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| bubblecropper |
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Posted: 3/29/2010 8:40 AM |
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Subject: Angelina Jolie; the archetypical Other Woman |
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| kaylar wrote: |
| bubblecropper wrote: |
| I never thought she was all that great looking. Always felt Jennifer was much prettier.
Its hollywood though, its fake, full of insecurity and totally unlike real life...affairs are the norm, insincerity rules the day.
I do agree though that women who go after men who are already attached usually do so out of a certain sense of insecurity. |
It is pure insecurity. There is no reason for it. The O.W. knows the guy is married virtually before she meets him. Her pursuit of him, her efforts to get him can not be confined to an attraction for him...for once you know X is married you don‘t get involved.
It is as simple as that.
I can list cases in which as soon as the O.W. believes the wife has someone else or wants to get rid of the husband, she dumps him.
A particular female thought this guy was married. Well, he was, but was divorced twenty years ago. Because his ex wife was all that he continued to claim to be married to her. As she was one of those thoroughly nice people and had a child for him, the relationship was kept cordial. The ex-wife had no idea that her ex was claiming they were still married, until one day she was
at a function, with a date, when the O.W. showed up. When she realised that her beloved was not married to his ex, that he had lied about being married, she dumped him.
It destroyed her completely to realise that she wasn‘t taking this woman‘s husband. There was no reason to break up with him outside of the fact he wasn‘t married.
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Kaylar, I‘m a therapist, its not always insecurity...there are always exceptions to rules. Your manner seems a little confrontational and abrupt in your replies. I‘d appreciate if you wouldn‘t reply in such a way to me.
Thank you.
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