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Well to start off Damon Gilmer is a manipulating,nimphomatic,#@$%#$%&#$%$. To start off he has a million and one children all over the world and does not take care of or claim any of them. He looks for women to take advantage of and tries to collect off of their income in order to support his self. Trust me ladies if you ever hook up with this man he will get you pregnant and leave you hangin. He currently resides in Oxnard,CA (VENTURA COUNTY)with his current pregnant one of many girlfriends. I feel very sorry for her considering she is now having his baby and didnt know he had others and was and still is trying to sleep with all his baby mamas. DAMON GILMER will cheat on you at the drop of a dime or anything else that drops. Another things is which is pretty obvious is he does not use any type of protection so who knows what he is carrying now. When I was with him he politely passed one of his STD's to me. I tell you ladies that mean cheated on me more than I can count. Not to mention the women he impreganted along the way. Personally I dont feel the man believes in relationships unless he is being taken care of and even then you really dont have him because you will eventually find out he is sleeping with some girl down the street or on the streets. Which is what happened to me. This man cheated before I got pregnant, while I was pregnant, while I gave birth to his child, after I had the kid, later after that and I didnt even mention I didnt find out until later that he had girls pregnant while I was pregnant,before I was pregnant and even after. He joined the military and was stationed in Germany and currently has a child there and all this while his WIFE was back at home with their newborn child. He even left the girl in Germany pregnant and doenst have anything to do with that child either. This man left me for one of the women he was cheating on me with and eventually she contacted me later crying to let me know he was trying to sleep with all of her friends and had cheated on her with a million other girls one which one was 16 years old. To top that off he left her for a girl he was cheating with and that he got pregnant after only one month. Damon claims to be this smooth type of guy and drsses like he came out of New York somewhere (sometimes) but talks likes he's a surfer. He wants so bad to be in the music biz but he cant decide whether he wants to be a rocker or a rapper. He's kind of like a Ozzie Osbourne slash Jay-Z. He is also very into Basketball matter of fact he played at Oxnard College and attended and played at Santa Clara High School. He particularly stakes out caucasion females to take advanatage of but he does not discriminate against any color Vagina to get into. I recently saw him and he tried to sleep with me again despite all the drama I went through not to mention he does not see our kid at ALL and remember he is currently with another girl and she's pregnant and I found out that he is still trying to sleep with the girl that he cheated on me with to this very day. Anyway I could go on and on about what this man is like but I think if you read this much your getting the picture. So ladies I am warning you if you dont want your life turned upside down you better leave this man alone! Me and some of the other baby mamas have already gotten together to hope and pray that all of our children dont end up like their father and also to discuss little our petty child support payments which we dont get enough of because we have to split it like the dam lotto. If you dont want to join the DAMON LAMONT GILMER BABY MAMA CHILD SUPPORT/BABIES DONT GET NO LOVE CLUB then you better STAY CLEAR of this man. Leave hime to his new victim Tessa. She'll be joining us soon Im sure. So now the child support is just gonna be split to many ways. I at least want the current members to get enough to keep up with the current gas prices. If you see this man (6' 1", tattoos on arms, chest, and neck, black hair, brown eyes (eyes kinda red like he needs Visine), skinny like a needle, big lips, yellow teeth with spaces in the middle RUN AWAY FAST!!!! You can chance it if you want to but either you'll be at the nearest clinic or be stuck on the DAMON GILMER CHILD SUPPORT PAYROLL. Stay away ladies he is not relaionship material, he's more like a confused BROKE anorexic baby makin, cheatin african american not big pimpin Bill Clinton. We sometimes call him "DAMON HOOD" robs from the rich and sleeps with the poor, disabled, addicts, elderly, somewhat rich, under age, fertile, blind, wanted, green, red, from another planet, blonde, red head, bald, etc. As long as he can gain something off of you he in it to win it. WATCH OUT. If you do happen to see Damon Gilmer ask him what number kid he's on now and please update the system. If you see him with his current victim break down and give the girl a hug, and let her know not to worry they have penicillin and all the other latest medications for her problems, and remind her that the Ventura County Child Support Division office can help her with her paperwork and while your at it give her a dollar. She's gonna need it. As far a Damon goes just hand that man as many condoms as you think will fit in his pockets, if he looks at you for more than 30 seconds hurry up and get to the doctor and take a pregancy test. I dont know if that man even has to take your pants off anymore to get you pregnant. It might just be in his breath. Good luck ladies.

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3/31/2006 10:58:19 PM - who is this?? becky???? whoever it is, dont hate the playa hate the fuckin game. you look stupid for getting with his ass. you knew what you were getting yourself into. ever heard the saying you cant teach an old dog new tricks? and do NOT put Tessa's name in this. It's no one of your business what goes on in their life.

4/3/2006 1:28:59 PM - No, his new baby mama looks stupid for getting with his ass. She'd been warned. Remember, (and I'm quoting you here) "You can't teach an old dog new tricks?" So who's REALLY getting played?

4/4/2006 8:48:19 PM - You are so studip! All the baby mamas - don't you all know about birth control and condoms yourself. Don't put all the blame on the male. You should look out for yourself. If you want to spread your legs for every Tom, Dick, and Harry at least your studip ass should insist on them using a condom. You're both to blame. Have fun and your next baby mamas pity party!

4/5/2006 2:45:48 PM - Yes I agree! BUT, keep in mind Damon is a liar. He doesn't tell all the women he impregnates that he's a man whore . . . or that he already has 5 kids. So here come these girls all open and trusting and WHAM! They think they're in love and believe they're different from the 2,000 girls before them. Damon is good at making people believe he's changed and he wants better for himself. Stupidity does not = naivity. But evil and selfish = Damon

4/5/2006 9:54:35 PM - Why don't you ladies find a life. I'm signing off now!

4/5/2006 11:18:39 PM - If Damon is so happy and wants everyone to stop talking about him why does he keep trying to contact everyone?

4/5/2006 11:54:53 PM - To everyone on hear writing and Damon. Damon you will pay for your wrong doings in the end. You never seem to learn. Your name is posted hear alot of times and I see from all the rebuttals you want so bad to know who all the females are. How do you know it's all females on hear telling what we know. Sometimes it can be the closest people to you. Think man. It's not only good females, bad females, crackheads, ex-girlfriends, wives, or ho's you fucked over. There also friends. Stop trying to narrow it down man it's too many and there will be more to tell there stories as time goes by. You deserve everything you get in life and from all these people. You'll figure out who I am later. I'll be the laughing when shit blows up in your face! Carry on ladies!PEACE!

4/6/2006 12:28:56 PM - Damon has no idea about this website and neither does Tessa, but I do! You girls need to leave him alone and get a life!

4/6/2006 1:05:40 PM - How can we when we're raising HIS babies by ourselves??? You people are so STUPID! You ain't gonna win this. There are too many people he has fucked with/still trying to fuck with. The truth can't be ignored.

