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| John or Johnny is the ultimate man whore. He is spending the night, as of 2 days ago, with everygirl he meets on myspace & yahoo. He will tell you he's a Christian & God has re-vamped his life. As of last week, he was seeing 4 girls at the same time & still trying to get back w/ an ex in which "he claims to have dumped because she cheated on him." She found out he was still sexually active w/ 2 others. He will mis-use, mis-treat, & humiliate any female. He tells his friends he "likes" thick girls. When he walks away, they always chase he. This way he never has to be alone. Lately, he has no preference in size. He looks for girls who are from good families, or have personal issues with their bodies. To him they are the most vunreable and easily taken advantadge of. John's addiction is sex. He will claim to be a victim, but he has yet to stop abusing females. Ladies if you see him,or if he IM's you, or write to you, for your own physical, and mental safety, get away. |
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6/12/2007 2:21:00 PM - Apparently Johnny has taken up stalking as a hobby now. He refuses to leave girls alone. One of his ex's told me that she's seeing someone, but he still calls because he just can't stand the thought of her being w/ someone else. One she wanted a real relationship w/ him he vanished into thin air. This same girl found out Johnny had been seeing her & 2 other girls at the same time. No form of protection was used on his part because Johnny claims to be pure.
6/14/2007 12:32:22 PM - It's funny to me that Johnny has just now gotten busted for this. I worked at Starbucks in Hopkinsville, for awhile. You should see the people he brings in there. He's the "coffee-house-whore." I never thought about him being the same guy until I noticed the same butt ugly car, an awful orange Mustang. We laughed at him. He really thinks he's the "mac daddy" I did notice that the rest of his hang outs were gone; I will take it upon myself to list them.
Starbucks, The Drag Strip off exit #1 in Clarksville, O'Charley's in Hopkinsville, Olive Garden, IHOP's in Clarksville, Waffle House, in Hopkinsville Tippers, Kickers, Krogers in Hopkinsville, & The Great Escape off exit #1. These are all of the place he would invite the numerous girls too.
The part about him moving to Nashville is gone too. I'm not sure when, but the state of TN should be prepared.
6/14/2007 12:37:15 PM - Johnny has been on the prowl from
Evansville,In
Clifty, Ky
Cadiz, KY
Princeton, Ky
Memphis, Tn
Clarksville, Tn
Hopkinsville, Ky
Louisville,Ky
Lexington, Ky
Powderly, Ky
Madisonville,Ky
I'm sure there are a few in Ohio & surrounding states.
6/14/2007 10:04:49 PM - U GUZ FORGOT ABOUT HIS OBSESION WITH TACO BELL & RALLIES.
hOW HE LIKES TO ASK GIRLS HOW YOU DOING? LIKE HE'S THE GUY FROM FRIENDZ.
WHAT'S UP WITH THE STUPID NICKNAME J-BOO ANYWAY?
6/15/2007 4:26:03 PM - I talked to John for a couple of weeks. My name is Lisa. I met him over myspace. This was back in Feb. & March. Turns out he was talking to a girl in Fairbanks, Alaska, Princeton,Ky and a another woman named Melanie her in Hopkinsville. Melanie called him a country boy. He wrote as if he were completely devoted to his faith, until the subject of sex came up. He was all for that. Especially, when it came to me providing for him. I didn't want anything to do w/ him after he was still talking to the girl in Alaska & trying to get her to come to Ky. Then took the girl from Princeton (Dalton), Ky to Memphis all in the same week.
6/18/2007 6:35:08 PM - John absoutley loves to talk about oral sex. He wants it done on him constantly. His email is such a joke. it has ''''''''4christ@........
Seriously people, He meets girls 2 days later has them on his mom & dad's couch stark naked begging for them to perform oral sex on him. He's also asked for nude pictures of women while they were on his parents couch. Did I forget to say his parents are asleep in the house while this is goin on ? If the girl has an apartment he'll spendd the night w/ them & then another girl the next night.
Tiffany
6/18/2007 8:37:24 PM - OH my WORD!!!! Johnny has sank to a new low!!! He's messing with girls that are into sex on webcams. It's called "Camazon.com" It's totally like porn & stuff. i new he was sick!
Angelica
6/19/2007 8:54:21 AM - He will totally deny this, but he my little sister dated him when she was a minor. She just told me she got an STD from him. This was last fall. She gave him oral sex. She'd never done it before, but because he was a "good Christian guy" and really gonna be there for her, she got played big time.
6/19/2007 8:58:43 AM - Ok I'm 16, I met him where I work. He kept trying to get me to go out with him til I told him how old I was was. He still was asking. This has been about 3 months back. We talked on the phone as friends, he still wanted more. The idiot still calls me. now i read a letter that he's messing with everyone from my age to a 39 year old. YUCK! & even some chick whose on an amatuer porn site?
What a retard!
6/19/2007 9:33:47 AM - To get the facts out Camazon is a chat site, but it does have paid website on it for porn & stuff. Shay the new "friend" is on there alot. For her benefit, I bet she doesn't know about him. I've talked to this dirty boy myself.
I've talked to her also, I'm bi & he doesn't care as long as he get's what he can get.
Krystal
6/19/2007 6:32:11 PM - How many of you were asked to be a friend w/ benefits? I was. I was appalled by his question until I read the emails. I came on here and it makes perfect sence to me. My emails came form I assume his most recent ex. Could be more than one, I'm not sure, but he asked her to be a friend w/ benefits also sometime w/i the last 2 weeks. Someone checked him out to see what he was up too, he's moved on to a 30 year old now. I read above a 16 year old too? Hitting a bit young, even in KY that's illegal, correct?
Sabrina
6/21/2007 7:33:28 PM - I would like to know how a young "man", so he calls himself, can sit in church, when he feels the need to show, and not be guilt ridden to the point of tears? How can he declair himself any kind of witness for God when he lusts after wiccans & can justify going to bed w/ openly practicing bi-sexuals. How can he say he is devoted to his Faith, when he spends his weeknights in a different girls bed. Then on Saturday & Sunday he spends his time drinking the nasty beer Red Rock Rolling Rifts or something of that nature, hungover & performs sexual perversions to anyone he can get to let him stay the weekend. What kind of a "man" will lie to a minor, that he knows has emotional problems,attendeds church with, to get sexual gratifaction, & then just leaves her alone. What kind of "man" can claim to want a future with every girl he wants to try and have a meaningful & slow relationship with? How can a "man" say he's a good person at heart when he begs for oral sex on the first date? He claims to be doing better by the blogs on his myspace. Why does he have a profile on match dr.? He's all about wanting forgiveness, but how can someone forgive or overlook when Johnny can't be trusted to return an email unless it refers to sex. He never gives a second chance to anyone unless he thinks he can get some kind of physical pleasure out of it. He holds eveyone acontable for the pain that someone else cause him. Johnny will never forgive anyone becaus ehe is slefish. People who truly care about Johnny are taken for granted, manipulated into believeing he cares, & left to sit back and sufer when he crushes their spirit. Johnny is full of promises he will never keep. he will never let anyone get close to him because he is so afraid he might have to tell the truth about what he really wants someone who will be faithful to him while he can run around with anything that moves. Why does a true "Christian man" put so much focus on looks and breast size, the bigger the better & more he can play with, when he has so little to offer in the genital area.
Lesley
6/21/2007 7:44:07 PM - Hey ya'll I'm from Alabama. I have a good friend who talks to this vermon. I didn't know about this website existed until she told me he got put on here by "mistake". I don't think it was a mistake. She told me he blew up at her because he wanted more than friendship. She was absoutley clear from the beginning it was strictly friendship. The text messages & emails were horrific. "Little man" has a big ego problem and an even bigger temper, when he doesn't get his way. I think he's stuck on himself & stupid. Have a great day & see ya'll
Jessica
6/22/2007 1:07:52 PM - Johnny has his friends from church defending him left and right. The've known him for years. he's hidden his tracks so well. They have no idea how he get's on here looking for girls at all hours of the night. I see he's added a new one already a 24 year old from Clarksville. After deleting the other 2 the other 24 year old and the 30 year old aka know as the amaetur porno girl. No doubt he'll be spending the weekend w/ her. She's well endowed at top. for those of you who would like to know his pick up line, it's " HEY I WAS ON HERE AND I LIKED WHAT I SAW. EMAIL ME BACK. FROM SOMEONE WHO MIGHT BE INTERESTED."
6/22/2007 3:31:02 PM - I JUST LOOKED AT HIS PROFILE, JOHN AND I "DATED" ABOUT A MONTH AGO. WHEN HE WENT DOWN ON IT IT WAS AWFUL. 2 ADD INSULT 2INJURY THE PIG WAS CHEATN ON ME W/ 2 OTHER GRLS. THE WAY HE ATE WHNE WE WENT 2 EAT WAS SO GROSS. HE SHOVELED IT N LIKE A HOG. HE PASSED GAS CONSTANTLY & JUST WANTED 2 STAY DRUNK. I LOOKED @ HIS PROFIL HE SAYS HIS MINISTRS & MENTORORS R HIS HEROS WHY HASNT HE GOTTN HELP? HE SITS W/ HIS LEGGS CROSSED LIKE A WOMAN & I WONDER NOW IF HE AINT GAY!
6/22/2007 9:05:08 PM - Ive known him throughout highschool. The way Johnny would rub his hands along his lap constantly & skip around, I often at times wondered if he wasn't funny. He just acted too feminine. The only thing that ever mad him seem to be any type of a boy was he worked on his Ford hatchback.
Wendy
6/22/2007 9:10:27 PM - He had the nerve to tell a friend of ours after we broke up, I dumped him cuz he cheated on me, that he would never want to be with me cuz I lost to much weight & I didn't look good to no more. Hes got some kind of damn nerve. said my tiddys were to flatt for him to mess with. his penis wuz to small for me to perfom on, but I did to make him happy, & he cheated on me anyway. JERK!
6/22/2007 9:26:19 PM - Aight I met john one weekend a 2 yrs ago. I didn't no he had a grlfriend until we were threw. He told me what she didn't no was good for him & if she did find out, she'd get over it bcaus she was his. we dated for about 3 weeks bfor all this went down. He never looked in my eyes when we talked always at my tiddys. When he danced he'd flop his arms like a chicken & squak. At random places hed burst out singing, he said he was gud bcaus his dad taught music somewhere. It was so loud & sounded like yelling. He'd never let me meet his freinds, but either wanted to "be with me" in parking lots or at my place. He begged for oral sex constantly. He also wanted to grab & touch & make out in public place like clubs like he was trying to prove something. He always wanted to make a spectale out of hisself. He has an extremly hairy but & cant hold more than 2 beers. Don't even let him touch the hard stuff. He gets stupid drunk, will cry & "comes" way to early even in his own hand.
He gets puking sick from 2 beers & just whines about a simple hang over. He wants someone to baby him while hes farting & puking sick. Hell cry rub my head hold me then blames you for him getting drunk.
Haley from Clarksville
6/23/2007 5:55:27 PM - My name is Heather. did anyone notice the way HE PICKS HIS NOSE & DOESNT TRY TO HIDE IT EVEN WHILE HES EATING? John & I met one night at the Bowling Alley in Madisonville about 2 months ago. He seemed really sweet. He said he was kinda bummed cuz he was gonna meet a girl from Powderly, KY but shs didn't show. He'd been talking to her for about a week. I felt sorry for him & he was a bit hung over. He stayed overnite w/ me. We talked & did a bunch of things. he gave me his # & called me 2 or 3 times. We made plans for the next week. I called the next nite to talk & a girl picked up. She said they've been dating for bout a month.
