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Guy Details for Derek Ian Baringer

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Derek is a straight out bipolar mess who lies to women and sleeps around. He proposes to women like its nothing just so he can get more money from the military when a marriage happens. luckily he is not smart enough to keep up his lying cheating ways because he gets caught long before a ceremony can happen.

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11/29/2008 9:42:24 PM - i am sorry but its so true. i have found alot of girls he was dating and i told them all about derek. so i hoped i saved some women from making mistakes

1/11/2009 5:48:28 PM -

1/11/2009 5:52:17 PM - He meets women mostly online. MySpace was one of his favorites, but he has probably moved on to something different. He has a lot of female 'friends' but no male friends because they know what a tool he is. He tries to make up big stories to make himself look like a big bad Marine, but by corps standards he is a shitbag. His own command keeps trying to find ways to get rid of him because he is such a burden. He usually complains about women stalking him or psycho exes. But, hes the only with the problem as he views getting caught cheating and the girl getting mad or hurt as them being psycho. If you have myspace just look up his name and you will fidn old profiles of his and all teh girls commenting on them. And he has about five profiles! Who needs that many? Unless he wants to hide something.

1/12/2009 7:53:29 PM - Hey girls, this is Derek's ex-wife (one of the psycho exes). Just wanted to confirm everything here. I found out (too late) that he cheated throughout our marriage, and left me in serious debt. He even used our joint account to pay for dating websites when I finally filed for divorce! He is often conning several girls at any given time, and he does meet women online. My advice is to run while you can!

1/12/2009 7:57:35 PM - Wow! I never knew he was married. But all that definetely sounds like him from last I encountered him. I doubt he has changed since 2005 when I last spoke to him. I'm surprised no one has went to his command about him yet to keep him mopping floors the rest of his time in.

1/12/2009 8:11:04 PM - Last I heard about Derek was in 2007 when he was 'engaged' to a girl from Arizona who he met through a friend of his. And that they were expecting their first child. Also, he planned on re-enlisting (Don't see why they would want him) so he could go back to Iraq. As someone said above, trying to be a big bad Marine.

1/29/2009 8:11:39 AM - It appears that the person who posted on jan 27th has some questions in her mind since she posted 3 stars. Hmmmmmm??? I really don't understand how she can think he has changed after everything she has read here! Looks like she needs to think really hard about marrying someone with the apparent history he has. Better to think hard about it now, than to find out he hasn't changed afterwards.

1/29/2009 8:15:13 AM - Yeah...I met his parents too as many other women have. In fact his parents even know about how he behaves with women and were getting lots of calls from girls who he was 'engaged' too. I would watch his internet activities like a hawk and don't trust that he has so many female 'friends.' Plus, if you are living a ways away from him you can guarantee he is online trying to romance other ladies. I would also watch how many kids he has floating around, because many different women in the last 3 years are saying they have kids by him. So that may be something for him to take care of. Really, talk to all his female 'friends' insist you meet them. I am pretty sure if you give the dates that you are engaged to him there is some lady here who also falls within those dates. So meeting his parents and getting married next month really means shit considering he is always getting engaged to multiple women.

1/29/2009 8:20:39 AM - I can bet that all the women posting here fall within the last 12 months of them dating/engaged to him. And really...why would you marry someone you have known/dated I for so little a time. Myself, I 'dated' him as little as six months ago so hope you were not engaged to him during that time frame and if you weren't maybe you should consider having a longer engagement with someone who has sucha bad rep with women. Oh and if hes insisting on getting married so fast its not because he loves you so much...its for the money. He tried to get me to run to Vegas with him the second day knowing me.

2/3/2009 3:54:19 PM -

2/3/2009 3:58:05 PM - I have noticed that whoever posted on jan.27th, hasn''t posted again defending the sleezbag. Why would anyone believe that he has changed with everything that has been said here???????? It''s amazing that he has women saying that they have children that he is the father of and here is another one!! This girl must be really desperate.

2/12/2009 2:24:06 AM - Considering I was engaged to him less than a month ago, I think that Jan 27th needs to wake up and smell the coffee. And just to put it out there...one of his new spots to meet girls is alt.com. He thankfully started trailing off contact with me and I stopped contacting him about a month ago. He's quite convincing in the beginning but can't keep up the games for long. Was supposed to meet him when he arrived back stateside from Iraq and then it got pushed back further and further. He learned quickly that I knew too much about the regulations to play games with me (exmilitary and ex-spouse of a solider) so he knew that he would not be able to play me like he had hoped. I am thankful that I found this site right around the time he started acting funny, helped me make the right choice and run away while I was still able to.

2/21/2009 5:02:39 PM - So wow, I can't believe Derek is still up to his tricks. I was engaged to him in May 2004! I found out about all of his other fiances and dumped him. I have to admit it took me until Jan 05 to find out about about it. I was quite naive, I was only 19 at the time. I hope everyone stays away from him. Hell I wonder if his parents know about all this. What a tool.

2/21/2009 9:14:36 PM - Yeah, his parents know about this. I met his parents and they are great people! makes me wonder how he ended up being such a tool. I spoke with his mother after he did me wrong and she confirmed that I was not the first girl he has done it too and no matter how many times she has told him its no game to play with women he still does not get it.

2/21/2009 10:23:30 PM - Wow that is totally messed up I cant believe that after 5 years he is still pulling the same shit. I should have had him court marshaled when he first did this to me! He asked me to marry as most girls, and for some reason when we would be on Aim or something he would ask me over and over I had the convos saved, By military laws, asking a person to marry whether verbal or written is to enter into a legal contract. So by asking another person when in the contract with another girl is illegal, duh cant marry more than one person at a time. Damn it I knew I should have, I would have saved a lot of girls from his games. They should lock him up for this shit, I am suprised he is still in the military, I would think they would have kicked him out long ago.

2/24/2009 8:01:25 PM - It is my understanding from people close to the situation that he is married again and the person he married has a child. Looks like he finally conned someone long enough to actually make the marriage. Hope she watches him like a hawk. Looks like she would have some major questions in her mind if she has read this. I wonder if the person who posted on Jan. 27 is the person he married.

2/25/2009 10:23:12 AM - Divorce papers were filed against Derek in Oct 2008 by the girl he married that is from Arizona. Last was told they were expecting a child back in 2007 and would of been born in 2008, but he lies a lot so who the hell knows. So....either the above poster was one of the 'other women' or she needs to step back and think that four months of being with a guy is no time to be getting so involved with a boy like Derek when she has a child. If I was a woman I would not want my kid around the guy. Oh, but wait...she has a 9 month old child with him. So it obviously overlapped when he was married. Once a shit bag Marine, always a shit bag Marine. And to answer your questions: 4 carat diamond: If it was true, which I doubt it is because he has always been fiscally irresponsible since I have ever known him. He has gotten bitched at numerous times for debt. Deleting all his internet accounts: Either, A. He got his balls busted by you or B. He has new screen names to hide behind of. Micromanaging a guy does not change him, just hinders him. So, in closing I will say that you obviously ARE desperate or just plain stupid since you have gotten 'better offers' and still want to be with a known liar, cheater, and manipulator. You will end up in the pile with all the others and you will deserve it since you know what hes like but insist on thinking that you can change him. Oh, and I work with Derek and he is constantly mentioning multiple girls ranging from 'friends' to 'fiances.' So, maybe be on the look out for that too.

2/26/2009 9:17:28 PM - How anyone could think so little of someone and still marry him is crazy. After reading the lets set a few things straight'' post i went online and did seaches for him on hi5, facebook, myspace, and one other one and he still has anywhere from 2 to 4 profiles listed on several of themone had 34 women listed as friends, another had about 7, another just 2, one was listed as private. There were so manyof them that i can''t remember them all.

2/27/2009 8:44:10 AM - No mention of his msn account being deleted either. Really, though...if you have to micromanage a man that much it is not worth it when there are plenty of other trustworthy men out there. Plus, if his wife/wives/fiances don''t trust him enough where they have to keep track of their activities online and look him up on sites like this than they have no business marrying or having children with him anyways. I feel sorry for the current woman he is with now.