4/14/2006 3:11:24 PM - Does anybody truly know how many kids Damon really has?

4/14/2006 3:14:50 PM - Better yet can Tessa let the world know what disease he is currently carrying so other women can know. I mean come on lets be real Tessa is not the only girl in his life and won't be the last so the women of the world have a right to know what they are getting into or whats getting in to them.

4/19/2006 12:21:54 PM - 4/14/06 Tessa can't spend time telling people whats going on with Damon. Shes dealing with her own problems. She needs time to figure out what he gave her that has her foaming at the mouth.

4/19/2006 4:47:10 PM - You all knew what you were getting yourselves into and you all that you could change him and you all got paid. you handed him all your pennies, your sanity, your love and god only knows what else. take this as a lesson learned! take your 50 bucks a month in child support and move on with your lives. he never did and never will do anything for you.

4/20/2006 11:56:01 AM - Say whatever you want Damon. This really isnt between everyone else and all the males and females on here. This is between you and us. I "guarantee" you what went around is going to come right back around on you. You can continue to get on here and talk talk talk, but your only digging your own hole. Keep on talking Damon.

4/20/2006 12:14:22 PM - once again i will tell all ya'll, tessa nor damon are on here... he does have FAMILY & close FRIENDS that love him!!

4/20/2006 12:40:57 PM - who cares about that. Damons startign drama and we all love it. Family and close friends STAY TUNED!!!

4/20/2006 8:51:29 PM - Damon is not starting anything here. Why does it seem like you all wish he were actually on here communicating with you????? Oh yeah, FYI Im keeping all of these comments/messages/post/threats just in case anyone tries to do anything to MY BROTHER. And I'm not hiding behind no anonymous bullshit. DONT FUCK WITH MY FAMILY. -Stassi

4/21/2006 9:24:02 AM - Who cares what your keeping? Maybe you need to think harder darling. We "can " do this! Think "hard" about some of the things that have been put up here about people your not even sure about..and plus there is to much proof of threats that your brother has made and does not realize plus just the proof people have that are not "words". Maybe you and the family should sit down and use your time wisely like hmm...teaching your brother that he does not have go for the goal for babies in all 50 states plus other countries and maybe how to treat women, or is this how you would want someone to treat you. Please dont use a comeback of " I would not be that stupid". It happens

4/21/2006 9:35:20 AM - This isn't his sister but, YOU ARE THAT STUPID. Forget about him and enrich your mind sittiing on your fat ass at the computer isn't going to change him and talking trash isn't going to change him. Only he can change himself. I'm sure Damon was taught right but when everyone grows up they make their own choices. If you're one of his victims with his kid(s) sorry for ya!

4/21/2006 9:46:37 AM - You think this is about changing Damon...PLEASE! Thats what you have been thinking. NO YOUR STUPID! Who cares how Damon is really what ever Damon has done or is doing he will have to deal with on his own. Once again talk all the stuff you want this wont stop. Continue to talk about about whoever you want on here who cares. Your still not the winner. The "VICTIMS" will always always come out on top.

4/21/2006 9:54:43 AM - No you VICTIMS are the losers! See how upset you are, Damon must be some guys to have all of you still attached. GET A LIFE AND MOVE ON STUPID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THIS ISN'T A WIN OR LOSE SITUATION!!!!!!!!!!!!

4/21/2006 9:59:53 AM - WWWWWWRRRROOONNNNGGGGG!!!!!!! This is definitley a win or loose situation. Still attached PLEASE. No connections here. I guess I was a lucky one. I

4/21/2006 10:00:45 AM - Then, go find a life!!!!!!!!

4/21/2006 10:34:44 AM - Come on dont lose it now, your words are helping us out more than what you know. We are all smiling! Arent you? Trying to get your words together? Feel like your wasting your time? Yep I have to admit you are. This really isnt changing anything for you. Just makes you feel like you have done something. Dont stress your brain off the computer either because we will still come out on top. Have a beautiful day.

4/21/2006 10:59:28 AM - Yea, I'm smiling all the way to the bank. I'm a productive citizen of society you should try getting off welfare and contribute too. You have a nice day also.

4/21/2006 11:41:38 AM - J are you over here? Did you take care of that stuff for me?

4/21/2006 11:56:26 AM - Im here. I took care of everything. some girl contacted me on the site and she was talking some crazy shit. ill forward you the details and you guys can go from there. ill be on the other site for awhile k.

4/21/2006 12:00:27 PM - RIGHT ON! ILL TALK TO YOU LATER AND WE CAN GO OVER THE REST. N THE MEANTIME TAKE CARE OF THE PAPERWORK AND MAKE THE FLYERS. MAIL THE PICS TO THE FORWARDED EMAIL.

4/21/2006 1:26:40 PM - STOP WASTING YOUR TIME TRYING TO FRONT AND GET REAL JOBS!!!!!!!!

4/21/2006 1:28:36 PM - Also,'J' AND 'K', WHERE'S 'L'?????

4/21/2006 3:52:44 PM - Still wasting your time I see. If your not worried about anything or anybody why are you still responding on this site. Im sure you have other things to woory about..dont you.

4/21/2006 6:38:50 PM - You're all dumb ass bitches. Let me catch one of you posting one of these "flyers". Google the name "Robin Yanes"...keep talking ..... And you're right, I WOULDNT be that stupid. Take notes, maybe you could learn a thing or two L, S, N I dont't care what your code name is. I'm still saving everything that's written. Regardless of if it's true or not it's still slander. Byebye

4/21/2006 6:52:59 PM - Please note how Stassi posts messages AFTER five p.m. because she hass a REAL JOB and doesn't spend her time boohoo'in over no man. HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Love, Stassi

4/21/2006 9:20:55 PM - why do you feel the need to save when the website is available for everyone to have access to. Damon why are you passing yourself off as a girl? Pick a better name.

4/21/2006 9:25:24 PM - Wow such anger! is something bothering you assi?

4/21/2006 9:28:05 PM - Please let us all know what you will do if you find someone passing out a flyer. We just have to know.

4/21/2006 9:32:22 PM - This is hilarious! Damon has gone from ass to assi! And shes angry! Calm down assi evryone goes through a dry spell.

4/21/2006 9:46:26 PM - Who the hell is Assi?

4/21/2006 9:49:32 PM - Read the dam line STUPID! Assi is the one practicing her alphabets talking about giggles, slander, and Robin Hood. It's Damons new name!