6/23/2007 6:04:28 PM - I ADDED JOHN TO MY FRIENDS LIST JUST 2 DAYS AGO. HE TOLD ME HE WAS A DEVOTE CHRISTIAN. HE NEVER CHEATED & WANTED A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP. HE PROMISED TO BE FAITHFUL TO ME & LET THE OTHERS GIRLS GO. AFTER I READ THIS 2 DAYS AGO THE FIRST TIME, HE'S ADDED 3 MORE GILRS TO HIS LIST....
J
6/24/2007 7:05:29 PM - He's gotten a girl from IOWA to be his newest frind w/ benefits. She's all for that. She wants a little fun and sounds a bit nastsy herslf from the way she talks to her other male friends. maybe Johnny will use a rubber and not share any STDS this time. She's actually legal too. I'm surprised as many minors as he's been hitting up over the last 3 weeks.
Amanda
6/26/2007 1:04:00 PM - Hey ya'll this is worse that we ever thought> johnny's family is cool with him being a sex horned addict. It's funny being married to Johnny's siter and what happened in there family w/ them being kicked out of the church because of what his daddy did w/ the girl in the bathroom, That's where Johnny gets his problems from, or he blames them on him, he don't think he should be responcible for his actions, but other people will be, "well I saw him do it, so I can get away with it too." Makes ya wonder, don't it?
Leslie
6/28/2007 4:24:02 PM - Thanks for the heads up i would like to know more about him and all the games he pulls. so if you know anyone who can give me the dirt on john allen jr. please have them email me and i would really be greatful.
tiffany from Iowa
6/28/2007 4:25:47 PM - From: Tiffany
Date: Jun 26, 2007 2:07 PM
thanks for getting back to me. i just havent taken him off i am going to do that today. please let me know what type of a creep i have calling me and sending me sick messages. please hope to hear back from you. Tiffany from Iowa
6/30/2007 1:54:52 PM - The type of creep that will call you is one who grew up in church and watchd his dad go bonkers. Yep he startd screwin grls from the youth group in the bathroom @ church. Johnny thinks daddy did this & he got away w/ this for so long. He thinkhs he can too. We who are ture to ourselfes no this is bull. Its not ok to treat women like hores. He knew all along what was going on w his dad. He was old enough to KNOW BETER. His dad also bouht prostitutes. Will he tell you that? I dont know if his old man got help or whatever with that. this is why when Johnny gets done he thinks it's ok to walk and not even look back. Thats why it makes me sick to see him when he does come to church half hung over and tyr to be a example for ppl. I no what asshole has done the nites before. Hes gotten laid by a grl. And he wants to come be all Holier than thou. Bull. He took Susan Alexander on myspace to Memphis and let that grl work him from head to toe. She told me point blank she new he was done and bored cause he quit callin. He was going down on Amanda Zilch babygurl on myspace and talking and going out with a grl named Kayla from Cadiz & cheating on a grl named Robin Burgess at the same time. He was gonna take Melisa to Atlanta and was spendin the nite w Angie aka tibiotities on myspace the next week.
Johhny is a grown ass man. He thinks he can blame his daddy for making him this way. Thats bull and he nows it. He aint gonna change caus he dont wanna. He still has grls on his parents couch. He still talks to wiccans and bi-sexuals one who says shes a Christian. That aint in the Bible. He still begs for blowjobs and still judges ppl for there mistakes but thinks he should be overlooked cause he had a hard childhood. Half the damn world did to. If Johnny wantd to get beter thos mentors or ministrs that he claims are his heros could help him,but hes gotta wanna do it. That aint gonna happen. he wants sex to much from anything that moves. I wouldnt put it past him to b hittin up some guyz now bein hes been actin funny. Amanda said it was really bad and he always has sat crossed legged.
Les
6/30/2007 2:03:49 PM - Im Kelsey, John stopped talking to me because I want to marry a guy from the Nashville Predators. Ok, everyone in the world has their fantasy. I go to APSU. I don't have time for a boy to be jealous of my "dream". Does it make sense to be jealous of a dream guy? How stupid on his part. I also suffer from depression, he couldn't handle that. I really believe this was he excuse to stop speaking. What if I were to judge him by some bio-logical factor that he has? He's extremely skinny. He's made that way, just as I am made with depression. How could he make a first impression like that? From everything I've read, it seems he judges women by their breast size first.
March and April seemed to be a busy time for John. I'm glad I'm out of the picture.
7/1/2007 3:27:27 PM - The entire time he's telling me I love you so much; I want to marry you; you're the one; I want us to be together all the time (it was a long-distance romance) -- he had me completely fooled, and I never saw any evidence of all his lying backing up on him. He ended up talking his way out of it the first time (yes, very stupid on my part, but I guess I wanted to believe the Johnny I knew was the "real" him), and we got back together. Very soon after this incident, he started spending a lot of time on the computer and was terrified to let me see his history of sites visited (he'd delete them every time he used the computer when I was around) and snatched the computer off my lap one time so I wouldn't see his yahooIM, which logged on automatically. Long story slightly shorter, I ended up finding him on an obscure dating website, which clearly had been posted recently. When I confronted him, he lied right to my face w/o so much as flinching. Ladies, this guys is a VERY good liar. He literally would tell me how much he loved me. 5 minutes later he was online checking his dating site e-mail. There was no evidence in the relationship that he was cheating. If I hadn't have been suspicious after the first incident, I would never have found out about it. He is a coward and a liar and once you find him out, he will totally cut you out w/o a backwards glance. He's not abusive until he doesn't get his way. Then he will blow up at the slightest. He does drink, but can not hold his liquor. He is a great conman. To what benefit to him, I'm not sure. Insecurity maybe? Proceed with him at your own risk.
7/1/2007 10:39:58 PM - About 2 months ago, I met this jerk at a party. He wasn't drunk off his ass.yet. He was soooooo sweet. I really thought he was a great guy. I mean it was my friends party. Why would a friend of mine have a peon like this at his party. Whatever!! Anyways, we hung out for most of the night. "I'll call you, your great and have an amazing personality." Yeah right, turns out dip&#^% was talking to a girl from Lacy & Clarksille at the same time I had an amazing personality. We were to go out that Friday night, yeah right, he took Ashley, the girl from Clarksville out, & then spent the night with Angie, the girl from Lact, the next Friday. I never even got a call after we made out over half the night. He ven asked me to go in the bedroom & give him a blowjob after the first kiss. Thank God I didn't.
Jamie Madisonville. KY
7/2/2007 1:06:48 PM - OK I'M ON HERE JUST READING. I WANT TO KNOW WHAT IN THE HELL THIS ASSHOLE IS THINKING? I DON'T KNOW HIM, AND IF I SAW HIM I'D RUN AND HIDE. GOOD LORD MAN DO YOU HAVE ANY COMMONE SENSE AT ALL? I GUESS NOT, BEING THAT WOULD REQUIRE A BRAIN. IT'S NOT ABOUT LOOKS, BREAST SIZE, WHAT A GIRL, OR MAYBE IN HIS CASE, A GUY CAN GIVE HIM PHYSICALLY, IT'S ABOUT BEING WHO WE ARE AND LOVING WHAT WE ARE FROM THE INSIDE OUT. HIS PICTURE ISN'T "ALL THAT." WHY IS HE SO WORRIED ABOUT FINDING THE BEST LOOKING SET OF BREATS? IF HE'S THAT SKINNY, AND FROM THE LOOKS OF THE PICTURE HE SEEMS TO BE, HE'LL HAVE A ALCOHOL GUT. HE SHOULD SETTLE FOR WHATEVER SET OF BREASTS CAN OVERLOOK HIS CRAZED NASTINESS. MY GOSH, HOW CRUDE CAN ONE PERSON BE BEFROE THEY LEARN IT'S NOT ABOUT THEM AS AN INDIVIDUAL, BUT ABOUT WHO THEY ARE WHEN THEY ARE WITH SOMEONE, IF THEY FEEL THE DESIRE TO BE MARRIED. APPARENTLY HE HAS THE URGES OF A WILDFIRE. HE NEEDS SOMEONE TO MAKE HIM BE A BETTER PERSON AND CAN HELP CONTAIN THOSE URGES AND OVERLOOK THAT MESS OF A PAST. WHO AM I KIDDING, HIS PRESENT TOO. HE OR SHE NEEDS TO TAKE HIS FUNKY BUTT TO A DOCTOR AND GET HIM SOME ANTIBOTICS FIRST. I HOPE HE/SHE CAN KICK HIS ASS INTO GEAR. I FEEL SORRY FOR THE FAMILY, ESPECIALLY THE MOM. TO HAVE BEEN THROUGH THIS ONCE, WITH HER HUSBAND NOW TO HAVE HER SON BE THE SAME WAY.
WHAT A SAD STORY FOR THE GRANDCHILDREN.
LORI, NORTH CAROLINA
7/3/2007 6:53:03 PM - Alright I work at Wal-Mart. John came out there for a while & would try to pick me up all of the time. It's funny because he would say he hated Wal-Mart. I told him to stop coming. Yeah he stopped coming to see me, but within 2 days had his eyes on another girl. Stupid boy didn't pay attention to the fact she's engaged.
Ashley
7/3/2007 6:59:35 PM - Max-Fuel, the new BP, or Wal-Mart, are his girl picking up spots. Poor women can't even try to earn a living without having someone treat them like a prostitute. He'll say he'll wine and dine. According to Angie, all he does is whine.
The many Max-Fuel employees
7/3/2007 7:32:21 PM - ok done some digging, this loser has a dating profile on damn near every site there is: MATCHDR.COM MATE1.COM YAHOO.COM MYSPACE.COM CHRISTIAN DATING SITES
EHARMONY FACEBOOK. YOU NAME IT HE'S GOT ONE.
Dana
7/4/2007 4:19:15 PM - Did John ever tell anybody that he tried to hook up with a girl who sang in her church. The kicker was she use to work at HOOTERS. She gained a bunch of weight, from having seizures and got bigger tits. Thats when she was noticed by him. Of course this was from a picture off of myspace. I told you, ppl with poor self esteem or good families, or so it seems like, from the outside. This girl said she was ok with her body, but she also said she was working really hard to loose weight. He talked and tried and more than likely did get together with her. She's a good Christian girl. He realized he wasn't gonna get anywhere when he read her blog saying she had a crush on some guy she worked with. He dropped her just as quick and moved on to a girl from the next county over.
Lindsney
7/5/2007 9:25:52 PM - NAST BOY IS ON AOL NOW
Liar, User, Coward. Cybersex & porn addict, internet predator, sex addict, player. John has lied to his family, friends or anyone etc to indulge himself. Ads on 'sexpartners wanted' websites, escorts at least once a month. He locks himself in his home office with porn mom & dad right down the hall while he masturbates and chats up women on sex chats. John, will use you & then try to screw your friends behind your back. He likes casual sex & no strings attached sex, voyeurism, swinger, seducer, manipulator, sick NASTY PERVERET. Possibly bipolar OR PSYCHO He will tell anyone he can he's the victim & he's being HARRASSED.