2/27/2009 7:49:14 PM - Mmmkay hon, if you''re gonna lie come up with something better. Seriously, 4 carats? In what, cubic zirconia? Sounds like he found someone as offbalance as he is. By the way, stating that you are aware of his behavior is not a good way to start a defense. He''s only showing you what he wants you to see. I assure you he has other websites and probably another bank account out there.

3/4/2009 8:39:14 PM -

3/4/2009 8:42:39 PM - find it strange that there are 3 or 4 posts that were dated mar 2nd and they are now goneone of them was minehow did that happen?? evidently one was the wife and one was from someone elsefind this very strange

3/4/2009 8:46:25 PM - Following are the posts that are missing from this blog 3/2/2009 9:04:06 PM If you are serious about divorce and custody, i think you are making the right decisionbut for some reason, i think you are just trying to get all of us to shutup. if this is true what did you do go online and start searching and find all of his profiles, because just a few days ago you were defending the sleazebag. really makes me wonder??????? hummmmmm just looks suspicious. hope yoiu are serious for the sake of your childif you child is a boy do you really want this sleaze as an example and if your child is a girl do you really want her around someone as warped as him. 3/2/2009 9:25:15 PM I''m not lying I''m leaving him. I defended him because I am nieve. I see a lawyer thursday to see what I can do. And I have a daughter and don''t ever want her to know him. Thank god she''s younge enough not to remember him. I am sorry for how I reacted to everyones posts. I pray no woman will ever touch him again! 3/2/2009 11:44:35 PM Wait...Derek is competent enough to get a woman pregnant?

3/4/2009 8:48:50 PM - I find the random 1 star blank posts to be strange. Maybe Derek is skulking the board and staring at it with his dumbfounded face trying to think up some way on he is right and we are all horribly wrong.

3/5/2009 7:51:18 PM - ok derek's present wife you said on the 2nd that you had an appointment with a lawyer today. how did it go or did you chicken out or was that just to get us all off your back? strange how your post stating that you had an appt with a lawyer disappeared. what's the matter, afraid that derek might see your posdt? more than likely uyou were lying about the lawyer.

3/5/2009 8:46:09 PM - not sure what kind of papers you are filing if not divorce papers. what else is there. been there before myself. sounds fishy.

3/5/2009 9:02:05 PM - Actually my post got deleted too and it was nothing to do with defending the rtard. Could be seperation papers she is talking about. Or annulment?

3/5/2009 9:14:02 PM - Wow...what a douche. He sure gets around though. Last I heard of Derek he was in 29 Palms. I know his hometown is in Texas. Where is he now? Is he still in the Marines? I would so contact his command on this ****. He is a disgrace to the Corps.

3/6/2009 4:59:16 AM - i don't understand why you filed settlement papers before divorce payments. looks almost like a prenuptual agreement in a way. why not just file divorce papers and include the settlement terms in the divorce paperss.

3/7/2009 6:50:54 AM - I have been watching this group of postings for a while and after having read them all, I would like to say that something about the settlement papers seems sstrange. ONe, the papers that were supposedly filed can be downloaded off the internet. At first i fell for the papers, but after thinking about it, if you had scanned the papers into the your post, they would have had your signature and some kind of notarization on them. and looking at the times that the posts were posted, you came back with the form too fast not to have it stored on your computer, so i went online and started looking for a legal form. Found them in exactly same format. next, derek is in the miltary, so why would you not want support and benefits for your childsomething here doesn''t make sense. why would you give up something that is going to benefit your child. regardless of how you feel about derek, you need to think about the welfare of your child and what will benefit her in years to come. looks like to me you are thinking about yourself and what you want instead of what would be in the best interest of your child. also, what are you going to tell her when she starts askig questions about where her daddy is. having set back for a while and watched all this i really feel sorry for your child. I have been in the same situation of divorcing a military man and you can bet i wanted medical, dental and any other benefits available. why should he get off without having to support his child and me have to carry the whole load. he was a part of creating this baby so why shouldn''t he have some responsibility. also whether you like it or not, he and you have a child together and you will always have to have some kind of relationship with him whether it be civil or a hate relationship. in case you would like to know he was ROMANCING can''t call it dating since it was all internet stuff a friend of mine. it is amazing how some women will fall for anything when they are desperate. I really do doubt that you have filed any kind of papers.

3/7/2009 10:56:22 AM - His command would allot a portion of his paycheck to his child anyways. His command should be contacted just for the simple fact of making sure he takes care of the chaos he has caused. Plus, I think any lawyer worth their salt would drool over the idea of a military divorce. As I said before...the ****bag is a poor excuse of a Marine and a disgrace to the Corps.

3/7/2009 10:14:21 PM - Well contacting his command is easy as his wife. You know what battalion he is with ie: 1st Tanks Battalion, 3rd MEF, 3rd LAR, etc they have a website with the number. Also, since you are his spouse you are entitled to free legal aid from JAG also. Just go to base and set up an appointment and they can contact his command also on your behalf. You guys are living in the same place, right? Please, do not tell me he met you online, married you and went back to his duty station while you live on your own and he is collecting the extra pay.

3/8/2009 9:41:27 AM - Well, if you lived together and were married you should know basic stuff like what unit he is with and such. Call base directory and get a hold of JAG. They could handle the matter.

3/9/2009 4:36:44 AM - I would like to say that I have a good friend that works with Derek and knows what kind of person he is. From what can be found out at work, he has only been married a little less than a month and is not and has yet to live with his wife�she is still living with her parents. Also, the wife states in the papers that she supposedly filed that she lives in Mississippi and his legal residence is Texas. He is in the military and it makes sense that he would list his permanent address as where his family lives or where he has a �permanent� residence. Also, he has never mentioned that his wife works. Furthermore, he has a reputation in the Corp for meeting girls on the Internet, promising them stuff and sometimes following through and sometimes not. I have read all these posts and it seems that in January he was also �engaged� to someone else. Also seems like he was married when this child was conceived. Let me tell you something else�.if he does this when he is married to someone else, rest assured he will do it again and again. Don�t get too comfortable, honey.

3/9/2009 5:52:30 AM - You stated in your post on March 2 that you had an appointment with a lawyer on Thursday yet you stated in a later post that your lawyer�s website was www.coxandmore.com. i checked it out. that is a website where you can download legal forms. you certainly don�t have �appointments� or �see a lawyer� from that website. i�m beginning to think both of you may be pathological liars. from what i know about derek its pretty well established that he fits the description of one. to much of the stuff you have stated on here doesn�t add up

3/9/2009 9:33:49 PM - 1. It don''t matter what his current wife is doing in the marriage since we are on this site to warn other women of what this little boy is out doing. 2. Married for a month? Can''t you just get an annulment for something that short? Especially if he was already married and hid it from you in the first place? 3. How many kids does this guy have running around? Thought he was expecting a child with his 1st wife and he has a child with his 2nd also?

3/10/2009 3:28:23 PM - you�re right, it really doesn�t matter what the wife is doing. I just cannot stand it when someone lies and it is so easy to check up on them. what is her purpose? what difference does it make what we think about whether she stays with him or not. but to go back to the situation of the appointment with the lawyer, it appears that that firm DOES NOT have a woman attorney. in an earlier post the wife said that �she� the lawyer was sending out papers to derek. if �she� did, he should have received them by now. additionally, she �the wife� said that they lived in the same area. I looked up coxandmoore.com on the web. coxandmoore.com is located in Cleveland, MS wherever that is�there is not a Marine base in Mississippi. soooooo, seems to me she �the wife� is as big a liar as derek is. you know the saying, �tell one lie, you�ll tell more to cover up the first one.� also, I am not concerned about what she puts herself through�I am always concerned about kids that get caught up in this kind of ****. she has already stated that she has a little girl. what I don�t understand is, if she is lying about leaving him which i think she is, how can she consider taking a child into a life with a man that does these kinds of things. And most of us posting on this site, know that derek does ***** all the time with several women at one time.