4/21/2006 10:00:29 PM - My name is ASSI and You're all dumb ass bitches!Let me catch one of you passing out flyers! Giggle the name Robin Hood! WESTSIDE! Keep talking...what you say....I said write on the MUTHA$^#$%# chalkboard beeyatch! ABCDEFG...whats my MUTHA$#$%#$% code name! Im saving evrything on my disk! what...did you just disrespect me fool..bow down...regardless of if it's true or not it's still slander bitch! ByeBye, Toodles

4/21/2006 10:03:36 PM - What...YOU WANNA PEACE OF ME....to bad I only post messages after 5pm. Dont have time to be boohoo'in over no man! I gots me a job BITCH! Leave a message.

4/21/2006 10:13:46 PM - You guys are crazy.LOL

4/22/2006 12:56:24 AM - Damon you have to be the weakest person all of us have ever known. Get some help. You can easily wipe everyone out of your life by dismissing yourself from the this website, but your the one who never seems to really let go of people. If your not visiting, then your calling, if your not calling then your on WomenSavers.com. Wipe everyone out and get off of here. Why do you, Tessa, and whoever else feel the need to be on here. If you guys feel so threatened and bothered why are you still on here writing and responding. If you stay on here then I guess your the one not letting go. No matter what is said by you or your corny people these kind of things are still going to happen to you.

4/22/2006 8:51:45 AM - Yeah!! I see I have some other peps riding in my posse. Lets Ride!! To the Bitches Against Damon Club, here we come. What's up Stassi!!!

4/22/2006 9:43:42 AM - WHERE MY BITCHES AT????? WHAT,TRYING TO SLEEPOFF THE HANGOVER FROM LAST NIGHT?? Lets talk fool. WHERE'S THE WHORE PATROL?????? Maybe yall haven't waken up yet from yalls orgy with the Oprah wannabe!!! Yea, that's it,haha....................! You're all LESBIANS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

4/22/2006 9:45:36 AM - Also, to the website technicians, change the time on your DAM CLOCK!!!!!

4/22/2006 10:32:41 AM - No more ASSI No more Assi!

4/22/2006 10:35:32 AM - Some people just cant hang.

4/22/2006 10:38:07 AM - Peps riding my posse? What does that mean?

4/22/2006 10:43:08 AM - You typing seems a little slurred. Spreading STD's is a long days work though. Your forgiven.

4/22/2006 11:26:23 AM - YOU DAM BITCHES! Why are you doin me this way? AFTER ALL I HAVE DONE!!! YOU DIRTY WHORES!!!! Dont you know I cant sleep at night I spend all my dam time dreaming about you guys. Why do you guys make me dream about you! WHY!? YOU DIRTY WHORES DONT KNOW WHAT I HAVE TO GO THROUGH!! Do you know how hard it is waking up to some girl I wish was one of my exes and another DAM BABY!!!! YOU DIRTY WHORES!!! Dont you care what I am going through! DONT YOU!!! I HAVE SO MANY KIDS I LOST COUNT, MY PENIS HURTS, I HAVENT IDENTIFIED THIS RASH ON ME, I HAVE NO MONEY, IM FEELING INSECURE, AND IVE GAINED 10 OUNCES AND NOW I WAY 22 POUNDS. GET OFF MY LITTLE BALLS YOU DAM WHORES!!! Do I have to release the peps in my posse!!!!!!! DAM EVIL BITCHES!!!!! Can I still contact you guys?

4/22/2006 11:37:04 AM - By the way if all of you have become Lesbians can I come over and watch? I have to come when Tessa goes to work though because I cant mess up what me and her have. I need to hang on to her as long as I can...you guys understand right? Aye me so horny!! Im rising just thinking about it.....ohh...ohh....OHHH YOU DIRTY DIRTY GIRLS!!! I mean you DIRTY WHORES sorry Tessa was looking. Ill contact you guys later.

4/22/2006 1:29:31 PM - You're just wishing Damon was on here but he isnt. And you're still a stupid bitch. What are you bragging on yourself. Oh, now you want to be Damon too. You're are real sick. Quit playing games whore.

4/22/2006 1:30:42 PM - Tessa hold me! I have nobody to secretly see anymore.What baby? No I said I dont want to see anyone right now. I love you baby. I know you will stay no matter what I do to you. I know I do alot behind your back, but it doesnt mean I dont love you.What baby? No I said "Can I rub your back for you"? These people are just jealous because you have me now. You can trust me baby. Arent I with you all the time? I dont understand what has brought these problems, but all I know is I just want to be with you and maybe just one of your friends. What baby? No I said I just want to be with you. I love you Tessa!

4/22/2006 1:34:20 PM - Have you not noticed Damon is all around here. He's the whole internet bitch! Does Damon need you to write for him or are you just really bored and interested in his business.

4/22/2006 1:39:18 PM - You dont like the games leave the board bitch. There must be something you really like about all this. let me guess your sleeping with him now and you would like to defend him. Ok thats fine. Speak your mind.

4/22/2006 1:41:57 PM - Don't worry about me Whore. I can write all damn day!! But unlike you with your welfare money, I'm going shopping at the mall. Join me there!!!!!!!!!!

4/22/2006 2:44:25 PM - Welfare? Well I know your not addressing anyone over here. O you dont have to tell people your going to the mall..be honest it's ok to say your heading to the clinic. Thats one place I prefer not to go with. Just let them know your there because of Damon and they'll give you the special. There are season passes on the other website for those who are still in denial. Don't worry all clincs over Ventura county accept them. I have to take a break now though besides you'll need the time to pick up your prescription from the pharmacy. Let US know if you see Damons picture in there for MOST GIVEN MEDICATION OF THE MONTH.

4/22/2006 2:48:43 PM - Good Luck. From all of us!

4/22/2006 2:56:12 PM - Wow, your fourth grade education has really paid off. The name is STASSI and Im Damon's sister. Most of you wouldn't know me because I don't associate with sluts. I know A LOT about you women and I know you're not gonna be happy when the tables are turned and YOUR life is put under a microscope for everyone to digest. Just keep posting messages. We already know who most of you are because a few of you have ADMITTED it. WOW can you really be that dumb. I'm 10 times smarter than all of you (i.e. full time job, full time student, brand new car, brand new house, no kids, no baby's daddys) I'm attending school to be a psychologist and I would gladly offer complimentary counseling to you and your kids...the kids you actually take care of and even the ones you put up for adoption.

4/22/2006 2:56:43 PM - o yeah and since you were on the subject of Welfare..isnt that money that Damon has to pay back for not helping with his children? I think it is. Do your homework. Whatever babymamas might be on here getting Welfare or are planning to ...get that shit. School this dunce on how it goes.

4/22/2006 2:59:41 PM - yeah get that welfare girl! that government cheese sure taste gooooodddd

4/22/2006 3:02:30 PM - Well hello Damons sister. It's nice to meet you. Thats real nice of you to defend your brother. Heres the situation sis. You get on here like your big and bad or like your doing something or threatining people with your words. Remember this..there are always others who are 5 steps ahead of you.

4/22/2006 3:06:07 PM - I heard Damon had people living in the projects. Judging from what you have been writing and whats posted all over the internet your mother must have done a fine job with you two.

