boards. I would love to see them. Being a home owner is a pain in the butt. There is always something to fix, upgrade and/or decorate. I just got through a full renovation on my house which is finally complete. Yeah!!!
Don‘t be a stranger. :)
LMWS
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| Topic: same sites?
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| Subject: same sites? - Posted: 11/21/2006 12:50:56 AM
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| ToucheBaby wrote: | | Didnt want to make a new thread. So I thought I would put it here. Anyone notice womansavers being different...as in everytime I move my mouse up to toolbar. It clicks. eg.home,message boards, people,rate a guy.... As I try to type...the letters jumble up??? And have to type it over and over. My cursor flashes instead of being still. I did a virus scan on my computer...nothing came up. I also have a google toolbar...that I didnt put there! What is up? |
Hi Touche,
Please email techsupport@womansavers.com EXACTLY what is happening to you, along with the browser you are using (i.e., Internet Explorer, Mozilla Firefox, etc...) Also let them know what version of Windows you are using or if you are on a Mac.
This is the first time I have heard of those problems from a member so more details would be helpful so we may research.
You have a google bar that you didn‘t put there? That could be spyware or adware. This site has neither.
Muchas Gracias,
LMWS
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| Topic: ladies, ever have a boy toy?
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| Subject: ladies, ever have a boy toy? - Posted: 11/21/2006 10:48:04 AM
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| Yes :) However, it was always somewhat unfullfilling because there were no real emotions involved.
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| Topic: So...how bad is he taste when you have to eat your own words??
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| Subject: So...how bad is he taste when you have to eat your own words?? - Posted: 11/21/2006 10:55:26 AM
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Yup, you need to change your name now. TiredofALLOTHERwomen. ha ha ha ha
I am so happy for you. I can tell you are totally into her from your post. Just remember to take it nice and easy and slow. Allow her to tell you all about herself and be a really good listener. This will help bond her to you and she will begin to trust you more. As you know, women love to communicate. (yackity, yack, yack, yack)
If you see something beautiful about her, don‘t hesitate to tell her. For example, if it gives you butterflies when she smiles or if you love her eyes, let her know.
Keep us posted.
LMWS
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| Topic: Going out this Thanksgiving?
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| Subject: Going out this Thanksgiving? - Posted: 11/21/2006 10:59:22 AM
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| kittygobyebye wrote: |
ok this is a weird day for me... is it possible to look at that picture and feel a little horny and hungry at the same time?
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ha ha ha Kitty, you funny gal. That‘s hilarious!!! :)
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| Topic: I Need Answers
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| Subject: I Need Answers - Posted: 11/21/2006 11:09:53 AM
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Hi Trying-to-forget,
It sounds like the two of you are having serious communication issues. You want him to change but you know what? Men rarely change. Therefore, if you aren‘t happy with the way he is now, you may wish to consider figuring out a plan of action of how to leave.
First off, I would suggest some couples counseling. Since you are fighting nearly every day, this is basically a must for you both at this point. The counselor should be able to shed some light as to why you both no longer get along. If you try counseling and it doesn‘t work, then you are going to be forced to take a long hard look at your relationship and ask yourself whether you can live like this for the next 20-30 years. If the answer is no, then you must take the necessary steps to leave. It also sounds to me like another main reason you two are still together is because of your daughter. Once your daughter gets a bit older and more independent, she will not need you both as much and that may break you up even further.
Perhaps your partner doesn‘t think you would really ever leave him. If you actually leave and he doesn‘t fight for you, it shows he doesn‘t really care. Also, it is disrespectful for him to always go out when you are home with the responsibilities. If you both truely love each other, you will both need to make an effort. However, if you are the only one rowing the boat in this relationship (which it sounds like you are), it is only a matter of time before your boat sinks.
Look in the yellow pages or start asking around for a couples counselor. I hope that improves your relationship.
Keep us posted and if you need support or wish to give advice here, feel free to post any time.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: What about the other woman?
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| Subject: What about the other woman? - Posted: 11/21/2006 11:12:54 AM
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| jp31 wrote: | |
Yes, my husband hurt me but what about the other woman. She knew that he was married with 3 children but she did not care. And my husband was not the first married man that she had an affair with. Where‘s the rate-a-slut site. 
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http://www.rateb4udate.com
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| Topic: What about the other woman?
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| Subject: What about the other woman? - Posted: 11/21/2006 11:14:19 AM
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| Damagecontrol wrote: | |
My ex husband married the woman he cheated on me with a month ago. They now have a child together. It‘s ok though cause her having to marry him was enough punishment to make me happy. I give them six months before he knocks the crap out of her. Then I can tell her "Told you so!" That is all of the payback I need. |
You are so right DC. I‘d bet big money that will happen.
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| Topic: carrying over from TOW‘s post
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| Subject: carrying over from TOW‘s post - Posted: 11/21/2006 3:14:07 PM
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TOW
Tired
Of being
Without
:)
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| Topic: He is so cruel
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| Subject: He is so cruel - Posted: 11/21/2006 3:18:29 PM
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How are you doing "Wanttodie?"
Have you taken three main steps of action in secret?
1. Talked privately to an accountant to ask his advice
2. Talked privately to an attorney to find out your rights
3. Talked privately to your parents to ask them their advice
These are the steps I would take if I were in your shoes.
Be strong! The time has come for you to stop being scared.
LMWS, Site Creator
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| Topic: He is so cruel
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| Subject: He is so cruel - Posted: 11/21/2006 3:18:33 PM
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How are you doing "Wanttodie?"
Have you taken three main steps of action in secret?
1. Talked privately to an accountant to ask his advice
2. Talked privately to an attorney to find out your rights
3. Talked privately to your parents to ask them their advice
These are the steps I would take if I were in your shoes.
Be strong! The time has come for you to stop being scared.
LMWS, Site Creator
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| Topic: Please Help!
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| Subject: Please Help! - Posted: 11/21/2006 6:19:50 PM
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Strawberry!
This is a no brainer. Dump him! You should not be fighting for the attention of your partner and certainly not competing with another woman. He is lying to you and disrespecting you. He will do the same to her. You need to see this situation for what it really is and search for a man who values you. Your current partner does not love you if he treats you like this. Make a master plan of action on how you plan to leave him and then do it.
You deserve better and being alone would be better than to be treated like he is currently treating you.
If you need support or strength, come here. It may also help to read some of the articles, posts and the blog here so you can read other women‘s stories. You are not alone.
You sound like an independent woman who makes her own money and can stand on her own two feet. Now you just need to gain some emotional strength. Don‘t put up with this bullshit.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Over the moon
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| Subject: Over the moon - Posted: 11/22/2006 10:04:38 AM
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WomanSaver!!! It keeps me going to read success stories such as yours. Please feel free to share your story and give your advice to other women in need on the site occassionally in the future. That way the positive chain of educating and healing women can continue.
You are going to have a wonderful reason to celebrate your holiday season this year.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator :)
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| Topic: is he cheating
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| Subject: is he cheating - Posted: 11/22/2006 11:54:11 AM
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Mollie!
I think your partner is lying to you. The next time you find some evidence, do NOT confront him until you have many more facts. Men almost always lie when confronted. Please click the "Read" menu button above and read the "Catch a Cheater" section carefully.
I find it very suspicious that your partner is so concerned with "privacy." If the two of you are supposedly so close, why the need for so much privacy? I smell a rat.
Most women agree that once it has been discovered that your partner is not telling you something about other women (like your partner has), that forgoes their right to privacy. Why should you not snoop when you have already discovered some VERY suspicious red flags? That would simply be naive on your part.
Put on your detective hat and get to work. However, realize this. Now that he knows you are on to him, he is going to cover his tracks even more with lies/excuses.
If you don‘t find anything, you can rest easy and work on rebuilding trust. However, if you do, at least you will not be playing the fool and wasting your time and energy.
Feel free to seek or give advice here any time.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: is he cheating
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| Subject: is he cheating - Posted: 11/22/2006 11:56:09 AM
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| Sassafras wrote: | I have seen so many friends stay with guys for years longer than they should have and the end result is the same...the relationship ends, but now they have wasted an additional 4 or 5 years on the jerk, all because they wanted to salvage that initial "investment." Sometimes you just have to call it a loss and move on. |
Beautifully put, Sassafras. I have seen that happen many times also. Women tend to have a very difficult time letting go because of invested time and emotions, even when it is clear they should.
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| Topic: Why I am Thankful
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| Subject: Why I am Thankful - Posted: 11/22/2006 6:50:41 PM
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That was really beautiful Busty and so very true.
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| Topic: Pam Anderson dumps her angry little boy husband.
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| Subject: Pam Anderson dumps her angry little boy husband. - Posted: 11/28/2006 12:42:32 PM
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| Surprise, surprise.....NOT! Pam should not get married again, just like Halle Berry. I find it strange that Kid Rock didn‘t know that Pam starred in the Borat movie. Come on....he married THE Pamela Anderson. What the hell was he expecting? The Virgin Mary?
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| Topic: Does the Moderator Work Here Anymore?
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| Subject: Does the Moderator Work Here Anymore? - Posted: 11/29/2006 1:10:45 PM
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All time low? The boards are definitely not at an all time low. Moderator just got back from holiday. The spamming and trolling hasn‘t been very bad at all lately. This website has had much worse times, especially when groups of trolls strike together. A troll or two and a few spam advertisements is a cake-walk compared to what the regular members are used to. It‘s peaceful now, most likely due to the holiday season because everyone is so busy with work and family, including me. However, I am working on a suprise Christmas present for you guys.
....anticipation.... :)
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| Topic: A story to bring tears to your eyes
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| Subject: A story to bring tears to your eyes - Posted: 11/29/2006 1:15:16 PM
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| Beautiful Busty.
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| Topic: Great Womensavers lines
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| Subject: Great Womensavers lines - Posted: 11/29/2006 1:20:15 PM
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I like Mom‘s term "assclown."
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| Topic: This is Santas toughest year yet.
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| Subject: This is Santas toughest year yet. - Posted: 11/29/2006 1:26:00 PM
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Euwwwwwww......
Ho, Ho, Ho-meless & drunk
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| Topic: Pam Anderson dumps her angry little boy husband.
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| Subject: Pam Anderson dumps her angry little boy husband. - Posted: 11/29/2006 2:36:49 PM
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| anti* wrote: | |
She should marry k-fed.
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ha ha ha ha ha!!!!
Good one, Anti*!!!
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| Topic: Does the Moderator Work Here Anymore?
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| Subject: Does the Moderator Work Here Anymore? - Posted: 11/29/2006 6:00:10 PM
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| Momof4elves wrote: |
| slappysquirrel wrote: | | LittleMissWomansaver wrote: | However, I am working on a suprise Christmas present for you guys.
....anticipation.... :)
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The castration of all our ex‘s? |
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Well, a genie in a bottle I am not. ha ha ha! However, that seems like something they may consider in the middle east some day, along with all the other crazy things they do in that part of the world.
It‘s just a Christmas e-card I am working on....and singing along to. lol
fa-la-la-la-la-la-la-la-laaaaaaa
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| Topic: is he in denial?
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| Subject: is he in denial? - Posted: 11/29/2006 7:16:59 PM
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| whatdoido wrote: |
| CaliforniaGirl wrote: | | And now it‘s their problem. |
yes, except the husband didn‘t want to hear it...i don‘t know what kind of person wouldn‘t be curious and want to hear the info (especially solid proof) that his spouse is cheating..but i guess people are different in their reactions...i am sure she‘ll sweet talk and him and she‘ll destroy many more lives before all is said and done..
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He may have cussed, hung up and acted like he didn‘t care. However, internally he is a volcano who will blow in a short matter of time.
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| Topic: I am leaving
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| Subject: I am leaving - Posted: 12/5/2006 3:04:10 PM
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That‘s sad DC. I thought your boyfriend was no longer in contact with her. Why doesn‘t he get his cell phone # changed?
You shouldn‘t let her control your online or offline actions, especially your voice.
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| Topic: My beloved Grover
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| Subject: My beloved Grover - Posted: 12/5/2006 3:08:59 PM
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I‘m so sorry Busty. I have a 14 year old Doberman who is still in great health but I know the time will come in the next few years so I spend extra special time with her every day.
Here is a poem for you to print out that has helped me in the past. My sincerest condolences.
Rainbow Bridge - When your beloved pet dies
Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.
When
an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet
goes to Rainbow Bridge. There are meadows and hills for all of our
special friends so they can run and play together. There is plenty of
food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.
All
the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor.
Those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as
we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by. The animals
are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss
someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.
They
all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops
and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent. His eager body
quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the
green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.
You have
been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you
cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy
kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head,
and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone
from your life but never absent from your heart.
Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....
Author unknown...
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| Topic: mail message from
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| Subject: mail message from - Posted: 12/6/2006 4:05:09 PM
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| Hushpuppy wrote: |
This is too funny. I love these scammers. I love to return e-mail them. Here‘s an example of my response to Babbina. Dear Babbina, Since I‘m a Godless heathen, your prayers mean nothing to me. I don‘t know who you‘ve been talking to but I‘m a murdering, money laundering thief, much lilke your dead fathers business partners. I‘d love to give you my banking information and have you transfer your 10,000,000 dollars to my account. Rest assured that once I have your money,and you come to America, I will make your death as painless as possible. So take down these numbers carefully and make the transfer soonest dear and come to America and die real soon. Yours always, Hushpuppy, bitter Old Hag
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ha ha ha!!! Funiest thing I‘ve read all week. Good one!
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| Topic: I am such a failure.....
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| Subject: I am such a failure..... - Posted: 12/6/2006 4:41:55 PM
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Beautifully Angry, why are you still with someone who:
- has lied to you repeatedly
- has cheated on you
- disrespects you?
You were single for 4 years. Think back at that time. You made it on your own before and you can do it again. My suggestion is to write down a list of goals on what you need to do to get out of this relationship to get your self esteem back. It is obvious that your self esteem has been whittled down to nothing from this relationship and it‘s time for your to start rebuilding it. Do you have any friends, family or associates that you can reach out to for help? Drastic times take drastic measures. You may have to swallow your pride, work extra hard and do without for a while. However, guess what you‘ll get back when you are independent and away from abuse for a while? Your dignity.
Many people have struggled with drug addictions and hardships in their past, but that doesn‘t give anyone the right to abuse another. Your past is your past and now is your present.
Since your partner seems to be reading this thread, I have the following suggestion that may help renew your trust in him. Lie detector test are extremely affordable now and can be found in any major city. I would say spending $50 to $100 is worthwhile to regain your trust. Write down 10 yes or no questions and then ask your partner if he would be willing to answer these questions. If he has nothing to hide, he shouldn‘t have a problem with it. It could be his Christmas gift to you and your gift to yourself and your relationship. The tests are very accurate but due to politics, they aren‘t always admissable in a court of law. If he becomes defensive and turns the situation around and say things like, "we can‘t afford it, this is stupid, you don‘t trust me," it‘s time for you to leave because you will know your answer. If your partner truely loves you, he would do anything to make sure he is not causing you pain. Not to mention the fact that his track record with you is terrible.
My gut instinct, like yours, tells me he is hiding something. If that‘s the case, it‘s time for you to move on and find a man who loves and respects you or better yet, be fabulously available and single. Don‘t waste any more of your or his time on a relationship based on lies.
Cut your loses and move on.
And stop saying you‘re a failure. You are doing exactly what I used to do. You‘ve given your all, and then some, and that is NOT a failure. This isn‘t your issue, it‘s his. What is your issue, is to figure out how to rebuild your strength and how to no longer put up with any form of lying, cheating or abuse.
If you need to vent or need advice, you know there is always someone here. ...And that part about you not being able to give advice any more because it‘s hypocritical is a crock of crap. That‘s how women heal and gain strength. You are giving the best advice in how you think a healthy relationship should be and that‘s what‘s important.
Material presents won‘t be what your Christmas is about this year. So what?! You have a bigger present awaiting you and that‘s your rebirth.
Cuddle with that cat of yours and take a walk outside for some fresh air every time you feel yourself panic or freak. I promise, these two little things will help you think clearer.
As you read this, I would like you to SLOWLY re-read every single thing that you wrote above - or better yet, print it out so you don‘t forget. Then think about what you would do if your daughter was in your situation and the advice you would give her. Now take that same advice and follow it yourself.
Good luck & stay strong. You are much stronger than you think.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: don‘t know what to do
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| Subject: don‘t know what to do - Posted: 12/6/2006 4:57:02 PM
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Hi WVChick,
As I see it, you have 2 choices:
1. Stand up to her and either stand your ground until she backs down and literally realizes she shouldn‘t mess with you anymore. However, you must be prepared for a huge fight which you would have to take to a private area. The result of this would most likely be no contact. (same as below)
2. Cut of all association with her even though it is painful for you to be away from your nephew.
You really don‘t have any other choices since their doesn‘t seem to be any type of civil conversation between the two of you. Usually when someone attacks you, they are either hurting themselves or jealous about something. The reasons may not always be clear to you but her behavior towards you is probably stemming from one or a combination of these reasons.
Have a long, pre-talk with your parents/other family to let them know it is time for you take a stand. She is using your nephew as a control tool to get away with her agressive behavior towards you.
Even if you have to be alone for the holidays, it is better to be alone and at peace with a good book, than to be at war during what is suppose to be a holiday of peace.
....Now go kick your sister‘s ass! just kidding ;) 
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Is he a sexaholic or a hoar
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| Subject: Is he a sexaholic or a hoar - Posted: 12/6/2006 5:11:34 PM
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Faye.
This man doesn‘t love you. He has not only sacrificed his own personal health, but yours. You are extremely lucky that he didn‘t give you something worse like Herpes or Aids. You should have left him the first time he gave you a disease.
I‘m sure he is praying to God. It must be hard for himself to live such double standards - repeated cheating with different partners, lying, sneaking, STD‘s, etc... and then counseling youth at church on morals and values. This man doesn‘t love you, he love himself and gratifying his own needs. Simply praying to God is only one of the many steps he needs to take. He needs to check himself into Sex-Aholics Anonymous.
Here‘s my prediction of what would happen if you took him back. Everything would be okay for a while. After all, with you, he is able to keep up his squeaky clean exterior appearance and then have a church wedding which would give him a wife, someone to have sex with and someone who looks after him. Then.....since he never really dealt with his insecurities and sex addiction, he would start cheating again and inturn, put you through emotional turmoil, give you another STD, etc...
What kind of a man doesn‘t even use protection? It would surely tarnish his image if he got another woman pregnant and what a mess all of his problems would cause you.
Let him go through sex therapy and keep your distance. If after much time passes and he truely is a changed man, he surely won‘t have a problem dating you for quite a while before marriage. Remember, we‘re not talking about a man who cheated once, we are talking about a serial cheater.
Protect yourself and your health and keep your distance - and DEFINITELY no marriage, no matter how much he declares his love and pushes it. Actions speak louder than words.
Feel free to vent or give advice to those in need here any time.
Happy Holidays!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: is it me or was it him?? someone please help. Mind play.
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| Subject: is it me or was it him?? someone please help. Mind play. - Posted: 12/6/2006 5:21:04 PM
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Gabriel.
Here is what I think this man was doing.
1. Emailing multiple women the same stuff, the same time as you.
2. He may be married.
3. He may be old and fat.
4. He used you, and many other women, to build his ego and "get off" ala mental masturbation.
5. He lied about how successful he is.
You weren‘t in love with him, you were in love with a fantasy of what you thought he was like.
Chalk this up to a harsh learning experience. Next time, request that you meet someone in a public place or with some friends before you invest this much emotional time and writing into someone.
Guys like this are ALL over the net. He probably didn‘t even give you his real name. It‘s a blessing in disguise that your loser pen pal stopped communicating. I feel sorry for his current victim(s) who are getting played just like you were. Women created a term for guys like this - "Emotional Vampires."
Feel free to vent or give advice to women in need here any time.
Happy Holidays! :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: A long time ago..
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| Subject: A long time ago.. - Posted: 12/6/2006 5:27:13 PM
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Cpetra!
As a child, you suppress things that are confusing and painful. Your memory blocks it out and then you become confused as to whether it really happened or it was just a dream. Yes, it is or will definitely affect your life, most likely in subconscious ways. Since you have never had therapy, I suggest finding a good therapist, perhaps a female one, who you can discuss this with in confidentiality to see what she thinks.
Statistics say either 2 out of every 5 or 3 out of every 5 women have been molested. I can‘t remember off hand. Think about that. It‘s literally an epidemic. On the home page, left hand side, there are a bunch of questions for women who visit the site about sexual abuse. It may be interesting for you to read these. I would also suggest joining a local support group or an internet support group. It helps to write things down to promote healing.
Feel free to vent or give advice to those in need here any time.
Happy Holidays!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: CHEATEN ASS
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| Subject: CHEATEN ASS - Posted: 12/6/2006 5:35:49 PM
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ArielMarie!
Please click the "Read" menu button above and then read the "Catch a Cheater" section for tips on how to catch him. It sounds to me like your husband is lying and cheating. However, before you accuse him again, make sure that this time you have concrete proof. If you don‘t, he‘ll just lie to you, deny it and then cover his tracks up better.
You are a grown woman. Your husband does NOT have the power to tell you whether you are allowed to have friends or not. You need to stand up to him and stop being scared. You also need to create a master plan of what you will do if you find out he is cheating on you. Do you have any friends/family/associates who may be able to help you? Can you stay with your parents for a while until you get on your own two feet? Start saving a little bit of money.
Make an appointment with a divorce attorney to find out your rights to alimony. Get a part time job or some training so you will be ready if you have to leave him. Be smart and think about your own and your child‘s future. Do not let fear or emotions rule you. If he is treating you this poorly after only two years together, if you stay, be prepared for years of continued lying, cheating, and abuse.
If you need strength, come here. There will always be someone to listen and help guide you.
& Stay STRONG!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: please help how do I know
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| Subject: please help how do I know - Posted: 12/6/2006 5:49:04 PM
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Lizzie!
If it will make you sleep better at night, go ahead and call her. However, be prepared that she may cover for him and just say they are just friends. You could try being really nice and try to reach out to her woman-to-woman (maybe cry) and explain that you just want to move on and you need the truth. Gut instinct tells me, there was intimacy between the two of them. No man would call a woman that frequently, that late at night, plus lie about it unless something was going on. I think in your heart you know that also so the phone call really shouldn‘t even be necessary.
Your ex-partner wanted his cake and to eat it too! If I were a betting woman (besides Black Jack and Craps), I would bet that he will cheat on this woman also. If he is as young and "hot" as you say he is and he has a large ego to match, that ego will need sexual fulfillment from multiple women, not just one.
Please don‘t ever move in with a man after only three short months. You need to be very careful before you give your heart and emotions to a man and after such a short period of time, you really don‘t even know a person yet.
Here are some tips to speed up the healing process. You can do all or a combination of the below.
1. Surround yourself with as many family and friends as possible.
2. Continue your professional therapy.
3. Get on medication if you need to in order to help you through this.
4. Strengthen your spiritual side.
5. Focus on any hobby or ANYTHING you enjoy
6. Start exercising more.
7. Improve your diet.
8. Adopt a pet.
9. After you have healed, slowly begin dating again if you so wish.
10. Vent here or give advice to other women (and men) who have it much worse than you. It will put things in perspective.
11. Don‘t scold yourself for grieving and/or crying.
12. And most of all....stay as busy as possible during the next few months.
I hope this advice helps you a bit. Print it out as a reminder.
Happy Holidays!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
P.S. You are not alone for the holidays. You now have your WomanSaver‘s family. :)
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| Topic: Just for laugh. I pretended to be a man
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| Subject: Just for laugh. I pretended to be a man - Posted: 12/6/2006 5:59:41 PM
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Le_chocolats!
Paybacks are a bitch. You are definitely out for revenge and blood and she deserves it. However, why are you still with your boyfriend? Is your relationship not emotionally sexually stimulating enough in order for him not to engage in cybersex with another woman? Not only is the other woman to blame here, but so is your boyfriend. He‘s lied to you and is jacking off while fantasizing about some other woman who he probably would have eventually met and had real sex with no matter what lines of B.S. he fed you. On-going cyber sex usually results in physical sex after a period of time.
Since you are a master impersonator, why don‘t you set your boyfriend to see if he‘ll do it again? Allow him plenty of computer space and then set up a fake account on a dating or personals site he may be frequenting to see if he‘ll do it again. If he does, I think you should dump him.
If you are able to con both of them, then that would be the ultimate entrapment. Do NOT tell your boyfriend what you are doing unless you are going to break up. He will use it against you.