3/11/2009 4:17:41 AM - I haven''t logged into this site for a while. I just read the papers that were filed. Now everyone knows the name of Derek''s new wife, Amanda Siddon, and that she lives in Mississippi. Someone here really has a beef with what she has done or what they think she hasn't done.

3/13/2009 9:13:10 PM - Well, it looks like someone got to Derek's wife. I see that she has removed all her posts. Maybe whoever it was that said she was lying was right on target.

3/14/2009 8:35:57 AM - im not a friend of the wife, bairly know her but i do know she did file papers and is moving to chicago. its a mute point now though. and i dont believe she deleted all of her post i think she deleted her account and maybe her post go away with her account im not sure. derek is a bastard and he should have his privates ripped off. even me being a man myself i cant understand how he could do such things. i hope these post will save the next girl. oh and to update info for all the new ones out there. derek is in yuma arizona and is set to be there till 2011. he probably will not be in the millitary past then because if he does not pull the next rank they will not allow him to resign.

3/14/2009 10:04:33 PM - sorry, but you have it wrong. you can delete your account but it doesn't automatically take your posts off. you have to do that before you delete your account. So, looks like mrs. baringer took them off intentionally. probably afraid derek boy might see them. i work with him and he is constantly talking about his wife and appears to be calling her several times a day. What is it that you know about that makes you think he is a b?

3/14/2009 10:07:17 PM - Maybe this 'wife' he is calling is yet another of the countless girls he is engaged too. Or the next soon to be ex mrs baringer. Must suck to not even be 25 years old and married twice already.

3/14/2009 10:35:21 PM - you may be right, but usually his relationships last a little longer than a month. even when he has 2or 3 going on at one time. they usually last longer than this.

3/16/2009 9:54:25 PM -

3/17/2009 2:19:41 PM - well they were only married little over a month but she had been dating him longer than that so you cant just say its weired because its so short because really its not. if she has a kid with him that is 8months old then i would assume they were together for atleast a year. maybe she just got tired of being the doormat kinda girl. seems rather pathedic that she said she knew how he was but she still married him. i feel sorry for her but hope she is for real about divorcing him. it really is the best thing for her and her kid. i know someone he works with and he was talking about changing for his wife yea right he cant change hes been like this for atleast 6 years. him bragging about her being the one chick to change him dont mean shit now if she really is walking away. hes the kinda guy thats gonna end up alone in the end and i bet hes so dumb he wont understand why.

3/17/2009 2:51:23 PM - It''s weird that they have a child together already when he just got divorced october of last year to his first wife. meaning he and his current wife were together while he was still married.

3/17/2009 6:28:32 PM - yeah from what i understand she knew him back befor he got married but never knew he got married cause just like we all know, derek lies and never told her. she found out in july when he was suppose to come home to her on leave from iraq to see her and there daughter but he didnt even call her when he got home. she ended up calling his parents and his father told her everything. guess she just felt tied to the guy because of the kid and all but even so she should have left then. anyone here that really knows derek would know that regardless of how he makes things seem ok to people on the outside and people he works with she could still be divorcing him. after all his not the type to tell the truth especialy when it makes him look bad.

3/17/2009 7:42:40 PM - Derek tends to pray on the same type of women. Young, inexperienced and hopelessly romantic. Many are not ''convetionally'' attractive so may suffer from some slight insecurities. I guess he sees them as easy to fool since they hold such romantic ideals...however when he meets a mature confident woman who starts seeing through his bull**** he automatically writes them off as psycho to all his friends and current love interests. Derek is a waste of time and space. As for him changing for another person I see that as unsuccessful since people usually only truly change for themselves. Wether she is divorcing him or not does not matter as the point of this forum is to warn other women who may encounter him. Know that he is either A. Married with a child. B. Divorced with a child and has a reputation of womanizing. He may be trying to make things appear alright with the people he works with just so his command won''t catch whiff of his behavior or maybe he is laying on the sweet talk saying how he is screwed up and needs help and such. When I broke it off with him he tried to say how he really loves me but has a problem and wants to change. Oh, and he even used the line of he could change for me. One more thing, it is said he was expecting a child with is first wife too. So does he have 2 children? Anyone have word on that?

3/17/2009 9:32:24 PM - I agree with the post on 3 17 09 at 7:42 p.m. Sounds like someone that really knows him and the type of person he goes after. The post before the one at 7:42 certainly seems to know a lot about Derek and the situation with his wife and things that happened. So, if she did not know that he was married, when she did find out, she should have given him his walking papers. And for goodness sake, why would you marry a jerk like that!!!!!!!!!!! Even with a child, she should have realized that the child would be better off without a father figure like him!! He would have to support the child even if he wasn't married to the child's mother. The military would see to that.

3/17/2009 10:52:10 PM - well who ever the 7:42:40 post is crazy if they are saying that his current wife is not attractive. shes very pretty, has a great additude, and is a wonderful person. i have been trying to date her for quite some time but guys like me always lose out to the asses of the bunch.

3/17/2009 10:54:27 PM - she may be a good person, even the best of girls can fall for the worst of guys. i know i feel for him too.

3/17/2009 11:02:53 PM - The poster from 7:42 did not say his wife was unattrative. He/she just stated a type of girl he tends to play. Also, he/she said conventionally attractive meaning what the vast majority of society would consider attractive. She may be a good a person but she is not being a confident woman who knows her self worth if she is going to stay with a guy like Derek, which probably stems from some form of insecurity which would make the poster from 7:42 correct in his/her analysis. Anyone who has seen his online profiles though myspace, facebook, bebo etc can see that all the women on his friends list share striking similarities. Most are cute but heavier set women who seemed to be looking for the romantic ideal.

3/18/2009 8:56:26 AM - oh ok i get what your saying. yes shes a bit jaded from a past relationship so i can now understand how she fits into what the other person was saying.

3/19/2009 3:57:02 PM -

3/19/2009 3:57:59 PM - I am posting an email that I just for from the jerk himself for those that wish to comment or might have one themselves... This email is to inform you that I am married and I have a daughter and although I was talking to alot of chicks at the time while i was married and had my daughter i am changing my ways. please delete me and donot contact me again.

3/19/2009 4:08:50 PM - he aint chainging, this is the definition of derek: http://www.mcafee.cc/Bin/sb.html

3/19/2009 8:01:59 PM - He has done that about 3 other times in the last few years. Yeah...this time is so much different. He does it when he gets caught. When the heat dies down he does it again until caught. Lets all get together and calculate how many times he has said he was going to change.

3/19/2009 8:04:11 PM - Wonder if Derek has been shown this site yet. Ladies, stay away from this liar. Not only is he not worth the time for a relationship, but its not even worth investing a night for a one night stand. He is absolutely horrible in bed.

3/19/2009 9:12:36 PM - May I ask the post at 3:57:59, exactly when did you get the email from him. How many of you other ladies have received emails from him along the same lines? I am logging in after about 2 weeks of no pc and I see where someone has posted the wife's name. Evidently, she did not have a problem with putting her own name on the posts where she was saying she had filed papers against him. Then she deleted her posts, but someone else had already posted her name before she deleted hers. I went to my space and did a search for her and found her. She has a picture there if anyone is interested in seeing what the last person Derek has tried his line on looks like. Hope she doesn't believe the s#@$% about him changing. His kind never changes. This survey would not have the number of posts and viewings it has if he had really made an effort to change.

3/19/2009 9:16:28 PM - LOL@post 8:04pm. Sooo true.