4/22/2006 3:08:26 PM - im not threatening anyone sweetie. I'm simply keeping everything that's written. If you guys want to continue putting him on blast be my guest but dont think that I won't do everything in my power to protect him. None of his ex's that I have met are angels. That's like the pot calling the kettle black. You guys are on here like your above him and he's so low and so dirty and grimy and this and that well then what does that make you??? You are no better if not worse than him.

4/22/2006 3:10:00 PM - The projects lol that's really funny. I don't even live in Oxnard first of all. Second of all, it's "too" not "two". If you're trying to diss somebody then come correct.

4/22/2006 3:12:42 PM - Keep my mother out of this.

4/22/2006 3:18:46 PM - At least my family's not living in a trailer park....Oops, no offense Riley

4/22/2006 3:26:49 PM - You must really care about your brother to do this. Thats sweet. Anyways your brother put his self on blast. You can keep all the copies of whatever you want. I think by now everyone in the Unites States has one so who really gives a shit. You say we are no better if not worse than Damon. Give all of us a reason to put this to rest. Explain yourself.

4/22/2006 3:32:37 PM - Yes I love my brother. I might not love the things he's done and the choices he's made but he's still my brother and I would do anything for him. Nothing I say will make you put this to rest. But are you really gaining anything from it? Is all this going to make him want to be a better father? I think not. You must get some kind of joy and excitement out of dragging his name through the mud. And like I said before, if the tables were turned and we put YOUR NAME on the top of this page and started saying all the things you've done in the past, would you come out looking like mother theresa??? NO ONE WOULD! Not even me.

4/22/2006 3:37:51 PM - Im just not the kind of person that would go on a website and put all my personal business out there, regardless of what the situation is. An adult would handle this situation like an adult. Im sure you've all called Damon every name in the book to his face, over the phone whatever. Now it's time to move on! Nothing good is going to come out of this. You might "save" a few women from dating him in the future. But as we all know, Damon has no problems finding girls. He'll be alright. He's married and happy now anyway.

4/22/2006 3:38:34 PM - Are you trying to say "none" of this is true at all?

4/22/2006 3:39:46 PM - So please dont be upset when people start flipping the script. I'm sure soon enough we'll know a lot more about you ladies. That's all for now.

4/22/2006 3:42:21 PM - I'm really not up in his personal business like that. Maybe it's all true, maybe some of it is. Either way it doesn't matter. If you guys really didn't care about him anymore then you wouldn't be doing this. My ex did me wrong but I don't go on talking and thinking about him all the time. (Okay, I dont have kids so I know it's a completely different situation). Those of you who don't have kids with him should take this as a lesson learned and move on with your life. Those of you who are raising his children, that's a different story.

4/22/2006 3:45:58 PM - There has got to be a better way to get your point across. I don't know what it is, but this is not it! We all look pretty bad going back and forth with insults and all that over shit. This website is making my head and my heart hurt. I'm done with this. Goodbye

4/22/2006 3:52:16 PM - Well sis it was good talking to you and again it's nice to see a sister come to her brothers defense. Too bad it won't do much for Damon. You dont seem to realize how many people are involved. Your brother shouldnt have created the kind of past he has. To bad you werent able to help him then. Your brother will never be truly happy. Continue to have your brothers back though. He's going to need you.

4/22/2006 3:54:58 PM - SLANDER - A false defamation (expressed in spoken words, signs, or gestures) which injures the character or reputation of the person defamed; distinguished from libel. The defaming a man in his reputation by speaking or writing words which affect his life, office, or trade, or which tend to his loss of preferment in marriage or service, or in his inheritance, or which occasion any other particular damage

4/22/2006 3:57:09 PM - It's only slander if it's not true..remember that. Way ahead of you there sis.

4/22/2006 3:57:58 PM - you made your point..you love your brother..we hear you!

4/22/2006 4:00:52 PM - You're right. If its NOT true it's slander. Think about some of the things you're writing and FYI I worked at the Oxnard Police Department for 3 years and I was there when the incident you keep referring to went down. So be careful what you say in regards to his alleged criminal history. SLANDERSLANDERSLANDER

4/22/2006 4:07:32 PM - Ok your pushing it. Your not putting fear into anyone hearts..give it up already. You dont even know who half these people are your talking to. We have never met you and you know nothing about everyone on here. Working for the Oxnard PD so what. Your not saying anything! One of the people writing on here right here is a Paralegal in a Criminal Lawyers office. Who cares.We know the ropes sis.

4/22/2006 4:09:20 PM - END OF STORY: DAMONS A DOG AND HIS PAST WILL CONTINUE TO HAUNT HIM. THATS IT!

4/22/2006 4:14:10 PM - Ohhhh a paralegal? I'm shaking in my Uggs. And I do know who most of you are, this is not rocket science....Keep posting more stuff please. You didn't want to put it to rest so keep on.

4/22/2006 4:15:15 PM - 1 more thing though. Just because he got away with that case doesnt mean it didnt happen. Reality is that is still foul. You can say all this alleged crap all you want. You know it's sick.

4/22/2006 4:16:27 PM - Please tell us who we are and what we are all about.

4/22/2006 4:17:16 PM - Were interested to know.

4/22/2006 4:19:32 PM - We've seen some of the things you or whoever has put up here about people, but you want make sure the word "SLANDER" is put out there. Interesting.

4/22/2006 4:21:13 PM - We will give you some time.

4/22/2006 4:29:46 PM - We have given many warnings to your side to make sure you know all of who is invloved, but you never listened. Are you 100% sure about all the people you have named on here and the things that you have said about them Ms.Slander. Are you 100% sure about the things that you have put about them. It's not really my business becasue that is now between you, Damon and whoever else reads and writes on this site. Shouldnt toss threats around though.

4/22/2006 4:42:26 PM - HAHAHAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA

4/22/2006 4:45:30 PM - Thats what we are all doing over here. Lets be cheery together!

4/22/2006 4:49:24 PM - We'll get back to you later though because we have neglected the other website for much to long now. You'll get a real ha ha if you visit the other. We will be sure to spread your words for you over there. Later

4/22/2006 5:16:34 PM - LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!!!!!!!!!

4/22/2006 11:22:23 PM - I dont care what any of you say. Damon can got to hell! Now his sister is on here fighting for his battles She can go to hell to!

4/22/2006 11:24:57 PM - Damons sister need to shut her mouth. Shes a stupid bitch.

4/23/2006 1:35:05 AM - Whats new on this site today..

4/23/2006 1:39:12 AM - Damon has a sister! Riley lives in a trailer park! Slander! Damon has a rash (big suprise)! People laughing like nuts! I love this!!!