7/5/2007 9:29:25 PM - He's gonna tell me that I shoudn't get a tattoo, but he messed with a 39 year old tattoo artist who had kids his age?
What was he trying to get one for free?
DAMN DIRT BAG!
7/8/2007 10:58:57 AM - This is part of a blog that John posted on his myspace profile. See he admits to using women, but he never stops even though he says he's going too. Since this blog has been posted he's used at least 6 other women and is now in the process of recruiting his guy friends of finding him girls to pleasure him.
How long is it before Johnny is going to realize that it's time to grow up and as he says be the man. Not a pimp breaking in the girls for others to use.
"What can I say...I'm a complete failure at best...I lie, cheat, I'm conniving, steal, a poor excuse for a son, b/f, and friend. Most of the time I'm all bark and either very little or no bite at all. So since I'm a complete failure and all I do is hurt my friends, hurt and use girls....what shall we say then? Give up and be CELLABIATE for the rest of my life and go hide in some dark corner of this world. By all means NO, I will push in, push out, push down, push up, press in, press out, one foot in front of the other, I will not be mastered by anyone or anything, my past will not dictate my future, I hurt and I resolve, I CHEAT and I make up, I steal then I return, poor excuse of a son and friend and make up for lost ground, I come up out of nowhere and man up the level that I'm being called to man up to." written by John Allen Jr. March 22, 2007
He's not made up for, he continues to cheat, he steal lies to his family, his Pastor, mentors, friends, loved one, and most of all himself.
Katie, Clarksville, TN
7/11/2007 1:43:42 PM - oh poor baby has a sad and heart warming full of horse manure blog written about a "dear friend" he's trying to get with and she told him NO AGAIN. Yes he's sniff sniff cry cry heart broken again. Why do you know he offered her money, his car, his wee wee, and I'm sure it's been on the plate before. This time I bet the offer was different. "I promise I'll be true, I'm done with all of the others, just don't look on my profile, don't ask me to ever call when I say I will, don't ever expect me to answer my phone. You know I have to be with my boys, & my "special" friends. They will always be first before you. The porn, the websites, the pretend religious person I claim to be to make an impression upon women, the lies I tell to my family, oh did I mention my car! That's my real concern." Yes dear Johnny has once again been made the victim, he never takes no for an answer, but when you tell him no or that you care about him you're dumped quicker than a dirty kleenex.
7/12/2007 9:16:40 PM - Oh this jerk is gonna call his self a good guy. Someone who wants to cuddle instead of club. Oh MY GAWD! He is the KING OF TIPPERS! He is the champ at getting hung over and driving home. Now he's hanging at the place on 9yh street Hole in the Wall in Hopkinsville, I guess he thinks the women who are there will think he's cute. He's says he'll buy somebody roses, yeah then expect a blowjob for payment. the olny person that sorry son of a bitch has ever loved is his-self. He wants to talk about being used as a doormat. What about his friends? What about all of the people he's used and still using as doormats? He's all of the sudden special because oops he told somebody he loved them and they said oh your not good enough for me. I wonder if he'll get how it feels for all of the people he's pissed on and thrown to the side. No, not Johnny. He does no wrong. He has no regrets in life. Remember that's what it says on his myspace blog. He'll be on to the next girl. begging for the next blowjob, and saying it wasn't his fault by this weekend. Then if the world is lucky, he'll be at church. big stupid wasn't last Sunday, but he will be this Sunday, has to make an impression on his new girl on how he's a God fearing Christian, and strut his "ripped, skinny" ass all the way up front. Yeah, Go on Johnny, show us who you really are.
Mandy
7/15/2007 12:33:08 PM - Johnny boy is trying to make himself look good by putting a couple of Christian people on his friend list. The girl from Clarksville is only 18. She's in for a real surprise, when she finds out what a playing whore she's hooking up with. I wonder where he met her, no doubt he used a friend to hook up with her. Hope she doesn't want anything serious with him, and the guy doesn't want to gte hit on.
7/19/2007 12:20:35 PM - Another Christian Con. Sociopaths love to look for women in churches because they can find many women who think some people just need a second chance. Some people may, but socipaths will never change their behavior, just the people they use to gain money or some other thing they want. Great information about this type of predator at www.lovefraud.com
7/23/2007 9:48:15 PM - John is so stupid. He's trying to hook up with an 18 year old Christian girl, but at the same time he's talking to a 19 year old swinger.
How stupid can he be. Then on top of that He's talking to 2 other females that the 18 year old don't know about and still saying he ain't doing nothing with nobody while he's hanging at the club.
7/28/2007 3:53:19 PM - I work at a Dr. office in Hopkinsville. The reason for my comment, my daughter reads this for laughs. She brought this active person to my attention. I wonder if this young man realizes, or the women, that in order to stop the spread of HIV you need to use a condom or dental dam during oral sex. If the female were to have a cut in her mouth, she could expose him, or he could her.
There are also other STDs that can be spread orally. Like HIV, it takes a while for the symptoms to show.
I'm glad he's not with my daughter, I'd have him arrested. However as a healthcare provider, I do hope he and the women use caution.
8/3/2007 3:09:54 PM - What's his obsession with the bi-sexuals & swingers? Does he get off on watching girl mess with each other? Or does he think he's "that good" that he can change their mind?
Do you think maybe it's some kind of weird fantasy? He's trying make himself get some satisfaction from that because he's ashamed of what he really is, gay?
9/12/2007 8:20:34 PM - I am the 18 year old girl,from Clarksville, the 7-15 posting, that John is or was trying to "hookup" with over the last month or two. We met where I worked. I accepted his friendship based souley on his myspace profile. I believed he was a Christian. I invitied him to my house with open arms and a welcome spirit. I never doubted his intentions. I went to his house for a cookout and met his friends. This "Christian" man has the most vulgar, nasty and perverted friends. His best friend, in front of his fiance, started pretending to masterbate, while myself and another female were watching. I was disgusted and heartbroken. I,however, listened to my family and invited him down to our cookout. I thought maybe he would act the same way, but no it was a complete act for my family, father & brothers. To make matters worse, he ate an entire plate of food by raking it with his hands into the fork. Then proceeded to "shovel"it ALL in a matter of 2 minutes. My family was mortified. I didn't find out about this website until my friends told me about girls he's talking to while he was "being my friend also." Things never were serious between us. I'm grateful for that. I'm extremely happy now and tolerate him because it's the Christian thing to do. I'm not a cruel hearted person. I would deny this posting, because I truly believe he has a mental defect. I know God blessed me with the clarity to open my eyes and see that John isn't a man for Him, but a man out for his own physical needs. I should have listened to my heart when I first heard his speech. A person who loves MY Jesus would never speak the way he does,or make sexual remarks to me when he says he respects my decision to stay pure until marriage.
Thanks for reading and May God Bless you all. Do everything for His will& Glory.
9/24/2007 2:54:48 PM - Men of this nature are so afraid to be alone. It's a matter of their security being shaken from childhood or being "burned" by someone they really care or have cared about in their early teenage years. It could be a parent, sibling, or an ex. This type of person HAS to have attention from someone constantly, such as being chased by females, a lot of females. When he finds one in whom he knows will be faithful, no matter what the circumstances of the past have been or will be, he will run a way. It requires their guard to be let down. That sense of hurt and pain is hardly ever overcome. It CAN be done, but it takes a very dedicated female, one whom is willing to help him overcome faults, insecurities, and the need to run. Any fault that the female has will be "picked to death" by this male. This is his way of keeping himself safe from the one female he knows can and will love him no matter what; he knows deep down inside he will be able to trust with anything if he just will let himself. Men of this nature if they would stop fighting with their head and listen to their heart eventually their life could be filled with happiness. It's their inability to give someone control of their HEART, not their life that scares them. Trust is a beautiful thing, only if one will trust the one that he or she knows can be trusted back instead of running away from that person. That is defeat in it's purest form. It's exactly what Satan wants, us to do. Run from the one who is safe for us and run to the ones who can give them a false security.
Student at Austin Peay
10/7/2007 6:51:25 PM - John's got a whole new list of hunny's. Yep he's p[laying the fiels again. OH yeah he's "going the straight and narow path" that Jesus wants him to go.
Amanda Dobbins, Shana, Jessica W., Melissa S., Andrea, and Traci Elliot XXX-XXXX. He's trying to get 2 of them into bed, but it hasn't worked cause the pooor baby has gone away to school. His free time is spent at bars and resturants drinking beer. Then he DRIVES home, cause that's what the JHON does. He parties and gets him some tail. not only is he a nasty boy, but he gonna kill someone with his driving. I bet his parents are so proud.
I wonder if any of them know that he has a rash that requires medicine to be applied in side his ANUS everyday. It's sexually tranmittted. He just got off the antibiotics, but the cream to prevent itching and digging he has to keep applying for a long time.
10/7/2007 7:00:54 PM - The above information is true. I have a friend who works at a pharmacy in town where John get his medicine. He developed the "rash" after being with a girl and not using any form of protection in May or June. He left it untreated until August.
10/8/2007 9:05:18 PM - I have to say I was never more amused than anything to get wind of this website & learn that my dear friend Johnny was on here. Oh how I have waited for the chance to unload on him, but he's such a good man I wouldn't want to hurt his character. Besides, why would I make myself look stupid? I was downgraded from a human being to a hoe in the matter of weeks. If I were to call him out on his behavior, I again would look like the fool. On here, the TRUTH rules and that sorry bastard gets his skinny ass burned.
The Johnny I met was a loving kind man. Always willing to listen, talk help me with anything. I heard great things about him from the few people I knew that knew him, church and just places he went and hung out. I thought this could be a good thing. After all he told me he was a Christian. He was up front with his dad's porn addiction and the situation with the sex scandle ( his dad & the girl in the church bathroom ) and about his dad hooking up with prostitutes. Johhny assured me he was nothing like his father in the way. he did love his dad and admired his dad for getting help for his problems. I gotta give him props for that. I thought this guy has been through some stuff too. He told me about the girls that had cheated on him, how the love of his life had jerked him around by having another guy on the side when he was talking about marriage to her. He told me he just took a hiatais from girls and dove into missionary work and couldn't get enough of the Lord's work.
I was really into the guy, he layed the charm on thick. I opened myself up and told him of how I had been abused as a child. How a childhood friend had raped me & everyman that had ever looked at me had either beat on me or cheated on me. He was so caring and prayed with me. No one had ever done that before. He talked with me about my walk with Christ and I began to rely on him. He told me all the right lines, the touches and did all of the right things. After a while he began to grow distant out of nowhere. There wasn't anything we hadn't done as far as physical intamincy except for penetration. That was a mutal choice. He was saving himself for marriage. I chose not too, because out of kindness, I'll say not every sterotype is true. Not all skinny, wirey men have large packages. His isn't that way at all.
Moving past that, I asked him what was going on, the excuses were, he was busy with work, he had to work overtime, working on his car, catching up with other people, or it just wasn't a good night to do anything. When we would go out, constantly he would check his text messages, or be texting someone and say oh it's a friend. Or there was the constant staring at other females and ogaling at there breast as if he had never seen a pair before. Any female from 13 to 70 he'd stare like he was going to burn a hole through her. I just couldn't take anymore & I followed him one night when he told me he was going out with a friend. Turns out the phone calls, texts, and hanging out friends are ALL FEMALE. I waited until the next day, by all means I knew he'd spend the night, he always did with me & there was harldy ever any sleeping, I went and asked her. She said they had met at a club about 2 months before, Johnny and I had been "friends" for almost 3 months. Yes my wonderful man, was a whore. She and I talked for awhile. He went to her place the next night after work, but told me he was working late. While he was asleep for a change, she looked at his phone contacts, the list in the previous is NOT EVEN close to the 45 or 50 names of girls he has in his phone that he says are all just "friends". I'm not saying that all of them are benefitting him, but when he only calls them around 10:30pm or later what else could he want?