3/19/2009 10:12:37 PM - to reply to post9:12, i went to my space and did a search and found a guy that had amanda and katlin siddon in the search docs. He labeled himself as derek's replacement. there was an amanda listed as a friend and when i clicked on her name and pulled up her profile I found several people listed as friends. one of them was a baby named katlin. i clicked on her picture and her my space url was www.myspace.comforward slashkatlinunderlinebaringer. there was also a picture of derek and some other guy with him with the caption of amanda's property with it. There were some comments on the amanda site about derek. thing is, seems he had already done her wrong back in july or august. this guy has not logged in since august of 08. looks like after he did what someone in the post on 317 at 6:28 says he did, she would have run as fast as she could. he showed her then how unreliable he was.

3/19/2009 10:28:57 PM - I am more curious on why the hell they are living apart. Why can''t she just move in with him in Yuma? Arizona sucks, but still. It''s not like she cannot live there with him. It just asks for problems. Maybe he is feeding her some bull**** on why she can''t move with him leaving him free to do what he wants.

3/19/2009 10:35:13 PM - The profile of the guy who is ''Derek''s Replacement'' looks fake. Almost looks like the wife made the profile in order to get Derek jealous or something.

3/20/2009 6:31:02 AM - larys profile *dereks replacement* is not fake i can say that much. i worked with the guy in iraq. he made that page to piss derek off and the reason that it has never changed is because he passed away.

3/20/2009 6:39:31 AM - Despite the comment on 3/20 @ 631am I agree with the poster who said the profile looks fake as if the wife made it. The public comments of the wife ''fighting'' against this guy chasing her just reeks of ''look at me! other guys want me! in your face!''

3/20/2009 9:39:58 AM - I think you are right, post at 631 am on 320, that the profile is fake. If you notice the my space url is amanda_andkatlinsproperty which is very much like the caption over the picture of derek and some other guy together on the Katlin profile that is entitled Amanda's Property. Yep, I think you have it right! I think the wife has some major issues here.

3/20/2009 9:51:35 AM - Saying he ''passed away'' is a very predictable and easy excuse to give but not believable as I have had friends pass away and their myspaces got filled up with comments and tributes saying how they were missed and such. Looks like the wife took down her pics though. Guess she is still skulking around here. Seriously, she needs to either get rid of him and move on or move to Yuma with him and try to work on a marriage. Being apart like that is not going to help matters.

3/20/2009 7:12:21 PM - ok although i think she should leave him because dereks compleatly useless and was dating me at the time she married him this post is not about her. this is only to tell everyone else how ****ed up derek is not to make his wife feel worse that she does. if she is divorcing him im sure she has alot on her plate already and if shes not divorcing him then we all know for a fact that shes going through an emotional roller coster because hes a loser.

3/20/2009 7:18:04 PM - For those that were asking about when I got the email, I posted it right after I read the email, so the time stamp is within an hour of my reading it and laughing that he bothered to write it. I hadn't talked to him in almost 2 months now and had deleted him off everything I had contact with him on. So the email as a riot to me. I've known men like him before and much like his wife have a child with one of them...but thankfully I wasn't stupid enough to marry my daughter's father and put myself in the mess Derek's poor wife is in now. Once a player and a cheat, always....regardless of how much they claim otherwise.

3/22/2009 9:08:19 AM - I don't know if any of you have noticed, but I think the wife is doing a lot of posting here like she is someone else. If you noticed the posts that she added which have been removed, some of the misspelled words and grammar are the same. I think she may be having a good time with all of us. This, I believe, has become a source of entertainment for her. Also there are things on here that I would think only she or someone really close to her would know, like the stuff about last summer and her calling his dad.

3/22/2009 10:46:10 AM - Thats true, I think the wife is as messed up as Derek is in the head. Only makes since for her to be posting things like that. To bad this site doesnt post a username when someone post.

3/23/2009 12:26:57 AM - Hey girls!! Derek IS a total shit bag!! I dated him from Dec of 06 Juneish 07. Thought I'd give you all some laughs... while I was dating Derek he got me good to. Same shit different girl, different day. Marriage proposal.. wanting kids all that bullshit.. I always thought it was a little strange of how protective over his phone he was. I put $200 on that damn phone so I figured I had a right to see what was in it. That's when I found out he cheated that's when I lost my mind. lol. He was sleeping sound in my bed.. and I slapped him HARD to wake him up. Dazed and confused he didn't know what was going on.. so I did it again. That conversation was fun. Another time he drank half a bottle of Jagger which he can't hold his liquor because I went to a party without him, I come home to him puking in my toilet wanting my comfort but no.. I was very verbally abusive. He kept saying that he should kill himself.. and encouraged it. Called him a piece of sh*t and so on and so on. I let him sleep it off hugging the toilet and the next morning I made him clean it. After that he was restationed to Yuma.. which a friend of mine was supposed to get a few of his friends down there to make his life hell, never found out of that actually happened or not. I also found out why he got set him before his FIRST tour in Iraq was over was not because of a knee injury or any bullshit like that.. it's because he pulled a knife on his superior. Happy bashing girls, I'll be back!

3/23/2009 5:31:26 AM - Question here.....exactly when did derek pull tours in Iraq. You say you dated him from dec of 06 to juneish of 07. When did he deploy to iraq, how many tours has he pulled in iraq, when did he return from iraq, and where was he when he returned. You said he was restationed to Yuma. about when was that? Also, when did he have a knee injury? I thought his knee was injured during this last tour in Iraq or so he said. Wonder how many times he has used this knee injury to get sympathy from those of us who dated him? I am just trying to put some dates together about some things. I really need this info.

3/23/2009 3:36:58 PM - He never deployed while we were dating. But I think he said he was there in '05.. allegedly, haha He was stationed in twenty nine palms when I met him and he said he went to Yuma in.. August I think it was. I have his info somewhere in my laptop in my room, I'll get it before my class tonight and just send it when I'm in my computer class, since I'll have nothing to do. I'm good friends with another girl that he dated, she tracked me down. She dated him for about 6months while him and I were together. Have you been to his family website.. baringer.net?

3/23/2009 3:39:50 PM - OH!! And also while we were dating he said that his brother was killed by a drunk driver and his brother''s girlfriend was paralized cause she was in the car as well.. then I saw pictures of his brother.. alive and well and the girlfriend with no wheel chair. He can never keep his lies straight.

3/23/2009 8:34:32 PM - I have one better...I got about the same story about his father. This was within the last year. He is really a trip.

3/23/2009 8:46:35 PM - Here you go, as I promised! What unit are you with? derek_baringer2001: mwss 371 I can''t believe anyone would say that about their family! I think the Marines only keeps him cause they want to send him on a special mission LMAO

3/23/2009 8:51:33 PM - The only reason why he got deployed in late 2005/early 2006 was because his unit in 29 Palms wanted to get rid of his loser butt so they pawned him off on III MEF in Camp Pendleton. I dated him right before and up until he got deployed. He was possessive, sneaky, moody, he tried to get me to buy him a cell phone, all he wanted to do was get drunk and he cant handle his liquor. I caught him cheating with a girl he met on MySpace and we worked together to confront him which was hilarious. He jsut said he wanted to die and needed help. Of course, we were the psycho ones.

3/23/2009 8:56:01 PM - Oh, I posted the above comment. He also tried contacting me when he got back from Iraq saying how he still loved me and wanted to be with me. And said how sorry he was and that I was all he had. This was in summer 2007 time frame. I told him to bugger off and blocked him on my IM.

3/23/2009 11:52:38 PM - Haha. OMG He's so crazy. I remember after I left him he called me months later and left me a voice mail saying, Hey babe... just calling to tell you I got a new CCCAAAARRR Good! I hope he drives it off of a cliff!

3/24/2009 7:00:43 AM - We should all form a MySpace group or yahoo group or something called ''We hate Derek Baringer and post all the funny stories about him.

