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BigMystery writes:
I really cannot take this $hit anymore, I am going crazy.I feellike a peice of garbage and I get treated like one. He beat me up again last night and it was bad he beat me in my head again I have a huge knot on my left temple. I want to leave but the options are the same call the hotline call 3 to 4 shelters only to be told that they dont have room and they will call back when they do :( What can one do? I have severed some ties with family members because they take his side. I do not like them anymore either, they act like everything he says is true. He does favors for them so he is good in their book not to mention he is in the National Guard he gets off on everything. I hate my life right now, yup I really do I hate to even announce this but what do I have to lose. He has been up to his ususal with the hoe, I wonder what makes her so special, so special that he dosent beat her but he treats her nice. The soonest I can move is sep,oct I will have to hide money and save. He does all the time I found that out a while ago, I hate him, he is going to end up killing me one way or the other. He said that he will put me beside my mom who was beat up real bad by some men one night she has been in a nursing home for 13 years. I was 10 when this happened. I dont have family near, the other ones arent worried about me we are not close knit. What options are there for me if any, I really want to leave bad I cannot take it excuse me while I cry again.......
WOMANSAVERS MEMBERS RESPOND:
ladyjayne
Right - you have to get away from this piece of shit straight away.
Go to your local Police Station - explain what has happened and then leave the whole scenario in their hands. They will find you somewhere to go even if only for a night until the Social Services (don‘t know what your equivalent is over there) sort you out with a place to stay. DO NOT be fobbed off with excuses. You are in real danger here. Report what has happened to the Police. You have been assaulted by him - make a complaint so he is brought in and questioned. Then say you need to get away from him. They will find a place for you away from him. DO IT NOW....
Let us know how you get on.
Do not stay there a moment longer
MattSC
This must be reported IMMEDIATELY! Call 911, make a complaint of the abuse that your spouse has inflicted on you! Tell them about the knot on your head that resulted from it and you feel dizzy and think you‘re going to pass out! When they ask you for further information toss the phone aside but DON‘T hang up! This will probably get a patrol car there faster.
When the officer/s knock on the door, let them in and act like you‘re getting dizzy again. This will probably catch their attention qucikly and emphasize the severity of the problem that exists. MAKE/FILE a complaint! Then they can go and arrest him and throw him in jail.
It doesn‘t matter what either of your families think about you taking this action. The only one you should be concerned about at this moment is youself. Your life is in danger and the authorities need to be made aware of this, ....NOW!
QueenEster
Sweetie get a restraining order against him. Go to the police and let them take pictures of you. I dont know how Ohio deals with restraing orders but here in MO the abuser must pay all the bills and support and stay away. Just becuase hes in the Military doesnt mean that he can do this to you. Please go to the police and get some help.
dbuck
Okay, I‘ve read your past posts. What happened to you leaving back in February? Why are you still there? You need to get out now. There is absolutely No excuse for beating up a woman! I am very concerned about you and your child. I am scared that next time he beats you it will be last. You really need to pack up and go, go wherever to get away to safe place. Please, please seek help somewhere. I will pray for you. You are in charge of you, he is not. So please pick yourself up and take charge of your life and get away. You need to be strong for you and your child. Do it now!
tears30
You need to leave right now do not stay another minute . Stay in your car a couple of days if you have too I know this sounds like a really bad option but it is better then losing your life at the hands of this monster. Also call the police and call his unit commander for the national guard. I did this to my ex that beat the hell out of me all the time. If he is in the military they do not tolerate that behavior if you have to go as high up the chain of command as you have too. But the main thing is to LEAVE RIGHT NOW., Do not wait until sept. or oct. I know living in a car is not the best option but if that is all you have for right now then that is what you must do until you can get in a shelter or something stay with friends anything also do not let him know where you are or where you are going. If he beats you that bad he will come to a point where he almost kills your or does kill you . Please get out of there as soon as you can and keep us up to date on how you are doing .
I did not read down far enough before I posted I also just read that there is a child. neither you or your child deserve to be in this situation . Rent a hotel room for a couple of days if you can afford to but make sure it is not close to where he is and that he cant find you . Men like this dont stop. And when you file a complaint go through with arresting him as well do not drop the charges like I know so many women do because they are afriad. I will keep you in my prayers
lorrie
call the national guard, call his commanding officier. they will take him out of your house, they will make him get help or he will get the boot. call the police, go for the restraining order, he can go live with the whore. change the locks and put some ice on your head after you take some pictures, they sell one use cameras now, drop it off for developing and then just leave the pics there till you need them.
that is enough to be getting on with for today. it is so over and when you are ready, post him all over everywhere. he is dangerous and women need to be warned.
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