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I was married for 18 years and my marriage fell apart. I found out my husband was cheating on me with a friend/co-worker. He and I work together and so does the friend he cheated with. I believed that he was going through some time of midlife crisis. I immediately left and got my own place. I just found out yesterday that he slept with another one of my friends/coworker and everyone at work knows. I feel so terrible, embarassed and hurt. I don‘t think there is anything that I can say to him that will even matter. It hurts just because he is a liar and never has admitted to what he has done. I do thank him for letting me see what a dirty person he is. But I don‘t feel any better. I‘m sad and just want this to all go away.
I‘m sorry - GS - for your heartache, humiliation and emotional pain. It‘s a bitter pill to swallow after so many years of marriage. The man has absolutely no class, and he is a major schmuck to "infect" the workplace, and to sleep with your friends.
I would encourage you not to see this as a reflection on you at all - because it truly isn‘t. The fact that your husband slept with other women is a reflection on him and the kind of person he is. It is not your fault.
Do what you can to reclaim your dignity and self respect. I‘m glad you left him.
Beleive me when I say this will bite him in the butt at some point. You are strong to move out and get on your feet. Good for you! Now just remember, you deserve better and this is a new beginning for you.
gs...he has disgraced and embarassed himself. he is the one that broke his committment to you. hold your head high and focus on a new beginning for you. i hope you aren‘t working at the same place still and found yourself a new place to work.
Rhiannon is right. In no way does this put YOU in a bad light in front of your peers. I understand that you feel humiliated. But your peers don‘t see it that way.
Think about it this way: Imagine that this happened to someone else at your work place. Would you think less of the woman that got cheated on or less of the husband and the two hussies that were in on it. Especially the first hussy..I mean he cheated on her too! The second one constitutes herself as a double slut.
This is your time to take it to your boss...The big one. Your husband is guilty of fratinizing with employees, causing disturbances in the work place and so are the hussies. I believe my dear that you don‘t have to leave but instead would have the admiration of all other women and men there by getting their asses canned.
Put your head up high. Be bold and get Medea on their asses! This will help you to heal just by taking control of the wheel.
No one thinks any less of you...They feel bad for you that you were involved with such a low life is all.
The fact that you got out of that situation and are standing up on your own two feet says alot about the woman you are...Not willing to put up with the crap! Trust me, not all women are strong enough to stand up for themselves...