3/24/2009 4:35:15 PM - Haha! I'm totally down for that idea, but I wouldn't want him to think he was that special lmao

3/24/2009 7:30:05 PM - Hey, ladies, I have been doing some research. Seems that whoever it was that said the wife was lying with her posts was correct. I did a search for Amanda Baringer and found a website about a Katlin Baringer that was born on May 29, 2008 to Amanda Dawn Baringer and Derek Ian Baringer. I hate to tell her, but there was no way she was Amanda Baringer on May 29th. He was still married to someone else unless he was committing bigamy which wouldn''t surprise me if he thought he could make money off two women at the same time. It was a very interesting site. There�s a picture of �Mommy� on there along with a short bio. Think if I was her, I would have gotten a better picture of myself to post. Seems she has moved around quite a bit. Wonder why that is. Says she is a parttime computer tech. Don�t see how with the spelling and grammar mistakes she has made on her own website. If that is an example of her work, I know that I would never hire her. She also states that she has lived in several states and has hopes of soon moving to Arizona. For someone that said she was going to divorce Derek and has made the statements about him on this website that she has, she seems to be trying to play us all for a bunch of fools. Furthermore, on a post that she has removed, she stated that she and Derek lived in the same area, just apart. Now she states on this website that she is living in Mississippi. Would the woman know the truth if it knocked her down? She and derek seem to be a matched pair. Some people you just can not talk to to warn. I say more power to her if she thinks that she is going to change this s###bag. He is a user and always will be. If she does love him, he''ll kill whatever she feels for him within a short time. I just don''t see that much about him to love at this point. Also, on one picture of the baby, you can see her hospital bracelet and it doesn�t say Baringer, it appears to say Siddon from what I can tell. It�s a bit blurred. Mommy�s identification band also has Siddon on it.

3/24/2009 8:08:33 PM - Yeah divorce was not filed/finalized with his first wife until Oct 2008 and was done in Arizona. So very scandalous!

3/24/2009 8:38:09 PM - Yea, I went on that site after reading the post that found it. Let�s figure this outseems that if baby baringer was born in may, mommy must have gotten pregnant in what??.....end of august or beginning of September. where was Derek about that time? anyone know where he was stationed????? I can�t believe that he was competent enough to get someone pregnant. If his performance in bed is any indication of his ability to impregnate someone, then ??????LOL Cute baby though�to cute to have come from Derek�s genes�musdt get her looks from her mother�s family.

3/24/2009 8:44:07 PM - Summer 2007 Derek was still in the stumps or pendleton I do believe. It was about the time he was trying to schmooze me into thinking he was still in love with me after I broke up with him. Wow...few hundred more posts and Derek may make the top ten men on this site. Haha!

3/24/2009 11:35:55 PM - Is there anybody current? I cant help but to wonder if there is any reason to put stock in this whole changing for her idea. I recived an im from him saying the same thing the girl that got the email said. That he had done his wife wrong but wanted to change for her and his kid. I just cant believe after all these post on here that a guy like him could change. I feel sorry for his wife I was only with him for a few months and he had already shown his colors.

3/25/2009 5:25:17 AM - After reading the post about the baby�s website, I checked the family website, baringer.net, someone listed a couple of nights ago, and it is very strange that there is nothing about a child or grandchild on it. Seems like the �family� is not too thrilled over this event. If my parents had a grandchild, they would have his/her picture all over their website. Also did not notice any mention of Derek getting married, but I did notice that they did mention his older brother and either his wife or girlfriend going on a trip with them in December of 2008. Strange that this grandchild was born in May and there is no mention of her on their family website.

3/25/2009 6:32:39 AM - Derek always pulls the mass email or IM when he gets caught. After I stopped talking to him and deleted him from my friends list I received several mass IMs from him saying he was married with a baby on the way and he loved his wife This has been over the course of three years so its not the same woman and wanted everyone to delete him. He does this because 1. He knows that he can always find more women online. 2. He can always pull the ''shes psycho and hacked me!'' excuse. And he HAS used this excuse. His family...I met his family actually and his parents are great people. I just don''t understand how the got one bad apple in the bunch. His family is the american dream really. But, they are ashamed and disapointed in how Derek treats women. His mother told me that she received countless calls and emails from girls saying that they were engaged to them and he was off with other women. She would lecture and lecture, but it would do no good.

3/27/2009 4:34:16 AM - I'm not sure how great his family is or how ashamed they are of his behavior if they don't try to warn these girls that call and say that they are engaged to him. From the wife's post which has been removed, I gather that when she called him back in July that the father did tell her that he was married. But when they found out that he was marrying this girl why didn't they stress to her that this had happened before...from what I can tell several times. And I gather that they knew that she had a child. Why wouldn't they try everything in their power to warn her what she was getting into, if not for her sake but for her child's sake. Also, like one of the previous posts, if they don't have pictures of their grandchild on their website, nor any mention of Derek getting married, they must not be happy with the situation. I think they owed it to the new Mrs. Baringer to let her know in every way possible what the situation was. Then again, maybe they did and she just chose not to listen. Who knows.

3/27/2009 5:40:53 AM - Well one would assume that things are going fine with the new married couple because derek just took special liberty to go see the wife because shes having some kind of medical problems. I guess when I say fine obviously I mean as a relationship stand point since the wife is sick. I just wouldnt think if she was divorcing him that he would go unless he is being a jerk trying to change her mind when shes at her low. Really wouldnt suprise me though.

3/27/2009 3:43:33 PM - In reply to the above post, unless you are in a position to know for sure that his wife is sick, I wouldn't believe anything. he has told that his brother was killed in a car wreck by a drunk driver and that his brothers girlfriend was left in a wheelchair. And then there they are on the family website just as healthy as can be. He could be lying about his wife being sick just to get some leave or maybe even go see another girl. Anyways the post above isn't addressing the post before it which brought up the grandchild thing or the fact that dereks parents haven't been trying to really warn girls that he plays with. looks to me like they simply inable derek to continue doing what he has done for quite a few years.

3/27/2009 7:57:15 PM - Well, when I talked to his mom about his behavior and why she didn''t say anything to me to warn me about all that he has done before she said she had hoped he had grown up some since being the Marines. I guess he has done this sort of thing since being a teenager. I think his parents keep hoping that he has changed or they dont'' want to talk bad about their son to others. I am more curious about why the hell his wife is not living with him. Yuma sucks as much as 29 Palms, but they do allow families there. She is probably living with her parents rent free and he is collecting BAH for nothing. It just seems so much like a contract marriage if there was not a child involved. Plus, usually when a family can be moved out to the location of the military spouse the command highly encourages them to do so. Maybe they are not really married?

3/27/2009 11:26:31 PM - I am not sure if the wife being sick is for real or a lie I only know what he told us. They normaly wont allow special liberty without proof though. From what I know baringer is on the list for base housing so that means he turned in a marrage licence or he wouldnt qualify. Maybe he is waiting to get that before he moves her if she is staying with him.

3/28/2009 6:06:17 AM - Well, when my grandfather died, I had to have documentation to get special leave and it took about 24 hours to get it approved not counting the time it took to get the documents from my mother to me. Of course, she faxed them, but still she had to get documents together. As for the base housing, yeah, I'm sure he has turned in the marriage certificate, that's how he would operate. How else is he going to get BAH. He's got the best of both worlds. Bragging rights to a wife and child...MACHO MAN!!! but no day to day responsibilities. An a## is an a@@ is an a@@. Get it?

3/29/2009 1:02:13 PM - Hey girls, just checked the baringer website and guess what!! Amanda and daughter have finally been added to the website as of today March 29th. Amazing isn't it that it took this forum pointing out the lack thereof to get it on there. Anyway, if you visit the website, you'll notice that there is only one picture and the Baringers are welcoming Amanda and daughter to the family. Not Amanda and our granddaughter to the family. Maybe they know something that the rest of us do not know...strange isn't it? Also, odd that derek went off to see the wife because she was ill and all of a sudden the acknowledgement of a daughter in law is made...but not the acknowledgement of a grandchild. Seems rather odd. It's been, what about a month or more since the event took place?

3/29/2009 1:03:22 PM - Derek probably told his parents to do it or something.