4/23/2006 6:38:07 AM - I dont care how much you love your brother. I love my brothers to but I still know the difference between right and wrong. I would never support any of my brothers doing any of these things. That must say alot about the type of person you are. No matter what you say or do people are gonna get their paybacks. Do you really think all this typing is going to prevent that?

4/23/2006 7:17:10 AM - dont be talkin shit about Riley anymore. why r u still tryin to get at her You talk shit but you wont leave her alone. How are you gonna talk about her living in a trailer but your family lives in LOW INCOME HOUSING. that trailer was good enough for you homeless ass. Dont be mad she's 10 times better looking than what you have now thats why your still chasing it!

4/23/2006 11:16:23 AM - riley looks like sea biscuit

4/23/2006 11:17:33 AM - riley lives in a double wide

4/23/2006 11:19:20 AM - salih has riley's teeth marks on his dick

4/23/2006 11:22:38 AM - your just jealous because you cant have salih! he loves my big teeth

4/23/2006 11:28:03 AM - riley gets passed around more than a blunt

4/23/2006 1:48:53 PM - My family is not living nor has never lived in low income housing. Get your facts straight. You're not even intelligent to know that because being raised by your family on Section 8 is all you'll ever know. What is it...... you pay $25.00 a month for rent AND STILL GET EVICTED.LOL!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

4/23/2006 1:59:07 PM - Good advice Stassi! If the other ladies (if we can call you that) that your advice I think their hearts will heal and they can get on with the business of life......taking care of themselves and their children. You are a very intelligent young lady. Please stay in school because from the looks of it, you will go far in this world. And if by chance your brother is the father of the children mentioned, I hope they will get in touch with you because they need a strong intelligent woman in their lives. Peace!!!!

4/23/2006 2:33:16 PM - WOW!! I know Riley and Salih. You mean she slept with him (yuck). I heard she only did it to make Damon jealous! Isn't Salih Damon's brother's friend!! WHAT A SLUT SHE IS, I GUESS SHE REALLY WANTS DAMON BAD. Salih was even at Damon's wedding with HIS GIRLFRIEND. I guess they know its "Bros before Whores".

4/23/2006 2:36:27 PM - everyone is still arguing?

4/23/2006 2:41:42 PM - This is sad. How much can this page take? Damon and Fam instead of typing all this bull why dont you just confront the people and make it go away?

4/23/2006 2:44:27 PM - when is comes down to calling people sea biscuits you know this has to end! A sea biscuit?

4/23/2006 2:54:20 PM - Whoever thinks this should end needs to shut up!

4/23/2006 3:00:16 PM - Ill agree with you on one thing who ever you are. Damon why dont you and your sister confront these people if you know who they are. Why sit and waste time talking about nothing. Get some balls and make it go away.

4/23/2006 3:52:12 PM - Haha this is great. That sea biscuit comment was classic!

4/23/2006 4:26:11 PM - Yea, I liked the sea biscuit line too and being passed around more than a blunt is halarious!!! Whoever set up this site needs to quit because you're giving us too much entertainment!!!!!!!!!!

4/23/2006 4:33:39 PM - There's no argument here. If you want this to stop than you stop writting back. People are allowed to rebutt, right? Well, if you keeping responding I will keep putting your biz on YOUR SITE. I have lots more and its not slander, its fact!! Keep coming!!!!!! Hey Stassi, and my other friends, what's up?!!!!!

4/23/2006 4:51:49 PM - Damon you are so lame. Keeping putting BIZ on here. We find it fun to read. Your only hurting yourself though. Dont be blinded by the fun of this. It's more serious than you think.

4/23/2006 5:06:28 PM - WAIT...sorry we cant stop laughing! We really find it hilarious how you just have no clue to whats going on around you.

4/23/2006 5:10:50 PM - BY THE WAY.....TO EVERYONE ON HERE! THE GROUP OVER HERE DOES NOT WANT THIS TO STOP! please stop saying it! cmon you already know whos gonna have the last laugh, enjoy yourselves in the mean time! CARRY ON!!!!!!

4/23/2006 5:28:35 PM - Hey Damon someone on your other website is saying you were sleeping with Riley while you were with Tessa and still are. Some guy is saying that your hooked on Meth. Is this true? O and who is Michelle?

4/23/2006 7:02:57 PM - i read about that! I guess nothings changed over here. Damons still not talking about anything. Damon the rebuttals can go all day the stories will always be here. Stop trying to fight the truth. Only you and the people on hear know what happen and you know the proof is there. Stop feeling like your doing something because you have "your sister" and your "posse" who really is not doing much but giving everyone a good laugh. None of you are really talking about anything. So what if Riley slept with Salih..WHO CARES. We dont care if she slept with your sister. WHO CARES!! ooohh SCARY you have business on people..so what..what are you saying? What you say stuff so you and your stupid ass sister can sit back and laugh over your own jokes. Get real!

4/23/2006 7:12:21 PM - If your sister has "SOOO MUCH OF A LIFE" why is she "SOOO MUCH IN THE BUSINESS"? You guys ar corny! Stop pumping yourselves up over nothing. What do you do write something and give each other a HI-5! Yeah we got her..blah blah. They can't fuck with us..WE GOT FAMILY HI-5 STASSI! Hi-5 Damon! You fuck with my brother you fuck with all of us! cornballs. Everything you say is corny! lets hear something else we're sure it's coming..yawn

4/23/2006 9:08:49 PM - <<<< no one cares here either

4/23/2006 10:25:56 PM - Yea, you're right, no one cares here. Forget the bitches, we have a life and better things to do. Hope the whore patrol will be okay in the future and especially your children. The bitches who don't have kids, keep screwing around like you are and maybe you can form your own Baby's Mama Club with some other brother!!!!! Peace Out!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm sick of yall!!!!

4/24/2006 7:23:47 AM - you're pretty dumb to think his sister is the only one on this site defending him. You have clearly under estimated the magnitude of this.

4/24/2006 7:28:28 AM - So what if Riley slept with Sahli? So what if she still hooks up with Damon even though she knows he's married?! That bitch is more gross than I thought. We don't want to hear another word from you Riley! The guy treated you SO bad and still you give it up to him and his "friends"? WOW.

4/24/2006 7:37:23 AM - Riley and Sahli had sex in the ice cream truck?

4/24/2006 7:52:07 AM - Whoa, someone's up early....the entertainment continues.

4/24/2006 11:15:32 AM - Did yall know that Riley even went back to Salih for a second session, but even he had enough sense not to take her up on it. Riley, don't you know you should at least be in a relationship with a guy before you sleep with him. If you're in a relationship with him, maybe he won't put your business in the streets.

4/24/2006 8:25:16 PM - An ice cream truck?

4/24/2006 8:28:18 PM - There are other ways to get a big stick. Poor children of the world. How could you!

4/24/2006 8:29:51 PM - Tonights question. Why is Damon still sleeping with Riley?