10/17/2007 4:33:04 PM - This is Traci. I just wanted to know who had the nerve to post my phone numnber on here?
10/17/2007 9:50:55 PM - DON'T TRUST HIM! He seems very sincere, he is very charming but don't be fooled! He is not your average arrogant cheater. He gains your trust by seeming vulnerable & caring, but when he's not with you, he is out meeting other women! When you meet him you won't believe this man can be a cheater, he seems too nice & honest. He is a master manipulator. If you meet him, lose his number! I found out he moved to Nashville TN, but comes to Hopkinsville,Ky on weekends to visit with the many girlfriends he has made plans for on that weekend. He tells the others he out with friends. At night, he is out trying to meet woman. He has at least 6 friends with benefits. If you run into him ask if him. " No I don't have a serious girlfriend, but that doesn't mean we can't get to know eacjh other and see where it could take us. I'm not seing anyone else. I'd really like a slow relationship. One the way God wants it. He'll probably give you a sad story, but it's all lies! All he does is lie!! Just ask his girlfriendzzzzzzzz!!!!
BTW as far as him calling at 10:30 at night, yeah he claims he does it cuz he can't sleep. He use to work 2nd shift at a factory. The deal is he starts talking to his guy friend around 8:00pm. When it's night time, he starts calling down the list of girls. The ones who are willing to go out with him that late are the ones he knows he can get something from. They either work late shift themselves, have to sleep during the day, and hardly ever get to do anything, or are just desperate for attention. He seems to forget, I'm a light sleeper and overheard his converstaion with his buddies while I was "asleep" in my bed.
Susan
10/17/2007 10:00:35 PM - WHEN A GUY IS COMPLETLY BANNED FROM DOING ANY ACTIVITIES IN HIS CHURCH BECAUSE THE PREACHER IS EMBARRASSED BY HIM YOU GOTTA THINK THERE MIGHT BE SOMETHING'S WRONG. THE PREACHER HAS SPREAD THE WORD IF HE VOLUNTEERS TO POLITELY SAY NO. HE'S TRYING TO SAVE FACE BY SHOWING UP WITH A NICE GIRL AT CHURCH, MAKING PEOPLE BELIEVE HE'S CHANGED WHEN IN FACT HE'S LYING TO HER AND THE OTHERS IN THE LIST ABOVE. I WONDER HOW LONG IT'LL BE BEFORE HE TELLS EVERYONE ABOUT HIS "NASTY" MEDICAL CONDITION THAT HE NEEDS THE PHROYPxxxxS-C CREAM FOR?
10/17/2007 10:05:21 PM - This leg crossing queer acting boy has been calling me again. Apparently he's getting bored with the new gurl (s) and wanting a little bit of fun. Back in the businness of benefitting again. I know I want that disease. NOT!!!
Amanda
10/17/2007 10:33:41 PM - I'm a LCPS, Lic. Clinical Psy./Social Worker. I read this website for sheer stress relief. This person facinates me, to say the least. For him to ever fully grasp the concept of the damage he's doing to himself and others a possibility of 3 things needs to happen. The first I highly pray for his parents sanity he doesn't let happen. He needs to have or picture himself as hte father of a daughter. A teenage daughter, not a son. Fathers tend to think that "boys will be boys", when it comes to their sons. This includes any sexually activity regardless of the the feeling of the female or the nuber their son use to gratify themselves. If the father had a daughter, he would see ANY MALE looking at his little girl the way he was. He would turn from his "ways" very fast. The 2nd possibility, someone in his family needs to call him on his actions. Hopefully the mother or if there is a sister involved. He should think of how he would feel if this were the only reason anyone were to ever speak to his mother or sister. The third possibility, is a friend, a female, again a male will see it as a "guy thing", walking away in disgust of his behavior. this shouldn't be just any friend, but a friend who has stood by him and tried to love and support him through all of the follies. However, upon realizing he chooses not to change or believe there is a problem, she walks away.
Carla. Phoenix, AZ
As far as the "disease," I do hope he will choose someone who will be faithful to him. This may or may not be contagious, but it should have been an eye opener.
10/18/2007 12:20:29 PM - I"m not sure if you're including me in that friends with benefits thing. But if you are please get your facts straight. oh btw, it's Traci again. And I'm still wondering who posted my number and is now sending my personal info out in letters for God knows who to see.
10/21/2007 9:36:02 AM - This is too all of the women of the world I will say since he get s around SO MUCH. You all do know about his "little book"? Yeah his anatomy is small, BUT the actual BOOK he has is huge. When John gets what he wants from a female, he'll write their name and phone number down in his precious book. I'll call it black for laughs, and he moves onto the next "conquest". When he can't find a willing female on his phone list, he'll go back to the book and get a girl to satisfy his needs. Then once again, ooops I gotta drop you, cuz I got what was good for me. AmberEliasbeth
P.S. John you can't deny it, so why bother.
10/24/2007 2:18:23 PM - I've been friends with Johnny for a long time now.(yrs) We even dated for awhile. I know he's an absoulte pig, just as rude and gross when it comes to treating women in the fashion he does. I haven't the slighest of an idea why I stay friends with him. I guess it's because it's the Christian thing to do. God wants us to help those who are in need. He's in more need than he knows or cares to believe.
He even had the nerve to call me a month or so ago and ask if I would come home from college and spend the weekend with him. I know how he is. He thinks I'm going to just up and come home "hangout" and pleasure him for a bit." The minute I leave I know he'd be right with another of his "friends". OK!!!! The only way he'll ever get help is to let himself be helped. No one will want to stand by him the way he keep mistreating women, possibly his mother. Mom's always stands by thier son no matter how sick they are.
Andrea
10/25/2007 2:32:57 PM - I've been working /living in Nashville for about 5yrs. You learn to read faces and realize what people are really like. This guy is such a fake. He comes into where I work, I can't say for legality purposes, and is the loudest, annoying one human being I've seen in a good while. He's always hitting on anyone with large breast. "Hey what's up can I get your number, You wanna hangout some time.?" Customers, workers, it doesn't matter. The people that he very seldom sits with seem normal, but he's just NOT! I'm not making any kind of a joke. He'll order 1 beer and go to the bathroom I know 17 times. Another waitress and I made a bet on it one night. Pitiful yes, but hey, it was funny. I won $5.00. I guessed 15 & she 12. He will sit at the table and fart, no matter who is around, not just fart but raise his leg and fart. Then he's constantly picking his nose and flipping the boogers. OMG! We've spoken to the manager, but since he's not touched any of us, it's "the customer is always right." He either needs to find somebody who is blind, deaf and can't smell or get with some body who knows all of his gross habits. I mean how much worse can he get? Geez, I forgot about the porn & sex addictions from the other blogs. Is there someone who would take him?, probably not! Maybe he should get stop trying.
Heather
10/31/2007 1:07:54 PM - I am so floored by all these things that are written here. I had a hard time reading all of them the first couple of days I was on the site. They just didn't seem accurate. I also have a hard time believing people who can't spell. I know crazy huh. You know none of his friends know any of this. I know I've asked. I was livid with the fact that my number was posted on here. I had people texting me all morning that day. I had to go to the police station and file a report for harassment through communications. That was fun, missing out on sleep to sit at the station. I was also pretty upset with the simple fact that I was listed as one of John's "hunnies". If you know me at all you know that I've been with one guy for 8 years. While I may hang out with other guys, simply because they aren't backstabbing and trifling, my heart belongs to one guy. And it isn't John. I did however, do my own research on him, via names on the website of people I knew. I found out that some of these things are true to the best of their knowledge. Now does that make it right to bash someone because of them, no. If you have a problem with him either cease communications or tell him. Not harrassingly but in a civilized manner. I did. I told him that I didn't have time to be involved in all the drama that he is involved in. I had just managed to rid myself of my own dramatics and had no desire to be dragged back in to something like that whether he had brought it upon himself or not. I just wish there was a better way for people to express their anger and dislike of a person without involving other people. These girls whose names are on here are completely oblivious to how john is and it's not fair for someone to go posting their names for everyone to see for their own vendetta. If you know that girl personally go to her, tell her how he is and if she listens then good, if she doesn't then it's longer your problem. You did what you could and that's all you can do. Thanks for reading.
12/1/2007 11:22:48 AM - He's back on MY SPACE LADIES With a new picture!!!! Watch out he's on the prowl.
12/1/2007 11:41:50 AM - It's so sad MS. Kayla from Cadiz, Muarry, or AL has chosen to be nice to him again. I guess she didn't have enough dramam or doesn't really care about his personal cleaning habits. That's what causes the disease he has. That and unprotected sex. It's kind of gross, someone been licking his hind end, you know he's been returning the favor!!!! EW!!! What was in there mouth?
12/25/2007 7:54:07 PM - He is a liar and a cheat. He wants multiple women to be faithful to him, but expects them to sit back and let him have his fun with every girl he meets on MySpace, Match1.com,Facebook.com, club(s), bars, coffee shops, resturants, and anywhere he can attempt to get their attention. He lies to his closest friends, church family, his Pastor, and the ones who love him the most, his family. He has no regard for anyones feelings except his own. He never takes responsibility for the pain he causes. He will attempt to blame the female(s) for him using them, by saying it was their fault he lied to them. They should have known he was lying, was unable to be faithful, and when he said he didn't want to see anyone else and wasn't going to see anyone else, it was a lie.
2/2/2008 3:01:33 PM - John said people need to visit a psychologist because they keep hurting him and stalking or something like that on a myspace blog. All he wants to do is get on with is life and not hurt anyone and have a real relatioship.
Today is Feb. 2nd. John has "been with" and trying to get with 15 different girls since maybe Christmas day. That's a different girl every 4 days. These are the ones that have been posted on myspace or he's been seen with throughout Hopkinsville and Nashville. Who really needs to visit a dr here and exactly what type? Maybe he should consider a psychologist and a good rountine STD check-up. My skin is crawling. To think I had a crush on this guy. UGH!
Jessie
2/3/2008 3:24:22 PM - You should check out the profile of Raymond Strain of Canton, Ohio...he makes this guy seem like a boyscout!