3/29/2009 1:20:08 PM - Wow, somebody must be sitting watching this website to answer that quick. he probably did, but it would speak volumes to me about how they feel. And I''m not sure I would be willing to expose my child to a family that had to be told to do this. It would say a lot to me...like maybe they think this is another one of his screw ups and they aren''t willing to accept that it is a done thing and everything is going to fall apart before long. They have good reason to feel that way with dereks history of womanizing.

3/29/2009 1:22:25 PM - Hehe...no not sitting watching the site. I am playing World of Warcraft and it pops up in my email every time someone posts here. So, had a break in between killing stuff to respond. But agree with what you say, they probably figure this is just another of his screw ups. He will lay low for a month or so and then will be back to looking online for women.

3/29/2009 3:13:36 PM - Hey girls, sorry I was MIA for so long, spring break ended and got a little busy with school. Anyway with all the possible children that Derek may have out in the world, I know if I had his child and I would get child support. The military is VERY serious about a man taking care of his business. I hope Derek does get listed as a top 10 on this site, that would be hilarious!!

3/29/2009 3:18:29 PM - Also, I would like to mention something.. but would not like it to be public for Derek''s eyes to possibly see or anyone that might be loyal to him that is spying on this website, what should I do?

3/29/2009 3:22:28 PM - Just say it here. It is all anonymous. What is the worse that can happen? he finds out? Boo hoo for him.

3/29/2009 3:31:35 PM - Oh no.. it''s nothing like that. It''s something that could potentially ruin is military career lol. *shrugs* Wouldn''t want him becoming more deceitful. Would rather him keep his slopping ways. Also, I was reading a few myspace pages and read that Amanda had a lot of spelling errors in her posts before. But on her comments to her friend lary there''s hardly any errors. Hm....

3/29/2009 4:33:44 PM - Go ahead spill the beans. It's anonymous. That's what we are all here for, the truth. I too had noticed the mistakes on Amanda's posts and just went and looked at them. Her posts DO have a lot of grammar and spelling errors, but his blog does not have any except for the lack of apostrophes. What are your thoughts?

3/29/2009 8:44:16 PM - In reply to post about ruining his military career, wht do you mean by his slopping ways? Just enlighten us! Also, what is the relavenc4e of her spelling to the rest of the stuff? have you made a connection to something?

3/29/2009 8:50:01 PM - This site is to just spill the beans about our experience with Mr. Baringer in order to warn other women of his actions and prevent them heartbreak. If it ends up hurting him, then oh well. He should of thought of it before he went and hurt so many women. Reap what you sow.

3/31/2009 9:13:48 PM - You're right, that is the purpose of this website. If Mr. Baringer gets hurt in the process, who are we to care. Did he care when he was doing the same to numerous women?

4/1/2009 1:50:04 PM - I find it funny that there was never any mention of Derek's first marriage on his family's website. Unless they never knew. Or even better there is this post he did on a website: http://www.lewisvilleband.org/alumni00.html In 2007 he was engaged to a girl from AZ he was divorced from his first wife in that state so it could be the same woman and they were expecting a child at the time.

4/2/2009 4:45:02 AM - I have contacted the first wife at one point and they knew he was married. they cooperated with her in every way they could after he spent her money and put her and her family in debt. The Baringers know how derek is and just don't know what to do about him. You know he is an adult and they really have no conrol over his actions. Also, you always hope that your child will change or do better than he or she has in the past. The strange thing I thought was that it took him visiting the sick wife and she probably pointed the lack of the mention of her and their granddaughter on the family website, to get it there. I still don't get the thing about not acknowledging or putting your granddaughter on a family website. BTW, I also read the post on the band website that you read. Seems that he has a thing about having a child. Not sure his first wife was even pregnant. If you noticed in the post, he said they should be expecting a baby in about 9 months. It takes 9 months to have a baby, so perhaps he was hoping and she wasn't pregnant. Again big bad marine derek was bragging.

4/2/2009 9:58:58 PM - I was one of the female friends that Derek kept hanging around as a hopeful that he could get in my pants, which he failed at. Every girl he was 'engaged' to was at one point in time expecting a child according to what he would tell me. So, it would not surprise me if he was lying go figure!. Looks like he and the current wife are not going to get a divorce, but I think its stupid to take the chance of staying with a man like him and getting hurt even more so or have the child get hurt in the process. Just my two cents on the matter. I hope that his first wife was made whole after the divorce though and that she did not take on the full debt herself.

4/3/2009 4:21:33 AM - I think he left his first wife in debt pretty much. Must be an ego thing for him to claim having fathered a child. I too think it is stupid for the new wife to stay with him considering what she has read here and even possibly what she has even dealt with since marrying him. It can't have been easy reading all this and still think to stay with him. She must be desperate. He called me incessantly once he got my phone number. It drove me crazy. It was like he was constantly checking up on me. Kind of obsessive. I finally gave him his walking papers. Had to kind of get ugly in the process.

4/5/2009 4:59:34 PM - Yeah! I remember when he first got my cell phone number he would call all the time, but he didn''t have a cell phone or anything at the time so he could borrow his co workers, people in the barracks, etc. When I would call him back I would always get some random marine. I did however score a date with one when I attempted to return his call. :P But, yes another time I had a male friend over at my place with my brother and Derek came over and he got really butt hurt over the presence of another guy in my vicinity it seems. He stormed out and went for a emo walk for four hours saying how super pissed he was that I had this other guy over. Loser!

4/7/2009 4:25:35 PM - Well the wifies in yuma now along with the daughter.

4/7/2009 8:19:14 PM - Poor girl to decide to settle for so little.

4/7/2009 9:25:27 PM - Are you serious? The "wifie" actually took an innocent child into a life with this jerk!Doesn''t say much for her intelligence or her love for her child. I would dig ditches before I would expose my child to a womanizer like him.

4/7/2009 10:10:51 PM - Whoever posted on april 2nd, about being one of the women Derek hung around, did you work with him? How do you know that he and the wife were not getting a divorce?

4/9/2009 9:00:20 PM - I posted on April 2nd. I say him and his current wife are not getting a divorce simply based on the fact that she has just moved in with him in Arizona and also the posting on the family website.

4/9/2009 9:27:12 PM - How do you know that she has moved in with him? Are you a friend of his or her? Do you work with him? I find it strange that she said so much on this website and then went to live with him. I really hoped that she was smarter than to go live with him. She could have just stayed married to him and made sure that he supported her and their child. He is such a jerk and loser!

4/21/2009 9:20:13 PM - Things sure have gotten quiet here. Guess we'll have to wait and see if Derek goes back to his usual self after a few months of marriage. Everyone, keep tabs if possible!

4/27/2009 9:41:14 AM - Wow! I am so glad I heard about this site on the radio and decided to look up on my friend's new 'boyfriend' Derek. So he's married, has a child AND is psycho? I will be sure she sees all this!

4/27/2009 3:28:51 PM - I hope the wife is still reading this, maybe one day she will snap into reality and see that he has not changed and he will not change. I was dating Derek last week.

4/28/2009 3:56:57 PM - So, your friend is dating Derek....how about that? And someone else was dating Derek last week....hmmmmmmmm. Were you actually dating him or emailing him? Are the last two posts by the same person?

4/28/2009 9:15:15 PM - how recent is the friend dating derek? and i wonder like the post before me was the second poster dating him or emailing him.

5/5/2009 7:57:46 PM - seems as tho someone doesn't want to answer questions or either has not come back to this site.

5/14/2009 8:27:49 PM - Well, girls, just found another post about Derek. Below is the web address. Seems someone else thinks he is what we all know he is. I think she hit it right on mark. I too feel sorry for the person he is married to. Although, she could be as messed up as he is. She has to be to live with him. http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blogBM5fwYIzd7PMz_H3tklR03Lcb9EsMHc?cq=1

5/17/2009 10:14:42 PM - did you post the link right i couldnt get it to pull up

5/18/2009 7:45:36 PM - Same here. Could not find the page. What did it say exactly?