4/24/2006 9:14:46 PM - Damon is not still sleeping with Riley but she would.

4/24/2006 9:18:53 PM - Lets all just give it up. This is getting boring. Lets all get back to our real lives and stay out of Damon's. Everybody on here, have a nice life and take care of yourself and your children. May you have good fortune in the future. Peace!!

4/24/2006 10:43:52 PM - Haha. The topic changed from Damon to Riley and now Riley and the Baby Mama crew dont wanna play anymore!

4/24/2006 10:44:59 PM - LMAO at the "big stick" comment.

4/24/2006 10:49:40 PM - Geez, Riley got turned down by Sahli? That's pathetic. Sahli fucks everyone!

4/25/2006 1:24:17 PM - Even Salih turned her down? She must be one ugly bitch!

4/27/2006 9:57:13 AM - We get the point already! Damon is jealous of Sahli. Get over Riley Damon. Stop bothering her! You can talk all the shit you want to but the fact is she does not want you. You keep thinking this is going to bring her back or make her call you. She does not want you.!

4/27/2006 8:04:56 PM - Are you mad because you couldnt do the job right?

4/28/2006 3:25:50 AM - Damon has no reason to be jealous of Salih (that loser) and he doesn't want Riley back. Damon is married and has a beautiful baby. Give it up whores, It'll never work. Get a life and move on. Damon's family is dedicated to his new family and you sorry losers will not break it up. Damon is on the right track now and we will definately help him to stay there. Get loss whores!! Riley shut the fuck up and stop sleeping on your mama's couch. Don't you have enough money yet to get your own apartment??

4/28/2006 1:12:54 PM - Riley sleeps on her mamas couch?? hahaha what a loser! dO her kids live on the couch too?

4/28/2006 11:10:08 PM - Riley doesn't have kids I guess she was smart enough not to be a baby's mama.

5/11/2006 9:13:16 PM - HAHA!! Look at the angry Black woman coalition...mad cuz white girls are getting all the good dick! HAHAH!! Riley's fuckin the freshest emcees in the area and ya'll walking around with white boys sporting doo-rags. ahahahhah!!! Step ya game up....maybe one day someone will direct all of this energy at you. Hate is Love. Now fuck off and spell my name right.

7/11/2006 8:21:39 PM - <<7/11/2006 8:25:17 PM - I missed the angry black woman coalition? ahh beetlenuts!

7/11/2006 8:26:15 PM - Either way Damon is still a loser!

7/11/2006 8:34:05 PM - WHITE BOYS + DOO RAGS + ENERGY= BAD COMBINATION

10/20/2007 4:15:00 PM - Time to snip Damon, he has had his time. Remember, any damn fool can sire a child. It takes a real man to be a father. But that works both ways!! There is contraception for the ladies, better than the males. Remove the plumbing and the pipes will NEVER get clogged. Even a tubal isn't 100%. Say it with me...HYSTORECTOMY. If you have all the kids you ever want to deal with dump that option AND the friggin period, and be TRUELY FREE!!!! When it comes to STDs for your own sake be safe, don't count on him. MAKE HIM! Time to empower yourself. It's your life and your choice, after all a couple batteries and the right toy can overcome the 'feeling'.

10/29/2007 8:16:52 PM - Stassi - If you are really studying to work as a Psych, then you should know the importance of Children having access to both parents. Even if you want to support your Brother, and even if you dislike the girls who have Children with him,....couldn't you at least be an Aunty to these Children, and be actively involved in their lives? None of this is their fault!

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6/13/2009 7:20:11 PM - SIGNS THAT YOU''RE DATING A LOSER,which perfectly describes this ahole: 1. Rough Treatment The Loser will hurt you on purpose. If hits you, twists your arm, pulls your hair, kicks you, shoves you, or breaks your personal property EVEN ONCE, drop them. Losers often begin with behaviors that move you physically or hit the wall. 2. Quick Attachment and Expression The Loser has very shallow emotions and connections with others. One of the things that might attract you to The Loser is how quickly he or she says I Love You or wants to marry or commit to you. Typically, in less than a few weeks of dating you''ll hear that you''re the love of their life, they want to be with you forever, and they want to marry you. You''ll receive gifts, a variety of promises, and be showered with their attention and nice gestures. This is the honeymoon phase where they catch you and convince you that they are the best thing that ever happened to you. Remember the business saying If it''s too good to be true it probably is too good to be true! You may be so overwhelmed by this display of instant attraction, instant commitment, and instant planning for the future that you''ll miss the major point it doesn''t make sense!! Normal, healthy individuals require a long process to develop a relationship because there is so much at stake. Healthy individuals will wait for a lot of information before offering a commitment not three weeks. It''s true that we can become infatuated with others quickly but not make such unrealistic promises and have the future planned after three dates. The rapid warmup is always a sign of shallow emotions which later cause The Loser to detach from you as quickly as they committed. The Loser typically wants to move in with you or marry you in less than four weeks or very early in the relationship. 3. Frightening Temper The Loser has a scary temper. If your boyfriend blows up and does dangerous things, like driving too fast because they''re mad, breaking/throwing things, getting into fights, or threatening others that temper will soon be turned in your direction. In the beginning of the relationship, you will be exposed to witnessed violence fights with others, threats toward others, angry outbursts at others, etc. You will also hear of violence in their life. You will see and witness this temper throwing things, yelling, cursing, driving fast, hitting the walls, and kicking things. That quickly serves to intimidate you and fear their potential for violence, although The Loser quickly assures you that they are angry at others or situations, not at you. At first, you will be assured that they will never direct the hostility and violence at you but they are clearly letting you know that they have that ability and capability and that it might come your way. Later, you fear challenging or confronting them fearing that same temper and violence will be turned in your direction