2/4/2008 4:10:20 AM - SIGNS THAT YOU'RE DATING A LOSER,which perfectly describes this a-hole: 1. Rough Treatment "The Loser" will hurt you on purpose. If hits you, twists your arm, pulls your hair, kicks you, shoves you, or breaks your personal property EVEN ONCE, drop them. Losers often begin with behaviors that move you physically or hit the wall. 2. Quick Attachment and Expression "The Loser" has very shallow emotions and connections with others. One of the things that might attract you to "The Loser" is how quickly he or she says "I Love You" or wants to marry or commit to you. Typically, in less than a few weeks of dating you'll hear that you're the love of their life, they want to be with you forever, and they want to marry you. You'll receive gifts, a variety of promises, and be showered with their attention and nice gestures. This is the "honeymoon phase" - where they catch you and convince you that they are the best thing that ever happened to you. Remember the business saying "If it's too good to be true it probably is (too good to be true)!" You may be so overwhelmed by this display of instant attraction, instant commitment, and instant planning for the future that you'll miss the major point - it doesn't make sense!! Normal, healthy individuals require a long process to develop a relationship because there is so much at stake. Healthy individuals will wait for a lot of information before offering a commitment - not three weeks. It's true that we can become infatuated with others quickly - but not make such unrealistic promises and have the future planned after three dates. The rapid warm-up is always a sign of shallow emotions which later cause "The Loser" to detach from you as quickly as they committed. "The Loser" typically wants to move in with you or marry you in less than four weeks or very early in the relationship. 3. Frightening Temper "The Loser" has a scary temper. If your boyfriend blows up and does dangerous things, like driving too fast because they're mad, breaking/throwing things, getting into fights, or threatening others - that temper will soon be turned in your direction. In the beginning of the relationship, you will be exposed to "witnessed violence" - fights with others, threats toward others, angry outbursts at others, etc. You will also hear of violence in their life. You will see and witness this temper - throwing things, yelling, cursing, driving fast, hitting the walls, and kicking things. That quickly serves to intimidate you and fear their potential for violence, although "The Loser" quickly assures you that they are angry at others or situations, not at you. At first, you will be assured that they will never direct the hostility and violence at you - but they are clearly letting you know that they have that ability and capability - and that it might come your way. Later, you fear challenging or confronting them - fearing that same temper and violence will be turned in your direction
2/4/2008 4:11:59 AM - 4. Killing Your Self-Confidence "The Loser" repeatedly puts you down. They constantly correct your slight mistakes, making you feel "on guard", unintelligent, and leaving you with the feeling that you are always doing something wrong. They tell you that you're too fat, too unattractive, or don't talk correctly or look well. This gradual chipping away at your confidence and self-esteem allows them to later treat you badly - as though you deserved it. In public, you will be "walking on eggshells" - always fearing you are doing or saying something that will later create a temper outburst or verbal argument. 5. Cutting Off Your Support In order to control someone completely, you must cut off their supportive friends - sometimes even their family. "The Loser" feels your friends and family might influence you or offer negative opinions about their behavior. "The Loser" begins by telling you these friends treat you badly, take advantage of you, and don't understand the special nature of the love you share with them. In some cases, if they can't get rid of your best same-sex friend, "The Loser" will claim he or she made a pass at them. If you talk to your friends or family, "The Loser" will punish you by asking multiple questions or making nasty accusations. Eventually, rather than face the verbal punishment, interrogation, and abuse, you'll develop the feeling that it's better not to talk to family and friends. You will withdraw from friends and family, prompting them to become upset with you. "The Loser" then tells you they are treating you badly again and you'd be better to keep your distance from them. Once you are isolated and alone, without support, their control over you can increase 6. The Mean and Sweet Cycle "The Loser" cycles from mean to sweet and back again. The cycle starts when they are intentionally hurtful and mean. You may be verbally abused, cursed, and threatened over something minor. Suddenly, the next day they become sweet, doing all those little things they did when you started dating. You hang on, hoping each mean-then-sweet cycle is the last one. The other purpose of the mean cycle is to allow "The Loser" to say very nasty things about you or those you care about, again chipping away at your self-esteem and self-confidence. "The Loser" often apologizes but the damage to your self-esteem is already done - exactly as planned. 7. It's Always Your Fault "The Loser" blames you for their anger as well as any other behavior that is incorrect. When they cheat on you, yell at you, treat you badly, damage your property, or embarrass you publicly - it's somehow your fault. If you are ten minutes late for a date, it's your fault that the male loser drives 80 miles per hour, runs people off the road, and pouts the rest of the evening. "The Loser" tells you their anger and misbehavior would not have happened if you had not made some simple mistake, had loved them more, or had not questioned their behavior. "The Loser" never, repeat "never", takes personal responsibility for their behavior - it's always the fault of someone else. If they drive like a maniac and try to pull an innocent driver off the highway to assault them - it's actually the fault of the other driver (not his) as they didn't use a turn signal when they changed lanes. They give you the impression that you had it (anger, yelling, assault) coming and deserved the anger, violence, pouting, or physical display of aggression
2/4/2008 4:13:26 AM - 8. Breakup Panic "The Loser" panics at the idea of breaking up - unless it's totally their idea - then you're dropped like a hot rock. Abusive boyfriends often break down and cry, they plead, they promise to change, and they offer marriage/trips/gifts when you threaten ending the relationship. Both male and female losers may threaten suicide, threaten to return to old sweethearts (who feel lucky they're gone!), or threaten to quit their job and leave the area - as though you will be responsible for those decisions. "The Loser" offers a multitude of "deals" and halfway measures, like "Let's just date one more month!" They shower you with phone calls, often every five minutes, hoping that you will make an agreement or see them just to stop the telephone harassment. Some call your relatives, your friends, their friends, and anyone else they can think of - telling those people to call you and tell you how much they love you. Creative losers often create so much social pressure that the victim agrees to go back to the bad relationship rather than continue under the social pressure. Imagine trying to end a relationship and receiving tearful calls from all his or her relatives (they secretly hope you'll keep them so they don't have to), seeing a plea for your return in the newspaper or even on a local billboard, receiving flowers at work each day, or having them arrive at your place of work and offer you a wedding ring (male loser technique) or inform you that they might be pregnant (female loser technique) in front of your coworkers! Their reaction is emotionally intense, a behavior they use to keep you an emotional prisoner. If you go back to them, you actually fear a worse reaction if you threaten to leave again (making you a prisoner) and they later frequently recall the incident to you as further evidence of what a bad person you are. Remember, if your prize dog jumps the fence and escapes, if you get him back you build a higher fence. Once back in the grasp of "The Loser" - escape will be three times as difficult the next time. 9. No Outside Interests "The Loser" will encourage you to drop your hobbies, interests, and involvement with others. If you have an individual activity, they demand that they accompany you, making you feel miserable during the entire activity. The idea behind this is to prevent you from having fun or interests other than those which they totally control. 10. Paranoid Control "The Loser" will check up on you and keep track of where you are and who you are with. If you speak to a member of the opposite sex, you receive twenty questions about how you know them. If you don't answer their phone call, you are ask where you were, what were you doing, who you were talking to, etc. They will notice the type of mud on your car, question why you shop certain places, and question why you called a friend, why the friend called you, and so forth. Some losers follow you to the grocery, then later ask if you've been there in an attempt to catch you in a lie. In severe cases, they go through your mail, look through your purse/wallet, hit your redial on the phone when they arrive, or search through your garbage for evidence. High-tech losers may encourage you to make "private" calls to friends from their residence, calls that are being secretly taped for later reference. They may begin to tell you what to wear, what to listen to in music, and how to behave in public. Eventually, they tell you that you can not talk to certain friends or acquaintances, go certain places, or talk about certain issues in public. If no date is present on Friday night - "The Loser" will inform you that they will call you that night - sometime. That effectively keeps you home, awaiting the call, fearing the verbal abuse and questions you might receive if you weren't home for the call. This technique allows "The Loser" to do what they want socially, at the same time controlling your behavior from a distance or a local bar. 11. Public Embarrassment In an effort to keep you under control while in public, "The Loser" will lash out at you, call you names, or say cruel or embarrassing things about you in private or in front of people. When in public, you quickly learn that any opinion you express may cause them to verbally attack you, either at the time or later. If you stay with "The Loser" too long, you'll soon find yourself politely smiling, saying nothing, and holding on to their arm when in public. You'll also find yourself walking with your head down, fearful of seeing a friend who might speak to you and create an angry reaction in "The Loser
2/4/2008 4:14:51 AM - 12. It's Never Enough "The Loser" convinces you that you are never quite good enough. You don't say "I love you" enough, you don't stand close enough, you don't do enough for them after all their sacrifices, and your behavior always falls short of what is expected. This is another method of destroying your self-esteem and confidence. After months of this technique, they begin telling you how lucky you are to have them - somebody who tolerates someone so inadequate and worthless as you. 13. Entitlement "The Loser" has a tremendous sense of entitlement, the attitude that they have a perfectly logical right to do whatever they desire. If cut off in traffic, "The Loser" feels they have the right to run the other driver off the road, assault them, and endanger the lives of other drivers with their temper tantrum. Keep in mind, this same sense of entitlement will be used against you. If you disobey their desires or demands, or violate one of their rules, they feel they are entitled to punish you in any manner they see fit. 14. Your Friends and Family Dislike Him As the relationship continues, your friends and family will see what "The Loser" is doing to you. They will notice a change in your personality or your withdrawal. They will protest. "The Loser" will tell you they are jealous of the "special love" you have and then use their protest and opinion as further evidence that they are against you - not him. The mention of your family members or friends will spark an angry response from them - eventually placing you in the situation where you stop talking about those you care about, even your own family members. "The Loser" will be jealous and threatened by anyone you are close to - even your children. In some cases, your parents or brothers/sisters will not be allowed to visit your home. 15. Bad Stories People often let you know about their personality by the stories they tell about themselves. It's the old story about giving a person enough rope and they'll hang themselves. The stories a person tells informs us of how they see themselves, what they think is interesting, and what they think will impress you. A humorous individual will tell funny stories on himself. "The Loser" tells stories of violence, aggression, being insensitive to others, rejecting others, etc. They may tell you about past relationships and in every case, they assure you that they were treated horribly despite how wonderful they were to that person. They brag about their temper and outbursts because they don't see anything wrong with violence and actually take pride in the "I don't take nothing from nobody" attitude. People define themselves with their stories, much like a culture is described by it's folklore and legends. Listen to these stories - they tell you how you will eventually be treated and what's coming your way
2/4/2008 4:15:47 AM - 16. The Waitress Test It's been said that when dating, the way an individual treats a waitress or other neutral person of the opposite sex is the way they will treat you in six months. During the "honeymoon phase" of a relationship, you will be treated like a king or queen. However, during that time "The Loser" has not forgotten how he or she basically feels about the opposite sex. Waitresses, clerks, or other neutral individuals will be treated badly. If they are cheap - you'll never receive anything once the honeymoon is over. If they whine, complain, criticize, and torment - that's how they'll treat you in six months. A mentally healthy person is consistent, they treat almost all people the same way all the time. If you find yourself dating a man who treats you like a queen and other females like dirt - hit the road. 17. The Reputation As mentioned, mentally healthy individuals are consistent in their personality and their behavior. "The Loser" may have two distinct reputations - a group of individuals who will give you glowing reports and a group that will warn you that they are serious trouble. If you ask ten people about a new restaurant - five say it's wonderful and five say it's a hog pit - you clearly understand that there's some risk involved in eating there. "The Loser" may actually brag about their reputation as a "butt kicker", "womanizer", "hot temper" or "being crazy". They may tell you stories where other's have called them crazy or suggested that they receive professional help. Pay attention to the reputation. Reputation is the public perception of an individual's behavior. If the reputation has two sides, good and bad, your risk is high. You will be dealing with the bad side once the honeymoon is over in the relationship. With severe behavior problems, "The Loser" will be found to have almost no friends, just acquaintances. Emotionally healthy and moral individuals will not tolerate friendships with losers that treat others so badly. If you find yourself disliking the friends of "The Loser", it's because they operate the same way he or she does and you can see it in them. 18. Walking on Eggshells As a relationship with "The Loser" continues, you will gradually be exposed to verbal intimidation, temper tantrums, lengthy interrogations about trivial matters, violence/threats directed at others but witnessed by you, paranoid preoccupation with your activities, and a variety of put-downs on your character. You will quickly find yourself "walking on eggshells" in their presence - fearful to bring up topics, fearful to mention that you spoke to or saw a friend, and fearful to question or criticize the behavior of "The Loser". Instead of experiencing the warmth and comfort of love, you will be constantly on edge, tense when talking to others (they might say something that you'll have to explain later), and fearful that you'll see someone you'll have to greet in public. Dates and times together will be more comfortable and less threatening when totally alone - exactly what "The Loser" wants - no interference with their control or dominance.