Keep us posted. ....Berry, berry interesting.
Happy Holidays, "LadyBoy" lol :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Your opinion is needed please
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| Subject: Your opinion is needed please - Posted: 12/6/2006 6:15:56 PM
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Grace Makes Beauty. The user name you chose describes your actions perfectly. You did the right thing and when I read your post, I saw a strong, self assured woman that chose her self respect over continuing to be used. Please make sure that a divorce is final before ever getting involved in the future. There are simply too many times when couples reconcile, especially when there are children involved.
Move on and move forward. You should discontinue all contact with your ex and allow him to live his decision without interference from you. Change your number and/or simply don‘t return his calls, no matter how difficult it may be for you.
My gut instinct tells me you are going to recover from him in no time so in the mean time, enjoy your freedom and be fabulously single.
Feel free to vent or give advice to those in need here any time.
Happy Holidays!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: It‘s my birthday and I‘ll cry if I want to!
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| Subject: It‘s my birthday and I‘ll cry if I want to! - Posted: 12/6/2006 6:27:36 PM
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Happy Birthday, DC. My birthday wish for you is that one day you are going to decide that you don‘t need ANY men to be happy and always keep your own place. I already know your pattern and my wish is that you will learn how to break it.
Now blow out these imaginary birthday candles and make a wish that you will break this pattern in the future.
.....and be thankful.
Thankful for your health.
Thankful for your handsome son and his health.
Thankful that you are beautiful.
Thankful that you are employed.
Thankful that you have food to eat.
Thankful that you have a roof over your head.
Thankful that you have warm clothes to wear.
....Thankful that you have had me, your cyber mother, giving you lectures and repeated advice for the past few years.....that you don‘t listen to.
You‘re just like having a "real" daughter. lol :) I‘m just trying to make you smile. Things could always be worse, just think back at some of the past idiots you‘ve been involved with. ;)
Mommy Dearest
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| Topic: Repeating the same pattern, over and over and over
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| Subject: Repeating the same pattern, over and over and over - Posted: 12/8/2006 9:53:56 AM
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Beenthere!
Glad you like my site. You are a 51 year old woman who can stand on her own two feet financially. Under NO circumstances should you involve yourself with men who are not at least your equal. If at this point in their lives, the men are not able to take care of themselves financially, you‘re not with the right guy. No matter how great they are, cut your losses and move on. Take a stand and demand more from the men you are dating. In addition, most guys are "great" the first 3-6 months when all relationships are new, exciting and challenging. Be picky and go slow with any new relationships. Remember, this is the "lust" phase and is always clouded with tons of compliments and happy endorphins. Raise the bar for your standards and if the men don‘t meet them, stay fabulously single. You sound like you have a fulfilling, busy life already so don‘t settle for male "fillers" at this point.
You‘ve recognized your pattern so the next time you feel yourself slipping for someone who isn‘t worthy of you, simply make yourself unavailable and distance yourself from that person immediately. You should be a mother and care taker for your children, not your dates.
Feel free to vent or give advice to women in need here any time.
Happy Holidays! :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: i feel so stupid
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| Subject: i feel so stupid - Posted: 12/8/2006 9:57:54 AM
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Murph!
It won‘t help to accuse him unless you have concrete proof because he will only lie and deny it. This is a mistake that women frequently make and then the men just cover their tracks better next time.
If you want to catch him, please click the "Read" menu button above and read the "Catch a Cheater" section for tips on how you can catch him. Then, when you catch him you can decide whether you should contact a divorce attorney FIRST or try to work it out with him.
Don‘t let your emotions rule you. Be smart and patient because a lot is at stake here.
Keep us posted. If you need further support, feel free to post here.
Now put on that detective hat and get to work!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: computer question
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| Subject: computer question - Posted: 12/8/2006 10:00:28 AM
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I don‘t know of a way. However, click thie "Read" menu button above and read the "Catch a Cheater" section. You may want to consider installing a key logger onto your computer so you can record his every key stroke for the future but do not EVER let him know you did this.
Keep us posted and feel free to vent or give advice here any time.
Good luck,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Emails
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| Subject: Emails - Posted: 12/8/2006 10:06:37 AM
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Chevytruck!
You are very wise not to have accused him yet which most women do because they are acting with their emotions. You are correct in that most men will deny and lie when they are caught. You will need concrete proof. Please click the "Read" menu button above and then read the "Catch a Cheater" section for further tips on how to catch him. If you accuse him now, not only will he deny it, he will cover his tracks better next time.
Print out any proof you have and/or write down dates, times, etc... Give him lots of space to make another mistake and I guarantee he will.
However, in your heart you already know he has cheated. You must be ready with a master plan if you are not willing to forgive him. It sounds like he is not only having a physical affair, but also an emotional one which is unforgivable to most women.
Good luck and let us know how it turns out. If you need strength or advice, feel free to post here.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: bastard and shotgun
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| Subject: bastard and shotgun - Posted: 12/8/2006 10:09:53 AM
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| Absolutely unforgivable. No second chances for a man that harms an animal or child - EVER. You are a tough cookie, Kayjon. If he knows what‘s good for him, he better not ever mess with you or your animals again. What an asshole!
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| Topic: Winter Fun... Snow Art...
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| Subject: Winter Fun... Snow Art... - Posted: 12/8/2006 10:13:06 AM
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| Aqua, those are hilarious. Will you email me those to womansavers@womansavers.com, please. You always have the greatest jokes!
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| Topic: revenge
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| Subject: revenge - Posted: 12/8/2006 10:14:33 AM
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| Euwwww......someone has been spreading their legs too much. Ouch.
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| Topic: My beloved Grover
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| Subject: My beloved Grover - Posted: 12/8/2006 10:19:44 AM
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| BustySpumonte wrote: | |
I am happy I will have another Christmas with the ol Gunger! I‘ll take any time I can. And thank you all for all your kind words!
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Best news of the month!!! I will die internally when I loose my Doberman. Buy him the most wonderful bones for this holiday. I give my dogs Barley Grass to help their overall health and mix it in their wet and dry food. It does wonders for aging dogs and their associated health problems. I also give them daily vitamins and Glucosamine for their joints. So far so good. One is 14, one 12 and one 10 and they were all adopted strays.
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| Topic: cheating wife
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| Subject: cheating wife - Posted: 12/8/2006 4:37:39 PM
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thelonelyman!
Sounds to me like your wife got the short end of the stick from the other guy so she came running back to you. Your sex life sucks, she‘s fooled around with another man, she told you that you weren‘t her soul mate, etc...
Gut instinct tells me that she is looking for someone better and will dump you when she finds him. This is how I am interpreting her actions. In the mean time, you are her security so she continues to hang on. If it were me, I would dump her. However, if she is really serious about reconcilliation, she should now do everything possible to kiss your ass sexually and do whatever it takes to regain your trust, including counseling. Your days of putting up with her shit should now be over, even if you decide to stay.
Good luck.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Forgiveness
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| Subject: Forgiveness - Posted: 12/8/2006 4:40:09 PM
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| Yes, and your partner better be doing everything in his power to regain your trust. If he isn‘t, I would leave.
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| Topic: Onions and Christmas Trees
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| Subject: Onions and Christmas Trees - Posted: 12/8/2006 4:41:56 PM
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| bwahahahaha! Oh, the joys of aging.
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| Topic: My Cheating Husband Story.... #3.....
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| Subject: My Cheating Husband Story.... #3..... - Posted: 12/8/2006 5:08:14 PM
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Oh brother. I don‘t think it was necessary to send that letter. My advice is no contact unless it is done through legal means.
Keep the letter for evidence in case you ever need it and fuhgetaboutit.
Try to enjoy the holidays!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: More Dog Problems!
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| Subject: More Dog Problems! - Posted: 12/11/2006 11:12:12 AM
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| Momof4elves wrote: | | Second, if it‘s not a medical issue-there are these wonderful things called "Belly bands" you measure around the dogs abdomen-velcro it on (I have put a mini pad inside it) and voila! a housebroken male dog. When you take him out, remove the band when he‘s outside, and put it on before he comes back in. Most dogs will only wet inside it once or twice when they realize they are peeing on themselves-they pretty much stop. (unless they‘re REALLY dopey, but most doxies aren‘t dopey at all. Belly bands are sold at loads of online pet stores-I made my own. They also come in great cute prints, or nice solids-whatever you like!
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Belly bands!? What a great invention. Thanks for posting that. I have a girlfriend who is having problems with her Dachshund and this may just be the solution.
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| Topic: Christmas pics
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| Subject: Christmas pics - Posted: 12/13/2006 12:23:48 PM
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ha ha ha
I needed to read those jokes today. Very funny. Thanks for posting. They added some much added holiday cheer to my work-a-holic schedule.
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| Topic: I love this Website. Thank you Womansavers!
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| Subject: I love this Website. Thank you Womansavers! - Posted: 12/14/2006 10:36:20 AM
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You are very welcome HushPuppy/Ant. I love reading your posts and you have taken the time to share your experiences and opinions in hopes of helping others. Thank you.
Happy Holidays, lady. :)
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| Topic: being bicurous
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| Subject: being bicurous - Posted: 12/14/2006 10:38:51 AM
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| BustySpumonte wrote: | |
Try Craig‘s List!
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Hey, that‘s what I was going to suggest too! lol :)
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| Topic: Need a partner in crime
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| Subject: Need a partner in crime - Posted: 12/14/2006 10:44:34 AM
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| Try sending her an in-house email by clicking the envelope below her user name.
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| Topic: recording device
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| Subject: recording device - Posted: 12/14/2006 10:19:23 PM
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not2night.
Tiny voice activated digital recorders work well also. If and when you may get the evidence you are looking for, do NOT let anyone know how you obtained the info because it could get used against you in a court of law unless you do it in your own home or your own car.
Good luck and let us know how it turns out. Feel free to vent or give advice here any time.
Happy Holidays!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator :)
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| Topic: reverse cell phone lookup
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| Subject: reverse cell phone lookup - Posted: 12/15/2006 10:48:27 AM
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Sues!
Try this:
http://phonenumbers.addresses.com/phone.php
Happy Holidays!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Light To Unite
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| Subject: Light To Unite - Posted: 12/15/2006 1:10:48 PM
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Done! :)
Don‘t even get me started on the monopoly the pharmaceutical companies have on this country. They keep raising the cost of drugs, while preventing competitively priced drugs from foreign countries such as India out. India has some of the lowest priced drugs in the world and they are dying to infiltrate the US market. I hope they suceed because then US drug manufacturers like Pfizer, etc... won‘t control everything anymore and they will be forced to offer more competitive drug pricing.
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| Topic: "Stress"mas instead of Christmas
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| Subject: "Stress"mas instead of Christmas - Posted: 12/15/2006 1:15:00 PM
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I am so completely overwhelmed with work, family and the holidays, this year‘s holiday season gets the award for the most stressful holiday I have ever had in my life.
Merry "f*@*ing" Stress-mas!
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| Topic: Dancing Santa Poo
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| Subject: Dancing Santa Poo - Posted: 12/15/2006 1:56:35 PM
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Ha ha ha. The dancing Santa poo cheered me up....at least briefly. :)
Merry Christmas to POOOO!
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| Topic: Splendor
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| Subject: Splendor - Posted: 12/15/2006 3:10:26 PM
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| Oh my god. I would have given anything to see that live. It‘s so spectacular it takes away my breath. Thank you for posting. I hope I live long enough to witness something like this.
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| Topic: In my case, what would you do?
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| Subject: In my case, what would you do? - Posted: 12/15/2006 3:34:11 PM
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6sense!
Something very fishy is going on here and you should go with your gut instinct. There is no reason why his ex should not know he is married.....unless, he doesn‘t want her to know because there is still a relationship going on. His reaction to your friend recognizing him also fits this explanation. I would bet big $$$ here that he is having a full-blown affair and relationship with her.
Please click the "Read" menu button above and read the "Catch a Cheater" section. Voice-activated digital tape recorders hidden in a car can work wonders. However, make sure that if you find something out, you do not reveal your spying methods because they could be used against you in a court of law, especially considering your husband‘s professional background. If you do find proof, make sure you get concrete proof that you can use in court and contact a divorce attorney to find out your rights BEFORE you accuse him. If you get emotional and accuse him, he will only deny it, call you crazy and cover his tracks. You need to look out for your best interests now.
Put on your detective hat and find out what is really going on here. ....but I think you already know.
Let us know how it turns out. Feel free to vent or give advice here any time.
Try to have a Merry Christmas. :)
Good luck,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Happy Chanukah!
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| Subject: Happy Chanukah! - Posted: 12/18/2006 8:28:51 AM
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I have quite a few Jewish friends and I love them!! Mel Gibson is an idiot for what he said about the Jews. They are some of the hardest working people and I respect all the hardships they have survived since the beginning of time. Plus, the Jews I have met have the greatest sense of humor.
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| Topic: The ex girlfriend
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| Subject: The ex girlfriend - Posted: 12/18/2006 9:37:28 AM
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| ha ha ha Good one! :)
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| Topic: CONGRATULATIONS LADY 1981!!!!!
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| Subject: CONGRATULATIONS LADY 1981!!!!! - Posted: 12/19/2006 9:52:10 AM
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I am so proud of Lady1981. I never had any doubt in my mind she could achieve this and this is only the tip of the iceberg. She‘s smart, ambitious and level headed. I have always admired her.
Well done!
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| Topic: Merry Christmas from Sydney Australia
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| Subject: Merry Christmas from Sydney Australia - Posted: 12/20/2006 6:54:07 PM
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| Merry Christmas from 6 feet under.
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| Topic: Met the man of my dreams!
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| Subject: Met the man of my dreams! - Posted: 12/21/2006 7:20:19 AM
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Liedtoagain!
STOP THE BOAT!!!! Don‘t get married yet. Do anything you must do to reschedule the wedding to give yourself more time. Say that you didn‘t get to plan the wedding you wanted due to the rush, say that something personal has come up and the wedding needs to be delayed, say that you are not feeling well and would like to postpone until you feel better....just don‘t get married. This will take a lot of guts and strength for you to do but it will be MUCH worse if you marry and then divorce. Here are the red flags you have already noticed.
1. He is surfing porn which upsets you.
2. He is lying to you.
3. He is tracking you through keystroke loggers.
Why the rush? Six months is certainly not enough courting time to really know someone. Since you have both been in bad relationships in the past, you both should know that it takes a year or more before you really get to know someone. You don‘t need to delay the wedding in a negative manner. You can do it apologetically and kindly and then you will have more time to decide IF you really even want to marry your partner.
Why don‘t you two go to some couples counseling to see if you can work these issues out? During the first six months of a relationship, a couple is still in the honeymoon phase and your endorphins are going crazy so most people don‘t think clearly.
Slow down lady. You‘ve already "been there, done that" so there is no reason not to have a long engagement to discover more about your partner.
Feel free to vent or give advice here any time. Keep us posted.
& Happy Holidays! :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
P.S. Push the "Control" button and every single button in the alphabet on your keyboard simultaneously. Sometimes that unlocks a keylogger installed on a computer by asking for a username and/or password.
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| Topic: LMWS‘s new holiday e-card!
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| Subject: LMWS‘s new holiday e-card! - Posted: 12/21/2006 12:42:05 PM
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| BustySpumonte wrote: | | That was great!!! I loved it!! P.S. I never knew you sounded like Betty Boop!! |
Thanks, BS. I made my voice sound like Betty Boop, plus I raised the pitch level while recording. I liked the way it sounded so I went with it. The ending is kind of lame because I ran out of word‘s to rhyme with "Heather" and the word "too."
I started another one called "Randolph, the online pervert" but I‘m not sure I will have it done before Christmas. The creativity of designing is my passion and truely what I love to do. I wish I had my own cartoon series. Cartoons can get away with a lot more than people, never age, never get fat, and allow you to express yourself with no limitations. However, I am not really a fan of Anime. ...And that cartoon porn Anime stuff is REALLY weird. "The Simpsons" is the greatest show ever created. I loaded every single available season of the Simpsons onto my Videopod and watch them whenever I am stuck on a plane.
The e-card I am working on now is classy, tasteful and politically correct like all my other e-cards! NOT lol
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| Topic: How crappy is this
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| Subject: How crappy is this - Posted: 12/21/2006 12:46:01 PM
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We really need to find an Emoticon or photo of an "Assclown." Every time I hear that term I get the funniest visuals in my head.
hmmmm.....maybe I should do an e-card with an "assclown" cartoon character. lol
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| Topic: hey, I think my last one was the 360,000th post!
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| Subject: hey, I think my last one was the 360,000th post! - Posted: 12/21/2006 4:12:09 PM
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Ding, ding, ding, ding......."We have a winner, folks." ...And what does Surf win by achieving this honor? He is the proud winner of a photo that is so rare, secret and exclusive, I‘m not sure I should post it.
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| Topic: Merry X-mas-
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| Subject: Merry X-mas- - Posted: 12/23/2006 7:04:38 PM
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Merry Christmas to all WomanSavers.com members!
Thank you -
- for sticking by me and the website through the good times and bad
- for posting your jokes that make me smile
- for sharing your stories
- for giving advice to those in need
- for chasing away trolls
- for forgiving
- for growing and learning as humans and for helping me grow with you
- for making this board one of the most unique on the internet
- for participating and keeping the focus positive
- for spreading the word
- for being my anoymous, internet friends
Love always,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
P.S. I scrambled to get this e-card out and I barely made it before Christmas. I like the "Lapdance Together With You" card better than this one but "Randolph the Online Pervert" turned out cute also.
Eat, Drink, be Merry & Enjoy! :)
Copy & paste either below links into your browser
http://www.womansavers.com/p_viewcard2.asp?c=14
OR
http://www.womansavers.com/funny-videos.asp
OR just click the video link at the top of the main message board.
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| Topic: LMWS‘s new holiday e-card!
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| Subject: LMWS‘s new holiday e-card! - Posted: 12/23/2006 7:06:07 PM
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| slappysquirrel wrote: | |
Randolph is a hoot!!!
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Well, alright!!! :) I knew there were "some" folks out there who I could "entertain." ha ha ha Glad you liked it, Squirrel.
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| Topic: For those with little kids...Track Santa!
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| Subject: For those with little kids...Track Santa! - Posted: 12/23/2006 7:18:31 PM
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| Really cute, Momo4. I wish they would have had cool stuff like this when I was a kid. I grew up in Germany and we had Saint Nickolas and he came on Christmas eve. The kids also would leave a big boot of theirs outside the door and Saint Nickolas would leave toys and candy in the boot and if they were "bad," he would leave lumps of coal. ha ha ha No coal for this "little girl." ha ha
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| Topic: hiya and Merry Christmas!!!!
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| Subject: hiya and Merry Christmas!!!! - Posted: 12/23/2006 9:56:07 PM
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| hotmama973355 wrote: | |
Merry Christmas! Christmas in Las Vegas! This sight is so important to all women who are dating or thinking about dating. I wish this site was around when I was in college and dating I am sure my ex would have been on here and that would have saved my over two decades of misery. I hope everyone has a wonderful and save holiday season and keep on promoting this site everywhere you go. 
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Thanks "hotmamma!" That was a very nice thing to say.
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| Topic: Justin Hughes
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| Subject: Justin Hughes - Posted: 12/23/2006 9:58:23 PM
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USM!
You may wish to add him to the "Rate-A-Guy" database to tell your story. I‘m so sorry you are going through this....and at such a horrible time.
If you need support, feel free to vent here.
Stay strong,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: penis for a day
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| Subject: penis for a day - Posted: 12/23/2006 10:01:53 PM
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I would love to have the experience of peeing standing up and taking aim.
maaaannn.....maybe I shouldn‘t have revealed that. ha ha ha
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| Topic: Christmas pics
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| Subject: Christmas pics - Posted: 12/23/2006 10:04:04 PM
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| AquaGirl wrote: |
:)
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bwahahaha!!!!
Hmmmmm.....that would make a great E-card skit.
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| Topic: Lord Farquad
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| Subject: Lord Farquad - Posted: 12/24/2006 9:44:39 AM
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| Please repost because it didn‘t display.
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| Topic: Christmas Wish from a guy (g-rated)
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| Subject: Christmas Wish from a guy (g-rated) - Posted: 12/25/2006 5:15:02 PM
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Veggieguy!
I am Vegan also but sometimes have a slip-ups with icec ream. It is difficult not to eat meat during the holidays because people associate food with love and try to push various foods on you even though you prefer not to. Here are just a few more reasons not to buy Marino wool or to eat meat, especially KFC.
http://getactive.peta.org/campaign/pink_wool_video?qp_source=pinkpetagen
Glad you like my site!
Merry Christmas,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator :)
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| Topic: Happy Birthday to me
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| Subject: Happy Birthday to me - Posted: 12/26/2006 12:25:09 AM
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Happy Birthday WarriorPrincess!! One of my sister‘s birthdays is on December 20 and the other on New Year‘s eve, Dec 31. They both hate having birthdays near Christmas because everyone always combines their birthday and Xmas gifts.
Therefore, I am not going to wish you a Merry Christmas, rather the happiest birthday ever.
....and don‘t forget, "40" is the new "30" so 38 is certainly not old. You‘re ALMOST at your sexual prime so you have something to look forward to! :)
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| Topic: Hey again
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| Subject: Hey again - Posted: 12/26/2006 10:31:19 AM
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Hi Wire,
Loooong time no see!! How are you? How has life been treating you? How is your girlfriend?
You are missed dearly on the boards. I‘m glad you stopped by to check in. However, I want more details about what is going on in your life. :)
Merry Christmas!
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| Topic: A Real Christmas Wish
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| Subject: A Real Christmas Wish - Posted: 12/26/2006 10:33:05 AM
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Beautifully written! You are such an asset to this site Dreamer. I am happy that something drove you to this site and has kept you here. :)
LMWS
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| Topic: No I didn‘t go back to Nicky
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| Subject: No I didn‘t go back to Nicky - Posted: 12/26/2006 11:00:47 AM
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Hi Debbiecakes. Your post sounds like you are very happy. You are lucky to live in such a beautiful place. I love Myrtle Beach.
Thanks for stopping by and I hope you have the ability to post more happenings about your life in the near future.
Merry Christmas and have a Happy New Year! :)
LMWS
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| Topic: am i stupid?.....
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| Subject: am i stupid?..... - Posted: 12/26/2006 11:20:08 AM
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| BustySpumonte wrote: | |
I have to ask this. Lil Bit were you drinking alcohol or on any drugs when this happened?
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I am curious as to the answer to the above question also.
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| Topic: am i stupid?.....
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| Subject: am i stupid?..... - Posted: 12/26/2006 4:01:00 PM
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| MrTrueBlue wrote: |
LOL....I never suggested a man has a right to sex. I asked the question.."what is a husband suppose to do?" If you think he is supposed to accept being denied, then say so. I am looking for what a man is suppose to do if his wife never wants to have sex. Like in my case, I am constantly denied, I don‘t fight, whine about it...actually I don‘t even ask for it anymore. I just raise my kids. But she wants another baby with me. So she doesn‘t want to have sex with me anytime except when she wants a baby. uh.....ok.
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Request for her to go to counseling regarding her issues about sex. If she refuses, threaten divorce. In addition, tell her that since you no longer are having sex, you are going to get a vasectomy. A man has his needs and a woman needs to figure out a way to get her mental issues under control, so she can be a proper wife.
In addition, I would make it quite clear that if a man isn‘t getting his needs met at home, he usually fulfills them elsewhere. I am not suggesting cheating at all, but it‘s time for you to toughen up. You are a good father, a good provider and obviously a good husband for dealing with no sex. Now it‘s her turn to give to you as a wife who loves her husband.
You could also suggest a romantic getaway, arrange for the kids to have a sitter or stay at a friends for a few nights or......try getting your wife drunk! lol ;)
Good luck and stop letting your wife walk all over you.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: LMWS‘s New Years Pic
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| Subject: LMWS‘s New Years Pic - Posted: 12/28/2006 8:46:23 PM
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| lorrie wrote: |
| BustySpumonte wrote: | 
Love it! HAHAHA!!!
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but is the picture the before or after shot.
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Before AND after shot....it‘s been one hell-of-a year! lol I won‘t be logging on for the next 5 days because I am taking a brief time out. Therefore, I will wish you all a Happy New Year now. Everyone please stay safe.
I won‘t be driving a car and have a designated driver.....a cab.
......Five, four, three, two, one.......
L-OV-E,
Little Miss W.
Webmistress
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| Topic: Emotions on overdrive.