6/13/2009 7:20:44 PM - 4. Killing Your SelfConfidence The Loser repeatedly puts you down. They constantly correct your slight mistakes, making you feel on guard, unintelligent, and leaving you with the feeling that you are always doing something wrong. They tell you that you''re too fat, too unattractive, or don''t talk correctly or look well. This gradual chipping away at your confidence and selfesteem allows them to later treat you badly as though you deserved it. In public, you will be walking on eggshells always fearing you are doing or saying something that will later create a temper outburst or verbal argument. 5. Cutting Off Your Support In order to control someone completely, you must cut off their supportive friends sometimes even their family. The Loser feels your friends and family might influence you or offer negative opinions about their behavior. The Loser begins by telling you these friends treat you badly, take advantage of you, and don''t understand the special nature of the love you share with them. In some cases, if they can''t get rid of your best samesex friend, The Loser will claim he or she made a pass at them. If you talk to your friends or family, The Loser will punish you by asking multiple questions or making nasty accusations. Eventually, rather than face the verbal punishment, interrogation, and abuse, you''ll develop the feeling that it''s better not to talk to family and friends. You will withdraw from friends and family, prompting them to become upset with you. The Loser then tells you they are treating you badly again and you''d be better to keep your distance from them. Once you are isolated and alone, without support, their control over you can increase 6. The Mean and Sweet Cycle The Loser cycles from mean to sweet and back again. The cycle starts when they are intentionally hurtful and mean. You may be verbally abused, cursed, and threatened over something minor. Suddenly, the next day they become sweet, doing all those little things they did when you started dating. You hang on, hoping each meanthensweet cycle is the last one. The other purpose of the mean cycle is to allow The Loser to say very nasty things about you or those you care about, again chipping away at your selfesteem and selfconfidence. The Loser often apologizes but the damage to your selfesteem is already done exactly as planned. 7. It''s Always Your Fault The Loser blames you for their anger as well as any other behavior that is incorrect. When they cheat on you, yell at you, treat you badly, damage your property, or embarrass you publicly it''s somehow your fault. If you are ten minutes late for a date, it''s your fault that the male loser drives 80 miles per hour, runs people off the road, and pouts the rest of the evening. The Loser tells you their anger and misbehavior would not have happened if you had not made some simple mistake, had loved them more, or had not questioned their behavior. The Loser never, repeat never, takes personal responsibility for their behavior it''s always the fault of someone else. If they drive like a maniac and try to pull an innocent driver off the highway to assault them it''s actually the fault of the other driver not his as they didn''t use a turn signal when they changed lanes. They give you the impression that you had it anger, yelling, assault coming and deserved the anger, violence, pouting, or physical display of aggression

6/13/2009 7:21:35 PM - . Breakup Panic The Loser panics at the idea of breaking up unless it''s totally their idea then you''re dropped like a hot rock. Abusive boyfriends often break down and cry, they plead, they promise to change, and they offer marriage/trips/gifts when you threaten ending the relationship. Both male and female losers may threaten suicide, threaten to return to old sweethearts who feel lucky they''re gone!, or threaten to quit their job and leave the area as though you will be responsible for those decisions. The Loser offers a multitude of deals and halfway measures, like Let''s just date one more month! They shower you with phone calls, often every five minutes, hoping that you will make an agreement or see them just to stop the telephone harassment. Some call your relatives, your friends, their friends, and anyone else they can think of telling those people to call you and tell you how much they love you. Creative losers often create so much social pressure that the victim agrees to go back to the bad relationship rather than continue under the social pressure. Imagine trying to end a relationship and receiving tearful calls from all his or her relatives they secretly hope you''ll keep them so they don''t have to, seeing a plea for your return in the newspaper or even on a local billboard, receiving flowers at work each day, or having them arrive at your place of work and offer you a wedding ring male loser technique or inform you that they might be pregnant female loser technique in front of your coworkers! Their reaction is emotionally intense, a behavior they use to keep you an emotional prisoner. If you go back to them, you actually fear a worse reaction if you threaten to leave again making you a prisoner and they later frequently recall the incident to you as further evidence of what a bad person you are. Remember, if your prize dog jumps the fence and escapes, if you get him back you build a higher fence. Once back in the grasp of The Loser escape will be three times as difficult the next time. 9. No Outside Interests The Loser will encourage you to drop your hobbies, interests, and involvement with others. If you have an individual activity, they demand that they accompany you, making you feel miserable during the entire activity. The idea behind this is to prevent you from having fun or interests other than those which they totally control. 10. Paranoid Control The Loser will check up on you and keep track of where you are and who you are with. If you speak to a member of the opposite sex, you receive twenty questions about how you know them. If you don''t answer their phone call, you are ask where you were, what were you doing, who you were talking to, etc. They will notice the type of mud on your car, question why you shop certain places, and question why you called a friend, why the friend called you, and so forth. Some losers follow you to the grocery, then later ask if you''ve been there in an attempt to catch you in a lie. In severe cases, they go through your mail, look through your purse/wallet, hit your redial on the phone when they arrive, or search through your garbage for evidence. Hightech losers may encourage you to make private calls to friends from their residence, calls that are being secretly taped for later reference. They may begin to tell you what to wear, what to listen to in music, and how to behave in public. Eventually, they tell you that you can not talk to certain friends or acquaintances, go certain places, or talk about certain issues in public. If no date is present on Friday night The Loser will inform you that they will call you that night sometime. That effectively keeps you home, awaiting the call, fearing the verbal abuse and questions you might receive if you weren''t home for the call. This technique allows The Loser to do what they want socially, at the same time controlling your behavior from a distance or a local bar. 11. Public Embarrassment In an effort to keep you under control while in public, The Loser will lash out at you, call you names, or say cruel or embarrassing things about you in private or in front of people. When in public, you quickly learn that any opinion you express may cause them to verbally attack you, either at the time or later. If you stay with The Loser too long, you''ll soon find yourself politely smiling, saying nothing, and holding on to their arm when in public. You''ll also find yourself walking with your head down, fearful of seeing a friend who might speak to you and create an angry reaction in The Loser

6/13/2009 7:22:05 PM - 12. It''s Never Enough The Loser convinces you that you are never quite good enough. You don''t say I love you enough, you don''t stand close enough, you don''t do enough for them after all their sacrifices, and your behavior always falls short of what is expected. This is another method of destroying your selfesteem and confidence. After months of this technique, they begin telling you how lucky you are to have them somebody who tolerates someone so inadequate and worthless as you. 13. Entitlement The Loser has a tremendous sense of entitlement, the attitude that they have a perfectly logical right to do whatever they desire. If cut off in traffic, The Loser feels they have the right to run the other driver off the road, assault them, and endanger the lives of other drivers with their temper tantrum. Keep in mind, this same sense of entitlement will be used against you. If you disobey their desires or demands, or violate one of their rules, they feel they are entitled to punish you in any manner they see fit. 14. Your Friends and Family Dislike Him As the relationship continues, your friends and family will see what The Loser is doing to you. They will notice a change in your personality or your withdrawal. They will protest. The Loser will tell you they are jealous of the special love you have and then use their protest and opinion as further evidence that they are against you not him. The mention of your family members or friends will spark an angry response from them eventually placing you in the situation where you stop talking about those you care about, even your own family members. The Loser will be jealous and threatened by anyone you are close to even your children. In some cases, your parents or brothers/sisters will not be allowed to visit your home. 15. Bad Stories People often let you know about their personality by the stories they tell about themselves. It''s the old story about giving a person enough rope and they''ll hang themselves. The stories a person tells informs us of how they see themselves, what they think is interesting, and what they think will impress you. A humorous individual will tell funny stories on himself. The Loser tells stories of violence, aggression, being insensitive to others, rejecting others, etc. They may tell you about past relationships and in every case, they assure you that they were treated horribly despite how wonderful they were to that person. They brag about their temper and outbursts because they don''t see anything wrong with violence and actually take pride in the I don''t take nothing from nobody attitude. People define themselves with their stories, much like a culture is described by it''s folklore and legends. Listen to these stories they tell you how you will eventually be treated and what''s coming your way