2/4/2008 4:17:08 AM - 19. Discounted Feelings/Opinions "The Loser" is so self-involved and self-worshiping that the feelings and opinions of others are considered worthless. As the relationship continues and you begin to question what you are feeling or seeing in their behavior, you will be told that your feelings and opinions don't make sense, they're silly, and that you are emotionally disturbed to even think of such things. "The Loser" has no interest in your opinion or your feelings - but they will be disturbed and upset that you dare question their behavior. "The Loser" is extremely hostile toward criticism and often reacts with anger or rage when their behavior is questioned. 20. They Make You "Crazy" "The Loser" operates in such a damaging way that you find yourself doing "crazy" things in self-defense. If "The Loser" is scheduled to arrive at 8:00 pm - you call Time & Temperature to cover the redial, check your garbage for anything that might get you in trouble, and call your family and friends to tell them not to call you that night. You warn family/friends not to bring up certain topics, avoid locations in the community where you might see co-workers or friends, and not speak to others for fear of the 20 questions. You become paranoid as well - being careful what you wear and say. Nonviolent males find themselves in physical fights with female losers. Nonviolent females find themselves yelling and screaming when they can no longer take the verbal abuse or intimidation. In emotional and physical self-defense, we behave differently and oddly. While we think we are "going crazy" - it's important to remember that there is no such thing as "normal behavior" in a combat situation. Rest assured that your behavior will return to normal if you detach from "The Loser" before permanent psychological damage is done. **********************I promise you that he is all this************************, I just couldn't believe it myself how to the exact these signs describe him and wished I had the opportunity to have had read these signs in him before and paid attention because all of the red flags are there ladies. But now I'm wiser thanks to this experience and will ever again be with another man like him now that I know the warning signs from experience and literature. We women stupidly blind ourselves with "love" with the "wrong" man and tolerate so much BS from them and this is our major "error" that's why these kind of men keep existing, if we all put a stop to them by rejecting them early before it's too late then we can accomplish something great as to having these kind of men not being what they are. Let's stick together and fight these "losers". Take care Ladies and hope my posting of these signs will help you as it's helping me from now on. Please I don't want for you to go through what I did and others have.
2/4/2008 4:43:21 AM - Ode To Jerks You looked at me and smiled, lowering your eyes Didn’t have to ask for my attention, It was always there and ready. I walked away excited and appreciated While secretly you snickered with your friends You led me on, playing your game How many points did you get? Was it worth all my pain? The ‘looks’, the ‘smiles’, were they for me? Or just evil grins for your victory? You knew you had me wrapped around your fingers Held my heart in your hands I knew you weren’t afraid to hurt me After all, look how it turned out. I was the genie, you the master Your wish was my command Before I could even get out of my bottle, You snapped your fingers, You wishing, I granting You made the lamest excuses To cover up how you truly felt Why didn’t you just tell me? It couldn’t have been half as bad as I thought, I sensed it from the beginning So now the game has played itself out, You’ve finally made your point Don’t try to sympathize or feel sorry I have my dignity, I have my pride. I’m glad to know the truth Instead of wasting my time on... A jerk like you.
2/4/2008 4:44:37 AM - To this dumbass... Now that you are out of my life, I'm so much better, You thought that I'd be weak without ya, But I'm stronger, You thought that I'd be broke without ya, But I'm richer, You thought that I'd be sad without ya, I laugh harder, You thought I wouldn't grow without ya, Now I'm wiser, You thought that I'd be helpless without ya, But I'm smarter, You thought that I'd be stressed without ya, But I'm chillin' I'm a survivor (what), I'm not gonna give up (what), I'm not gon' stop (what), I'm gonna work harder (what), I'm a survivor (what), I'm gonna make it (what), I will survive (what), Keep on survivin' (what), I'm a survivor (what), I'm not gonna give up (what), I'm not gon' stop (what), I'm gonna work harder (what), I'm a survivor (what), I'm gonna make it (what), I will survive (what), Keep on survivin' (what). Thought I couldn't breathe without you, I'm inhalin' You thought I couldn't see without you, Perfect vision, You thought I couldn't last without ya, But I'm lastin' You thought that I would die without ya, But I'm livin' Thought that I would fail without ya, But I'm on top, Though it would be over by now, But it won't stop, You thought that I would self-destruct, But I'm still here, Even in my years to come, I'm still gon' be here. After all of the darkness and sadness, Still comes happiness, If I surround myself with positive things, I'll gain prosperity.
2/19/2008 12:05:04 AM - THIS MAN IS A BASTARD! HE CAN'T TELL THE TRUTH. HE LIES TO HIMSELF ALSO!AND HAS HIMSELF CONVINCED THAT HE IS TELLING THE TRUTH WHEN HE IS JUST HURTING THE WOMAN HE IS LYING TO
3/27/2008 11:12:04 AM - He took an underage girl out ( she goes to his church) and got her drunk and forced her to perform oral sex on him. The reason no charges were pressed is because the girl was too scared to say anything and emabarrassed because she was with him to begin with & has some issues of her own. Some kind of big thing went down and he's been banned from any kind of activity in the church and the preacher just tolerates him and knows everything he says is a lie. The preacher feels sorry for him because he thinks John lives in a fantacy world and won't realize that what he's doing is no better that his dad buying hookers and no different that his dad messing with the girls in church. His dad did that too. He was some kind of minister. He thinks John needs to get some help. It's sort of sad that John wants to fix everyone else, but can't see his own huge ass problem. He tells everyone I'm the underage girl stalking him, but he's just pissed at me and won't fess up that I caught his ass cheating on me around Christmas & New Years time with Maria, the 2 girls named Jessica and Crystal. I live in Clarksville. Not Hopkinsville, I got on myspace and started asking around about ppl and got like 7 hits on his skanky ass.
Aimee
4/4/2008 9:23:38 PM -
I would like to share with you just a tad bit of information. Yes he is a creep with nasty sexual habits, but as far as him treating women with any type of respect it's as bad as it can get.
It's said you can tell how a man will treat a wife or a girlfriend by the way he treats a waitor/waitress or a cashier. He never leaves a tip, & while at a checkout he stares at the womans breast. He never looks a woman in the face while talking. The bigger her chest, the harder he stares.When he walks by q woman with a large chest, he will stare turn his head, stare and walk backwards.
He will pass gas while eating a resturant, pick his nose at a table in a resturant and "flick" the boogers. He constalny stares off looking for someone else as if the person he is with is not good enough, and often will not offer to pay for the date he asks you out on. You at times have to pay for his share also. His frineds are always first male & female. He is always texting on his cellphone to anyone and acts bored while in your company. The text messages are usually foreplay for the dates he's going on after he leaves you.
When you say anything to him, it's always in your head, your jealous, you over- react, he'd never cheat on you. That's not who he is. He's just a poor college student. Whose faith is strong and has girls hit on him all of the time, but he's stronger than that.
That's why he calls everyone he talks to or hangs out with " a friend." He never answers his phone when he's out with just a friend & the only time he'll go anywhere with you is when it's a time that he has to see what's going on & your always a last minute thing because one of his freinds blew him off or the "friend" wouldn't put out or couldn't make it.
4/4/2008 9:33:31 PM - THE ABOVE POST SHOULD GET A TOTALLY AGREE: I FORGOT TO CHANGE THE STAR.
Jennifer
4/30/2008 10:18:03 AM -
4/30/2008 10:33:37 AM - EVEN AFTER JOHNNY FOUND OUT THE TRUTH ABOUT A SITUATION WE'S STILL MISTREASTING A GIRL THAT HE MISTREATED FOR OVER WITH NO CAUSE. HE LIED TO HER AND TOLD HER THE ONLY REASON HE DIDN'T LIKE HER WAS CUZ OF HER TIT SIZE. HE DATED GIRLS WITH TITS A LOT SMALLER THAN HERS. HE STILL TREATS HER LIKE SHE DID SOMETHING TO HIM AND WON'T FESS UP TO HIS MISTAKE. I KNOW I TOLD HER WHAY WAS GOING ON.
5/9/2008 1:33:24 PM - Q: You say there are really only two types of men. Do tell!
By Dr. Chelsea Kaplan
her web site: www.chelseakaplan.com
A: Most men fall into one of two categories, Marrying Men and Hardened Bachelors, aka Bad Boys. In my private practice as a love coach, many women in relationship trouble often don’t know how to tell the difference between the two, and that’s the problem. They fail to see the telltale signs of a man who’s really relationship material, or a man who’s a Bad Boy.
Q: What are the signs of a Marrying Man?
A: It’s not particularly tough to spot this type of guy. He says things like, “I’m looking to get married,” with the ease of a man saying, “My company is looking for a receptionist.” He brings up the subject of marriage, family and commitment on his own, unflinchingly, and without prodding. When dating, he asks questions like, “What was your last relationship like?” to understand whether you qualify as a marriage-minded woman. Marrying Men like being in relationships. In fact, they need them. Now, “need” isn’t a dirty word when it comes to men in relationships, because in truth, men only marry the women they need. Bad Boys just keep burning through women and then replace them with different models… who sometimes are models
Q: So how would you define and describe a Bad Boy? (this is SO JOHNNY)
A: He can date in every age range and shag whomever he wants because he’s charismatic and handsome. He is also a master at making women feel really, really special because he "loves" them. These men aren’t monogamous—they don’t have to be! They have so many opportunities to cheat, they figure what’s a bon-bon or two when you’ve been offered the whole darn box?
Q: How can single women easily identify a Bad Boy? Sometimes it’s not that easy!
A: They often make wisecracks about how “unhappy” all of their married friends are. Bad Boys often run in tight little groups comprised of other sexy, equally unavailable males. Their long-term primary relationships are often with each other, but they are available to women for sex; fun, short-term romance; long-term, non-exclusive sexual arrangements; or marriages made solely for their convenience (which will likely be riddled with affairs). Beneath it all, though, most Bad Boys are still traumatized from a twisted relationship deep in their past—with mommy or an ex. (it's the ex & his family, he won't get help with his problems; so he torments the rest of the world)
Q: Is it ever worth it to date a Bad Boy?
A: Bad Boys are perfect playmates for women who aren’t looking for a serious relationship, like divorced women who don’t want to get remarried and are just ready for excitement and fun.( That would be one thing, but John lies and says he wants a serious relationship, and crushes any spirit a good hearted female has; remember ladies: He's a dedicated Christian!!) The thing to remember about these guys is that you will never come first; he’s totally self-involved, so keep your expectations realistic. Be in it for fun and fun only, and try not to expect more, because a Bad Boy will not be able to give it to you. Resist the temptation to think you’re different, that you can change him because you can’t, no matter how fantastic you are. It really is not you, it’s him.