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| Subject: Emotions on overdrive. - Posted: 12/28/2006 8:55:40 PM
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| CaliforniaGirl wrote: | |
I will keep this short. Rave and LR, this is a site for women, try to remember that. Men are guests here.
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CaliforniaGirl is right. I created this site primarily for abused and cheated on women. We also have a following of men who have frequented the site for years. However, these men are considered by the women on the site as extraordinary gentlemen, who are not only mannered but have the ability to get their point across in a calm and clear manner. The men who come across as agressive, are quickly cornered because that type of behavior is precisely the abusive behavior our women are working to avoid, whether it be on the net or in real life.
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| Topic: I‘m confused, can anyone help?
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| Subject: I‘m confused, can anyone help? - Posted: 12/29/2006 6:33:38 AM
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| Mod confirmed that they only deleted one. I haven‘t deleted any. Members must be deleting their threads at their own discretion.
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| Topic: Flu
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| Subject: Flu - Posted: 1/4/2007 11:52:35 AM
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I am really sick and have fever of about 100, nightmares, cold and hot sweats, achey and sore throat. The fever is giving me the weirdest dreams - vivid, short story clips. The last one I dreamt I was Britney Spear‘s sister. What the hell?!? It makes me not want to sleep. I‘ll be out for a few more days. Need to sleep and rest. Thought I would let everyone know. Trying it all - Tylenol, lots of fluids, tea with lemon and honey, veggie soup, etc...
...and I even got the flu shot this year. :(
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| Topic: AFF
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| Subject: AFF - Posted: 1/8/2007 10:26:59 AM
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Adult Friend Finder is a website done completely with smoke and mirrors. The webmasters behind that site are geniuses and con more men into paying membership fees than most porn sites. The majority of ads on AFF are fake and lead to porn sites or are escorts. Plus, they keep ad photos up of women that are years old who completely stopped logging on to make their female membership seem higher.
I kind of feel sorry for all the men who get suckered into paying for this site.
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| Topic: Is it safe to post my story?
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| Subject: Is it safe to post my story? - Posted: 1/8/2007 3:57:30 PM
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| ForeverHopeless wrote: |
Hi CaliforniaGirl I think I am afraid of some of the members. I don’t want to be yelled at or told I deserve what is happening to me. I am reading around and I see so much support here but some members dont seem supportive more judgemental. Are there ground rules here?
I didn‘t know men could post here to. I dont mind but I am a little scared around them. I always have been. Is there a site like this for women only?
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Post in the Women‘s Only "Private" Forum which is not viewable to the general public. That‘s why I created it. :) It‘s located below the "GENERAL" forum area.
You‘ll get a full range of opinions here, including the "tough love" type. However, it‘s all anonymous so it doesn‘t matter much.
Good luck,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: FUN Thread... Bikini Prank... Watch and Vote!
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| Subject: FUN Thread... Bikini Prank... Watch and Vote! - Posted: 1/11/2007 12:41:04 PM
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| A & B
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| Topic: FUN Thread... Bikini Prank... Watch and Vote!
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| Subject: FUN Thread... Bikini Prank... Watch and Vote! - Posted: 1/11/2007 12:41:06 PM
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| A & B
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| Topic: my nephew has been murdered
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| Subject: my nephew has been murdered - Posted: 1/11/2007 12:49:37 PM
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| What a tragic ending. It sounds like your nephew had a rough time and he surrounded himself with those that brought him down. May he rest in peace. I am sorry for your loss.
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| Topic: just found out about the *prostitutes*
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| Subject: just found out about the *prostitutes* - Posted: 1/12/2007 8:52:15 AM
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Ownpersonalhell!
Here is the confirmation you requested. My opinion is that you are with an emotionally abusive man and it‘s best to cut your losses and get out now. Start distancing yourself immediately. If you are arguing this much after only 3 months, a time when you should still be in the la-la honeymoon stage, just imagine what your relationship would be like after a few years of marriage.
A man should reinforce your self worth, not tear it down by saying things like you are stupid. It took guts for him to admit about the prostitutes. However, it doesn‘t matter whether they were high priced or low priced. The fact is that he still cheated and lied to his wife instead of being honest. Whether he will cheat again with escorts in the future remains to be seen. If he has no remorse to seeing the escorts, he most likely will do it again because he sees nothing wrong with his behavior.
Any man who brings you down by belittle-ing you, should be kicked to the curb. Enough said.
Feel free to vent or give advice here any time.
Stand your ground and stay strong!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Not a Good Day!
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| Subject: Not a Good Day! - Posted: 1/12/2007 8:54:47 AM
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| Scornedforlife, it is way overdue now to enforce the "NO CONTACT" in any form rule. This is not healthy for you. How are you suppose to move on when he keeps dragging you back in by saying things like that?! Damn right you shouldn‘t feel sorry for him!
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| Topic: ashleymadison.com claims he made over 10 million on cheaters
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| Subject: ashleymadison.com claims he made over 10 million on cheaters - Posted: 1/13/2007 2:44:49 PM
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The owner of ashleymadison.com claims he has made over $10 million on committed cheaters. Un-fucking-believable. I‘d like to kick him in the balls!
His website is the perfect portal for a blackmailer.
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| Topic: new appearance
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| Subject: new appearance - Posted: 1/17/2007 8:04:47 AM
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More lines are on their way, along with more "tweaking" changes. Drum roll please...... Check out the new VIDEO chat!! :) Still working on it for Mac users.
I have some more great suprises launching shortly. Stay tuned. Any problems, please email techsupport@womansavers.com
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Adultery could mean life in prison in Michigan
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| Subject: Adultery could mean life in prison in Michigan - Posted: 1/23/2007 1:05:02 PM
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January 21. 2007 6:59AM
Adultery could mean life in prison
Court ruling could prove embarrassing for attorney general.
BRIAN DICKERSON
Detroit Free Press
DETROIT -- In a ruling sure to make philandering spouses squirm,
Michigan‘s second-highest court says that anyone involved in an
extramarital fling can be prosecuted for first-degree criminal sexual
conduct, a felony punishable by up to life in prison.
"We
cannot help but question whether the Legislature actually intended the
result we reach here today," Judge William Murphy wrote in November for
a unanimous Court of Appeals panel, "but we are curtailed by the
language of the statute from reaching any other conclusion."
"Technically,"
he added, "any time a person engages in sexual penetration in an
adulterous relationship, he or she is guilty of CSC I," the most
serious sexual assault charge in Michigan‘s criminal code.
No one expects prosecutors to declare open season on cheating spouses.
The ruling is especially awkward for Attorney General Mike Cox, whose
office triggered it by successfully appealing a lower court‘s decision
to drop CSC charges against a Charlevoix defendant. In November 2005,
Cox confessed to an adulterous relationship.
Murphy‘s
opinion received little notice when it was handed down. But it has
since elicited reactions ranging from disbelief to mischievous giggling
in Michigan‘s gossipy legal community.
The ruling grows out of a case in which a Charlevoix man accused of
trading Oxycontin pills for the sexual favors of a cocktail waitress
was charged under an obscure provision of Michigan‘s criminal law. The
provision decrees that a person is guilty of first-degree criminal
sexual conduct whenever "sexual penetration occurs under circumstances
involving the commission of any other felony."
Charlevoix
Circuit Judge Richard Pajtas sentenced Lloyd Waltonen to up to four
years in prison after he pleaded guilty to two felony counts of
delivering a controlled substance. But Pajtas threw out the sexual
assault charge against Waltonen, citing the cocktail waitress‘s
testimony that she had willingly consented to the sex-for-drugs
arrangement.
Charlevoix prosecuting attorney John Jarema said he
decided to appeal after police discovered evidence that Waltonen may
have struck drugs-for-sex deals with several other women.
Cox‘s
office, which handled the appeal on the prosecutor‘s behalf, insisted
that the waitress‘s consent was irrelevant. All that mattered, the
attorney general argued in a brief demanding that the charge be
reinstated, was that the pair had sex "under circumstances involving
the commission of another felony" -- the delivery of the Oxycontin
pills.
The Attorney General‘s Office got a whole lot more than
it bargained for. The Court of Appeals agreed that the prosecutor in
Waltonen‘s case needed only to prove that the Oxycontin delivery and
the consensual sex were related. But Murphy and his colleagues went
further, ruling that a first-degree CSC charge could be justified when
consensual sex occurred in conjunction with any felony, not just a drug
sale.
The judges said they recognized their ruling could have sweeping
consequences, "considering the voluminous number of felonious acts that
can be found in the penal code." Among the many crimes Michigan still
recognizes as felonies, they noted pointedly, is adultery -- although
the Prosecuting Attorneys Association of Michigan notes that no one has
been convicted of that offense since 1971.
Some judges and
lawyers suggested that the Court of Appeals‘ reference to prosecuting
adulterers was a sly slap at Cox, noting that it was his office that
pressed for the expansive definition of criminal sexual conduct the
appellate judges so reluctantly embraced in their Nov. 7 ruling.
Chief
Court of Appeals Judge William Whitbeck, who signed the opinion along
with Murphy and Judge Michael Smolenski, said that Cox‘s confessed
adultery never came up during their discussions of the case.
"I
never thought of it, and I‘m confident that it was not something Judge
Murphy or Judge Smolenski had in mind," Whitbeck said. But he chuckled
uncomfortably when asked if the hypothetical described in Murphy‘s
opinion couldn‘t be cited as justification for bringing first-degree
criminal sexual conduct charges against the attorney general.
"Well, yeah," he said.
Cox‘s spokesman, Rusty Hills, bristled at the suggestion that Cox or anyone else in his circumstances could face prosecution.
"To
even ask about this borders on the nutty," Hills said in a recent phone
interview. "Nobody connects the attorney general with this --
N-O-B-O-D-Y -- and anybody who thinks otherwise is hallucinogenic."
Hills said Cox did not want to comment.
Justices will decide later this year whether to review the Court of Appeals‘ decision to reinstate the CSC charge.
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| Topic: My exes wise words
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| Subject: My exes wise words - Posted: 1/26/2007 9:13:03 AM
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| Damagecontrol wrote: | |
I have found myself asking the same question over and over. If he‘s just not that into me, then why is he with me? There are many answers, but the one that seems to make the most sense it that guys settle just as much as women do. I admit I have done my fair share. So this explains why men cheat. They are settling with us and still looking for the one they cannot live without. |
Hey there daughter DC. I read "he‘s just not that into me also" and loved it.
My ex once told me and I quote, "it‘s a lot of work chasing pussy to get laid. Guys settle so they can get laid regularly and not put in so much time and effort. They settle all the time because they are lazy, full well knowing they aren‘t with the right woman."
....I never forgot what he said and I believe him.
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| Topic: Bad Botox paralyzes couple
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| Subject: Bad Botox paralyzes couple - Posted: 1/26/2007 9:20:19 AM
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Botched Botox Victims Speak OutCouple Still Under Care After Cosmetic ProcedurePOSTED: 1:32 pm EST February 4,
2005 UPDATED: 4:17 pm EST February 4,
2005 ATLANTA -- The
Florida couple who made headlines last month after their Botox cosmetic
procedure went awry spoke out Friday in Atlanta about their ordeal. Eric
and Bonnie Kaplan held a news conference at the Shepherd Center, where
they were transferred Jan. 6 after apparently receiving full-blown
doses of the toxin that causes botulism. What was expected to be a simple procedure turned into a nightmare, the Palm Beach couple says."When
I got to the ER room, I couldn‘t swallow and then I couldn‘t speak,"
Eric Kaplan said. "My teeth froze like I had lockjaw. Eventually, I
became totally paralyzed."The incident, which sparked news
coverage around the country, raised fears about the cosmetic procedure,
which has been embraced by many celebrities and along Main Street by
those who want to fight wrinkles.The procedure involves
injecting small doses of Botox into muscles, which paralyzes or weakens
them and blocks the release of a chemical that causes muscles to
contract. Botox is a highly refined derivative of the toxin that causes
botulism.
The
U.S. Food and Drug Administration agreed in 2002 to allow the treatment
to be used for cosmetic purposes. Patients who receive too much of the
drug, however, can face serious health consequences, including
paralysis.The substance is supposed to be administered in
licensed medical practices by trained health care workers. The
safeguards apparently were not followed during the Kaplan‘s treatment.The
couple was listed in critical condition when they were admitted to the
Shepherd Center. They are still undergoing rehabilitation for their
Botox poisoning.Dr. Brock Bowman, associate medical director of
the center‘s spinal injury program, said Eric Kaplan may be able to
leave the center Friday or Monday, but Bonnie Kaplan must remain at the
center at least another week to recover. "Both have done very,
very well," Bowman said Friday at a news conference. "Their health is
good at this point. But I don‘t think their prognosis will be a
complete 100 percent recovery."Eric Kaplan must be fed through a tube placed in his stomach and his wife still needs a respirator at times to breathe.The
Kaplans received the treatment at Advanced Integrated Medical Center in
Oakland Park, Fla., last November, federal officials have said.
Osteopath Bach McComb is facing charges in connection with the
incident. He injected himself with the substance and was also
hospitalized along with his girlfriend Alma Hall, 34, who received the
treatment as well. Both are hospitalized with similarly severe symptoms.Federal investigators say the Kaplans were injected with a mixture of botulism toxin 10 times stronger than Botox.
Eric Kaplan says the toxin made it difficult for he and his wife to
breathe, walk and speak. Eric Kaplan was able to walk on his own to the
news conference but Bonnie Kaplan was escorted in a wheelchair.
"I‘m very fortunate to be here in this room and I don‘t take that for
granted," he said. "We never anticipated this would happen.
Unfortunately we‘re not able to turn back the clock. ... I‘m guilty of
being vain." Eric Kaplan said he had a lot of emotions after
being injured and both said they were angry for what had happened to
them. Bonnie Kaplan said she was hopeful they will recover and they
have grown even closer in the weeks since the injections. "My
feelings are I‘m upset -- that turned my whole life upside down. There
are days I wished I did die -- it was horrible being in the state we
were in," she said. "It was vanity -- I‘m 53 years old; I‘ve got
wrinkles. I wanted to get rid of them. All of my friends were doing it."
The injections the Kaplans received destroyed nerve endings responsible
for sending chemicals that activate muscle fibers in their bodies. The
human body can regrow the nerve endings but it will take time, Bowman
said. "If the Kaplans weren‘t astute enough to recognize some of
their symptoms and get appropriate medical care, they wouldn‘t have
survived," Bowman said. The couple soon began losing their
vision, speech, felt extreme flu-like symptoms and complained that they
felt like their bodies weighed a few tons. They are suing the
company that makes the botulism toxin, the clinic where they received
the shots, its owners, and the doctor who injected them. "Our
objective is ... so this will never happen to anyone else, anywhere in
our country, because it‘s just not right," Eric Kaplan said.
McComb faces criminal prosecution for practicing medicine after his
osteopathic license was suspended. He created the excessively stronger
solution by diluting powdered botulism intended for animal research
with saline, federal investigators said.
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| Topic: **NEW VALENTINE‘S VOODOO ECARD***
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| Subject: **NEW VALENTINE‘S VOODOO ECARD*** - Posted: 2/4/2007 8:17:57 PM
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Just finished another cartoon ecard entitled "Valentine‘s Voodoo."
I would like to thank member, Chelsea Buns, for giving me the inspiration and idea to create this ecard.
I hope you guys enjoy it! :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Happy Birthday BankGirl!
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| Subject: Happy Birthday BankGirl! - Posted: 2/11/2007 12:28:21 PM
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Bank Girl. I wish you a happy, peaceful day full of laughter.
My girlfriend‘s and I are so busy nowawdays, we don‘t have as much time as we used to to get together. So I have decided to throw a huge birthday party for my best two friends this summer before my birthday so we can all celebrate together.
I think the theme is going to be "sluttiest outfit you own" and that includes the men. ha ha ha I‘m thinking band, tiki torches, bubble machine and tarot card reader and LOTS of heels, short skirts and cleavage. Puff Daddy‘s parties won‘t have anything over mine. lol
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| Topic: I guess it‘s that time of year for updates, huh CB??
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| Subject: I guess it‘s that time of year for updates, huh CB?? - Posted: 2/16/2007 8:14:08 AM
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You and your wisdom were missed. Sorry to hear that your relationship didn‘t work out. I remember how excited you were when you first met that lady. However, it sounds like it was for the best. It‘s good that you know yourself so well. Most people don‘t. Now you don‘t have to change your name "Tired of Women." lol Yet, somehow your screen name just doesn‘t seem to fit you right anymore.
There have been LOTS of new changes and additions since you took a break and many more to come. I‘m not as active as I used to be on the boards but that is because I am constantly working on ideas and new developments. But I pop my head in every chance I get.
Again, it‘s nice to see your return! :)
LMWS, Site Creator
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| Topic: Hey, i am back :) I missed you all :D
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| Subject: Hey, i am back :) I missed you all :D - Posted: 2/16/2007 8:17:43 AM
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| escvelocity wrote: | |
Things have been good, its been about 7 months now. I have my own place and everything is going pretty smooth. :)
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escvelocity! 7 months?! Wow, how time flies. Do tell more details. Your life if smooth, you have your own place.....wonderful. What else?
LMWS, Site Creator
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| Topic: What did you get for Valentines Day?
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| Subject: What did you get for Valentines Day? - Posted: 2/16/2007 8:19:14 AM
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| nocturnal1 wrote: | |
a few phone calls from 2am on from the ex. and a patridge in a pear tree.
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ha ha ha. Funny!
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| Topic: What did you get for Valentines Day?
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| Subject: What did you get for Valentines Day? - Posted: 2/16/2007 8:21:25 AM
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since all of my ex‘s, really all of them, are in jail now, i wore a county jail shirt as a protest to vd. i also did some cabbing at a local pub, made like 60 bucks.. not bad at $5 a head, and then i brought the musical "rent" to my best guy friend‘s house with two things of ramen noodles {beef, our fav!} we drank 40‘s of icehouse and spooned all night while i pretended he was straight and he pretended i was anthony rapp or some shit... anyways, i could not have asked for a better vd i suppose. when i did have a boyfriend they were allways a dissapointment on holidays anyways!
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That actually sounds like a pretty good time, Still Pissed.
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| Topic: suggestion for additional board rule
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| Subject: suggestion for additional board rule - Posted: 2/16/2007 8:23:25 AM
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| slappysquirrel wrote: | |
Dear LMWS, might I suggest the addition of one more board rule? How about no men trolling for women? I just revisited the description of womansavers and nowhere that I could find does it say that this is a dating site. That type of behavior seems to me to be contradictory to this site‘s purpose. Me, personally, I find it offensive, someone coming here looking for date. Just my 2 cents.
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Wonderful suggestion, Slappy Squirrel! Your suggestion has been added to our Message Board Rules. :)
"13. Members utilizing the site for date seeking purposes will be banned. This is not a dating site."
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| Topic: To LMWS
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| Subject: To LMWS - Posted: 2/16/2007 8:31:08 AM
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| Earthmother wrote: | |
Hi, I was just wondering if it would be possible to get a list of men under rate a man. Kind of a library of men. Search by state, or town.....instead of just name? Thanks for listening...tell me what the rest of you think of this idea. |
Eeeeeek. What the hell is wrong with this thread? The banner column is covering the posts! (Make note to put on to-do list)
Earthmother, if you go to the "Search-A-Guy" page (sub-heading under Rate-A-Guy), there is a function that allows you to search any way you wish, including by state or city. However, I thought about what you said and have decided to add a city search below the name search on the home page to make it easier for new members who don‘t know. Thank you for your suggestions. It has been added to my to-do list that is miles long. :)
Suggestion - if you wish to make a suggestion in the future, please email me directly at womansavers@womansavers.com or try putting it in the General forum where there is more likelyhood I will read it because I try to avoid the "Agree to Disagree" forum and rarely visit unless I am contacted about a problem.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: dont trust the rooms
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| Subject: dont trust the rooms - Posted: 2/16/2007 8:39:26 AM
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Nocturnal1. Any type of chatrooms or message boards are easy prey for trolls. The majority of members who last a long time on this website have developed a pretty tough skin. Excessive moderation has never been my style. Nevertheless, we are working on chat room moderation but it may take some time. Thank you for your patience.
LMWS, Site Creator
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| Topic: just signed up
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| Subject: just signed up - Posted: 2/19/2007 7:33:33 PM
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Momoftwins!
You must have your hands full with two bundles of joy!! I‘m happy that you like the site. Feel free to vent or give advice any time.
Welcome aboard! :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Pictures (for those who asked for them)
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| Subject: Pictures (for those who asked for them) - Posted: 2/20/2007 9:06:41 AM
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| Thanks for sharing DC. You look happy and your "little man" is handsome. He looks like he may be quite popular with the girls in the very near future! :)
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| Topic: Converesation with a married loser on Yahoo..
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| Subject: Converesation with a married loser on Yahoo.. - Posted: 2/20/2007 2:45:12 PM
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Nice work "only happens when it rains." You shut him down quick!
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| Topic: How is everyone today?
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| Subject: How is everyone today? - Posted: 2/20/2007 4:43:40 PM
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My current health issues aside, I am really happy today. I can‘t seem to wipe the smile from my face. That in itself, makes it a beautiful and special day to me....albeit rare.
It was nice briefly chatting with you today "ScornedforLife." Thanks for sharing the story about your Doberman. I treasure every day that I get to spend with my Doberman. I know she will have to leave our earth in the future and I keep telling her every day that when she dies, just wait for me on the other side and I‘ll be there to meet her.
...I‘m listening to KT Tunstall right now. I love her.
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| Topic: I need peace of MIND .
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| Subject: I need peace of MIND . - Posted: 2/27/2007 10:09:17 AM
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PeterPan!
I will help you. First off, do NOT ever sleep with this man again because he is using you and all the other women he is sleeping with because he can. He does not respect you, has lied to you for years and has risked your life and health by having unprotected sex with you. (I am assuming you had unprotected sex because you were together so long.) Ask yourself, what kind of a man would stick his dick in multiple women and risk not only his own health, but ALL the women he "supposedly" loves. You have no idea the bullshit he probably fed the other women about you.
My opinion of this man is very low. He sounds like a conceited, self-centered jerk. He not only used you for sex, but also because you are a great business woman and a hard worker. He is also using his divorce attorney for sex and to help his case against his ex-wife. How convenient for him!! I wouldn‘t trust this guy at all. He probably sleeps with every woman who he thinks can make his life easier, boost his ego and further his riches. COMPLETE SCUM! The women who are currently involved with him will end up getting burned just like you did. It‘s only a matter of time.
I like how you wrote above that you are ready to begin a new chapter in your life without him. However, I must now warn you. Once you completely move on with your life, he won‘t like it and he will want to see if he can control you again by doing and telling you things you want to hear. DON‘T FALL FOR IT. Please don‘t allow yourself to be used again and don‘t risk your health. Make sure you go to a doctor to have yourself tested for HPV (80% of women who have multiple partners or have sex with a man who sleeps around, now have it) and any other STD‘s and Aids tests.
Here are some tips to speed up the healing process. You can do all or a combination of the below.
1. Surround yourself with as many family and friends as possible.
2. Seek professional therapy.
3. Get on medication if you need to in order to help you through this.
4. Strengthen your spiritual side.
5. Focus on any hobby or ANYTHING you enjoy
6. Start exercising more.
7. Improve your diet.
8. Focus on your business and make sure you get him out of anything business related thta he may still be involved with you in.
9. After you have healed, slowly begin dating again if you so wish.
10. Vent here or give advice to other women (and men) who have it much worse than you. It will put things in perspective.
11. Don‘t scold yourself for grieving and/or crying.
12. And most of all....stay as busy as possible during the next few months.
I hope this advice helps you a bit. Print it out as a reminder. 4 years is a long time but many men recover quickly because they are screwing other women already.
Get rid of this loser once and for all and look at the bright side.....you could have gotten married to this jerk. Thank god you didn‘t! :)
 
Big hug,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: my story
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| Subject: my story - Posted: 2/27/2007 2:11:38 PM
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SunnyFL. I just read your story. You absolutely did the right thing by leaving him. Don‘t second guess yourself. He has a LOT of balls. Unbelievable.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: For Rhiannon and other Snow Art Fans! :)
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| Subject: For Rhiannon and other Snow Art Fans! :) - Posted: 2/27/2007 10:58:01 PM
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Very cute!
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| Topic: thanks so much
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| Subject: thanks so much - Posted: 2/28/2007 4:34:58 PM
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Google‘s spiders visit all pages of the site frequently, just like their spiders visit all blogs, newsgroups and message boards. With the internet, one most be very careful who you give your personal information to. The good part is your account allows you to change your location, edit/delete posts or change your name if necessary. However, as per the message board rules, you should stick with one name unless you feel your abuser is on to you.