6/13/2009 7:22:33 PM - 16. The Waitress Test It''s been said that when dating, the way an individual treats a waitress or other neutral person of the opposite sex is the way they will treat you in six months. During the honeymoon phase of a relationship, you will be treated like a king or queen. However, during that time The Loser has not forgotten how he or she basically feels about the opposite sex. Waitresses, clerks, or other neutral individuals will be treated badly. If they are cheap you''ll never receive anything once the honeymoon is over. If they whine, complain, criticize, and torment that''s how they''ll treat you in six months. A mentally healthy person is consistent, they treat almost all people the same way all the time. If you find yourself dating a man who treats you like a queen and other females like dirt hit the road. 17. The Reputation As mentioned, mentally healthy individuals are consistent in their personality and their behavior. The Loser may have two distinct reputations a group of individuals who will give you glowing reports and a group that will warn you that they are serious trouble. If you ask ten people about a new restaurant five say it''s wonderful and five say it''s a hog pit you clearly understand that there''s some risk involved in eating there. The Loser may actually brag about their reputation as a butt kicker, womanizer, hot temper or being crazy. They may tell you stories where other''s have called them crazy or suggested that they receive professional help. Pay attention to the reputation. Reputation is the public perception of an individual''s behavior. If the reputation has two sides, good and bad, your risk is high. You will be dealing with the bad side once the honeymoon is over in the relationship. With severe behavior problems, The Loser will be found to have almost no friends, just acquaintances. Emotionally healthy and moral individuals will not tolerate friendships with losers that treat others so badly. If you find yourself disliking the friends of The Loser, it''s because they operate the same way he or she does and you can see it in them. 18. Walking on Eggshells As a relationship with The Loser continues, you will gradually be exposed to verbal intimidation, temper tantrums, lengthy interrogations about trivial matters, violence/threats directed at others but witnessed by you, paranoid preoccupation with your activities, and a variety of putdowns on your character. You will quickly find yourself walking on eggshells in their presence fearful to bring up topics, fearful to mention that you spoke to or saw a friend, and fearful to question or criticize the behavior of The Loser. Instead of experiencing the warmth and comfort of love, you will be constantly on edge, tense when talking to others they might say something that you''ll have to explain later, and fearful that you''ll see someone you''ll have to greet in public. Dates and times together will be more comfortable and less threatening when totally alone exactly what The Loser wants no interference with their control or dominance.

6/13/2009 7:23:52 PM - 19. Discounted Feelings/Opinions The Loser is so selfinvolved and selfworshiping that the feelings and opinions of others are considered worthless. As the relationship continues and you begin to question what you are feeling or seeing in their behavior, you will be told that your feelings and opinions don''t make sense, they''re silly, and that you are emotionally disturbed to even think of such things. The Loser has no interest in your opinion or your feelings but they will be disturbed and upset that you dare question their behavior. The Loser is extremely hostile toward criticism and often reacts with anger or rage when their behavior is questioned. 20. They Make You Crazy The Loser operates in such a damaging way that you find yourself doing crazy things in selfdefense. If The Loser is scheduled to arrive at 8:00 pm you call Time & Temperature to cover the redial, check your garbage for anything that might get you in trouble, and call your family and friends to tell them not to call you that night. You warn family/friends not to bring up certain topics, avoid locations in the community where you might see coworkers or friends, and not speak to others for fear of the 20 questions. You become paranoid as well being careful what you wear and say. Nonviolent males find themselves in physical fights with female losers. Nonviolent females find themselves yelling and screaming when they can no longer take the verbal abuse or intimidation. In emotional and physical selfdefense, we behave differently and oddly. While we think we are going crazy it''s important to remember that there is no such thing as normal behavior in a combat situation. Rest assured that your behavior will return to normal if you detach from The Loser before permanent psychological damage is done. **********************I promise you that he is all this************************, I just couldn''t believe it myself how to the exact these signs describe him and wished I had the opportunity to have had read these signs in him before and paid attention because all of the red flags are there ladies. But now I''m wiser thanks to this experience and will ever again be with another man like him now that I know the warning signs from experience and literature. We women stupidly blind ourselves with love with the wrong man and tolerate so much BS from them and this is our major error that''s why these kind of men keep existing, if we all put a stop to them by rejecting them early before it''s too late then we can accomplish something great as to having these kind of men not being what they are. Let''s stick together and fight these losers. Take care Ladies and hope my posting of these signs will help you as it''s helping me from now on. Please I don''t want for you to go through what I did and others have

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0 BAD
(Low)

20 GOOD
(High)

FIDELITY/TRUST: 0

ABUSE: 6

COMMITMENT: 3

GENERAL CHARACTER: 2

CHEATING/TRUSTWORTHINESS/LYING

1. This man has

Had sex with one of your friends, associates or multiple partners behind your back while involved with you

2. If he was ever caught cheating, he would

Deny, deny, deny and look you right in the eye and try to be sneakier next time

3. This man can be compared to

A lying, cheating scumbag and you can�t believe a word that comes out of his mouth

4. This man has lied to me

Too many times to count

5. Regarding trust

You can NOT trust him

ABUSE

1. Regarding verbal abuse, this man

Avoids confrontation by avoiding the subject

2. With regards to jealousy and control, he

Accuses you, for no justifiable reason, of flirting and may get even by flirting with other women/men

3. This man�s temper can be described as

He verbalizes his anger, but gets over it quickly and cools down

4. Does he ever apologize or admit when he is wrong

If you say you are sorry first, then he will say he is sorry

5. Describe his selfishness

He always puts his needs before yours

MARRIAGE/COMMITTMENT

1. This man wants

A fling (i.e., one night stand and/or affair)

2. This man wants

A relationship of convenience where he doesn�t have to work at it

3. This man

Wants dependents and/or pets as long as YOU take care of them

4. He has been divorced

He is still currently married/heavily committed (i.e., involved with a partner who is kept in the dark)

5. Regarding marriage/life time commitment, this man

Will NEVER get married or commit fully to anyone

GENERAL CHARACTER QUESTIONS

1. Regarding this man�s ego

He thinks he�s God�s gift to women/men/the world

2. This man

Is a complete slob who you have to pick up after

3. This man would help you: (i.e., fix your car, home repair, lift something heavy, etc�)

Only if and when it is convenient for him

4. Regarding companionship

He will spend time with you, if you nag

5. YOUR OVERALL OPINION OF THIS MAN IS

Don�t touch him with a 10 foot pole, he�s a complete waste of your time

Date Survey Submitted:	Prior to 04/19/2006
Last known residence:	Oxnard California, United States
Dating Site Alias & Website it's on:	nas213 on

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