Q: Can a woman ever win over a Bad Boy?
A: Bad Boys all have one thing in common: a need for “space.” His rigid boundaries ensure that you’ll remain far too distant for real intimacy to occur. As soon as he feels he’s being emotionally hemmed in, he’ll panic. This is one reason why these men prefer dating very young women; they know that most young girls aren’t ready for marriage and won’t pressure him much.
If in the extremely rare instance when a Bad Boy actually lets his guard down long enough to fall in love, know that he’ll be virtually tool-free when it comes to working out a real relationship. He’s often immature,(JOHN ALLEN TO THE MAX) petty, prone to jealousy, and then some! Frankly, in most cases, you’ll know that the relationship needs to end. It has to be you and you alone realizing this; it won’t come from all of your friends and family members continually reminding you how wrong he is for you. But when you figure it out and get over him, it’s the kind of experience that teaches you a lot of good lessons!
Chelsea Kaplan’s blog, “I’m Somebody’s Mother?” can be found at www.chelseakaplan.com.
5/13/2008 12:25:33 PM - holy crap this sounds exactly like an ex of mine that lives out here in cali his name is john too!!!!!!!!!
5/16/2008 3:10:20 PM - THE COMMENT ABOUT JOHNNY MISTREATING THE GIRL,4TH ONE UP, FOR OVER A YEAR WAS A GIRL HE DATED & THEY STOPPED BECAUSE OF A BAD BLOW UP, he cheated on her. THEY BECAME GOOD FRIENDS, BUT JOHNNY LIED TO HER AND REALLY TREATED HER LIKE SHIT. HE TOOK HER TO CHURCH AND SHE MET AT LEAST ONE OF THE GIRLS HE "DATED." I KNOW THE GIRL AND TALK TO HER ALMOST DAILY. SHE IS REALLY TORN UP BECAUSE OF THE WAY HE TREATED HER. HE JUST PISSED ON HER WHILE THEY WERE DATING AND AFTER THEY BECAME FRIENDS HE BELIEVED LIES ON HER & WOULDN'T FORGIVE HER. HE TURNED HIS BACK ON HER. Crazy. HE'S SUCH A TWO FACED IDIOT. HE FOUND OUT THE TRUTH FROM THE GIRL THAT MADE UP THE LIES BUT HE'S TO HE SOO INTO JOHNNY THAT HE CAN'T GIVE ANYONE ANOTHER CHANCE. HE THINKS HE'S THE "SHIT" ANT ONLY HE CAN BE THE FORGIVEN.
5/27/2008 11:01:02 AM - I thought of something and I don't know why it didn't hit me before now. As I was checking out some old friends on here I ran across Johnny's first myspace profile. I remember what most of the girls look like from when I was on there. I also remember what his bestfriends girlfriend looks like. He's not hung up on his ex Amy. All of the girls even the ones with the dyed or natural blonde hair all had the same body shape and size of his best friend's girlfriend. He call her "my(her name here)" He talks about her constantly and she has often talked about wanting to be with another woman. That's where the bi-sexual aspect comes into play. Only difference is she believes in God and the Wicca faith isn't in here lifestyle. Johnny won't tell his friends about any of that. They think he's a fake anyway because he already has and gives oral sex with every girl in America and runs around preaching The Gospel, but won't have intercourse. Could you imagine if they knew he was getting with Wiccan girls. I wonder if his best friend knew he was in love with his girl?
5/27/2008 11:19:51 AM - I think he won't penetrate on a girl because he knows won't feel anything because he's too small. If you hold up your hand and make a tiny circle with you thumb and forfinger and thrust through it with your thumb or pinky (that's what I'm getting from reading the blogs about how big he is when he's erect)for the girl to get anything out of it he would have to pull out and re-enter over and over again. That would do absoutley nothing for him. The girl might feel a little bit, but I doubt it.
There's not but one girl out of any of them on here that sounds like she would have stuck around to find out, but he blew her off because of boob size?? Did I read that right?
Lisa Page Nashville, Tn
5/28/2008 10:32:54 AM - this guy is a weannie!!
5/30/2008 12:34:07 PM - he has been going to the Flying Saucer in Nashville. It's an 8 minute dating service buying all of the girls drinks, amxing out his credit card on rooms for him and the many many many girls, and all the drinks he can hold a whopping 1 beer.
6/14/2008 2:59:59 PM - John made me feel worse than someone with a disease. I hope he finds someone to treat someone to do him that way he apparently does everyone.
6/14/2008 3:07:33 PM - This jerk spends all of his money that he mooches off of his mommy & daddy at the strip clubs in OakGrove & in Nashville. That's another reason why he has to find a woman to bum money off of. He claims it's because he needs the money for school. He's such a liar.
Mandy
6/23/2008 3:51:58 PM - I just found this retard's profile on peepsheet.com
I want to know who hasn't this guy made mad in the USA?
6/27/2008 3:45:13 PM - Do you all know why a guy THIS GUY WHO HATES KIDS is always trying to get with women who have kids? Because he's a Momma's boy! He's too cheap and flat broke ooops no wait the money he has he spends on his true love his car. He wants a girl with kids because they have their own place and he won't have to rent a room or take them to mommy's and daddy's house.
7/2/2008 10:58:51 AM - I've known John for I guess 2 years. We met on Yahoo. I wasn't shocked to find out he's a man hoe, but shocked to find out he claims to be a Christian.
With that fould mouth and the things we did....maybe in the church of Beer, Boobs, and Bootie.
Crystal F.
7/2/2008 11:19:08 AM - John is very judgemental. He said he wasn't. He talks about how he accepts everyone for the way they are, but he's so hung up on breast size and that's way out of the range of accepting a person for who they are. (he has a lot of nerve talking about size - he'd be lucky if a magic marker top wouldn't swallow it when he were hard) He says he loves everyone regardless of what they do or the things they have going on in their life. No he doesn't. I'm one of the bi-sexual girls John messed with. He never took me to meet his parents. I asked if I could meet them. He said soon after that he was ready to move on. Turns out he was already seeing someone else, but that wasn't the point. To him, I was just a friends with benefits. I never signged up for that. The new girl was one of "good quality" he could take home to Mommy & Daddy, dumbass screwed around on her too.
7/2/2008 11:48:33 AM - He has bad breath. It always smells like old food. He's a terrible kisser, has awful body odor, isn't very good at using his fingers, hands,or tongue, to make a girl happy. He's very arrogant. He thinks he's the best at everyhting he does. He's never wrong at anything he does and when he apologizes he's never sincere about it. He makes it to where the problem is your fault to begin with, but since he's such "an awesome guy" he'll say he's sorry and humble himself. He will tell you he's "hot" and has tons of girls begging for his body and his money and all he has to do is say the word and he could get laid by any of them in a heartbeat. He says it's not his fault that he cheats, but because his father cheated on his mother and he has a porn addiction it's all he knows. Instead of him getting help his answer to the problem is this: he needs to be able to have 7-10 friends at once but they have to be faithful to him. John being such the good guy will tell them they don't have to be, but the minute one goes out or talks to someone else he drops them flat - THAT'S WHAT HE DID TO ME! I started being friends nothing more with a guy at work. He never spoke to me again.
7/2/2008 11:51:20 AM - John is a selfish idiot. He's too stupid to see that he's looking for a woman to replace his mom. She and his dad were so busy trying to fix their marriage that he got left to be raised by porn and the internet. His sister, she pretty much did the same thing. The only exception she screwed half of the town instead of herself. She finally grew a brain and got right with Jesus.
The reason he runs or hurts from the ones that love him is they are the ones that represent to him what a mom should hve been. If he accepts that love or opens himself up to her, he might get hurt. John picks the ones so far from what he truly wants deep down inside, the ones whom he knows will leave or cheat or if he does get caught cheating won't care, the ones who want friends with benefits. Then their are a few that are few and far in between that he knows truly love him. His defense is to treat them terrible, but blame them.
E.L. Hopkinsville, KY
7/10/2008 3:32:48 PM - May he reap what he sows.......
7/14/2008 11:26:30 PM - I wonder besides HIV has this "man" thought of catching Hepatitis A, B, C, D, or E. All of these are transmitted through oral sex. Also there is tric. You get it from undercooked pork & you can pass it through oral sex.
7/16/2008 11:53:07 AM -
7/16/2008 12:20:05 PM - This man is a compulsive liar and cheater. He lures you in to think that he's a nice guy and that his intentions are well meant but they are not. He just wants someone convenient for him to come home to and all the meanwhile he's out and about. He travelsback and forth from Hopkinsville to Nashville. He's in constant contact and communication with many women throughout the states who he's met on the many many personal websites he's on. Some of them, pornographic in nature. He is just sick person who needs professional help but will try and convience you that you are the one with problems and it's your fault it's you are the real issue and if only you could be just this way or just that way he'd be fine. Pretends to care about you, but really could care less. He constantly makes promises he can't keep. He only cares about himself. He comes off as a well to do person but he's very cheap. I assume cause he needs to spend alot of money to keep all his oppurtunities open. He is always leaving every girl he goes out with stuck with the bill for anything. He is very sneaky. Right under your nose he'll be texting other women. Or emailing them in the other room. Be aware, if you meet him online, you may think he takes his profile off NOPE he just deletes it and amkes another one, but it's private or give a sob story when it is left open about how he's been a victim of his daddy's mistakes and how no one has ever given him a real chance to be his tue self. HE cannot be trusted. His lacks of communication with youis always your fault becuase your are smothering HIM. If you try calling, he doesn't answer his phone. He tries to keep you under lock and key and doesn't want you to go anywhere, but he can be as free as a bird.He very seldom will want top go out in public with you because he might get caught by his other dates. He says he wants a relationship, but it's not a committed one. He starts off warm, but gets cold very fast. He passes himself of as being a man of God, however, he is not doing Gods will by mistreating people the way he does. He now has his profile posted on yahoo personals,myspace,match.com,ans who all knows where. RUN!!!
7/25/2008 9:32:19 AM - If he acts and treats people this way in his perosnal life even his family and friends how will & does he treat people in his professional life? Who can ever trust him?
8/6/2008 12:05:06 AM - Johnny told me that he likes to lie and listen to his parents have sex because it gives helps him gratify himself. YUCK!
8/6/2008 12:06:39 AM - Any woman that will ever have him will have to love Johnny for who he is. He has nothing to offer in the physical department and as far as money he's broke as all get out.
8/6/2008 12:11:01 AM - he spent the night with me once and would come over. I don't think he ever flushed the toilet. He would use the bathroom and # 1 & 2 and then take care of himesrlf big stupid didn't have enough sense to know you can hear through apartment walls.... DUH. That was left unflushed too. It was on the floor and I knew right then HE had to go. Mandy from Hopkinsville
8/10/2008 11:41:59 PM - He thinks he can mess with Wiccans because they don't have a true belief in God. He thinks him having sex with them or them "giving him the pleasure of blowing him" will help lead them to Christ.
What did this idiot eat when he was growing up?
Does think he has the magic seed?
8/10/2008 11:49:35 PM - He's trying to worm his way back into his church again. His Pastor tolds him that if he got help and stopped screwing half of the female population that he'd think about it.