5/18/2009 9:26:15 PM - http://blog.360.yahoo.com/blogBM5fwYIzd7PMz_H3tklR03Lcb9EsMHc?cq=1 I did a search on google for derek ian baringer and it was Dani''s blog i think. Anyway, it said the following: Derek Ian Baringer is nothing but a liar and a cheater. Whoever is married to him, I feel so sad for. He s a worthless human being and a sorry excuse for a Marine.

6/7/2009 9:16:36 PM - Hey, girls, I just checked the family website and guess what, no mention of the grandchild's first birthday. According to the katlin baringer website, she was a year old on May 29. Seems like the family is not into grandchildren and birthdays. No mention of a grandchild's birthday, no pictures, no nothing. Find this very strange for a couple who have no other grandchildren I'm beginning to wonder if this child is really their grandchildor maybe they just aren't claiming her or the mother. My parents would have pictures everywhere if they had a grandchild regardless of whether they were happy about the marriage.

6/9/2009 10:52:36 AM - not sure if it really is because they dont accept the child or not since it does seem to take a while for that site to ever be updated. i do have news though, my husband works with him and apparently they are expecting another child. i met the wife at a unit funtion and she seems very depressed. i feel bad for her, so younge and nieve. i do not know much about cpl baringer but from what i see here he is a piece of work.

6/14/2009 4:38:21 PM - I know Amanda Siddon..met her on a website called sugardaddyforme.com She scammed me out of alot of money by making big promises to me, lied to me in February that she was in jail...so her and this guy deserve each other thats for sure.

6/15/2009 3:26:36 PM - I really hope someone will keep information going here as to what is going on with Derek and Amanda...Dont let her fool you for one minute folks....I got played for a total fool by her, I still cant believe I let it happen, but I trusted her and believed in her. I cant remember exactly when I went to meet her in Glen Alan,MS but I stayed at a hotel and she came to see me a couple days..I will admit the girl is good in bed! Took her shopping, had a good time...but after that any time I made plans to come see her there was always a problem, she even told me once the baby was in the hospital, cant beleive she would make that up..but I would always send her money when she needed anything...the last time she really hit me up big with a story that seemed so true, but now is so obvious I was scammed....she even has help with her scam from someone that had her cell phone..he called me a couple times telling me how she was in jail..was probably him! Anyway you can still see her profile on Sugardaddyforme.com....just search for girls in the Glen Alan MS area, you will see her profile and pic...read it..lol..nothing but an offer for prostitution...I was a sucker..totally.

6/20/2009 9:27:58 PM - I totally agree with the last two posts. looks like the two of them are running a scam. According to this website, they are living in yuma, az. guess they are running the same scam there. Looks like she is nothing but a w and he may be her p. Child services should be brought into the situation if this is true. It is truly sad when a woman will lie about her child being in the hospital to get money out of someone. God will punish her one dayI just hope the child does not suffer for her wrongdoing.

6/20/2009 9:43:39 PM - Wonder what the inlaws would think about that website. Just checked it out. You know the inlaws have a family website. Anyone willing???? Then again they probably already know that their son is a sleazebag piece of s@#$% anyway. The post above this one is right. Child services should be notified!

6/20/2009 10:07:37 PM - This is directed to the guy that was scammed out of money from Amanda. Derek was probably the guy you say called you. What was the story that she told you and when was the last time you had any contact from her or the supposed guy? Why was she supposedly in jail? About how much money did you send her? Someone needs to stop these two people.

6/21/2009 5:48:53 AM - Been a long time since I visited this website. Looks like a little is going on again. Looks like derek found someone just like him. a user. How did the guy that was scammed find her on here? Did you know her man's name or did you do a search for her?

6/22/2009 3:57:20 AM - I did a search for her, found his name, searched his name and found this site, and was amazed at what I found here! The story I was told was that she had to move out of the house she was sharing with a bunch of friends and had nowhere to go. I made some arrangements and sent her some money, the amount I dont want to say. I got a call from her at work one day saying her dad wanted her to go to Texas to pick up her brother and his wife who had been thrown in jail, but Amanda didnt want to go cuz she was supposed to start school the next day. That was the last time I actually spoke to her. The next thing I know, Im not getting responses to text messages, and when I do its supposedly from some girl who says she is in jail cuz her dad had her arrested for some BS charges. Supposedly she makes bail, but he has her rearrested for other stuff..then I get text from sone guy..cant remember what he said his name was, but that he was supposedly the guy who her cell number was listed in...and that she was in jail but had been moved to another county and that the grandmother had Katlin. I called that jail with the names this guy said she might be in under but they had no record of anyone by those names..supposedly this guy even went to see her, he even had the correct address of the jail when I asked him cuz by now Im thinking this is a total scam. He even called me from her cell phone twice to talk to me and update me..but after a few days of this BS I just sent a txt and said Im done with this. repeated attempts to email her at cryingangeltears@yahoo.com went unanswered...oh and anyone that wants to see her sugardaddyforme.com profile, her search name is simicomplicated...ad states single mom looking for an arrangement to pay bills and maybe something more Like I said, she is great in bed, we had lots of phone sex as well since I live so far from her...Im thinking I went up to see her on Jan 2nd. Curious if anyone knows where Derek was during January..she told me he was in Iraq, but scheduled to come home but would be going to AZ if I remember right..I think is so funny that on katlinbaringer web site there is nothing on the daddy page..shows how much pride she has in derek. What I really wish is I still had the X rated pics she sent me..lol..The girl is a little freak, I really liked her alot, but to just have gotten to be with her over one weekend, I didnt get my moneys worth out of the girl. Anyone with any info please post!

6/22/2009 6:42:11 AM - I will be happy to but I want some kind of idea as to who you are..and trust me I will do reverse email searches to confirm you are who you claim to be.

6/22/2009 3:38:09 PM - Ok..sent again..sorry was my mistake..friggin spelled hudson wrong and didnt notice my mistake till now...I sent it from an email acct I use to check up on people that I have issues with..I am really looking forward to hearing who you are and what you know about all of this..I am WAY over Amanda, but still find all this amazing!

6/26/2009 9:04:58 AM - Seems to me that the guy that paid Amanda all that money got exactly what he deserved for answering an add for prostitution.

6/29/2009 8:01:44 PM - I think that the post about Amanda being on a sugardaddy website and meeting a guy in MS and taking him for money is probably Amanda herself posting. From previous posts that she has put on here, I think that she gets a high out of this stuff. I''m not saying that I don''t think that she actually did the stuff that is on the post, but I think that she psoted the information on here. Things have gotten so quiet here and she wanted to see if she could stir things up a bit. Anyone else have a opin????

6/29/2009 9:05:09 PM - Could be Amanda posting in order to get her ego up. I mean really it must take some lonely man to pay her for sex. For the same price he could get something half way decent looking.

6/29/2009 9:06:31 PM - Can someone post the list to this profile on sugardaddyforme.com? I cannot seem to find it.

6/29/2009 9:06:57 PM - PS: Let''s get Derek in the top ten commented. :P

6/30/2009 5:20:15 AM - http://www.sugardaddyforme.com/index.php?page=profile&pmid=1578348 Here is the web page... if that doesn''t work, if you notice in the post from the guy that did all this, her screen name was simicomplicated. or you could do a search for a woman 23 years old in the glen allan ms area. The webpage states that she is 23. I fould it by doing a search for someone in the area that was in the age range of 22 to 26. I figured she had to be in that range.