Stay safe,
LMWS, Site Creator
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| Topic: thanks so much
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| Subject: thanks so much - Posted: 2/28/2007 11:34:47 PM
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| bankgirl wrote: | |
I just googled myself but didn‘t find anything. What happened? That is a little scary.....
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One can only guess how Google‘s spiders and algorythms work because they are forever changing. Sometimes it takes the spiders 1 week, sometimes 6 months.
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| Topic: Have any of y‘all checked your Horoscope on this site...
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| Subject: Have any of y‘all checked your Horoscope on this site... - Posted: 3/6/2007 7:45:12 AM
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Hi Giggles,
I wrote all the astrology on this site, including the relationship compatibility section after doing much research in various books. Astrology is fun and I have always enjoyed searching for various characteristics when I meet people.
Very cool that you found it to be so accurate. Spoooooky!! lol :)
I am a Libra (September 28). I have the same birthdate as Bridget Bardot, Gwyneth Paltrow and Barbara Walters.
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| Topic: Hello everybody who remembers me : )
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| Subject: Hello everybody who remembers me : ) - Posted: 3/8/2007 7:59:25 AM
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Welcome back Honey! You‘ve been through a lot for someone so young in age. However, it really sounds like you are starting to demand respect from the men you choose to have around you now. I‘m proud of you for being able to break out of the cycle.
Good luck in the dating field. Feel free to vent or post here any time.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Please sign petition to stop the upcoming slaughter of baby seals
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| Subject: Please sign petition to stop the upcoming slaughter of baby seals - Posted: 3/10/2007 8:39:59 AM
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Please copy and paste the below link into your browser or visit peta.org to stop the slaughter of the baby seals.
http://getactive.peta.org/campaign/seal_hunt07?rk=0psZBgF1Ofi8E
or visit
http://www.peta.org
It‘s that time of year again: The ice floes off the Canadian coast are about to turn red with the blood of the countless baby harp seals who are slaughtered for their fur.
Words cannot describe the cruelty of the annual seal "hunt," which is really more of a massacre and will begin in just a few days. To stop this yearly atrocity, we must generate an international outcry against the Canadian government. I hope that you will support PETA‘s public call for an end to this slaughter by immediately taking two important actions:
Sign PETA‘s international petition to Canadian Prime Minister Stephen Harper. Our goal is to gather signatures from more than 50,000 people who want to tell the prime minister that "fashion" is no justification for spilling baby seals‘ blood.
Support PETA‘s efforts to stop the slaughter of baby seals and the use of all animals for fur. Your online donation will bring more pressure to bear on the Canadian government and the international fur trade.
Canada‘s annual seal hunt is the largest slaughter of marine animals on Earth. Last year, more than 330,000 baby harp seals were beaten to death so that they could be made into fur coats, collars, and cuffs. The Canadian government claims that hunters only kill adult seals, but 97 percent of the seals killed last year were less than 3 months of age.
Most of these seals are too young to realize that they should try to escape when their killers approach. They lie totally vulnerable on the ice as their heads are bashed in with clubs. Many are dragged across the ice—still conscious—with boat hooks. Often these sensitive animals are skinned alive for their fur. Their bodies are left to rot on the ice because there is no market for their meat.
The Canadian government has authorized hunters to kill more than 335,000 harp seals this year—one of the largest quotas in history. There is no place in the 21st century for this wanton and frivolous cruelty. Canada must end this abomination, but it will take a lot of pressure to compel the government to stop the hunt.
Please support PETA‘s global campaign to stop the baby seal hunt and raise awareness about the cruelty of fur. Your contribution will have an immediate impact on our ability to pressure the Canadian government.
Thank you for your determination to end this terrible injustice.
For all animals,
Ingrid E. Newkirk
President
P.S. Governments respond to public pressure. Please help us meet our goal of 50,000 signatures and tell Prime Minister Harper that Canada will face international condemnation until it brings an end to its annual seal hunt. Then help PETA bring even greater pressure to bear on the Canadian government and the international fur trade by making a generous online donation.
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| Topic: new pics
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| Subject: new pics - Posted: 3/10/2007 3:23:58 PM
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ha ha Very cute, Still Pissed. Thank you for advertising WomanSavers on your car. Very cool! :)
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| Topic: The secret
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| Subject: The secret - Posted: 3/13/2007 11:49:14 AM
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Yes, I‘ve watched it a few times. It has some good points in it that you can take away with you However, it reminds me a bit of a cult-like multi-level marketing shtick.
I thought "What the Bleep" was much better but it never got the publicity that "The Secret" got. Everyone and their dog is plugging "The Secret" now. "What the Bleep" is more about quantum physics and less about marketing. "The Secret" has an entire organization plugging it.
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| Topic: Question for the Married Folks.
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| Subject: Question for the Married Folks. - Posted: 3/13/2007 11:56:16 AM
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It cycles, Aquagirl. I have had friends that dropped off the face of the earth after getting married but then, low and behold, once the relationship problems start, they suddenly start calling again for "girl" talk and support. I feel like I have been a shrink to my girlfriends for over 20 years.
I don‘t see my friends as often because of career demands, my partner and family obligations....and lately, my crappy, on-going health issues. However, I try to make an extra effort to arrange activities, get-togethers or parties where we all meet up. It‘s not easy and yes, it does change your life and your associated relationships when you marry. It takes extra effort and you will quickly see who really cherishes your friendship and who does not.
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| Topic: Woman are hypocrites about ABUSE CLAIMS
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| Subject: Woman are hypocrites about ABUSE CLAIMS - Posted: 3/15/2007 4:09:05 PM
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Ash.
It‘s true. Many women do use the children as tools to seek revenge against a man who caused them pain. Nevertheless, the children should not be involved. Touche made a good point above in that you need to be able to find neutral ground so the two of you are able to communicate regarding the best interests of your children.
Restraining orders can be misued just like anything else in life and they don‘t always work. For example, I filed a restraining order against a 6‘3" man who choked me so hard that my esophagus closed and I couldn‘t breathe for about 30 seconds and then he hit me in the head so violently that I had a handprint on my cheek and I saw stars and passed out. I am only 5 feet tall. I filed a restraining order and he simply would break into my house with a 45 gun and would wait for me to come home and then threaten to commit suicide in front of me. He always took off before the cops got there (which took forever) and the order didn‘t stop him one bit.
It‘s obvious that your ex has been hurt badly and she is lashing out at you in any way possible. I‘m not sure what you did to her because you didn‘t state that in your post. If you cheated, lied, stole, or were verbally/physically or sexually abusive towards her, this is the reason for her behavior. I‘m not saying her behavior is warranted. Call your city about the restraining order and find out what your EXACT rights are regarding visitation of your children and communication via email, phone or snail mail. It sounds like you‘ve completed some of the necessary steps already and now you will need to hire an attorney to fight for your rights. Let your ex vent, give her space, find out your rights and then cautiously, slowly and kindly take action.
"Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned" so stay clear of the fire (your ex) for a while.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Bubble
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| Subject: Bubble - Posted: 3/15/2007 4:25:10 PM
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| Persona Non Grata wrote: |
Why Is Patrick‘s day celebrated at all in America?
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Because Americans love to celebrate and drink. Irish folk have a long history in the US so it‘s fun for them to celebrate their success and traditions and the rest of us non-Irishers, just really want to celebrate with them. I‘ll kiss and hug every Irish person I see on St. Paddy‘s Day!
Plus red-headed people always have the coolest personalities. Firey!
Ladyboy, if you were offended over this ecard, which is much tamer than some of my past ones, you probably won‘t like the Easter one I am working on because it‘s a spoof on "women."
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| Topic: To LMWS
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| Subject: To LMWS - Posted: 3/15/2007 4:35:05 PM
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| Earthmother wrote: | |
thank you LMWS, that was nice of you to reply to my post...even though its here....in the wrong section. Sorry, I will know next time to tell you in a personal email. I know you must many things too do thank you for responding, and taking the time...to help! earthmother
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You‘re very welcome Earthmom. Simple threads like this sometimes turn into a tangled web of posts. Such is the nature of the beast on a minimally moderated, high traffic message board.
Believe it or not, this forum has become the highest trafficked abused women and infidelity message board on the internet so something must be working, controversy or not.
The new city search function is on the home page. :)
LMWS
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| Topic: Am I overreacting??
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| Subject: Am I overreacting?? - Posted: 3/15/2007 5:04:32 PM
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Crown!
Oh no....you plan on marrying this guy in less than 2 weeks? You should consider postponing the wedding if at all possible. Get him or both of you into counseling asap. Your partner is completely disrespecting you by going on and on about other women in front of you. Of course that‘s going to hurt your feelings. That would hurt any woman‘s feelings. Pregnancy is the most beautiful process on earth and the weight women gain should be a joyous occassion because they are feeding a new soul so stop saying that you‘ve gained weight. It‘s normal.
Your partner will probably continue his porn habits and fantasizing behind your back because you don‘t approve. However, the real issue is that he is not making you feel beautiful. There‘s nothing wrong with fantasies but if he doesn‘t appreciate the beauty of the mother of his child and soon-to-be wife and doesn‘t compliment you, he is simply still dealing on a very superficial, exterior level. What makes him think that these "fantasy" women would even give him the time of day? He needs to feel thankful and appreciate what he has. He also needs to understand how he is hurting you and then take action to repair it. I wonder how he would feel if the tables were turned and you kept talking about what a great, handsome, supportive boyfriend/husband so and so has? If he does it again, simply turn around and walk away. Check your local yellow pages for some single or couples counseling sessions if he doesn‘t "get it" after another talk.
Don‘t worry, be happy. What matters most right now is that you and your baby are healthy. :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: my story........
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| Subject: my story........ - Posted: 3/15/2007 5:14:25 PM
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"FinallyFree!"
Absolutely no way should you be friends with him. Friends don‘t treat friends like shit. You have a weak spot for him that you are aware of which is great. That will give you the strength to "shut him down" the next time he tries to push his way into your life. Don‘t allow him to mess up your life again.
You should keep as much distance from him as humanly possible and if he asks why, say you‘re busy or you just don‘t feel comfortable. You should remain on civil terms with him for the sake of your child.
I think you already know the answer yourself on whether to go back or not.......just look at the WomanSaver‘s user name you chose "Finally Free." Now stay that way!
You should be very proud that you are a home owner and you have made it as a single mom. Don‘t allow anyone near yourself, that you wouldn‘t allow your child to be near.
Stay strong and if you feel weak, come here for support. Feel free to vent or give advice to others in need here any time.
Take care,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Help!! Need advice!!
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| Subject: Help!! Need advice!! - Posted: 3/15/2007 5:27:46 PM
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| soxchick33 wrote: | | i have been with my husband since i was 17, i am now 27 we have two children together. i have known of him cheating in the past...and thought once we got married it would stop. i just found out he‘s been talking with someone for a year or more, they have only meet up a couple of times during the year, but never actually slept together. i am devestated. i have to stay i am in college and only work part time, i need help...how do i cope? how do i act towards him? he knows i‘m upset and haven‘t really talked to him in a week. how do i make this liveable? 
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Soxchick!
Men usually don‘t stop cheating because of marriage if they were cheaters in the past. I‘m not sure I believe that your husband only met this woman a couple of times and didn‘t sleep with her. If the intent was of a romantic nature and he wanted to have sex with her, that‘s awful also. You didn‘t give a lot of details so I am assuming certain things.
First off, you need to find out if he is cheating on you or not. Please click the "Read" button above and then read the "Catch a Cheater" section on this site. Then put on your detective hat and start spying. Give your husband lots of space to make some mistakes. There are many simple, easy ways to catch a cheater.
If he hasn‘t slept with her, was it because he respects you or because the other woman wasn‘t willing? All else aside, he shouldn‘t be meeting another woman in secrecy at all.
You need to decide carefully what you will do if you do discover he is cheating. Are you going to stay and give him a second/third/fourth chance? Will you hire an attorney and find out your rights to child support and alimony? Whatever you do, don‘t accuse him until you have facts because almost all men will deny it even when the proof is right in their face. You may want to talk to an attorney before accusing him. You need to be calm, patient and strong for the sake of your and your children‘s financial future.
I think you need a lot more information before you do anything. In the mean time, just keep busy and try not to be too obvious that you are angry or he will cover his tracks.
Keep us posted. Feel free to post here if you are feeling weak or give advice to other women who are worse off than you.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Boobs or no boobs: that is the question
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| Subject: Boobs or no boobs: that is the question - Posted: 3/15/2007 5:46:00 PM
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Tell her the truth. That will be the real test to see if you will still be able to shag her. If she‘s hot for you, even the truth of you leaving and not looking for anything serious, won‘t stop her from jumping your bones and smashing those giant juggies in your face.
Note for PatB regarding dating - It‘s a bad sign when women over-do it with low cleavage and tight shirts. If she doesn‘t go for you, no "big" loss. Big boobs are so over-rated nowadays because everyone just goes out and buys them like a new outfit. Not that there‘s anything wrong with that. lol
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| Topic: Boobs or no boobs: that is the question
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| Subject: Boobs or no boobs: that is the question - Posted: 3/15/2007 5:53:25 PM
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Last and final idea for ya PB:
Ask her out to the movies! (see the video, and you‘ll know what I mean)
OR
Meet up with this guy... He has the right idea:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TVRLL3aSNag
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Euww, that video is funny and creepy at the same time!
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| Topic: The Lament of the Single Woman
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| Subject: The Lament of the Single Woman - Posted: 3/15/2007 6:26:37 PM
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| Patrick Bateman wrote: | |
Yes, but this thread is about how "advancement" affects an individual‘s reaction to relationships such as marriage and monogomy. If we look at "advancement" two-dimensionally, with primal, Darwinian needs on one side and full self-actualization and "advancement" on the other side, then what, in your personal beliefs, are the reactions to relationships that each side of the scale represents? |
PB, I‘m sure you already know that many of your posts come across like a text book....that‘s probably from law school.
I have met men in my life that were not much further evolved than an ape. I have also met men that amazed me on all levels, including sexual, spiritual and intellectual. Some generations of people may be de-volving, whereas others evolving. I see signs of this every day around me. I used to surround myself with ape-like men with ape-like behaviors and now I choose to surround myself with men who I believe to be somewhat, shall I say, enlightened.
I listen to Sirius Satellite every Saturday afternoon to hear a physician called Deepok Chopra speak. He airs on Channel 102, right after Howard Stern‘s stations 100/101 which I never listen to. How many times can Stern ask his lady guests to show their tits?! Same shit, different day. Booooring! Why doesn‘t he just pull out his dick every day while he‘s at it?! Sometimes when I listen to Deepok Chopra it just confuses me and sounds like mumbo jumbo and then other times, things he says really make sense and I practice them in my own life. I think he has some brilliant and interesting theories.
Yes, there are millions of ape-like men with ape-like attitudes in the world. There are also millions of empty-headed bimbos that just depend on their sexuality instead of trying to evolve further and branch out. There‘s nothing wrong with "working" what you‘ve got but I think it‘s very important to strive for more.
Nevertheless, there is a whole other range of new-age men that are being molded who treat women, children and animals with the utmost respect and do not use them for selfish reasons. These are the men that I admire, respect and want to learn from and be close to. So far, so good. Perhaps they will help pull me out of my monkey-ness. :)
Men who are in their senior years and can no longer get it up, sometimes have an awakening. The true test of love does not even involve sex, rather it‘s about caring for one another as people when sex is no longer in the picture.
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| Topic: physician husband and infidelity in med field
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| Subject: physician husband and infidelity in med field - Posted: 3/15/2007 6:49:41 PM
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Dtroyme!
You don‘t need to apologize to her. Just let it go and allow time to eventually make it disappear.
Regarding your mistrust about nurses and doctors, it is quite warranted. Nurses are always trying to get in a married doctor‘s pants for the "status" and in hopes he may divorce his wife. I‘ve seen it happen many times. I‘ve also seen year-long affairs occur between doctor and nurse unbeknownst to the wife. I definitely think he should not travel with her. A woman‘s gut instinct is almost always right so trust yours. There may have been some firtation going on. However, you must at least give your husband some credit for NOT shagging her. Many would have. Is the nurse single or is she in a happy relationship? If she is HAPPILY involved, then you are much safer but if she‘s unhappy, she may be searching for a way out. Are both she and your husband telling the truth?
Try to let it go and focus on the positive points about your husband. However, stay aware and keep your eyes peeled for any suspicious behavior. It sounds like you have already made it clear to your husband that you will leave him if he lies and cheats on you. If you haven‘t, you should do so.
Please click the "Read" section above to read the "Catch a Cheater" section so you are aware of any signs to watch for. For now, it sounds like you still have a physically faithful husband, hopefully, emotionally also.
Good luck with your pregnancy. :) Feel free to seek or give advice to other ladies in need here any time.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: physician husband and infidelity in med field
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| Subject: physician husband and infidelity in med field - Posted: 3/15/2007 7:03:03 PM
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dtroyme!
I responded to your question in the other forum that you posted in first.
LMWS, Site Creator
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| Topic: Porn Epidemic/Porn Cult
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| Subject: Porn Epidemic/Porn Cult - Posted: 3/15/2007 7:20:52 PM
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Thank you for your post. I enjoyed reading it.
Porn is gross, fake, boring and stupid. It‘s so superficial and obvious that the actors in the porn don‘t have a true "connection" to each other and therefore, when I view it, the sexual act itself doesn‘t meld properly. Watching two people get it on that are totally in love is so much better than watching two actors or two people who barely know each other. Just my opinion. The only porn I used to occasionally watch was 70‘s porn. Stuff like "Behind the Green Door" or "The Devil in Miss Jones." Even then it was fake but not even half as fake as it is now.
Making love is beautiful, spiritual, bonding and renewing. There‘s no comparison between fucking in a porn and watching two people make love. Think along the lines of Karma Sutra. Perhaps in the future, many years from now, a new group of evolved men or women will step forward to create a more positive way to get-off ....a way without degrading women and children that is based on love, external AND internal beauty and "real" sexuality. No more kiddie or teen porn. Less exploitation and more respect. That would be a step in the right direction for the young men and women of future generations.
I‘ll be dead 100 years before something like ever happens....if ever. But I can always dream....
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| Topic: Uberbeotch
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| Subject: Uberbeotch - Posted: 3/15/2007 7:23:57 PM
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Please email me some of the cool emoticon symbols you have been inserting into your messages like the porn surfing one, jack-off, flip-off and any others you think we may need to pull out of our emoticon closet in the future. They are so funny!
womansavers@womansavers.com
Muchas Gracias Senorita
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| Topic: The Real Housewives of Orange County(Women in all their glory)
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| Subject: The Real Housewives of Orange County(Women in all their glory) - Posted: 3/15/2007 7:38:03 PM
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Rule #1 Never let women know you have money.
Rule #2 Look past tits and ass for a competent woman who has the ability to make her own $
Rule #3 A trophy girlfriend/wife usually comes with the high price tag of high maintenance. If that‘s what you want, you‘re going to have to pay for it out of your pocketbook.
Most trophy-type women will not be happy with a man who isn‘t loaded because then they can‘t pay for their lifestyle. Wealthy men who are attracted to these types of women usually don‘t see them as much more than another possession. However, there are less superficial women out there who just want a nice guy with a stable job. Orange County, CA is not a great example of women to look up to. Although I have relatives that live there who are very down-to-earth and cool!
You‘re bitter and you‘ve been burned. I suggest listening to Dr. Deepok Chopra for some enlightenment, Sirius Satellite 102 on Saturdays or maybe you can search the net for some of his audio. It‘s working wonders for me. :)
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| Topic: Uberbeotch
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| Subject: Uberbeotch - Posted: 3/15/2007 11:14:51 PM
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| uberbeotch wrote: | |
Will do! And here‘s a special one for our sweet little trolls! 
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ha ha Love it! Yes, please send as many as you can that could be appropriate in times of need on the boards!
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| Topic: Re: ghost key logger - ifeelbetternow
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| Subject: Re: ghost key logger - ifeelbetternow - Posted: 3/15/2007 11:27:34 PM
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Hit the control or shift bar and then proceed to press every letter on the keyboard simultaneously. Sometimes this brings up a "secret" log-in screen prompting the key log user for a user name and password.
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| Topic: My New T-Shirt
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| Subject: My New T-Shirt - Posted: 3/15/2007 11:28:14 PM
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| LOVE IT!
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| Topic: The Real Housewives of Orange County(Women in all their glory)
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| Subject: The Real Housewives of Orange County(Women in all their glory) - Posted: 3/15/2007 11:37:18 PM
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Ohhhh....is he talking about the characters in a TV show? I rarely watch TV so I wouldn‘t know. ....And here I responded like these people were real.
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| Topic: just made my big move
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| Subject: just made my big move - Posted: 3/16/2007 10:04:43 AM
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We will miss you tons too, Still Pissed. It sounds beautiful and peaceful. Hopefully, you can find a way through satellite or cable to get connection in the near future.
Log on whenever you can.
Best,
LMWS
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| Topic: Bubble
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| Subject: Bubble - Posted: 3/16/2007 4:45:17 PM
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Ughhh....I need a break from all these 16-hour days. I am going out tonight to celebrate St. Patrick‘s Day, drink green beer and kiss the Irish.
Don‘t wait up my fellow friends......
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| Topic: The Opened-Toed Shoe Pledge
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| Subject: The Opened-Toed Shoe Pledge - Posted: 3/19/2007 9:43:07 PM
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| Promise! lol :)
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| Topic: After 6 affairs, why do I take him back?
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| Subject: After 6 affairs, why do I take him back? - Posted: 3/20/2007 2:28:34 AM
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Note: If he has had SIX affairs, you should not take him back. He is lying to you, cheating on you and risking your health.
You are taking him back because you have low self-esteem, are scared, and perhaps co-dependent.
Pick up the phone and make an appointment with a divorce attorney to find out your rights. If you need strength, post here. Many of our members are infidelity and abuse survivors and they give excellent advice.
Dump him. This is a no brainer.
Good luck,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
PS. Your post came through blank but all I had to read was your subject line.
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| Topic: Anti sends a message
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| Subject: Anti sends a message - Posted: 3/21/2007 12:51:01 AM
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Anti and I were able to IM yesterday. She will be back soon and she said she is bringing sexy back!!
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That‘s wonderful news! :)
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| Topic: I found myself ‘Rated
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| Subject: I found myself ‘Rated - Posted: 3/22/2007 2:46:22 PM
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Sleepingawake.
Please email me at womansavers@womansavers.com so we may refund you. If you have a paypal account, let me know because that would make the refund easier and very quick. The terms of this website have always stated that only the original author of the post has the ability to edit or delete. WomanSavers may also not edit or delete or we would be liable.
Since you already know the original author, which is usually the case, you should contact the source. Some things which may help you to know are the following:
According to the United States Supreme Court, two items must be proven for a libel (written) law suit.
1. Who wrote the libel (WomanSavers keeps no records or IP‘s so therefore, you must subpoena the author who wrote the information.)
2. You must prove the information is untrue. The truth is 100% defense for libel and is covered under the First Amendment, Freedom of Speech. The original author must testify the written information is untrue in a court of law. A person‘s opinion of another is also covered under the First Amendment.
According to the Electronic Frontier Foundation:
Anyone questioning the legality of anonymous postings on an internet site should familiarize themselves with 47 USC Section 230, the federal law that permits many entities to "host" other people‘s content without being liable for defamation/libel etc. "By its plain language, § 230 creates a federal immunity to any cause of action that would make service providers liable for information originating with a third-party user of the service." Zeran v. AOL, 129 F.3d 327, 330 (4th Cir. 1997). Another recent similar court ruling in favor of Craigslist held that Craigslist was not responsible for the content of posts made by the public. The Internet allows people all over the world to share information and diverse opinions. Without Section 230, no one would risk creating a website, blog, search engine or forum where others express ideas.
The following is a list of websites containing legal information, as well as quotes and legal precedents. Please feel free to research them.
The Anti SLAPP Resource Center
Student Press Law Center
ACLU: Student Cyber Liberties
ACLU Northern California
Electronic Frontier Foundation: Anti-SLAPP Cases
News.com: Relevant e-Bay case
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In November 2006 the California Supreme Court ruled that web sites cannot be sued for libel that was written by other parties.
For other similar websites operating on the same type of premise, please refer to:
http://www.lawyerratingz.com
http://www.ratemds.com
http://www.ratemyprofessors.com
http://www.ratemyteachers.com
I hope you asre able to resolve the issues with your ex.
