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Ed Hicks has been known to advertise on DreamMates.com; AmericanSingles.com; AdultFriendFinder.com; Tickle.com; Match.com, YahooPersonals and has ads online right now on Yahoo Personals and American Singles. There are probably others.
*He actually is 62 years old, although he will tell you he was born the early 1950s! SEVEN (7) confirmed marriages - there may be more - and 4 overlapped!!
He is a consummate liar, con man bigamist and in my opinion very much a psychopath and an Internet predator.
He has seven confirmed marriages and four of those marriages overlap...meaning he would marry the next one before getting a divorce from the previous one. But he will tell you if you are unlucky enough to meet him online that he has only been married once or twice. It depends on his mood I guess, which story you get.
If you are trusting, kind, financially secure and/or have a job, and/or have parents who are going to leave you an inheritance, if you are 35-65 years young; are reasonably good looking, smart, articulate; short, tall, slender, average, or a have a few extra pounds, it does not matter. If you are of any race, blonde, brunette, red headed…WATCH OUT.
Do you seek that a kind man with a huge, warm smile followed by robust laugh full of excitement in an enigmatic kind of way? He will claim to have the ingredients and the know how to exist in a relationship full of ideal love; he will most likely say he is “ in love with love”. Most likely, he will see you both sharing a beautiful paradise, perhaps in the Bahamas, and sailing into the sunset, or fishing, sailing, windsurfing, and kiteboarding, diving, and golfing. He might tell you he owns property on the island of Eleuthera in the Bahamas. NOPE. If you are communicating with this man in any way, STOP dead in your tracks and RUN.
He will drop names like Charles Barkley, Michael Jordan, and Herman Edwards. He might tell you he has played golf with Barkley and met Jordan on a couple of occasions. That is a false statement, of course.
He will either say he has children not living at home or that he has none. He will always say his race is “Other” or leaves that field blank, when in fact he is African American.
If you do meet this man for dinner or a drink and you are mesmerized by the wonderful conversation, his extreme intelligence, take my advice and run a full background check. You know the kind, the one that costs about 2-3K; the kind that all of his marriages pop up followed by pages and pages of judgments, tax liens, and a bankruptcy thrown in here and there, and delinquent credit card debt out the ying yang. At that point, you shouldn’t even have to ask about the divorces. RUN for your life.
This man advertises himself as an outdoorsman, tall and athletic, saying he was born in 1951 or 1952, and will lie to you for the sake of lying. He told my neighbors we had been married twenty years and that his children were ours together. Yet he would go to work each day, drop me off at the Metro station, park his car in the adjacent lot, and walk across the street into his office. On his walk, he would remove his wedding band and his coworkers did not even know he was married. He never mentioned me to them and always talked about himself. He would leave work in the afternoon, put the wedding band back on while he walked to the car where I as waiting and we would drive home!
He will refer to you by Honey or Sweetie, and will rarely use your name. Think about it, while you are so enamored by his amorous terms for you, it is just a defense mechanism because it is just easier for him to remember two endearments instead of a plethora of first names.
If you communicate with this man, he will charm and keep you under his spell, some of you longer than others. In the beginning, you will feel like you have never felt before, you just cannot get enough of this man, not just sexually, albeit he is quite adept but think about it, he has had lots of practice, but he controls your mind, your soul, and your spirit and will try to send you tumbling to his darkness. He has an aura of magic about him that is mesmerizing and by the time you know what has hit you, you are damaged in some way. You will immediately observe his gregarious laugher, his gravely voice, his fake caring parental nature, bragging he has raised his children since diapers all by himself, with no help from anyone. But you will forever and ever be reminded that you had an easy life and his was Hell, but he has always kept a good sense of humor and a laid back attitude. His humor, his charm, and his kindness grab you, but then WATCH OUT. ALL endearing qualities are FAKE and will be used to manipulate you.
He will first tell you he has a high level job in the government, and does IT work After you get to know him a bit better, he may tell you he was in the Air Force and played basketball on the AF team, as an officer of course, while traveling the world, after graduating and obtaining a BS in mechanical engineering from California Polytechnic State University (Cal Poly) in 1975. The Air Force part is right; the Cal Poly degree is another of his lies. Much too late and me being so foolishly in love with this man, I learned he did not have degrees from two prestigious United States universities, but a mill diploma from the University of Palmers Green and he enlisted in the AF right after high school and worked as a mechanic.
He was honorably discharged from the AF and after a few years in civilian DOD as a “young mechanical engineer,” he accepted a position in corporate America (actually a place that made Christmas tree preservative from chlorine bleach) and moved to the Pacific Northwest and rainy Seattle, where they paid for him to obtain a MBA at the University of Washington. The Christmas tree business is true; the MBA from University of Washington is false!
Now, the story really starts to get interesting because in looking back, I was already smitten with his charm when he told me this one; it was not one of my more intelligent times, but he has told this one to other women and they swallowed it and believe me, they are smart too. He told me the story of joining corporate America. At that time, corporate executives who were in their late twenties were unheard of, but they wanted him in that position. But in order to be respected among his subordinates, he had to BECOME as a “senior” person. Voila, the company having the clout and annual report such as theirs had the means to push his birth year back, making it show he was born in 1944 not 1952. I fell for it, and I am supposed to be smart.
He is cunning, he is clever, and his smile will melt your heart. It is quite a shock when you find his Air Force Separation Papers, they DON’T LIE. They plainly state: USAF 1962-66 and MARRIED. Funny, he told me he was only married once, to his children’s mother and that was in the mid 1980s!
Take notice that if you are in a conversation with him and over two thirds of the sentences begin with “I” and contain lots of “me”(s). Take notice if he starts complaining that you never communicate with him, that you never do anything well, that you are selfish, that you are controlling....ALERT, ALERT, ALERT! This is psychological projection.
Take notice if he complains incessantly about the state you are living, i.e., if it is not California. If you suddenly start hearing that everything is better in California, and we East Coast folks just are not up to par, and if West Coast women are much better at everything, RUN, RUN, RUN.
For more information, do a Google, Yahoo, or DogPile search on "Ed Hicks Bigamy" or "Charles Edward Hicks bigamy".
He is a cunning, glib, charismatic, smooth psychopath who uses people (friends, family, wives, lovers---it doesn't matter) and he throws them away, without remorse, without conscience and without guilt.
BEWARE--This antisocial gets out of jail in early January 2007 and he will be right back online preying on innocent women.
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