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Yes, I know---living a life well, is the best revenge. That‘s BS and you know it!  Let‘s have fun by posting some really good revenge ideas. C‘mon. You‘re women. You have instinctually some great ideas I‘m sure.  Post away, ladies.

No - I would definitely say the best revenge is a good life.  Nothing makes a vindictive ex crazier than to see you happy and doing well - in spite of his best efforts to bring you down.  That one tends to get them where they live, and you don‘t have to do anything at all - except take good care of yourself.

However, that doesn‘t mean I wasn‘t ornery.

Since he gave me an STD, I made him get a complete STD screen, HIV test, complete with a swab up the penis. 

I also told all of my friends and family.  He never felt comfortable going around them ever again because they all knew what a shit he was. 

I insisted that he tell his family what he did which was very hard for him to do, because he had painted himself as such a "hero" in their eyes - the hard working, devoted father putting in long hours, going on "2 - 3 hours sleep a night" (which was pure bullshit) and trying to get his whole family to feel sorry for him  because he had it "so rough."  He had painted me as a bad wife.  I made sure he told them every single detail - the woman in the truck for 3 weeks - the STD - and the family income that he used to wine and dine his "twinkie."  After years of him making me out to be "the bitch" I wouldn‘t rest unless he did that. 

He didn‘t have the same wife after his escapades that he had had before.  Once I‘ve been badly burned or betrayed, I never quite feel the same way about someone again.  I changed.  I stopped being sweet.  I didn‘t give the shirt off my back anymore.  I didn‘t trust him anymore.  I didn‘t care if he was cheating.  He could have done every "lot lizard" in every truck stop in the US and I would not have cared.  I am like that when someone betrays me - it is just over.   I didn‘t build his ego anymore.  I started thinking about what was good for me. 

That is when the really serious fights started, and the fighting seriously turned to domestic violence.  I hated him.  He had always had a really bad temper, but in the past I had appeased him.  I wasn‘t willing to do that anymore. His Bi/Polar disorder worsened and escalated.  Those were really bad years.  I should have divorced him immediately rather than to live like that.

I don‘t really feel bad that I did all that stuff because he really did have it coming and it made me feel better to see him pay for the way he had treated me.  However, the problem with it is that you just continue to invite retaliation and then you just never move on. 

And did he ever retaliate...for years, in every way possible, and made my life a living hell.  He had my neighbors spying on me.  He filed false CPS reports against me.  He ran up the legal fees to the hilt in the divorce just because he wanted to fight, and then filed a Chapter 7 bankruptcy so that no one could come after him for the bills.  So of course, I got the "retaliation" of creditors coming after me.  There was constant harassment for years.  I took him to court last year with contempt of court charges finally, and he has left me alone ever since.  That wasn‘t me being vindictive - that was me looking out for my kids.

So you have to be careful with revenge.

my revenge isn‘t finished yet but i went through the courts.  my ex has fled his home and his family because of our divorce.  he is on the run because of an arrest warrent.  he will have to spend the holidays alone because he knows i am watching his parents house for when he comes home to have him arrested.  his employers know all the details of his divorce as well as his family and my family.  that i know of he has lost most of his life long friends because of this, but i live on knowing he will go to jail.  he will become some mans bitch in prision and all i can say is when it happens i hope he thinks of me and realizes that this all could have been avoided if he had been honest and gotten help.  he CHOSE to cheat, he CHOSE to steal, he CHOSE to not work, he CHOSE to do drugs. so he chose the path i took. 

i got to change his life like he changed mine.  i got the house, the cars, the furniture EVERYTHING.  that was the best i could do, turn his life upside down and make him start over again and again and again.

i think the lyrics to carrie underwoods new song sum it up perfectly. 

Right now he‘s probably slow dancing with a bleached-blond tramp,
and she‘s probably getting frisky...
right now, he‘s probably buying her some fruity little drink cause she can‘t shoot whiskey...

Right now, he‘s probably up behind her with a pool-stick, showing her how to shoot a combo...

And he don‘t know...

That I dug my key into the side of his pretty little suped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seat...
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

And maybe next time he‘ll think before he cheats.

Right now, she‘s probably up singing some
white-trash version of Shania karoke..
Right now, she‘s probably saying "I‘m drunk"
and he‘s a thinking that he‘s gonna lucky,
Right now, he‘s probably dabbing 3 dollars worth of that bathroom Polo...

And he don‘t know...