Good luck,
LMWS
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| Topic: Women Stripped of Colour
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| Subject: Women Stripped of Colour - Posted: 3/22/2007 3:30:39 PM
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| Persona Non Grata wrote: | Ideally a woman should be able to be as ambitious as a man, and not have her femininity called into question. However we are not living in an ideal world, and ambition while it may well impress other women, it will certainly turn a man off.
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That‘s right. We aren‘t living in an ideal world. Men need to conform to standard "beetle" suits also, but they added the accessory of a tie. Women supress more of their sexuality because dressing sexy in an office environment has the potential to interfere with doing business. Just like private schools who require a school uniform so the focus is on learning rather than the outfits, business is based on the same premise. Things are slowly changing and women are beginning to experiment with blue, white, ivory, tan, brown and even white suits. I own various suits but also dress in a black suit when I want someone to listen to me rather than look at my tits and ass. The younger generation is changing the stereotypical office look and when you visit some of the large silicon valley tech companies or businesses run by those under the age of 35, you tend to see simple pants and a collared shirt or even jeans. Many companies have Friday, casual day, in the US where male or female workers may even wear shorts.
I believe women will change more in the next 20 years than we have in centuries. I think women‘s time has come. Although we still need a broader choice of women to run for the US presidency so someone like Hillary Clinton isn‘t our only female choice. The British have already had a female prime minister, ala Margaret Thatcher and let‘s not forget the Queen. The dynamics for women have changed and we are now adapting by becoming more independent than ever, more like men. Like it or not, it continues to move in this direction. I disagree that men are not attracted to business women....perhaps business women that look like Hillary Clinton. However, she is old-school. Many men are tired of carrying the financial weight of women and are welcoming independent women who earn their own salaries into their lives.
The next few rounds of future female business women will continue to evolve and change and I think women will mold their own acceptable fashion standard for business attire combining their femininity with the past masculine standard. In addition, if a woman decides she wishes to have a career and children, the balancing act may be difficult but technology and office mobility will continue to make these feats more manageable.
....Now where‘s that black suit of mine.... :)
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| Topic: The date...don‘t be jealous. It‘s a shocker! ((-=
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| Subject: The date...don‘t be jealous. It‘s a shocker! ((-= - Posted: 3/22/2007 3:50:55 PM
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Warriorprincess, you absolutely did the right thing. Men who do nothing but brag about themselves are a complete turn-off and usually the majority of what they say is over-exaggerated or bullshit anyway. The guy had zero manners. What the hell was he thinking dirty-texting you after just meeting? Geez, if that‘s what he‘s after he should just pick up the phone and dial a pay, sex, chat line. Weirdo. Many men seem to think that basic manners no longer matter to women. Perhaps this is because of the media, porn and/or not being taught in childhood or a combination. Who knows.
You should be proud of yourself for acknowledging his red flags and being strong enough to say "no thanks, I‘ll pass on this one."
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| Topic: I have been cheated, whats the next step?
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| Subject: I have been cheated, whats the next step? - Posted: 3/23/2007 9:18:47 AM
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| nazguljj wrote: | | I am just curious as to why do all the bad things happen to the good people? Im looking for female advice on this because it hurt so bad to lose my best friend, and my GF who has been my closest companinion these past 2 years. I am a very devoted man to my relationships, just for some perspective I am almsot 25 and have only been in 2 long term relations, and have only "known" 2 women in my life. I guess I just want to know what you ladies think. Please reply.
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Bad things happen to good and bad people. Relationships are difficult at best but relationships can even be harder for people in their twenties because they haven‘t been through painful relationships yet and many times don‘t appreciate what they have. Does the FD girlfriend know about this affair?
Your girlfriend disrespected you, lied to you, cheated on you and risked your health. That‘s certainly not love. She must be a good actress. You should definitely not be friends with a woman who treated you like this and I recommend cutting all contact forever.
There are many women who would love to find a great guy so don‘t give up. You just have run into a couple of bad eggs. In your next relationship, make sure that you make it crystal clear that if a woman cheats on you, the relationship will be over.
I‘m very sorry to hear what happened to you and I hope you heal soon.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: I feel like such a whore.
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| Subject: I feel like such a whore. - Posted: 3/23/2007 9:23:16 AM
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| This thread is so old and DC has already resolved the issues. She‘s been through a lot in the past few years. I recommend staying away from all these people and meeting some new ones.
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| Topic: Here‘s a woman that can take care of herself...
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| Subject: Here‘s a woman that can take care of herself... - Posted: 3/23/2007 9:25:58 AM
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Wooaaaa. I wonder how many of the members on here are gun owners????
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| Topic: a sad story
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| Subject: a sad story - Posted: 4/2/2007 4:37:56 PM
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Chelsea, I just read your post as I have been traveling for the past 10 days. I can‘t tell you how sorry I am. I feel rather helpless and I wish you were closer to me so I could give you a great big hug and do something fun to cheer you up. You are such a wonderful, kind, and funny person and you only deserve happiness.
Remember the "lucky bamboo" plant you gave me? After all these months, it just died a few weeks ago and I couldn‘t figure out why. The positioning wasn‘t any different, the water was the same as always....and it suddenly just died. Most likely not related, however, I thought I would mention it.
If there is anything I can do for you, please don‘t hesitate to email me. May your mother rest in peace. She should be proud in what a wonderful daughter she left behind to make the world a better place.
With deepest sympathy,
Your friend,
LMWS
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| Topic: Womansavers Business Suggestion
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| Subject: Womansavers Business Suggestion - Posted: 4/2/2007 4:54:56 PM
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Just returned from 10 days in NYC where various doors have opened and important contact and connections were made.
More things are brewing......and big publicity is on its way in the next few months. I had to take a public speaking course because of my intense fear of speaking in front of crowds and being in front of cameras. My hands would shake so much when I would speak that I would literally drop the papers I was holding. I‘m doing much better now and many of my fears regarding this have been overcome. Baby steps.
What I really need is a volunteer assistant who could take some of the intense work-load off my back so I could focus on bigger things. However, it‘s not easy finding someone to work for free. Hopefully, I will run into someone who may be interested in helping me in exchange for free advertising or promotion of their product.
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| Topic: mike orphanidis
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| Subject: mike orphanidis - Posted: 4/2/2007 4:58:29 PM
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| ataraxia wrote: | |
ok... I‘m currently with this guy and I have been with him for the past 2 years. I‘ve always had a feeling that something is up... but I;m always told that I‘m crazy and paranoid. If anyone knows him or anything about him please please email me and let me know..... it would help so much.... any piece of information. Please!!!
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You should add him into the Rate-A-Guy database and leave your information or post in the General section as not many people read this forum.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Posting?
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| Subject: Posting? - Posted: 4/3/2007 9:05:02 AM
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| anti* wrote: | |
I had trouble posting just now. Glad to know it‘s not just me.
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Please email techsupport@womansavers.com any problems any of you may be having posting and let them know EXACTLY what is happening so they may look into it.
Muchas Gracias,
LMWS, Site Creator
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| Topic: How does bumping posts work?
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| Subject: How does bumping posts work? - Posted: 4/3/2007 8:27:58 PM
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| PandorasBox wrote: | | Could you explain to us how the bumping works on this site? Thank you so much.
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Hi Pandoras Box,
If someone posted in a thread, they can bump it by editing their old post(s) slightly, or by posting a new comment.
I hope this helps clear things up.
Best,
LMWS :)
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| Topic: Emoticons for You!
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| Subject: Emoticons for You! - Posted: 4/4/2007 2:59:05 PM
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Best thread ever!!
Uber will you email me the following emoticons to womansavers@womansavers.com, please?
I love this site
Trust, but verify
I am Queen
and Busty, could you email me the TOW smile. LOVE, how cheesy it looks.
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| Topic: in love and lonely
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| Subject: in love and lonely - Posted: 4/8/2007 3:46:40 PM
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| juju07 wrote: | |
I have been with this man for a little over 4 years now and I love him so damn much I just dont know what to do he constantly cheats and i know it but I can‘t force myself to leave him. I am older than him by about 6 years and I keep thinkin maybe he is just young and maybe he‘ll stop if I give him some time but then I think about it all his friends and brothers are around my age or older and thier still sluts so this has got me real messed up in the head, he is a good man otherwise loving supportive and all he just wont stop sleeping with these other women what am I to do can any one help me????
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Julu!
I agree with the others. You‘re not with a "good" man. You are with a selfish man who is risking your health and others by being so promiscuous. If he hasn‘t respected you enough to stop cheating on you by now, it is doubtful he ever will. It doesn‘t sound like he cares about you enough to commit.
If you continue to be a booty call for this guy, please make sure you have safe sex to protect your health.
Feel free to vent or seek/give advice here any time.
Good luck & Happy Easter!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: I‘m Done
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| Subject: I‘m Done - Posted: 4/22/2007 2:58:06 PM
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Good luck with your surgery Harley. I had major 4-hour surgery last week and can barely get out of bed. I am working on my lap-top in bed now and hope to be recovered in about a week. Being forced to stay in the hospital was a nightmare and I kept throwing up from the morphine. I would rather have the pain, than the horrible nauseau that I get from pain pills and medication. :(
I‘ve witnessed the horrible roller coaster ride with your partner for many years now. The bad news is he screwed you over. The good news is that you‘ve finally hit rock bottom and I hope you will NEVER take him back. You don‘t need him. You are tough, kind and a very hard worker. Please don‘t ever go back to him, no matter if he cries, begs or threatens. He‘s just no good!
Best wishes,
Little Miss W.
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| Topic: i need advice
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| Subject: i need advice - Posted: 4/22/2007 3:10:32 PM
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| brakeableGirl wrote: |
I don‘t know if I should stay with him or not ... I mean I was with him the whole time while he was in Iraq and before that. it gets more confusing. Iam 3mon pregnant and in a way i feel like if i leave him i will be stuck. what should i do ? |
Brakeable Girl!
Why are you with a man who:
1. Lies to you
2. Hides things from you
3. Corresponds flirtatiously with other women while saying he is single
4. Has physically abused you
5. Ignores you
6. Is controlling and does not allow you the freedom to go out with your friends
Please read the above list over and over until a lightbulb goes off in your head. Why are you staying with this man? Do you think he will change and suddenly start being nice? He won‘t. I am so sorry that your baby‘s father is abusive and will most likely be a cheater. I recommend you make arrangements to stay with family and/or friends and get the best job possible now because it is going to be very difficult for you for the next while as a single mother. However, it could be worse. You could get married to this man and then watch how bad his treatment would get of you. Please do not ever become financially dependent on him. Find out your rights and make sure you get child support payments for the sake of your daughter.
Please respect yourself and your child enough to not accept abusive behavior. This is not normal and you are not in a good relationship. I think from the tone of your email you already know that. Therefore, now it‘s time to take careful action. Make a master plan and then break away. Be prepared for him to beg, cry and promise to change......but he won‘t. He will only do this to gain control of you and then the abuse will start again. Do NOT trust him.
Feel free to vent or seek advice here any time. Again, re-read what I wrote above. I have read so many stories such as yours over the years and the outcomes are always the same and rarely, if ever, have a happy ending.
Think of yourself, think of your child.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: New here & have a question
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| Subject: New here & have a question - Posted: 4/22/2007 3:18:53 PM
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Yes, this is the beginning of emotional, verbal and physical abuse. You should seriously reconsider marrying this person.
Why are you marrying someone who is already verbally abusive towards you and calls you names? This not normal and it is certainly not a part of a healthy relationship. You are currently being shown some MAJOR red flags that will affect the rest of your life if you proceed further. If you knowingly get married, you will nobody to blame for his escallating abuse except yourself because you were aware beforehand.
His hitting you whilst knocking down the door may have been an accident. However, what type of man kicks down a door to begin with? I‘ll tell you what kind....the kind that does not have control of his temper.
Many years ago my mother gave me some valuable advice. She said any type of behavior that occurs while dating/courting, will escalate 10-fold after you are married.
There‘s absolutely no reason why you can‘t call this wedding off until you feel comfortable. There is no way in hell I would marry someone who was doing what your partner is.
You sound strong and like a hard worker. Don‘t let an abusive man destory everything you have worked for.
Please proceed with caution.
Feel free to vent or give advice here any time.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Surgery Update
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| Subject: Surgery Update - Posted: 4/24/2007 11:30:36 AM
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For those of you who were not aware, I had 4 hour surgery last week and am recovering. I was in the hospital for a few days and have been bed ridden ever since. I am still in a shit load of pain and can‘t go very long without Percocet. I am able to get in a few hours of work everyday from my laptop in bed. The procedure I had done is called Uterine Fibroid Embolization. Apparently, approx. 80% of women have fibroids but if you produce too much Estrogen they can grow out of control. I am producing too much Estrogen and that‘s the reason I am sooo feminine! bwhahaha! (just kidding) I had two large non-malignant fibroids which they cut the blood supply off to and it takes up to 6 months or more for them to shrink and die. In the mean time, the fibroids release all sorts of toxins which make you feel like you have the flu.
Dr. WomanSaver has been a tremendous support helping me research various procedures and listening to be whine and complain about how crappy I feel.
On a scale of 1 to 10, the cramping and lower back pain fluctuates from 2 to 10 throughout every day. I hope to be up and about again by next week. I am sleeping 16 hours per day which makes up for the many months where I only slept 4-5 hours per night.
I have an hour long radio interview on Friday so I need to pull myself together for that.
Just wanted to give everyone an update.
xo,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
 
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| Topic: Surgery Update
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| Subject: Surgery Update - Posted: 4/25/2007 10:45:44 AM
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| lorrie wrote: | | well can we tune in to the radio and hear the interview? all the best with your recovery, love lorrie p.s. how are the grannies? |
You guys can call in on Friday‘s radio show if you like. It‘s a NY talk radio show and I‘ll post the recording on the site so you guys can listen if you miss it. I am the sole guest for the hour. I‘ve done quite a few radio interviews, just never one this long. I‘ll have to drink a cup of coffee to get my yacker going.
If any WomanSaver‘s members wish to tell their stories of abuse or infidelity on the show or ask me questions or argue or debate with me, you can call 631-888-8811 this FRIDAY at 6pm Eastern Standard Time, right in the middle of NY rush hour. That‘s the stations number. I‘m not sure if it will be live or pre-recorded.
Regarding the cost of this surgery, I haven‘t received the bill yet but I believe it is under US$10K and my insurance covers 80%. Not looking forward to that bill. :( I have a huge $2K yearly deductible in order to keep my monthly insurance payments lower but I already met that for this year.
I didn‘t have to pay for anesthesia because I was AWAKE during the first 5 minutes of the surgery and then got groggy from the morphine drip. I was so freaked out about the surgery that I stayed up all night before in hopes that I would sleep most of the next day in the hospital. I am a high-anxiety, type of girl. Unfortunately, I had some loud-mouthed woman in my room next to me who would not shut up and I had to request another room so I could get some sleep. It took them 4 hours to find me another room.
A pap smear can not detect fibroids. You must request an ultrasound.
I had lasik surgery 15 years ago and still have 15-20 vision. That‘s totally not a big deal in regards to recovery.
Thanks for all the good wishes. I will be home again by Friday and should be back with a vengence next week. I‘ve been sleeping 16 hours daily.
I have some more cool website stuff coming up for you guys!!!!
I want out of this bed so bad I can hardly stand it.
Little Miss WomanSaver
P.S. Lorrie, one granny went into a home where she has her own semi-apartment with her own furniture which she loves because she can cook...or not. The other granny is having stubborn attitude problems and is currently not speaking to any members of our family, including me, for no reason. Joy, joy. (It‘s always something!)
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| Topic: Call 631-888-8811 today (FRI) @ 3pPST/6EST to be on the radio!!
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| Subject: Call 631-888-8811 today (FRI) @ 3pPST/6EST to be on the radio!! - Posted: 4/27/2007 1:55:51 PM
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Call 631-888-8811 today (FRI) @ 3pPST/6EST to be on radio to tell your story or talk with me!
Have questions?
Want to debate?
Want to share your story of abuse?
Want to share your story of survival?
Now is your chance. I will be doing an hour long talk radio guest spot and would love to hear your voices! :)
For those of you who miss it, Iwill post the interview on the site next week.
Hope to hear from you! :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Personal thing.
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| Subject: Personal thing. - Posted: 4/27/2007 2:02:01 PM
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Give them a blow job while humming "I love WomanSavers."
hahahaha!!
Just kidding.
Seriously, I don‘t think it‘s any different than spending time playing video games.
I‘m starting to feel much better since my surgery. :)
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| Topic: Call 631-888-8811 today (FRI) @ 3pPST/6EST to be on the radio!!
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| Subject: Call 631-888-8811 today (FRI) @ 3pPST/6EST to be on the radio!! - Posted: 4/27/2007 3:59:35 PM
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| Interview was awesome!!
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| Topic: Anyone know of a man who cheated during wife‘s/gf‘s pregnancy?
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| Subject: Anyone know of a man who cheated during wife‘s/gf‘s pregnancy? - Posted: 5/1/2007 2:00:26 AM
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| JScribe wrote: | |
I‘m writing an article about male infidelity during pregnancy and I‘m looking for some insight.
Why do men go outside of their relationships while their wives or girlfriends are pregnant? How often to you think this happens? If anyone has any experience in this area, I‘d so appreciate your insights and feedback.
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Please email your request to womansavers@womansavers.com
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| Topic: Vance AKA Vince Michael Hoffman
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| Subject: Vance AKA Vince Michael Hoffman - Posted: 5/1/2007 10:48:49 AM
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| lizieane wrote: | |
He is a lier, cheat, thief and BAD! He is currently in the Strasburge, Byers, CO area looking for someone to take care of him and support his habit. He cheated on a 15 yr marriage and walked out AFTER doing her in our bed. Why? She doesn‘t know him well enough yet to know he DOESNT WORK and will take all to get high. Beware Brenda Day
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Please post this in the "Rate-a-guy" database above because it will eventually disappear here.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Saying Farewell
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| Subject: Saying Farewell - Posted: 5/6/2007 9:41:41 PM
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| Rhiannon wrote: | |
To my friends at WomanSavers: I have made the decision that it is time for me to move on. I‘ve had a wonderful time on this site since I joined two years ago. It is with a lot of sadness that I say good bye. LMWS - I just want to say that I appreciate you creating this website for women. It has been the source of a lot of healing for a lot of women - including me. When I came here, I was so angry at men, and so deeply hurt in ways that I could not even acknowledge to myself. Trying to be tough so that I could cope with being a single parent was what I had to do to survive. Somehow, in coming here every day, posting messages, giving advice, hanging out in chat, and laughing with fellow members, so much of that anger (and defensiveness) went away. I‘ve been able to write again. I am able to cry again. I am even able to love again.
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Say it ain‘t so!!! Rhiannon, oh kind animal lover and friend to women, you are going to be missed so much. I have always enjoyed reading your advice as you are one smart cookie. I‘m so glad you have healed and that this website was able to help in your journey.
Don‘t stay missing in action forever. Every once in a while, do duck your head in here and let us know how you are doing.
You have been a huge asset to this site and a wonderful example of healing and courage.
Thank you for honoring us with your presence.
If you ever need anything, please let me know.
Best always,
"Little Miss WomanSaver" :)
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| Topic: *SPREAD THE SHARING!*
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| Subject: *SPREAD THE SHARING!* - Posted: 5/6/2007 11:02:33 PM
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| anti* wrote: | |
This is almost like the light the candle thing I posted awhile back. Counrtry Crock will donate a meal to America‘s Second Harvest to feed those in need for each story posted. Follow the link and post: http://www.spreadthesharing.com
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Done!
Great post anti.
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| Topic: Repulseican Or Demoncrat in 2008?
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| Subject: Repulseican Or Demoncrat in 2008? - Posted: 5/7/2007 2:23:45 PM
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| Democrat
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| Topic: HOw do I get a rare man award?
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| Subject: HOw do I get a rare man award? - Posted: 5/8/2007 8:09:38 AM
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| chaos40 wrote: | |
I want one
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I give out "Rare Man" awards based on how long you have been on the site and how much constructive, helpful advice I think you have given women in need.
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| Topic: your political dream team for president
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| Subject: your political dream team for president - Posted: 5/8/2007 8:40:33 AM
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| TiredOfWomen wrote: | |
Mitt Romney - Vice President |
You like Mitt Romney, eh TOW? The below photo was taken of me and Mitt about six months ago. I thought you might enjoy it. :)
Ideal Political Team:
President - Deppak Chopra
Vice Pres - Oprah Winfrey
Great thread, Lorrie!
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| Topic: HOw do I get a rare man award?
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| Subject: HOw do I get a rare man award? - Posted: 5/8/2007 2:54:40 PM
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| chaos40 wrote: | |
that‘s 3 in favor of a "rare troll" award LMWS. Can I have my award please??????
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I hereby dub thee, "Rare King Troll."
See your beautiful, shiny, gold crown. May I kiss your shiny, black, royal shoes?
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| Topic: Bubble
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| Subject: Bubble - Posted: 5/8/2007 9:16:33 PM
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| I watched it and loved it. "The Simpsons" is my favorite show of all time. The writers and graphic artists are pure genius!
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| Topic: Repulseican Or Demoncrat in 2008?
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| Subject: Repulseican Or Demoncrat in 2008? - Posted: 5/9/2007 3:46:29 PM
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Obama for President. I‘m backing Oprah‘s opinions on this one. I‘m liberal and a hard-core environmentalist. I wish there was an in-between party because I don‘t agree with all of the Democrats viewpoints, especially higher taxes and paying for those who don‘t want to work or simply pop out children and suck off the system. However, the people who voted for Bush can now see what an unforgivable mess he created and still continues to waste money on. The whole "war on terror" was handled improperly from the very beginning. I cried when Bush won and am looking forward to the day he‘s out! To this day, I will never understand why people voted for him. Most midwestern states always vote Republican and East and West Coasters like NY and CA usually vote Democract. Gut intinct tells me that most of those who lost loved ones in this joke-of-a-war will not vote Republican again. I wouldn‘t. I am very anti-war. Just send in some assasins, kill the key organizers that are dangerous and then let countries handle their own issues. We have enough issues of our own in the US to deal with.
Although, I personally really like Mitt Romney. Very intelligent, nice guy with a beautiful wife and strong family values. Just not sure if the country is ready for a Mormon president.
Uhhhh....I just broke my rule. I NEVER discuss politics, religion or abortion because it makes people psycho.
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| Topic: WARNING: THIS GUY IS VERY DANGEROUS
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| Subject: WARNING: THIS GUY IS VERY DANGEROUS - Posted: 5/11/2007 10:06:47 AM
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Please add his name to the "Rate-A-Guy" database by clicking the menu button above because it will eventually disappear here.
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| Topic: My last day at work today.
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| Subject: My last day at work today. - Posted: 5/15/2007 11:18:15 AM
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Man, Bubble. You sure are making some significant changes in your life. NO FEAR!
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| Topic: Paul Ledbetter of Pflugerville
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| Subject: Paul Ledbetter of Pflugerville - Posted: 5/20/2007 6:37:37 PM
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You should post his info in the "Rate-A-Guy" database because it will eventually disappear here.
....at least your girlfriend was spared a life-time of misery by being with this guy. He may have already found his 5th victim to con by now.
She‘s lucky she has a caring friend like you.
Best, :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Paul Ledbetter of Pflugerville
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| Subject: Paul Ledbetter of Pflugerville - Posted: 5/21/2007 12:34:47 AM
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| samm wrote: | |
I would but can‘t afford it right now
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It‘s free. :)
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| Topic: HAPPY BIRTHDAY ANTI!!!
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| Subject: HAPPY BIRTHDAY ANTI!!! - Posted: 5/21/2007 10:59:09 AM
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Happy Birthday Anti....wherever you may be!!
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| Topic: He Had It Comin‘
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| Subject: He Had It Comin‘ - Posted: 5/21/2007 9:20:41 PM
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Stiletto!
Wow....what a survival story. Karma really did work in your case. Sometimes overcoming our greatest fears turns out to be the best decisions we make.
Congratulations on your success! I hope you enjoy my site.
Best, :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Paul Ledbetter of Pflugerville
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| Subject: Paul Ledbetter of Pflugerville - Posted: 5/21/2007 9:22:16 PM
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| samm wrote: | |
then I am not seeing how to do it or I am not doing it right
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Just click the "Rate-A-Guy" menu button on the upper right above and fill in the information, agree to terms and submit. There is a processing fee to edit or delete if you change your mind in the future but not to submit.