His Pastor is in for a rude awaking if he doen't know John is actually having sex sex now. He's upset because of his size and the girls making fun of him that he's bed hopping more than before to get rid of the hurt that was already there. His fix to his pain: use bi-seuxal, Wiccans and any girl that he can make believe his lies or pay for at the strip joing or atthe 8 minute dating service; Flying Saucer.
8/10/2008 11:51:38 PM - His mom and dad have been through their stuff: why does Johnny have to give them more?
8/16/2008 11:36:16 PM - When it comes to genital size, and using his mouth, this idiot wins gold for the smallest and worset performance.
8/16/2008 11:43:33 PM - If his mouth is open, he's lying. period.
If his eyes are open, he's lying.
If he's alive, he's lying. posted by Carrie of Clarksville, Tn
8/20/2008 9:10:34 AM - Typical of any Preacher's Kid; claims to be the best at all; arrogant; completely in love with himself.... this guy is a dillweed if there ever was one. Lisa
8/20/2008 9:11:23 AM - AN ABSOLUTE DISGRACE TO ANY CHRISTIAN or Man kind
8/20/2008 9:15:09 AM - I guess he finally got "his super bestest friend" Casey in bed.
He finally quit telling everyone he was a pure virgin.... somebody needs to give her complete brain transplant; she thinks he's super almighty. Then again living in Alabama she has no idea how he is except by phone or visit.
8/20/2008 9:22:32 AM - This guy has slept with 36 to 40 girls between May 07& Dec. 07 without protection. Tells them while he's with them all at the week or night that he's faithful to them all.
EWWW! boil me in bleach; makes my eyes dirty just reading all of this.
8/21/2008 6:33:35 PM - LOL! Is he really trying to be Magnium PI? Tom Selleck should SOOOOO Bitch slap him.
9/12/2008 3:45:38 PM - He looks scrawny and stuckup.....www.myspace.com/rinfield2004
I feel sorry for the 1, Melisa, girl listed that he really mistreated. I don't get why guyz do that crap. I feel for all of them. Nobody deserves to be treated like that.
9/12/2008 3:50:05 PM - Hey did he ever tell yall that he tried to get his cousin to go to bed with him. He was so drunk at my house one night that he started telling me all of this stuff. He met a cousin and he wanted to hook up with her. They were dancing some where, a party or club, and he started "smooth" talking and his "jazz." She went home and he thought they had switched phone #'s. Turns out she gave him a bogus #. That's just down right nasty!!
12/5/2008 5:47:01 PM - I'm grossed out by him. Just the thought od being around him makes me want to hurl!
12/31/2008 7:16:40 PM - I wonder how bad he'll screw up this year. Or rather how many he'll screw this year.
1/6/2009 1:37:38 AM - http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vf7P2zKu-Yk&feature=related
1/14/2009 11:44:21 PM - I'd say give him a good flea bath, but fleas are too good to be on him.
1/22/2009 2:24:56 PM - He's such an idiot. I don't get why he'd treat anyone this way. It doesn't make any sense to me. He's always wanted to have someone love, understand, and accept him just for being who he is. The thing is....he can't let anyone be themselves. It's so weird...his family really screwed him up, but only so much can be blamed on family. Why doesn't he just get some help and face facts that HE is responsible for his actions and the only way to get past the past is to deal with it without hurting anyone else. He'll never be happy or allow anyone in his life to be happy until he can move on.
2/5/2009 11:33:11 PM - The man whore is messing with girls in Woodlawn,TN now.
He''s too scared to show his face in Hopkinsville anymore.
Maybe he''ll get himself caught in a car door and someone will pull it out and rip his brain off.
Oh wait it would have to be bigger then 2 inches long to reach. OOOPs!
2/6/2009 11:22:30 PM - How did you figure out he was messing with a girl from Woodlawn?
2/7/2009 9:16:15 PM - John is an @ss and likes to keep all of friends informed of his conquest. Some of his friends aren''t really as good of friends as he would like to think. they put up with him, #1 because they feel sorry for him and feel bad for what his dad did when he was younger and know John is just reliving what he saw growing up and #2 they know he will never be faithful or have anyone because John wants to blame his dad for his life. The only problem with him doing this is HE IS A GROWN @SS MAN. You can only say it was daddy''s fault for so long and if he wants to say it''s all he knows then stupid head needs to at least try and fix himself so he won''t have anyone to blame.
I am a friend of one of his best buddies as he says. Like I said they tolerate him because they know he will never change and feel bad for him. Aso far as me knowing about Woodlawn, TN John loves to make himself look and sound good.
Oh btw the bigger the girl the worse John treats her.
He says they will run after him because they have no self esteem.
2/7/2009 9:18:06 PM - Johnny is just a sick psycho narcassitic human being. He will never get help. He''s too bust trying to make everyone else believe it''s their fault that he can''t be faithful.
2/8/2009 7:47:58 AM - So Im the girl from Woodlawn, lol. I DIDNT mess around with him, actually I stayed a table length apart from him the whole time. Sure I can have low self at times but Ive had hotter guys than him, actually I was with a guy when I saw himwell still am with him. Has anyone ever noticed that when he smiles one eye gets really squinty and when hes happy he does this really gay clapping thing. But I guess he wasnt too upset that I told him we couldnt talk anymore cause now I realize he doesnt like my boob size lmao. And you know he went to the bathroom like twice..now Im thinking that he wasnt going to the bathroom and he wasnt just callin some girl. He even offered to walk me to my car and I turned him down. It''s just sad to know hes actually doin this to so many girls and they believe him.
2/8/2009 8:10:50 AM - And WHY in the world does he talk like hes not white, like he digs things and thats whats up. So I just sent him a text cause I mean I might as while mess with him get back at him for treating other girls that way..SO if he says he did anything with me I swear Ill key his stupid little car. Keep me posted on that lol. Im not serious about the texts and dont tell him that im messing with him. Cause then its no fun. He just asked me how bad I wanted him when we met and I kinda wanna barf. You know church boy''s talkin dirty on a sun what kinda crap is that lol.
2/8/2009 3:53:17 PM -
2/8/2009 3:55:16 PM - HAHAHA LMAS I can''t get over you catching on to his gay side. TOOO Funny. I''d almost promise he''s gay!!!
2/10/2009 10:17:41 PM - Hey you think him talking thay way on a SUnday is bad....he trys to pick up girls from his own church and then lies and says he's a good Chirstian while he's trying to get them to go to bed with him.
2/10/2009 10:19:34 PM - The biggest lie this fool ever told is that he''s a virgin.
This fool has had more girls that I''ve got hair on my head or more hair than he has on his chest.....AND THAT''S A LOT. I mean poodles have less hair.
2/10/2009 10:21:06 PM - Another lie he told was that he was good & that you will be satisfied with what he does to you. HA
You got to have something to do something you moron.
2/10/2009 10:25:02 PM - Oh him talking like he''s not white, his best friends mess with him and tell him to be white and quit saying stuff fromthe early 90''s like chillaxin & what up & chicks and diggin and all that other jazz.
He''s clueless.
He''d been great as one of those dad''s that are so stupid on the tv commericals or shows that are trying to be cool. You just want to say WTF is wrong with you, how much do you drink. Did your parents do acid?
2/10/2009 10:27:00 PM - He really made me want to turn gay.
Jennifer
2/15/2009 1:12:30 PM -
2/15/2009 1:13:43 PM - what a boob. why do ppl talk to him. he''s just so gross and that breath.
2/15/2009 1:18:23 PM - It would always kill me how he would talk about what he wanted for Christmas and hint around about all of these gay ass things. Then he'd get a gift for all of his boyfriends and leave me and all of the other girls out.
I think he really is gay.
2/15/2009 1:21:46 PM - Why does he want to share the fact that he masterbates?
That is so nasty. It''s so gross that he goes in to details about playing with himself. UGHHHHHHH!
2/15/2009 1:24:28 PM - He''s really too obessed with the Will & Grace. The bad part is that he it totally into Will an never says a word about Grace.
2/15/2009 1:27:11 PM - He''s like one of those weird skinny man woman things from Star Wars.
2/15/2009 1:30:46 PM - He''s so skinny. He looks like a hairy bird.
3/5/2009 10:10:33 PM - I fell in love with Johnny. He hurt me so bad. I didn't think I would ever be able to forgive him. It took a very long time for me not to want to kill him for how he used me and betrayed me. He knew everything I had been through in my life and used it to manipulate me into going to bed with him by saying he'd never hurt me and he'd always be there for me. I realize noone forced me into anything, but still he could have been honest. That's what everyone wants. he didn't even apologize. he just laughed and told me to get over it. He was on of 2 guys I'd dated in my life. Now I'm scared of all men. I don't hate Johnny anymore,giving him that requies too much energy that he's not worth, but I don't know if I can ever trust another man again.
4/15/2009 6:55:44 AM - DOES HE HAVE A BIG COCK?
4/15/2009 10:10:51 AM - It is smaller than a 3 month olds.
5/17/2009 3:41:02 PM - Something that Johnny doesn''t get is that there are some girls out there who don''t mind the just friends idea. If he''d be or had of been honest, myself and maybe a few other wouldn''t want to run him over with his Chester Cheetah colored car.
5/17/2009 3:41:27 PM - Also he completely lied about his size. When he dropped his drawers I saw the label, it said small, but I think it was referring to what was in his drawers not the undies themselves. I mean really it was the size of my pinky and was pointed at the top like a sharpened pencil.
5/17/2009 3:43:08 PM - Why does he have he''s in agony on his myspace page? He causes all of the agony. I mean really what did he do get his mini peter caught in his extra small zipper?
8/21/2009 11:22:41 PM - I am ashamed that I ever called him a friend. I''m saddened by the fact I let him mistreat me and my friends and family. It hurt to know that he will and still is lying to everyone. He was rasied to believe that the woman to remain faithful while the man can do anything he wants. Just like his father did John blames his being unfaithful on the woman saying she wasn''t good enough, nit pretty enough, or didn''t do somthing to make him happy.
He is a porn addict.....when I say addict I mean an addict. There is only one thing that will ever help John.....he has to open up to what he''s done and he will never do that.
10/4/2009 2:52:58 PM - I want so much to believe you have changed. I want to forgive you and for you to mean it when you say you are sorry for all of the hurt, pain and damage you have done to me and to everyone else. I know that this will never happen.....my heart breaks to think of the person you could have been. You chose to let your need for control and the sins of your father ruin your life and so many others.
You were offered help from so many people and yet, you still refused to accept it and threw everything back into our faces. I still cry and hope maybe some day you will believe that you are worth something. Even if you ever do read this you will say you think your are worth something, your hot, cool, the sh*t, the man. However I've seen you cry and know that you are a broken soul inside and that is why I and so many other had to suffer. You are too afraid that you will treat your chosen one the way your father treated your mother. You think by getting it all out of your system now and pretending that it's just a phase that when you choose to settle down that you will be able to control the urges and be faithful. You won't....it's deep in you. It's who you are. IT'S WHO YOU LET YOURSELF BECOME. The only chance to fix anything is to admit what your are, who you've become. That would mean admitting you are wrong, you made a mistake, you hurt someone. We both know that will never happen. I forgive you John, but will never get over the emotional, mental, and physical abuse you put me through. My only hope is that you can someday forgive yourself.
10/4/2009 3:07:09 PM - THERE IS A GOOD CHANCE HE HAS MOVED TO VIRGINIA TO LIVE WITH HIS AUNT OR ATLANTA OR FLORIDA.
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