That I dug my key into the side of his pretty little suped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seat,
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

And maybe next time he‘ll think before he cheats.

I might saved a little trouble for the next girl,
Cause the next time that he cheats...

Oh, you know it won‘t be on me!

Ohh... not on me...
Cause I dug my key into the side of his pretty little suped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seat...
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

Maybe next time he‘ll think before he cheats.

Ohh.. Maybe next time he‘ll think before he cheats...

Ohh... before he cheats...

Hey Ladies.  :)

I‘ve never been much for revenge.  I‘ve always thought that if you give a moron enough rope, he‘ll hang himself.  Trust me, men like this will eventually screw the wrong person, and then he will get punished.  My lying, cheating, stealing ex finally did it to himself.  9 months after we broke up, i found out online that he had been using money in my checking account.  He apparently had written down the cid and debit card #.  Now, his other victims of his theft felt sorry for him and nothing happened.  I filed a police report and also filed a report to my bank.  Also, he used my credit cards to buy about 5000$ worth of goods without my permission.  I have reported that to the credit card company, and they also are trying to prosecute him for credit card fraud.

Because they will eventually screw up their own lives, put them out of your mind.  You‘ve learned a lesson, and that is good.  Take your knowledge and your innate intuition into your next possible relationship.  Give a guy a chance, even if he isn‘t your "type".  Take care of yourself; you deserve men who treat you like a princess and compliment you and love you for who you are. Keep all these small things in mind and you eventually will find your soul mate. 

And when your ex sees how happy you are in your new relationship, how you have gotten more confidence and seem to glow from the inside, you will have your revenge.  I promise you that.  :) 

The best revenge would be to win the lottery and not have to share a dime!!

 I always wanted to super glue all his key holes to his car,aparment,dresser drawers whatever.But the best revenge is to see you happy and make him eat his own words.

kittygobyebye wrote:

Let‘s just say my ex forgot to pay a few speeding tickets.... and maybe a letter came in the mail which stated that his license could be suspended if he did not pay the tickets..... and let‘s just say that I was so busy packing so I could get the hell out of dodge that I didn‘t see that letter.... there were so many letters... how could I possibly remember?.... 3 weeks later my ex is driving along and gets pulled over..... my poor ex.... he didn‘t know his license was suspended....what a shame.... now the ex gets arrested.... taken away in handcuffs in a police car.... his car which he loved more than his kids gets towed.... funny, when the day began he didn‘t need me or want me but suddenly he needs me... and he says "I don‘t have anyone else to go to".....silly me I should have told him that his speeding tickets were due...... but dammit! Maybe I just forgot Is this story true? Maybe. Maybe not. I plead the 5th.

Ha ha. You ladies are VICIOUS. I LOVE IT!!!!

How about if he gets the house cause you can‘t afford it.  You pack your stuff up and just happen to leave a few raw scallops and shrimp sewn into various curtains around the place?  Eventually the sun will cook them up to a perfectly ripe stench.  You offer to sell the house for him since he can‘t stand the smell and can‘t find anything wrong.  Of course no one will buy it!  So you offer to take it off his hands for really cheap since it is not inhabitable any longer.  Then go in and tear down those curtains and paint.  NICE!!

P.S. This is a true story!   HAHAHA!

I knew one woman who used to work at the credit union where I do all my banking.  She was a sweet little thing!  Nice as pie, very good at customer service, and wouldn‘t harm a flea.

Until she found out her husband was cheating....

At first, she was devastated, crying a lot, lost weight, and looked really sad all the time.  Everyone said "Poor Lee Ann." 

Then she got mad...and suddenly, she changed her hair, her clothes, started "power dressing," and got really assertive...

She apparently didn‘t let on to her husband that she knew he was still seeing the other woman.  She didn‘t say a word for several months.  During one week of one of his "business trips" she sold a lot of his stuff (skis, power tools, TV set, etc.).  She got cash advances on several of his credit cards (she knew the passwords at the cash machines), closed out all joint accounts and withdrew whatever money was in them, shut off all the power and utilities, and was out of the house by the time he got home.  He came home to an empty house with no electricity or water, and was served with divorce papers by the sheriff at his job a day later.

I only dream to be this stong and independent I highly look up to women with this much bravery and smarts GOOD for YOU!!!!!!!!

me either manslaughter I also wonder if it ever exsited or for that matter if there is a "good" man out there as we speak I‘m being abused run over the coals I hope I can get my revenge someday and find nmy OWN happiness for me and my children!!!!!