....Have at it! :)
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| Topic: Be ware of the Sipmann
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| Subject: Be ware of the Sipmann - Posted: 5/22/2007 8:47:14 AM
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Unfortunately, I have heard some very scary and gross stories regarding police officers infidelity and sex in my years. I‘m sure he has lots of victims.
Be sure and add his info into the rate-a-guy database because it will eventually disappear here.
Feel free to seek or give advice to other ladies in need here any time.
Best,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: Wow is my heart bleeding for this whore....
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| Subject: Wow is my heart bleeding for this whore.... - Posted: 5/22/2007 8:49:47 AM
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| I feel sorry for these women because they don‘t realize they are being used. These guys are playing them like puppets. The men are the smart ones because they are getting their cake and eating it too.
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| Topic: A personal "thank you"
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| Subject: A personal "thank you" - Posted: 5/25/2007 10:09:58 AM
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I want to personally "thank" all the regular members who support this site and take the time to unselfishly help new members in need with their advice.
You guys are strong, chase of trolls and are utilizing the "Agree to Disagree" forum when necessary with very little need for moderation. Running a controversial message board is tough but with such a strong foundation, it‘s much easier. I really appreciate you all and if we were all in a room together, I would give everyone of you a kiss and a hug of thanks.
Get ready for the next big launch.....WOMANSAVERS RADIO! For your listening pleasure. All playlists were personally chosen by me. Coming VERY soon in the Audio section above (far right menu button)!!!
"THANK YOU" EVERYONE! Have a great, looooong, Memorial Day Holiday.
Hopefully, that idiot Bush can get the rest of our troops home safely and soon.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Creator
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| Topic: A personal
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| Subject: A personal - Posted: 5/25/2007 12:10:15 PM
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| BustySpumonte wrote: | |
LMWS, I listened to your last radio interview. Are you still doing something with DDHG? It peeked my curiosity. And WOW are we going to be able to listen to music while we are here? Sounds wonderful.
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Yes and yes. However, as you all know in life, everything is a slow process. However, it has always been extremely important to me to give my members the most fun "entertainment" on the net! You will LOVE WomanSavers Radio. :)
Get ready to jam!
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| Topic: A personal
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| Subject: A personal - Posted: 5/26/2007 12:46:03 PM
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| AquaGirl wrote: |
Just checking in. How have you been?
I just saw your Spring boobie bunny cartoon, and it made me laugh so thanks for that... How‘d you come up with that? You‘re one crazy chick... and I mean that in a totally good way! :)
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Hi Aqua,
Some days I‘m smiling and happy, other days it takes everything I‘ve got just to get out of bed. Those damn fibroids don‘t feel any different since the surgery and it‘s been over a month and nothing. Doctor said I may not see results for 3 to 6 months. And the worst part is I have been e-mailing WomanSaver member "Chick" (nurse) and she said she did ultra sound follow-ups on a hand full of women 6 months to a year after who also had uterine fibroid embolization and they had NO fibroid shrinkage whatsoever. That reminds me of the Los Angeles doctors who just got indicted for doing 10 MILLION $ worth of unecessary surgeries. When I asked my doctor what the success rate was, she replied that nobody had ever returned for further work or a follow up so they had no studies. Nevertheless, still no relief from any of the symptoms. (Sigh)
I came up with the new ecard from a photo of some painted boobs that I saw. ha ha ha! It made me laugh so I took it one step further. :)
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| Topic: WomanSaver‘s Radio has launched so JAM OUT!! :)
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| Subject: WomanSaver‘s Radio has launched so JAM OUT!! :) - Posted: 5/30/2007 9:05:54 PM
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I‘m proud to announce "WomanSavers Radio!"
I personally picked out over 600 songs and categorized them into genres depending upon your mood. You can now:
* Listen while you hang out on the message board
* Open a separate window and keep listening while you surf the net
* Play tunes off your computer while you do something else
There is something for everyone so check it out!
There are two ways to get there.
1. Click the "Radio" text link in the upper right-hand of the main menu banner
2. Click the "Video" menu tab and then "Audio" from the drop-down menu.
http://www.womansavers.com/womens_radio.asp
There are some GREAT tunes and all are in my personal collection. Enjoy everyone! :)
   
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: happy happy birthday busty
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| Subject: happy happy birthday busty - Posted: 5/31/2007 5:37:15 PM
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Happy Birthday Busty!!!
You are a valuable member of the site and I‘m glad you stuck around.
You are loved.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Founder
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| Topic: WomanSaver‘s Radio has launched so JAM OUT!! :)
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| Subject: WomanSaver‘s Radio has launched so JAM OUT!! :) - Posted: 5/31/2007 5:39:22 PM
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| bluesparrow wrote: | |
Thank you so much LittleMiss! I still can‘t get those dang emoticons to work, but the music is GREAT! Life is good! :o)
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Hi BlueSparrow!
Please email exactly the problems you are having and the browser you are using to techsupport@womansavers.com.
To everyone else, sorry I can‘t take any requests because I am really busy working on the next BIG project for you guys. :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Founder
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| Topic: This is a Real Photograph!
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| Subject: This is a Real Photograph! - Posted: 6/8/2007 6:03:47 PM
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Great thread!
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| Topic: Hey its me, any veterns still around!!! Hiya LMWS!!!
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| Subject: Hey its me, any veterns still around!!! Hiya LMWS!!! - Posted: 6/29/2007 7:20:09 PM
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| escvelocity wrote: | |
Hey everyone, i just wanted to let you know, i am alive and well :) I miss all of you soooo much...i like the updates on the site too!!!
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Hi Escvelocity!
Long time no see!! Tell us what has been happening in your life!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: I-Phone Review
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| Subject: I-Phone Review - Posted: 7/3/2007 7:23:24 AM
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I am the proud owner of the new "i-phone." Here is my review.
A must for a Mac user (which I am).
PROS:
- Ability to import and sync all your addresses, notes, calendar, etc... from Mac (I imported over 800 addresses instantaneously)
- Very large screen that is high resolution
- Instant stock quotes, temperatures and google maps zoom ability
- Youtube is stock on home screen, visually clear and easy to access
- The only phone that offers great internet browsing capabilities (and fairly fast too)
- Holds about 4-5 movies with about 2.5 viewing hours per battery charge
- Syncs with my I-pod so I can listen to music from my phone
- Easy email accessability
- Easy texting
- Camera resolution is quite good
- Light weight, hot looking, slim design
- Easy to learn
- GPS maps (no need to rent-a-car and pay extra for GPS service because you can pull up any address on your phone with directions instantly) LOVE THIS!
- Huge screen display that flips both directions
CONS:
- $600 for 8 GB
- AT & T/Cingular sole carrier
- Safari is the only compatible internet browser and does not show Flash
- Battery life needs to be longer
- Keyboard numeric letters too small (This is my biggest complaint! You press the keys with the pads of your fingers and it is easy to hit the wrong key because they aren‘t that large. I can‘t imagine how difficult typing could be for someone with very fat fingers. I hope they adapt for plug-in or wireless keyboard soon.)
If they work out the keyboard and battery issues, this phone would be close to perfect.
Happy 4th of July Holiday Everyone!!!! :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: I-Phone Review
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| Subject: I-Phone Review - Posted: 7/3/2007 5:13:16 PM
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| lorrie wrote: | | if you ain‘t tried ice cold water melon, the round ones, from mexico, you just don‘t know what your missing. |
Mmmmmm.....I love watermelon and eat it constantly throughout the summer. It rehydrates you better than anything.
Lorrie, isn‘t your Avatar Identity Symbol a photo of the Hard Rock in Vegas? I recognize the bar underneath the waterfall or maybe they all have similar layouts. The pool party there on Sundays is out of control. They have beds around the pool. I believe the Mandalay and Hard Rock still have topless Sundays. People watching in Vegas is one of my favorite pass-times. I could do it for hours.
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| Topic: I love Amy Winehouse!
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| Subject: I love Amy Winehouse! - Posted: 7/5/2007 4:09:59 PM
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I love British Amy Winehouse.
http://youtube.com/watch?v=LD5sahXoj0U
http://youtube.com/watch?v=HFVM5pVTwkM&mode=related&search=
Very different, great voice! She‘s going to be a huge star.
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| Topic: I love Amy Winehouse!
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| Subject: I love Amy Winehouse! - Posted: 7/6/2007 9:14:58 AM
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| still pissed wrote: |
i do like her shit to. yes the rehab thing is awesome.... i still think everyone here needs to listen to ani di franco
http://youtube.com/watch?v=1YS0GZYLidM
http://youtube.com/watch?v=9S0k-QrWYlU
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Ani Di Franco is awesome!! I‘ve been listening to her for years before anyone knew who she was. She plays in small, local clubs all the time and I have seen her perform a few times.
She is an open lesbian and has a great stage presence.
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| Topic: how did your husband propose to you?
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| Subject: how did your husband propose to you? - Posted: 7/10/2007 10:07:03 AM
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I LOVE reading these. Okay married and divorced ladies, please post some more stories on how your men proposed. The creative ones are really fun to read! :)
The "Whopper" one is funny!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: bigamy
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| Subject: bigamy - Posted: 7/10/2007 4:18:25 PM
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| kissmycloud wrote: | |
How can you find out if a man has more that one wife? I have checked on publicdata without success. I even had a lawyer run a background check. He said you had to check in the county records. This guy moves around alot.
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Kissmycloud.
Since marriage registries are not yet connected from state to state, you will need to check all of the state registries where you suspect him to be married.
I know they are working to create a master marriage database but am not sure when this will happen.
You may also check the womansavers.com database by searching entire states for his first and/or last name in various cities.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: anyone in maine
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| Subject: anyone in maine - Posted: 7/10/2007 4:23:47 PM
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| still pissed wrote: |
jef heward in wiscasset me is no good. i don‘t really want to go into details but trust me (most of ya‘ll know my reputation here)
he‘s no good!!!
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Did you add him into the Rate-A-Guy database? If not, you should.
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| Topic: *****Dr. WomanSaver‘s Nutrition and Exercise Tips*****
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| Subject: *****Dr. WomanSaver‘s Nutrition and Exercise Tips***** - Posted: 7/12/2007 10:50:47 AM
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Dr. WomanSaver is my hero and mentor!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: good evening tech support
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| Subject: good evening tech support - Posted: 7/12/2007 11:03:40 AM
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I do not know how to solve this problem. If any members do, please post. Only long-time posters will be able to understand the below. Anyone?
LMWS, Site Founder
Here‘s what our programmer had to say:
"The way it is setup is when someone looks at the topic and sees all the replies it shows XXX amount per page. If I link that page number and send the email to them (to notify them of a response) and have it automatically go to the end of the pages, if it took them several days to catch that email, then there may be 5 new pages of posts on that topic so linking them to the end or to the current number of pages will still be off.
What if someone, who posted a ton on a particular subject decides they don‘t want to be apart of it and goes in and deletes all their posts on a topic that had 10 pages and after they deleted their post there were now only 8 pages, but someone got a direct link to page 9 of that topic, when they click the link in the email it will take them to a dead
page because there are only 8 pages now not 10. (right now if that happens and someone manually goes into the url and changes it to a number that doesn‘t exist it will redirect them to page one.)
There is no way to do what the members are asking. Once they get to the start of the post all they have to do to get to the end of it is click on one button."
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| Topic: another website like this one?
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| Subject: another website like this one? - Posted: 7/15/2007 1:46:09 PM
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| http://www.rateb4udate.com
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| Topic: dear little miss women saver
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| Subject: dear little miss women saver - Posted: 7/16/2007 11:59:00 PM
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| lorrie wrote: | | how are the grannies? and how are you since your surgery? are you happy with the results? do you feel better? busty wants to know how is your love life? did we see you got engaged? what has been happening in your neck of the woods? any fires or floods or just stinking drough and heat? i feel like we haven‘t seen you in a while and i want to know how your are doing. love lorrie
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Hi Lorrie,
Granny(s) are hanging in there and my surgery is still healing. Sometimes I still get really bad cramping but the doctors simply tell me to be patient and that it takes time for the uterine fibroids to shrink and die.
My love life is fine and no, I am definitely not engaged. I have never been married and if I ever decide I want to go down the marriage road, I will definitely let you guys know. I would not even consider marrying a man unless I had dated him for many years.
The reason I haven‘t been around a lot is because I am so busy doing interviews all the time, plus I am traveling a lot. I‘m sure everyone has noticed all the radio interviews I have been recently doing and that is only a small portion of them. I have also done some video interviews but no talk shows......yet. All in due time. Plus, the ebook I am writing is taking forever. I want it to be REALLY good and entertaining.
Behind the scenes, I am working on 2 more ecards and I just finished the arcade-quality Pirate Pilage online game for women.
Tomorrow I am doing an interview with the Toronto Sun. :)
Thanks for asking, Lor. If anything really exciting happens, I‘ll let you know.
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| Topic: Paul Adams
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| Subject: Paul Adams - Posted: 7/17/2007 12:06:07 AM
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| xshannon1971x wrote: | |
To all, I had an relationship with Paul Adams, an correctional officer in Plainfield Indiana. He hurted me very much as I found out that he is married, his wife and son live in Kentucky. This hurts so much! What can I do?
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Shanon.
The best revenge is living well and not wasting any more of your energy
and time on him. If you want, add him into the rate-a-guy database so
he doesn‘t do the same to the next victim.
You can come here for support. Sometimes giving advice to other women
in need on these boards helps speed up the healing process. You could
try that.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: Woman knows her place
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| Subject: Woman knows her place - Posted: 7/17/2007 2:34:01 PM
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ha ha ha ha!!!!!
Best joke of the week!! Thanks Hillary.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: Why are so many women starting to look like Stepford Wife Strippers?
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| Subject: Why are so many women starting to look like Stepford Wife Strippers? - Posted: 7/19/2007 2:26:57 PM
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What is going on with the way women are looking nowadays? I have been traveling quite a bit lately and is it just me or are more and more women looking the same?
I can only describe this look like a slutty Stepford Wife who strips...kind of like a fem-bot. It is especially prevelant in states such as Arizona, Nevada, Texas and Florida.
Here is the description:
- Manadatory giant implants that look so fake and hard it‘s ridiculous and they all look like they have been done by the same plastic surgeon
- Really low cut shirts so fake boobs are in your face and even more obvious
- Bleached blonde hair usually with darker brown streaks throughout with extensions and then flat ironed
- Tanning booth or fake tanner for an orangy plastic look
- French tip acrylic nails
- Fairly skinny bodies completely out of proportion with giant boobs
- Fake or real designer purses with labels everywhere
- Usually some type of tattoo i.e., butterfly, lower back, Asian symbol (no offense to those who have tattoos because I can appreciate great artwork in tattoos when I see it or simply a fun one)
- Tons of lip gloss and heavy eye make-up
Is this what men find attractive now and that is why so many women are cloning themselves into this? Has the Pamela Anderson look become the look that men now perceive as being "hot" and sexy? I can only answer yes to this question because that is what many strippers, playmates, and porn stars look like and that is the type of woman men pay to get off on and pay attention to.
If I were a man, this would gross me out and turn me off, not on. As a woman, sometimes when I am around women like this, they irritate the hell out of me and I have to frequently remind myself to try and not judge....and not to bitch-slap them. ha ha j/k
These women are being produced like barbies on a conveyor belt. I find this look not only phony looking but highly unattractive and un-sexy, not to mention very sleazy looking.
I don‘t get it. Since when has looking like a stripper become the look that the average woman is striving for and that is what is now considered beautiful by today‘s standards?
Okay.....end of rant.
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| Topic: Why are so many women starting to look like Stepford Wife Strippers?
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| Subject: Why are so many women starting to look like Stepford Wife Strippers? - Posted: 7/19/2007 2:57:00 PM
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| Sassafras wrote: | | Hi Little Miss...great to see you! It is depressing, isn‘t it? I have come to the sad (and okay, bitter) conclusion that most men are sheep and want a woman that fits some kind of standard that all men understand and live by, even if it‘s low. Being at all exotic looking has really gone out of style. The stripper/Stepford look is uniformly recognized by men as "hot," so more and more women are conforming to the look. Depressing, I tell you!
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However, here is the thing. If you are a woman who is already utilizing this fake, high-maintenance look, you may think other women who look as you do are attractive. But I think most women who don‘t look like that, or choose not to look like that, don‘t think that look is attractive at all. I am an example of that. My best girlfriend has done the Stepford Wife Stripper look for the last 10 years and I am always begging her to change her look but she won‘t because it gets her attention from men.
The last time I was visiting my grandmother in Germany, she saw an episode of Baywatch and she looked at me and said, "why are all the women‘s bodies in the US so disproportionate and distorted and they all have white hair" i.e., giant implants with skinny bodies? I replied, "because that‘s what men want to see and it‘s what sells grandma." She couldn‘t see the sexuality in it because all she saw was how it just looked "wrong."
The male example of a Stepford Husband would be the guys who live at the gym, fake tan, wear really tight shirts, streak their hair also and all have the Gotti gangster haircut that is spiked upwards with lots of gel.
.....Maybe I am just becoming really old fashioned...
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| Topic: Tea Tree Oil
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| Subject: Tea Tree Oil - Posted: 7/19/2007 7:18:44 PM
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| Hillary wrote: | |
Have any of you used this as an antisiptic? Does it work?
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I love Tea Tree Oil. I use it in the shower.
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| Topic: Why are so many women starting to look like Stepford Wife Strippers?
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| Subject: Why are so many women starting to look like Stepford Wife Strippers? - Posted: 7/19/2007 10:11:45 PM
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WomanSavers = drama
Just one big happy family here! (group hug)
Long time no see, Wire.
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| Topic: Why tarot reading is not cool
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| Subject: Why tarot reading is not cool - Posted: 7/20/2007 11:46:06 AM
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Tarot readers are promoting stereotypes which have been harmful to the interests of game players. Many non-occult card game websites are being targeted by "psychic reading" Google ads which are inappropriate to their content. Card game websites such as Webtarot.fr, Letarot.net, and Tarotux.org have also been wrongly categorized as "occult" or "paranormal" by internet filtering software programs such as SonicWall. An online forum for the popular Hoyle Card Games CD-ROM software even displayed a complaint from a misinformed Christian user because of the software‘s inclusion of the modern French tarot card game. These are just three examples of the damage these stereotypes have been causing. Tarot is the trick taking card game that brought forth the notion of a trump suit in card games. Tarot, like contract bridge and skat, has been called the "chess of card games" for good reason. Tarot has clearly made a valuable contribution to our game playing culture. This contribution is sadly being obscured by those who continue to sell tarot exclusively as a fortune telling or divination tool. Websites such as Tarot.com, Belief.net, Tickle.com and others have been misleading the general public into believing that tarot is nothing but an occult instrument. It is unfortunate that WomanSavers.com has also joined this club. The notion that tarot cards are only used for fortune telling or the occult is completely false. Paul O‘Brien, CEO of Tarot.com, has made some assertions about tarot for which there is no evidence at all. "It was masquerading as a card game for a long time because people could be burned at the stake for using it" and "It was more related to alchemy than religion." are some prime examples as quoted by Belief.net of O‘Brien‘s Da Vinci Code style campaign of disinformation. There is no provable historical link between tarot cards and astrology, Kabbalah, alchemy or any other esoteric phenomena. There is also no evidence to indicate that tarot cards were intended for any other purpose than for the play of card games. The business arrangement between Tarot.com and large corporations such as AOL (America Online) and Glam Media assures us that O‘Brien‘s pseudo-history is widely accepted as fact. Another popular website guilty of distorting tarot is the social networking site Tickle.com, which is owned by Monster.com. On Tickle.com‘s tarot reading page we find this false assertion "The practice of reading Tarot cards dates back to the Egyptians." Contemporary research disputes Tickle.com‘s false statement. Tarot cards began to appear in early to mid 15th century Italy. The practice of reading tarot cards dates no earlier than the 18th century. The general public has been duped by the "new age" publishing industry and by the uncritical mainstream media regarding tarot‘s true heritage. The connection of tarot cards with the occult is based on false histories concerning the decks origins. The occult activities should in no way be seen as genuine tarot. Genuine tarot is a type of trick taking card game. The tarot game is very popular right now in France, Canada, and practically any place the French language is spoken. There is also a similar game played in Austria and surrounding areas known as "tarock." Many players of tarot card games, nowadays, use a more modern deck with double-ended court cards and conventional playing card suits of hearts, spades, clubs and diamonds and the trump cards sport arbitrary scenes of 19th century Europe. Not only is tarot currently played as a card game in continental Europe, there are efforts to import these games to other parts of the world. Unfortunately, the widespread promotion of fortune telling stereotypes in connection with tarot cards has had an inhibiting effect on cultural exchange and innovation. My suggestion to WomanSavers.com is to be truly progessive and stop promoting these damaging occult stereotypes.
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Thank you for your comments and your point of view. I created the tarot game on WomanSavers.com for "entertainment" purposes only and it clearly states that. I wrote all of the descriptions myself and the cards were custom created and designed specifically for WomanSavers. I have had nothing but positive responses regarding this game which we do not charge for. The game has the ability to shed insight on problems or situations one may be dealing with and has absolutely nothing to do with the occult.
The tarot game is not going to be removed because people love it and so do I. :)
Best to you.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: Anonymous Q: Fibroids, Vegan Diet, etc.
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| Subject: Anonymous Q: Fibroids, Vegan Diet, etc. - Posted: 7/20/2007 12:50:25 PM
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Anonymous!
The first step is go into your kitchen and literally throw away anything that has been processed. The less human hands have interferred or added to the product, the better it is for you.
Being Vegan does not shrink fibroids but it can‘t hurt. I am a Vegan, except I eat occasional fish (especially sushi). I have been Vegan for about 7 years and I still developed uterine fibroids. Uterine fibroids are extremely common and many women get them. I recently had uterine fibroid embolization, a non-evasive surgery that cuts off the blood supply to the fibroids so they eventually shrink and die. It usually takes up to 9 months to a year for this to happen and the process has been slow.
Fibroids aren‘t problematic unless they become large. Most women simply have fibroids that don‘t bother them and then after they reach menopause the fibroids die because of the lack of estrogen.
My Vegan bible is "Natural Foods Restaurants" from the Vegetarian Resource Group. I take this book everywhere with me when I travel and have tried the most amazing Vegetarian and Vegan restaurants in the world.
I became 80% Vegan because eating red meat made me feel slugglish and tired. I didn‘t know I could feel this great or have this much energy by being Vegan or I would have lived my entire life like this. Many times I go even one step further and am "raw" vegan so the cooking process doesn‘t "kill" the enzymes that your body needs so much.
I rarely, if ever, eat carbs or sugar. I never eat red meat. I noticed a HUGE difference in my life and if it didn‘t work for me, I certainly wouldn‘t do it because it takes a lot of discipline and work. Plus, you never get fat or have to diet.
The amount of torture and antibiotics they are pumping into red meat nowadays is causing all sorts of health problems. I believe that all animals should be free range and not caged, tortured or fed junk. How animals eat and live becomes a part of us because everything is connected. I love animals too much so I can‘t eat them. My only indulgence is fish for the protein. Be aware that sometimes people around you will make fun of you or try to push unhealthy food on you because they want you to join in with them. Just be polite and decline. Most don‘t understand because they have not tried it and what you haven‘t experienced, is difficult to understand.
The Vegetarian and Vegan people I have met in my life have great respect for the environment and I like that. I have NEVER met an overweight Vegan.
Type the word "vegan" into google and just start browsing. That‘s what I did. After a certain period of time, the old foods you used to eat will no longer taste good and you‘ll notice how "slow" you are after you eat them.
Good luck in your Vegan journey.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: yay
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| Subject: yay - Posted: 7/20/2007 4:16:37 PM
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Hi Still Pissed,
Please let me know when you get your package.
LMWS
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| Topic: I love Madonna‘s
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| Subject: I love Madonna‘s - Posted: 7/20/2007 8:07:29 PM
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http://youtube.com/watch?v=DeRZL12SFJk&mode=related&search=
Great video, great message. Check out Madonna‘s Live Earth "Hey You" video (link above).
Madonna!
What things do you do every day to save the planet? I‘ll list a few things I do to try to help.
1. Drive a hybrid
2. Am Vegan
3. Recycle paper and plastic weekly
4. Do not use any chemicals that aren‘t biodegradable in my home
5. Grow some of my own vegetables
6. Never litter
7. Support local farmers markets
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| Topic: Huniliated...AGAIN!!!!!