6/30/2009 8:04:10 AM - after going to the baringer family website and seeing how these people live, they seem to be really nice people, a regular family that would probably be mortified to know that their daughter in law is such a person. I really feel sorry for them if they ever find out about the things that have been posted here. it would be one thing for these things to have taken place before their son got involved with such a person, but for her to have dome these things in january and their son to have married her shortly thereafter.........also in a previous post someone stated their husband worked with derek and that they were expecting a child.....to thinnk that your grandchilds mother is such a person!!! this girl is really a trip or a trick....whichever way you look at it! LOL

6/30/2009 1:20:34 PM - I am the guy who posted who met Amanda on Sugardaddy, so I can promise you that its not her doing the posting..I will say this about Amanda, she takes terrible pictures...she is much cuter in person thats for sure. I was going thru a divorce at the time and it was a fun way to meet younger women..She was alot of fun, I was totally taken in by her. Derek was already part of her life way before Feb..he is Kaltins dad, so the family knows of her before they married. All totalled I didnt give her that much money, but I did only get to spend one weekend with her..do I feel stupid? yeah sure I do, we talked on the phone and text mssage alot..it was an enjoyable way to pass some time while I was going thru the divorce...I treated her good, I did not deserve this to happen to me, all I ever asked of her was an email to tell me why she did this, but after seeing the guy she is with I guess I understand now. They will get theirs one day, Kharma is a real equalizer in life. If you read this Amanda, I wish you well. KS

6/30/2009 1:36:33 PM - Naaah...I still don''t think its the pictures making her look bad.

6/30/2009 2:12:11 PM - Naaah....think your right. neither do i think the post from the supposed guy that met her on sugardaddy is real either. Think she id doing the post. Notice the post and compare to other posts that she has put on here. same sentence comps and uses some of same expressions. Then again, who knows.

6/30/2009 6:10:22 PM - Well Im not going to post my phone number or email here, but I am the one that met her, and made the previous post. Not anything I can think of to do to satisfy yall''s suspicions..anyway this has been extremely interesting to find out so much about her, and him for that matter...she certainly didnt speak very highly of him to me, but that was all part of the game for her I am sure. Doesnt seem to be anyone posting anymore that is in any kind of contact with them, it would be nice to find out something.

7/7/2009 5:45:42 PM - knowing exactly what kind of person Derek I personaly think that he is the one posting as the guy just to get the subject off of himself. I would not put it past him, after all once I caught him for the snake he is I went from the woman he said he loved the the phyco ex stalker girlfriend. He will say and do anything to get the blame off of him and any girl that dated him knows this is a fact.

7/7/2009 9:38:47 PM - im not sure that derek is the one posting. i have seen amanda's profile on sugardaddyforme.com and what would derek have to gain by telling everyone here about it? then again, they could both be posting ...they may being getting their kicks out of this stuff.

7/9/2009 6:19:18 PM - well i most say that i to have dated the crazy derek. we dated feb 07' to nov.07. i was the second post on this website. i just didnt know there was so many women out there i had meet a few and convinced them to leave him but i didnt know that there were tons. all the post on here are just crazy to hear cuz its like i am being told all over again. i have heard all of them. but one thing i want to say is that his family is not that bad. i mean its a shame they didnt say anything to some of u but there cant even stand derek. well i know at least his brother dislikes him so much. he only puts up with him cuz thats his little bro but airey really doesnt like him and knows he is crazy and has tried to set him straight but what can u do. i did know derek for a really long time. but i only talked to him over line. until 2007. sometimes i dont know why i stayed with him for so long especially since i knew of all the shit he was doing. (well most of his shit). we just always went places and i liked having someone i could do those things with. but my most precious moment was when my family and i left him on the street cuz he tried to trick us in feeling sorry for him cuz his friends never came for him and he wanted us to drive him all the way home and my family said no way and left him on the street looking like a sad puppy dog. it was the greatest moment.

7/12/2009 10:09:46 PM - Hahahahahha!!!! The last post was great. Derek never really had any friends, just guys he bumed rides off of or borrowed their cell phone from so he could call his numerous girls. He would call me from a different number each time because he fucked up his credit so bad he could not get a cell phone. Of course he completely blamed the phone company for screwing up his bills. Complete borderline personality.

7/16/2009 5:23:42 PM - I don't know this guy but he sounds like he's got a TWIN BROTHER in Jefferson and Albany Oregon! The I'm talking about is Kelly Skeahan, a 50 yr old Mommy's Boy who still lives with Mommy and Daddy! He knows you for 2 or 3 days and wants to Marry You! He tells you everything you wanna hear just to suck you in! Mostly so you can help pay his child support for his illegitimate boy and legitimate daughter (he claims the girl, but not the boy---isn't that sad?). He usually complains about women stalking him and psycho exes. But, hes the one with the problem, as soon as he gets caught cheating or he just doesn't call or text or answer and the girl gets mad or hurt he acuses THEM of being psycho!!!!! Check him out on Woman Savers! His Picture is there too! A Real ~L~I~M~P~ TOOL!!!!!!

7/16/2009 9:58:04 PM - Hey, I wonder if AMANDA is still reading this stuff! It would freak me out to have my husband listed in the top 10 commented on Womansavers. But then again, she and he are basically a matched pair from what i can tell from the comments on this website. both users, users....users!! i say that because of the post from the guy on sugardaddyforme and how she treated him. From where I come from, we have a word for a woman that advertises herself for sale and a word for a man that marries someone like her. You can figure out what we call the woman....the word for the man is FOOL!!!

7/28/2009 9:59:46 PM - Just checking back after being out of a pc for several weeks. Not a lot of activity going on here. But it does look like someone is now spilling the beans on mrs. derek. Wow, that sugardaddyforme thing does look like an ad for prostitution. maybe she is going to give derek some of what he has given others.

8/11/2009 10:19:12 AM - Derek got married again?!?! Wow...what a fucking loser. He has no idea how to keep a woman happy. Even those of his own gender cannot stand him. Never a good sign.

8/16/2009 8:35:25 PM - Yep, the ole boy got married. Must have married a really desperate woman for her to have him. Also has a child with her.......or supposedly his child. Rather strange situation if you ask me. She has posted on here several time and has said the strangest things....like she was going to divorce him...she lived in Mississippi and he lived somewhere else..strange..strange..strange.

9/10/2009 1:22:47 PM - Any new stuff on Derek?

10/6/2009 12:53:37 PM - he's cheating again, left his wife in the hospital almost losing their baby so he could go off to see another chick. left his kid with noone to watch her. i know shes stupid but i feel so damn sorry for that girl thats married to that sack of shit.

10/7/2009 9:06:58 PM - Not surprised. Everyone said thta he would straighten up for a while and then be back to his old ways. Wonder if he left the kid by itself somewhere while the wife was in the hospital or did he leave her with someone else? I would think that even a sleaze like derek wouldn't leave a child by itself. if she doesn't leave him over this, I agree with the post above this one, she must be lacking somewhere!

10/10/2009 10:53:28 PM - from what i have heard he walked out on the wife while she was laying in the floor screaming in pain and left the kid with her, wife called a friend and they took her to the hospital and watched the little girl. he was gone all weekend and didnt even care to answer the phone when wifes doctor called him again and again to tell him she had to have surgery and they almost lost the baby. fucking worthless peice of shit dont need to be no father. thank god the baby is still ok though.

11/15/2009 7:23:32 PM - OK SO I''VE READ ALL OF THESE COMMENTS...AND IVE KNOW DEREK SINCE 2004. AND AT THAT TIME HE WAS DOING THE SAME THING. HE PROPOSED TO ME REAL QUICK..ABOUT MAYBE A MONTH AFTER WE STARTED CHATTING. AT THAT TIME HE WAS IN OKINAWA,JAPAN. HE WOULD CALL ME BUT LIKE MANY OF YOU SAID..HE WOULD FORGET WHAT HE WOULD SAY.I NOTICED HE WOULD CHAT WITH ALOT OF WOMEN AND I STARTED PLAYING GAMES WITH HIM. I MET SEVERAL OF HIS FINANCEES AND WE EVENTUALLY CONFRONTED HIM. THE BOTTOM LINE IS..HE HAS BEEN DOING THIS FOR MANY YEARS NOW EVEN BEFORE I MET HIM. YUP HE PLAYS THE SUICIDAL,I BROKE MY LEG STORY. BUT I WOULD JUST LAUGH AT THOSE BECAUSE IT WOULD BE THE SAME THING OVER AND OVER AGAIN.

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