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| Subject: Huniliated...AGAIN!!!!! - Posted: 7/20/2007 8:12:02 PM
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| xsusan5555x wrote: | |
Hi all, Well I want to thank everyone that replied to my previous "cry for help" "Paul Adams". I am just so crushed it is unbelieveable. Not did I just a week ago found out that my "love of my life" and soon to be "live-in partener" are married, I also found out yesterday that he has a new girlfriend already. Wow, that hurts! He is still married "Although he claims divorced on MYSpace" This guy is absolutely destroying every girls life he meets. I feel I need to warn his latest as well as contact his wife as he has a small child with her. The problem is that I do not know her name, just location "Owensboro Kentucky" Can someone help with suggestions. I really feel like revenge as well as saving the others. Help!
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Susan,
Do a background check on him through services like knowx.com or intelius.com. That will list all the names of his spouse(s) and children.
Be sure you add him into the rate-a-guy database.
Good luck and don‘t waste too much time on this guy. He‘s not worth it.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: Bratz
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| Subject: Bratz - Posted: 7/22/2007 11:57:32 AM
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| RavenBlackeMoon wrote: |
Here‘s one come to life.
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Yes, this is exactly the look I am talking about in my "Stepford-Wife Stripper" look thread. This look is becoming extremely common-place now.
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| Topic: I love Madonna‘s
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| Subject: I love Madonna‘s - Posted: 7/22/2007 12:01:02 PM
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| Momof4 wrote: | | We would get a hybrid, but with 4 kids and their "stuff" they just don‘t make one big enough.
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There will be "electric" cars (with a spare gas tank) that get close to 100 miles to the gallon soon. SUV‘s like this will be coming soon. Shhhhhhh......you didn‘t hear it from me for those of you who invest in stocks. ;)
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| Topic: I missed this place
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| Subject: I missed this place - Posted: 7/23/2007 10:10:15 AM
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 BACK Raven! Long time no see. What‘s been happening in your life?
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: Guy point of view: Why Lie is better than Truth
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| Subject: Guy point of view: Why Lie is better than Truth - Posted: 7/23/2007 10:21:50 AM
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Red In The City!
If a man is satisfied with mediocre sex without emotion that is fine. However, sex without real emotion and love can not be compared to sex with it. The two experiences are not the same at all. One is mechanical and goes through the motions for an orgasm. The other has the ability to bond two people spirtually, mentally and physically. I can‘t stand having sex without emotion because it sucks. It‘s like comparing a hamburger with nothing on it to a 5 course meal. They both fill you up but the experience is certainly not the same.
I feel sorry for the old man that you wrote about. His story is sad. He is lost and since he can‘t find the real thing, he is settling for a young woman he can buy. I hope in the future, he is actually able to find someone who cares about the person he is and not the size of his wallet. I think he would be better off hiring a prostitute on a regular basis.......oh, wait....I think that may already be what he has.
Regarding cheating men not getting caught, with technology you can always catch them now no matter how careful they are. You can place a voice-activated recording device in a car, you can add a key logger onto a computer or even place a gps tracking device into a car...the possibilities are endless. I don‘t mind men who enjoy being single. However, I can‘t stand men who pretend to be monogomous and then cheat. If you are single and dating, make that crystal clear to the women you are dating and don‘t give them the false illusion of hope that they may change you to get into their pants. It‘s the deceipt and the lies that are pathetic and cruel.
The world has a way of punishing people for their actions. It‘s called Karma. You know what you are doing is wrong. You admit it and are conscious of it. Yet, you continue to use women for your own needs no matter how you hurt others. You have to live with your deeds and perhaps some day something really bad will happen to you and then again, maybe it won‘t. However, it is men like you that prompted a woman like me to start a website like this. Therefore, I suppose I could be considered the ying to your yang, the good to the evil, the positive to the negative.
Hmmmm....I wonder if a few years from now some hurt women who you decided to lie to yet again, will post your name and information into the database. I guess only time will tell.
I hope that you don‘t have a daughter some day who is lied to and used by a man such as yourself. ...Or perhaps that would be karma at work in deed. Or perhaps you may get a nasty sexually transmitted disease from one of your lovelies, or even have one of these ladies brothers or fathers kick the *@#$ out of you for hurting someone they love. One never knows what the ending to your story may be.
I suppose the only way for you to ever understand the other side is to experience the pain of abuse or infidelity. Perhaps then you would re-evauluate your actions. Until then, you will always figure out ways to rationalize your hurtful actions.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: Good and evil in every person
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| Subject: Good and evil in every person - Posted: 7/23/2007 4:34:58 PM
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| redinthecity wrote: | | I am the star in my movie, as we are all in our respective lives. I find my reasons to do what I do, and I know that is wrong, but then I resort to "boys will be boys". |
Very lame justification. For someone who claims to have so much "higher" education, why don‘t you work on your spiritual education a bit? Try listening to some lessons from Deepak Chopra, the Dali Lama, Mother Theresa or even Ghandi. Google "Deepak Chopra" and read a few of his lessons. Perhaps this is the type of education you are lacking.
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| Topic: Why tarot reading is not cool
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| Subject: Why tarot reading is not cool - Posted: 7/23/2007 4:40:25 PM
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| Tarot4Games wrote: |
Yes, do what works for you, but stop misrepresenting culture. What you have studied should in no way be considered genuine tarot. Authentic tarot, the family of trick taking card games with a fixed trump suit, has yet to be imported to our part of the world. It is not the card reading I find offensive but the cultural theft and misrepresenation surrounding it is something that concerns me. My objections to tarot reading is in a way similar to Native American opposition to tarot decks with spurious Native American spirituality and to the objections by genuine Kabbalists to the pop-Kabbalah espoused by many tarot readers. I think we tarot players should also speak out against the misrepresentation of our card game by the mainstream media. I have more respect for readers of oracles such as angel cards as they, at least to be best of my knowledge, haven‘t stolen culture from people.
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I‘m not clear as to what exactly you find offensive. Is it because the game is called "tarot" game on the website? It already clearly states that it is for "entertainment purposes only."
Every card was custom created and drawn from scratch so the cards are unique to the WomanSaver‘s Tarot Game. The game layouts such as 3 card spread or celtic cross would not make any sense to the majority of people if I renamed the game "Angel" game.
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| Topic: Plastic Surgery
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| Subject: Plastic Surgery - Posted: 7/23/2007 4:41:50 PM
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| Topic: Why are so many women starting to look like Stepford Wife Strippers?
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| Subject: Why are so many women starting to look like Stepford Wife Strippers? - Posted: 7/23/2007 4:47:55 PM
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| RavenBlackeMoon wrote: | Check this out: http://www.campaignforrealbeauty.com/
it‘s the Dove site, and they‘re working on making it COOL to be who you ARE.
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The Dove Campaign is one of my favorite campaigns for women ever.
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| Topic: I love Madonna‘s
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| Subject: I love Madonna‘s - Posted: 7/24/2007 10:58:13 AM
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| AquaGirl wrote: |
I‘ve seen her in concert a few times and it‘s always an awesome show... She looks better now at forty-something than she did in her twenties... I hope she lives forever and never retires! :)
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Yes, I hope she lives forever also.
I boycott products that are tested on animals also and support "cruelty free" products.
I tried to change all the light bulbs to CFL‘s in my house not only for the environment but because they save you TONS of money. However, the technology isn‘t such that they make decent ones that dim properly yet. They get to a certain point of dimming and then they just turn off. Plus, warm tones are very hard to find.
I forgot to mention that I always recycle all my plastic shopping bags. I keep them in my car and take them inside the grocery store whenever I go shopping.
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| Topic: Good and evil in every person
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| Subject: Good and evil in every person - Posted: 7/24/2007 11:31:34 AM
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| redinthecity wrote: | | Also, I don‘t mean to hurt others. This is another common misconception. Guess what? Since I forced myself into being self-centered, selfish and not care for others my life changed.
Am I proud? No. I simply don‘t care. Today I am 30. I have a job I love, I own a new pretty apartment by the river I bought 100% by myself, and I have all the booty I can handle and then some. I am also fully aware that most of what I have is because the way I am.
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Bullshit. You say you "don‘t mean to hurt others," yet you have no intention of being honest. You consciously hurt others. Be a man and tell these women that you aren‘t ready to get serious and that you are in a phase in your life when you want to date lots of different women and play the field. Say that every few months so none of them "thinks" they will change you. This may work in your benefit because the women will probably try to compete or drop out.
If you "don‘t care," then allow me to make my first entry into the WomanSavers.com database. E-mail me your real name, city, sand country and allow me to copy and paste the fact that you "don‘t care" about other human beings. You may email me at womansavers@womansavers.com. I know you won‘t do this so we will have to wait until some woman who you really hurt decides to warn other women about the type of man you are. A user.
You are helping women by telling your story because it makes us realize how awful and selfish men can really be and how necessary it is for women to utilize technology to bring the good guys to the top and the bad to the bottom. I know you won‘t email me because you think being a user in life is better than being used. It probably is. Listen to Sirius Satelitte Channel Wellness Radio with Deepak Chopra every Saturday or you can go to his website and get further information. You never know what lightbulbs may go off in your head or how age and the maturing process has the ability to change a person. Maybe you will have to wait until you are 70 and can‘t get a hard-on anymore in order to realize that using women for a piece of ass through dishonest means is pathetic.
Have you ever had sex combined with true love before? I‘m thinking not so maybe you aren‘t able to understand how much better it is. Many men think mechanical sex is as good as it gets until they experience spiritual sex. There simply is no comparison. For someone who is so selfish and seems to want the best superficiality out of life, once you get a taste of that, everything else will pale in comparison from then on. Remember....plain hamburger versus 5 course meal. You‘re eating burgers, buddy, and lots of them.
Having sex with multiple women isn‘t the problem. The lies and deception is where the problem lies.
Here is an email I received last week from a guy your age who had the same attitude as you did a few years ago.
"This is a private/personal letter. This site has helped change my ways. This site helped me realize that I had a problem. I have since apologized to the women I hurt and I have been seeing a therapist. I have also joined my local church group. I was wondering if it is possible to now delete those comments on XXXXXXXX. They are a constant reminder of my past self that I do not want anything to do with. This site seriously helped me realize the errors of my ways. Keep up the good work."
Watch out for HPV and getting these women pregnant. Use protection because the probability of one of these things happening to you is high. Nothing like shutting down your "party for 1" like an STD or an unwanted child.
I wish all the women who cross your path the wisdom to see through your lies and to find a man who truely cares about them as person and not just a piece of ass.
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| Topic: comments or advice
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| Subject: comments or advice - Posted: 7/24/2007 12:01:36 PM
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| siberiangem wrote: | I don‘t really know what to think I am very faithfull to him and can‘t imagin sleeping with another man and really have no desire to . My sex life with my husband is wonderful and very fullfilling so I don‘t even see the need to but he still wants me to.
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Siberiangem!
You are a survivor, first and foremost. Men have controlled you in one form or another for most of your life. You have lived and learned and your new motto should be to never do anything that is uncomfortable for you again.
Read your above sentence over and over until it sinks in. You don‘t want to do this, so don‘t. If you do there is a great possibility of opening a Pandora‘s box of problems into your relationship. I have known couples where this has back-fired and the man couldn‘t get the vision of his wife sleeping with another man out of his head and he became really jealous and they divorced. At first he thought it would turn him on, but when fantasy became reality, he couldn‘t handle it. Go figure.
Tell your husband you are willing to explore fantasies with him that don‘t involve another person. Tell him to stop pressuring you and to redirect his fantasies towards something else. There are a million things - costumes, role play, different locations, etc.... If he wants to role play as "another" guy, try that.
If he continues to pressure you, ask him what if the other man causes problems in your relationship? Take the fantasy out of it and allow him to see the potential dangers. What if..... the other man developed feelings for you? What if....you developed feelings for him? What if...you started meeting without your husband? What if...he had an STD, was a convicted felon or had a shady past? What if your children found out?
Sometimes fantasy is better left as just that....fantasy.
Feel free to give or seek advice here any time.
and stand your ground for what you believe in.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: New Pup!
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| Subject: New Pup! - Posted: 7/24/2007 4:23:52 PM
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| BustySpumonte wrote: | | Here she is! Female 4 pounds! Tiny little baby!! 
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She looks like a Gremlin!! Cute! I vote for the name "Gremlin" because of her Gremlin-like ears.
On another matter, I sent complaint email letters to both the NFL and Atlanta Falcons for that animal abuser, Falcon player Michael Vicks. What a scumbag. He and is brother were supposedly involved in gambling dog fights. The loser dogs were beaten and horribly abused. They showed a photo of his own dog who slowly starved to death with no water, food, open wounds and worms. You would think someone with his money would hire somebody to care for his dog while on the road. But noooooo.....he is too busy and self absorbed to worry about his dog. He deserves suspension. I would get tremendous satisfaction in kicking him in the balls as hard as I could with a steel toe boot.
The trial outcome will be soon. He already lost most of his endorsement deals including Nike. That will hurt him most - in his pocket book. Fuck him! I cant stand people who abuse animals or children.
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| Topic: Good and evil in every person
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| Subject: Good and evil in every person - Posted: 7/24/2007 4:39:19 PM
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| meandnotyou wrote: |
I love you.
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Love you too! It is men like Red that make me 100% positive I am doing the right thing. Through action, education and technology, we have the ability to change the way the next generation of women deal with men like Red and hopefully, women will have the choice to be informed enough by other women to avoid his type. The internet is a double edged sword because on one end there is a loss of privacy, however on the other end one is now publically held accountable for their actions....and that...is a positive thing.
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| Topic: Why tarot reading is not cool
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| Subject: Why tarot reading is not cool - Posted: 7/24/2007 4:50:00 PM
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| Tarot4Games wrote: |
If you wish to try a real tarot game, Tarotux.org is a good one to try. It is French/English bilingual and the cards have cute penguin graphics.
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No offense taken. I can honestly say that I dont know that much about the history of tarot. I created the game for women who are(were) having relationship problems to give them some insight and entertainment with beautiful graphics and cute cartoons. I read 5 of the best tarot card books I could find and went to work combining the knowledge I learned from the books, my experience and my intuition.
Good luck with your media education campaign. You should try starting with some of the psychic tarot websites and readers on the internet. There are tons of them. Plus, those sites charge for their tarot readings and WomanSavers does not. Oh, I almost forget. One of our members, "Chelsea Buns" from Canada, has been doing tarot card readings for years and she is available through this website. I believe she does the same spreads that most readers do such as the 3 card or celtic cross spread.
You should write a simple book called "Tarot is NOT a Game" for Dummies. ;)
Good luck in your pursuits.
LMWS
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| Topic: Michael Moore‘s movie "Sicko" - Who has seen it?
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| Subject: Michael Moore‘s movie "Sicko" - Who has seen it? - Posted: 7/24/2007 9:39:56 PM
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I just saw Michael Moore‘s movie "Sicko." Has anyone here seen it? I thought it was an interesting documentary and was able to relate to a lot of it through personal experience.
Has anyone else seen it? Go see it if you haven‘t. I‘m curious as to what others opinions are about it.
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| Topic: Good and evil in every person
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| Subject: Good and evil in every person - Posted: 7/24/2007 10:05:30 PM
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| redinthecity wrote: | When it comes to my own gain, I have no compassion or care for others. Is that the kind of power that also placed me where I am now, on the top of my career and with everything I ever wanted "a phone call away". So, until the ideal world comes along, I rather be on the dark side. |
You don‘t have everything you want because you are lacking one very crucial thing...a soul. Besides, you‘re not THAT successful. So you have an apartment by the river, a handful of girls that you fuck and a career that you enjoy. Big deal. All that could disappear in an instant. You could easily be replaced at your job, you could catch HIV or genital Herpes from one of your victims and you could loose your apartment because of inability to pay. You never know what kind of a curve ball life can through your way. There will always be someone who has more material things than you do. Plus, you only have mechanical sex without true emotion. That‘s garbage and certainly not worth bragging about. I would respect you more if you used your supposed wealth to hire prositutes to screw. At least that way there wouldn‘t be deceipt involved.
There was a time in my life when I was numb also and I didn‘t give a shit about others either. I became that way to protect myself from pain and emotions. It lasted for quite a few years and then something happened. I figured out that every action creates reaction and that what I do can impact millions of people and it can change the future. The rest is history.
I don‘t care if you stay on the dark side. I only care about those innocent bystanders who you drag down unknowingly with you.
So "Lord Vador," I was put on this earth to shut down men like you who treat women no better than cum dumpsters. May the force be with me.
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| Topic: Women and men mechanisms
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| Subject: Women and men mechanisms - Posted: 7/24/2007 10:24:11 PM
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Big deal. So you are "results" oriented and get your "results" by lying. A feat the average person could easily achieve, including myself. I believe many attractive women do the same type of lying to fat, ugly, bald, yet extremely wealthy men. It is known as gold digging - something that could be compared to using women for sex. You act like being a liar is some difficult feat. I‘ve also lied plenty of times in my life in order to get what I want but there is a key difference between us. I felt remorse, whereas you don‘t.
There are members on this board who have accomplished as much, if not much more, than you. And they have done so without being selfish, heartless liars. You take and give nothing back. Every few months a guy like you comes into this forum and brags the same way you are. Same shit, different day. Brag, brag, brag....although in actuality you really have nothing.
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| Topic: Women and men mechanisms
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| Subject: Women and men mechanisms - Posted: 7/24/2007 10:39:05 PM
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| redinthecity wrote: |
I see. So I guess there is nothing I can help here with. Thanks all the same. Red.
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How about you get "help" from us?
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| Topic: So how exactly are you going to spot me?
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| Subject: So how exactly are you going to spot me? - Posted: 7/24/2007 10:43:39 PM
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1. Speak to any women he dated in the past to find out how he treated them. Reputations eventually get around...especially on the internet.
2. Google his name to see if it appears in any of the "cheater" databases such as this one
3. Don‘t sleep with him for 2 months to see if he is only interested in getting in your pants.
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| Topic: Bye-bye Red
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| Subject: Bye-bye Red - Posted: 7/24/2007 10:57:09 PM
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Red, I noticed most of your posts simply disappeared into thin air....just like that. Luckily, they are all still quoted for women to read and learn from in the future. See you in hell Satan.
Sayonara.
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| Topic: Michael Moore‘s movie
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| Subject: Michael Moore‘s movie - Posted: 7/25/2007 12:02:09 AM
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| The documentary is actually quite good. Go see it.
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| Topic: Bye-bye Red
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| Subject: Bye-bye Red - Posted: 7/25/2007 12:05:27 AM
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Wow....all the threads are gone. Poof.  Vanished.....into the dark side.
Well...not completely. After all, it is important that some lessons be learned from all of this.
http://www.womansavers.com/p_posts.asp?t=15547
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| Topic: Why are so many women starting to look like Stepford Wife Strippers?
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| Subject: Why are so many women starting to look like Stepford Wife Strippers? - Posted: 7/25/2007 7:56:09 AM
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| yasmnina wrote: | | I look GREAT and is has nothing to do with the size of my boobs or my haircolour. I simply feel comfortable the way I look and it makes me glow. Theres a market out there for those Barbie-clones. Well okay, there nothing bad in that, I think. They send out signals to men about non-comittal, easily accessible sex and they are non threatening intellectually or personality-wise. I think its as much to compete with other women like themselves and avoid catty criticism as it is to attract a certain type of man. But hey, luckily there are guys out there that goes for the "natural", that like to be challenged intellectually and personalitywise. Sometimes I just get so tired of listening to women being catty towards each other over looks. When meanwhile, A LOT of men out there can get away with being fat-assed, lazy slobs that doesnt know what is up or down on a woman. Hugs, Yasmina |
Yasmina!
You are stunning! :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
P.S. I love Denmark...especially had fun at Vondel Park. I also saw the Rolling Stones FRONT ROW in Copenhagen. Skinny Mick Jagger was a high energy performer.
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| Topic: Michael Moore‘s movie
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| Subject: Michael Moore‘s movie - Posted: 7/25/2007 7:59:20 AM
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See it before you knock it. Perhaps you can find it for free on youtube, or at least parts of it. I haven‘t checked. I want to especially hear comments from those who have seen it. The movie audience I was in gave the movie a standing ovation which is something I have never experienced when attending a movie. This movie suprised me.
He is a talented documentary maker for an independant. There is no denying that.
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| Topic: Wedding Announcement!!!
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| Subject: Wedding Announcement!!! - Posted: 7/25/2007 8:03:51 AM
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| Cute! You had me freaked out when I saw the thread heading for a minute there Aqua.
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| Topic: Michael Moore‘s movie `Sicko`
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| Subject: Michael Moore‘s movie `Sicko` - Posted: 7/25/2007 8:04:40 AM
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| Go see it when you get a chance Dr. WomanSaver. I‘d like to hear your comments because not only did I agree with much of what he said, I thought the movie was well done.
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| Topic: A LONG Stretch Question About IP Addresses
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| Subject: A LONG Stretch Question About IP Addresses - Posted: 7/25/2007 8:10:30 AM
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| charisma07 wrote: | |
I guess I will take the Mcguiver thing as a compliment. It means I am in the least attempting to accomplish things well. To be frank, I am trying to also help two other girlfriends in the meantime going thru similar situations and not all of my questions stem from my own needs. One friend doesnt have access to the computer at home, since her dear husband keeps it password locked. The other friend works one full job as well as a part time, so does not have a heck of a lot of time to research the possibilities. One of them cannot simply install a keylogger and be done with it. I am not only on a quest for myself, I also have these two ladies under my wing so to speak. One of them lives in a fault state and needs the evidence. Yup, sometimes I do come up with nutty ideas or scenarios. I tend to analyze things and think "outside the bun" when it comes to driving at answers.
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Charisma.
Try http://www.catchcheaters.com for additional help.
Good luck,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: The case of the disappearing threads has been solved
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| Subject: The case of the disappearing threads has been solved - Posted: 7/25/2007 8:16:48 AM
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Last night our resident genius and watch dog, Hopeless Dreamer, figured out why past threads were disappearing. When a member deactivates and closes their account, all of the threads they started (including everyone elses comments within that thread) disappear.
This has been fixed so now when an account is deactivated, only their posts (if they so choose) are deleted, NOT their entire threads.
Mystery solved.
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| Topic: Has anyone met in ‘real‘ life?
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| Subject: Has anyone met in ‘real‘ life? - Posted: 7/30/2007 10:47:21 AM
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Organizing a convention takes quite a bit of time. However, Sandra Brown and I are working on it and may team up with other womens organizations to help cut some of the costs.
(Damn...why I wont the apostrophe work when I type on a Mac on the message board??)
I have always dreamed of having a convention also. If any of you have any connections with conventions, please email me at womansavers@womansavers.com
Doing another radio interview today. :)
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: BOOBS
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| Subject: BOOBS - Posted: 7/31/2007 6:54:35 AM
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| uberbeotch wrote: | | One of my girlfriends has silicone over the muscle and you can see the outline. They look very fake. Also, the Dr. went in by the nipples, and now she has permanent high-beams. So now ashe has to wear bras that don‘t let the nipples‘ bumps show.
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My girlfriend has silicone implants under the muscle and this was her THIRD boob job because the waranty ran out after 5 years. The first two boob jobs developed leaks and were saline and under the muscle.
Now her problem is that the silicone has developed ripples on the under side and it looks lumpy. Pamela Anderson, Tara Reid and Courtney Love all have the problems with the ripples in the silicone. The rippling didn‘t appear on my best friend‘s silicones until after 6 years. My girlfriends don‘t look or feel real at all but she got a "D" cup. She has two small scars underneath but these scars are less noticeable than the ones I have seen when they cut around the nipple which are really obvious. She can‘t sleep on her stomach at all and has difficulty with certain sports now such as skiing and waterskiing because of falling on her chest.
Perhaps look at the type that are tear-drop shaped which have a much more realistic look than the round sacks. They have many more options now as far as shape goes which look much better. Also, don‘t have them placed really high up because that looks retarded. I‘ve seen very few nice boob jobs. However, one girl I know had a "B" cup boob job done with tear-dropped silicone under the muscle. They were beautiful and one of the few boob jobs that I thought were truely sexy. She could wear tank tops and her boobs looked sexy, not fake and slutty. Make sure you get your boob job in proportion to your body size because gravitiy will still be at work and if you get big knockers, the weight will stretch your skin after so many years.
Boobalicious luck to you! :)
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| Topic: hot topic
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| Subject: hot topic - Posted: 8/2/2007 9:18:36 AM
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| still pissed wrote: |
where did the lanterns go?
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Nothing gets passed you guys! :)
I upped the "hot topic" lantern post limit to 50 so a thread will require 50 or more posts in order to be considered a hot topic. There were simply too many lanterns all over the place because more and more members are posting.
Little Miss WomanSavers, Site Founder
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| Topic: HELP ME!
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| Subject: HELP ME! - Posted: 8/2/2007 9:26:04 AM
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I have terrible writers block and I am soooo close to being finished with my e-book it‘s sickening. To make matters worse, I have hundreds of pre-orders just awaiting the release. I just keep refining it because I want it to be really good and entertaining with lots of cartoons just like this website. However, something is preventing me from doing it. Fear? Laziness? ADD? I will do interviews, clean the house, work on other projects, run errands.....anything but sit down and finish this book.
What the hell is wrong with me and how do I get passed this block so I can focus on just this one thing? I used to think writers block was a joke but now I understand it.
HELP MEEEEE PLEASE. Any advice would be appreciated.
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| Topic: HELP ME!
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| Subject: HELP ME! - Posted: 8/2/2007 9:43:51 AM
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| chaos40 wrote: | |
what topic are you stumped on?
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No topics. I just can‘t seem to finish the damn thing. Then I get depressed and really hard on myself for not being faster, better, more focused and then round and round and round we go. I don‘t have this problem with visually creative projects or writing short articles. Creative ideas just flow out of my head with ease. I think it may be fear of failure. I don‘t know. There‘s no such thing as failure when you are helping others.
All the traveling I am doing is also starting to get to me. I‘ll be in Chicago most of next week doing more interviews. That‘s a good thing but it takes its toll.
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| Topic: someone please explain to me why someone would do this to someone they claim to love
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| Subject: someone please explain to me why someone would do this to someone they claim to love - Posted: 8/2/2007 9:50:55 AM
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| 1real1left wrote: | I wish you the courage to start loving yourself enough, to let him go. One more note, YOUR HUSBAND DOES NOT KNOW "LOVE". He is in his mind, not worthy of anyone, so you just happen to be the one that perhaps crossed his path. Is " I love you" to you, affairs, laughing at you, not caring how spouses actions make you feel? think about it and look within yourself. You were born into this World without his ass, it‘s time to tell him to kiss yours.
Sincerely,
1real1left
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Welcome back, 1real1left! Your advice has been missed.
Stacie!
A man can treat you like that when he no longer cares about you or your feelings. - A bitter pill to swallow, I know. Remember that you were a strong and confident woman BEFORE you met him and that person is still inside you somewhere. However, like a dog that has been repeatedly beaten, it will take time for the old you to come out again.
Create a master plan to leave him. Once you have an exit strategy and all your bases are covered, stand your ground and stop putting up with his crap. If he talks down to you, leave the room. If he is trolling sex sites, cut him off sexually. A person who loves another should bring them up, not down. Your partner sounds extremely selfish. You are now allowing (putting up) with his behavior. - Perhaps it is because of children, finances or fear of being alone. Whatever it is, deal with your insecurity and fear and then take ACTION. You deserve respect and should not have to live the next 10 years or more like this.
If you need support, feel free to come here any time. Most of the women (and men) have been through similiar situations, including myself.
and Stay Strong!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: Should a woman be held criminally liable?
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| Subject: Should a woman be held criminally liable? - Posted: 8/2/2007 2:31:07 PM
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| chaos40 wrote: | |
If she drinks continuously throughout the pregnancy and the baby comes out stillborn? Or, at the very least can the father sue in civil court for wrongful death of his child
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Absolutely
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| Topic: 12 More Days Til Burning Man & Counting: PHOTOS!
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| Subject: 12 More Days Til Burning Man & Counting: PHOTOS! - Posted: 8/2/2007 3:18:18 PM
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I have a mental and physical break of 8 long, glorious days coming up in about 3 weeks where there is no cell phone reception, no power, no running water, no exchange of money, no commercialism allowed and over 40,000 crazy, creative, wonderful hippies of all ages from all over the world running around. Burning Man 2008 is over Labor Day yet once again this year (my 3rd year) and I have got my RV ready to go. It costs $250/ticket and once you enter you can‘t leave without repaying. It is 2 hours in the middle of nowhere from Reno, Nevada. I have vowed to never miss a year until I die unless it becomes commercialized. This years theme is "Green Man" - everything environmental so I will recycle as much as possible. I am also painting my ENTIRE body green from head to toe for Saturday‘s topless bike parade (Critical Tits Parade) of over 5,000 women.
I AM SOOO READY!
- Fiber-optic fairy night costume with flashing Elton John type boots ready-CHECK
- Day-time tu-tu costume ready-CHECK; water containers ready-CHECK
- Theme camp and art work ready-CHECK
- Bicycle ready but need to attach all the lighting-CHECK
- Battery operated music ready-CHECK
- Booze ready-CHECK; l
- Leave negative attitude at home-MANDATORY. http://www.BurningMan.com
The below photos do NOT do the experience justice. Some photos are from 2005, others from 2006. Enjoy!
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
An arial view of the Burning Man Festival. It‘s shaped and organized like a horse-shoe and center camp is in the middle. Last year our camp was at 4:30 and Ego. The streets are named like a clock and then A for Artic, B for Bi-Sexual, C for Chaos and so on. Every year the street names change. The city is a work of art in itself and is built in just a week.
Art party bus. Everyone shares everything and if there is room, you can just hop on.
Art on the 2 mile Playa Desert: Unicorn made out of mud
Camel art bike
Happy cat car
Burners dancing and drumming at Center Camp
Stilt Walkers
Another art car.
Stop and jump on a trampoline at someone‘s camp.
An interesting "ride" that someone built.
Rollerskating in the middle of the desert playa. That‘s me in the hat behind the "bride" trying to not fall on the plywood boards.
"Ashram Galactica" - my favorite "par-tay" tent at Burning Man. A very cool group of California people put in a lot of work to build this and give away free liquor for days at a time.
Someone built this see-saw that not only goes really high up and down, but also spins around.
Very creative golf cart float. Where‘s his harem?
Sperm mailbox. That‘s kind of what my RV that I rent every year looks like.
Thunderdome costumes in main Center Camp tent
Burning Man "Black Rock" Post Office and what looks like a couple doing something "nasty" out front
Creative rocket bike
Glow-in-the-dark buggy. You can see the lit up "Man" in the background.
Great job on decorating a golf cart!
Yearly parade of people dressed up like Bunnies and Carrots going against each other. Many things at Burning Man make zero sense.
Mechanical fire dragon that you could pull a lever on and shoot out giant flames from his mouth.
3-legged creature. I climbed this.
Baby cart
Dragon party bus. Dragons are popular at Burning Man.
And yet another...Puff the Magic Dragon
Giant flower hooked onto art car.
Monkey on Gorilla‘s back. ha ha
Hookah Dome - Another one of my favorite party camps.
I‘ve met the coolest people from around the world who I now see every year at Burning Man.
Marie Antoinette lives. This lady was HOT!
The ultimate "runaway bride."
Metal creature
GIANT metal women. Must have taken forever to build those.
Art Mouth in the middle of nowhere
One of the coolest visual displays outside at BM. Circular ping-pong balls hooked together by wires that were pre-programmed for various colors, patterns and shapes. People would lay underneath it (me) because it was so trippy until the owner artist stopped allowing it.
That can‘t be comfortable.
Too cool.
The best fire performers in the world come to BM and perform all week for free.
Cut-off peace fingers represent the Iraq war and sometimes squirted organic, biodegradable red water.
Another man-made temple. Lots of couples get married there.
This guy looked great.
Lit-up tricycle.....my "chopper" bike will be all lit up like this shortly also.
VW Art Car
Besides the porta-potties, the worst things are the white-out "dirt devil" storms. Sand gets into places you never thought it could. They happen a lot and during the day it‘s really hot and at night desert cold. Since there is no running water or electricity, the whole event is not for the faint-hearted or the easily offended.
Some guys trucked in something like 100 miles of 2 by 4‘s and built what I started calling the "waffle house." It took them all week to nail this thing together and they burned it the last day.
Waffle house at night.
The "original" dick in a box. Some guy named "Dick" who stayed for days in a plexi-glass box like an animal and people would just surround him and watch. He does it every year.
Fireworks around the "Man" before he burns.
This is kind of what my fairy wings look like. 
Sunday‘s Temple Burn where 40,000 people write their fears on pieces of wood and then watch them burn together in a silent circle. (coolest thing ever). Everyone is in tears on this final evening (Sunday).
You see it "all" at Burning Man. He must have been a "very, very" bad boy. Last year I watched naked male/female, male/male & female/female oil wrestling. They have topless yoga too!
I didn‘t make this sign but I thought it was cute. That‘s the symbol of the "Burning Man."
I am more excited for this every year than any trip I ever take. Can you tell?! :)
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| Topic: HELP ME!
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| Subject: HELP ME! - Posted: 8/2/2007 3:26:00 PM
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Thanks for all your suggestions. Now I must stop being a whiney, cry baby and finish this project. There are people depending on me.
I hereby promise to go upstairs right now and make myself a cup of addictive coffee and I will continuously write for the next 8 hours.
Signed this 2nd day of August 2007.
Stephany A.
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| Topic: Rate-a-guy question
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| Subject: Rate-a-guy question - Posted: 8/2/2007 10:32:02 PM
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| hopeful1 wrote: | |
hmmm I completed a rate-a-guy form but didn‘t see the option for entering the individual numbers to come up with a score like the others have.
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WomanSavers is currently not accepting the survey question and answer portion, only comments, until the laws become more clear in the future.
If you have any problems posting a guy, please email techsupport@womansavers.com
Thanks,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: FOX Morning Show flying me to NYC
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| Subject: FOX Morning Show flying me to NYC - Posted: 8/3/2007 10:54:27 AM
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My media schedule is getting more insane. I‘ll post the show after it airs.
I am going up against a woman who teaches people how to cheat discretely and safely and she is promoting her book.
Her website is the50milerule.com.
Comments please.
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| Topic: 23 More Days Til Burning Man & Counting: PHOTOS!
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| Subject: 23 More Days Til Burning Man & Counting: PHOTOS! - Posted: 8/3/2007 10:58:15 AM
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| still pissed wrote: | |
dude where do i sign up!!! right up my ally
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Burningman.com
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| Topic: FOX Morning Show flying me to NYC
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| Subject: FOX Morning Show flying me to NYC - Posted: 8/3/2007 12:46:54 PM
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| shally wrote: | |
Chaos, you can ask questions....type in 50 not fifty
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Good catch. Back to writing now.
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| Topic: FOX Morning Show flying me to NYC
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| Subject: FOX Morning Show flying me to NYC - Posted: 8/3/2007 1:57:33 PM
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Oh brother (rolls eyes). As if keeping a relationship happy, strong and honest isn‘t hard enough already....
Booked 5 more media interviews today.
I no longer sleep.
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| Topic: You are not your past.
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| Subject: You are not your past. - Posted: 8/3/2007 8:17:37 PM
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| yasmnina wrote: | |
Something I just read from Barbara De Angelis Dont define yourself or let others define you by what has happened to you or what you have been through, Dont define yourself by your pain, not even by your triumphs. You are more than that. You might be divorced, but you are not a divorce. You might have an illness, but you are not sickly. You might have been fired from your job, but you are not without use or purpose. You might have lost someone or something, but you are not a loser. You might have made a mistake about something, but you are not a failure. Your wounds are a holy shrine, where you have been transformed. They are signs of your delivery; they are not your weakness. They are the road you have travelled; they are not who you are. Dont hide them, make excuses for them or judge them. Embrace your scars. Respect them. If others notice them, say proudly: "They tell a remarkable story about how I became brave and wise" (Translated from Danish.) Hugs. Yasmina
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| Topic: FOX Morning Show flying me to NYC
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| Subject: FOX Morning Show flying me to NYC - Posted: 8/3/2007 9:19:39 PM
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| Gutted wrote: | plastic saccharine donut.
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Plastic Sacharine Donut?! ha ha ha
Best line of the week!
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| Topic: FOX Morning Show flying me to NYC
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| Subject: FOX Morning Show flying me to NYC - Posted: 8/4/2007 11:29:39 AM
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| Persona Non Grata wrote: | Little Miss have you ever done an interview with a British newspaper/magazine/etc? Would you do one if you were asked?
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No, I have never done an interview with the British media. Of course, I would be honored to do an interview with any form of British media. Feel free to send them my way and/or email any connections or contacts you may have to womansavers@womansavers.com
Yes, I know I need to slow down. I‘ll be on snail pace for 8 days in a few weeks at Burning Man.
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| Topic: FOX Morning Show flying me to NYC
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| Subject: FOX Morning Show flying me to NYC - Posted: 8/5/2007 4:57:53 AM
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$250/head for 7 days. Must camp or bring RV and enough food and water for 7 days. $300+ at the door.
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| Topic: 23 More Days Til Burning Man & Counting: PHOTOS!
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| Subject: 23 More Days Til Burning Man & Counting: PHOTOS! - Posted: 8/13/2007 11:43:36 AM
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| airball wrote: | |
Your post, especially the photos, were so cool, girl. Thanks. It‘s inspiring. Of course, I‘ve heard about Burning Man, but I don‘t know much about it. Is there a formal program of events, like at Lollapalooza? Or does stuff just happen? Is it a hedonistic scene? Free sex? Open alcohol and drug use? Do cops show up? Is there a concert stage with music and other performances? What‘s the ratio of guys to girls?
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There is a program of events AND stuff just happens. Formal it is not.
There are nudists and most women go topless but no, it is not really a hedonistic scene and definitely no free sex, unless of course you meet someone and you are mutually attracted to each other. Open alcohol use, yes, open drug use, not more than a few joints being passed around. In-house security is hired so cops do not show up. However, there are a few under covers that search for drug dealers.
There are many concert stages everywhere and all types of performances, including amateur cirque du soleil-type performances.
Ratio of guys to girls is even ages 18 to 70.
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| Topic: 23 More Days Til Burning Man & Counting: PHOTOS!
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| Subject: 23 More Days Til Burning Man & Counting: PHOTOS! - Posted: 8/13/2007 5:01:09 PM
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| blkmagic wrote: |
Wow I want to go next year! How do I sign up? This looks like so much fun and my son knew about it. Have fun girl. See ya next year!!!
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BurningMan.com
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| Topic: Is Having an "Online Wife" Adultery?
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| Subject: Is Having an "Online Wife" Adultery? - Posted: 8/16/2007 1:38:07 PM
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Hell yes. Physical adultery is just as damaging as emotional adultery - both result in the destruction of the relationship. This man is selfish and should choose his fantasy "wife" or his real one.LMWS
Is Having an Online Wife Adultery?Posted Aug 15th 2007 10:43AM by Joshua Fruhlinger
Filed under: Computers, Video Games
It‘s Sunday morning at 6AM, and Dutch Hoorenbeek rolls out of bed to
check on his strip club and do some renovations to an outside party
deck. He then fires several tenants in his mall for not paying rent,
signs up four new ones, and transports to his office to spend some time
with his wife, Tenaj Jackelope.
The
thing is, in real life, Dutch Hoorenbeek is actually Ric Hoogestraat, a
call-center operator making $14 an hour. He‘s also married to Sue
Hoogestraat, not Tenaj Jackelope.
Confusing? It should be. Turns
out that Ric and Sue‘s marriage is on the rocks. She contends that he
spends more time online in Second Life, a virtual universe currently
home to 30 million players, with his online wife. Sue spends her days
in front of the television, while Ric is in the other room running a
virtual night club and consorting with his online wife, sometimes for
as long as 14 hours at a time on weekends.
Although Sue
Hoogestraat has attended "gaming widow" support groups, she sees no way
out. "Basically, the other person is widowed," she told the Wall St.
Journal. "This other life is so wonderful; it‘s better than real life.
Nobody gets fat, nobody gets gray. The person that‘s left can‘t compete
with that."
Ric believes that what he‘s doing is harmless. "It‘s just a game," he
says. Experts, however, have found most recently that feelings that
people have online -- connections with other virtual characters, loss,
friendship, and even love -- are in fact real emotions, and humans
don‘t have the ability to switch off between what they feel on- and
off-line.
Addiction to online gaming is a common thread these
days. What appears to be on the rise, however, is a notion that people
could be cheating on their real-life spouses in virtual worlds. While
divorce courts don‘t currently consider such indiscretions adultery,
lawyers appear ready to change their minds on that. Could the courts be
far behind?
From The Wall St. Journal
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| Topic: Comedienne Elayne Boosler supports WomanSavers!
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| Subject: Comedienne Elayne Boosler supports WomanSavers! - Posted: 8/16/2007 9:29:59 PM
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I got to meet celebrity comedienne Elayne Boosler in Chicago last week and she is one of the most gifted and funniest women on earth. I also love Amy Poehler from Madd TV. I got the chance to discuss the goals of WomanSavers and her dog non-profit organization and she was fully supportive....even wanted me to think of a way we could work together.
I love her!
....it was so hot and humid in Chi-town. Think we look a little greasy or what?!
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| Topic: Jim Day (political cartoonist) is a lying bastard!
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| Subject: Jim Day (political cartoonist) is a lying bastard! - Posted: 8/20/2007 12:34:43 AM
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Ruby2sday!
Wow, what a crazy story. Quite horrible, actually.
Yes, you should probably just move on at this point.........but, writing a book about your tales would make quite an interesting read.
Feel free to post or vent here any time. Thank you for posting.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: Web Cam Sex /Cyber Sex - Cheating or Not?
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| Subject: Web Cam Sex /Cyber Sex - Cheating or Not? - Posted: 8/20/2007 12:47:09 AM
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Djonna,
Definitely cheating, especially since it is having a negative effect on your relationship and your self esteem. Place the entire computer screen on your boyfriend‘s pillow and tell him to sleep with that from now on since he seems to prefer spending time with a "fantasy" woman rather than a real one. That‘s what one of our past members did when she had a similar problem to yours.
If my boyfriend were doing that instead of doing me, I‘d tell him to hit the road. You may wish to consider doing the same if he isn‘t willing to make an effort in the very near future.
Good luck and feel free to vent or give advice here any time.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: Happy Birthday LORRIE
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| Subject: Happy Birthday LORRIE - Posted: 8/20/2007 9:54:59 AM
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Happy Birthday Lorrie. Thank you for your continued support. I hope you have a wonderful day and are full of smiles!
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| Topic: Are You Suing Your Ex?
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| Subject: Are You Suing Your Ex? - Posted: 8/22/2007 9:35:19 AM
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This is a legitimate post. If any members need help suing one of their ex-partners, they will be able to give you assistance. Plus, you get to be on TV and get a free trip. Bonus! :)
And if applicable, I will fly out, meet you, give you my advice and may get worked into the show also.
Little Miss WomanSaver
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| Topic: Are You Suing Your Ex?
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| Subject: Are You Suing Your Ex? - Posted: 8/22/2007 9:04:31 PM
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| Persona Non Grata wrote: |
Can I sue you LMWS for telling people here that I was "Abby Normal" when you knew fine well that I wasn‘t?
You defamed me and you know it!!
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 Since you are the Queen of Multiple Personalities, I was never sure who you were until I actually started phoning people. Do whatever floats your boat. I‘d love to see what you really look like, LadyBoy.
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| Topic: how to spot an asshole man
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| Subject: how to spot an asshole man - Posted: 8/23/2007 11:02:58 PM
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* If he talks down to you, he‘s an asshole.
* If he pays no attention to you, he‘s an asshole.
* If he flirts with your friends, he‘s an asshole.
* If he obviously leares at other women while he‘s with you, he‘s an asshole.
* If he criticizes you in public, he‘s an asshole.
* If he is rude to hired help, he‘s an asshole.
* If he has a "my shit doesn‘t stink" attitude, he‘s an asshole.
* If he doesn‘t help around the house, he‘s an asshole.
* If he spends all his spare time watching sports, he‘s an asshole.
* If he chooses porn over having sex with you, he‘s an asshole.
* If he only pleases himself with no consideration for your needs sexually, he‘s an asshole.
Great thread, Lorrie!
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| Topic: Are You Suing Your Ex?
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| Subject: Are You Suing Your Ex? - Posted: 8/23/2007 11:12:33 PM
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No problemo Yasmina. This involved no financial compensation for WomanSavers at all. I thought it might be beneficial for a member who needed legal counsel and couldn‘t afford the costs of legal fees herself.
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| Topic: HI FROM LONDON!!!
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| Subject: HI FROM LONDON!!! - Posted: 8/23/2007 11:14:57 PM
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Hi London LadyBlu,
You are one lucky lady. Cherish your love.
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: WomanSavers gone to Burning Man Festival Aug 27-Sept 6
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| Subject: WomanSavers gone to Burning Man Festival Aug 27-Sept 6 - Posted: 8/25/2007 6:58:44 PM
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WomanSavers.com will be at the Burning Man Festival August 27 - September 6. If any of you are going, please stop at our camp and say "hello."
Bon Voyage,
Little Miss WomanSaver, Site Founder
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| Topic: Montel Williams searching for WomanSavers audience members in NYC
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| Subject: Montel Williams searching for WomanSavers audience members in NYC - Posted: 9/4/2007 8:19:40 AM
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| Montel Williams Show is searching for WomanSavers audience members in the New York City (Manhattan) area for a taping on Wednesday, September 3 about cheating. They will provide tickets at no charge and car pick-up and drop-off. Any WomanSavers members in the New York area who are interested, please email k_handson@montelshow.com and let them know that I (Stephany Alexander) from WomanSavers referred you.
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| Topic: Montel Williams searching for WomanSavers audience members in NYC
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| Subject: Montel Williams searching for WomanSavers audience members in NYC - Posted: 9/5/2007 8:42:17 AM
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| Oops, typo. Meant Sept 5. I just got the email yesterday but they sent it about a week ago. I‘m back from the Burning Man Festival and as usual, I had a fantastic time. I need a week to recover from a week of vacation!! :)
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| Topic: Montel Williams searching for WomanSavers audience members in NYC
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| Subject: Montel Williams searching for WomanSavers audience members in NYC - Posted: 9/5/2007 1:32:00 PM
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| LittleMissWomansaver wrote: | | Oops, typo. Meant Sept 5. I just got the email yesterday but they sent it about a week ago. I‘m back from the Burning Man Festival and as usual, I had a fantastic time. I need a week to recover from a week of vacation!! :) |
Pics please!
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It will be a few weeks before I have time to download, edit & upload photos. Soon come. :)
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| Topic: Hey one of you
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| Subject: Hey one of you - Posted: 9/6/2007 10:10:22 AM
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Hi Wire,
Long time no see!!! How are you??
That was me and that was the Fox Morning Show with Mike and Juliette in New York City. I will have the clipping of the show on the site in the "Publicity" section (upper right of banner) shortly. I only got 1 sentence in on the entire show because the audience and the show host got in an argument with the woman who wrote a book on how to cheat better and more discreetly. It was great experience and lots of fun. It helped my fear of public speaking a lot. I‘m finally confident enough to do TV now and did another TV spot this week which I will also upload. Radio is easy and I am doing another interview today, tomorrow and 4 more next week.
You are missed here!
Steph aka "Little Miss WomanSaver"
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| Topic: URGENT! Natl. TV Show looking for women wanting to catch their cheater
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| Subject: URGENT! Natl. TV Show looking for women wanting to catch their cheater - Posted: 9/6/2007 10:52:50 AM
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National TV show is looking for women who think their husband or boyfriend is cheating and want to catch them. If you are interested in having a private investigator find out the truth, the segment is Wednesday, September 12. You will be flown out to New York City, put up in a hotel room and receive transportation to and from the airport. You will receive the services of a private investigator at no charge. They will cover 1 - 2 nights at a great hotel which I can vouch for. Please email me asap at womansavers@womansavers.com if interested.
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| Topic: Hey one of you
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| Subject: Hey one of you - Posted: 9/6/2007 11:48:07 AM
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| shally wrote: | |
Thank you sooo much wire, that has been driving me nuts about alex. But the girl you were friends with started with a b...was it bunnie or bambi? I don‘t know.....That was almost 3 years ago, you must be well into college now. Wow
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Shally, you may be thinking about Bunnyluvin who still comes around once in a while. Last I heard, I think she was thinking about becoming a stripper.
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| Topic: Hey one of you
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| Subject: Hey one of you - Posted: 9/6/2007 9:22:02 PM
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| shally wrote: |
Thank you, so much. That was her name.
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There is a photograph of Bunnyluvin‘s belly button ring which she created with the "Li |