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Posted: 1/17/2010 7:56 PM |
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I am a hormonal BEEEE-ATCH and for the last two days I have been out of control.
I never use the "c" word but in the last few days everyone and everything has been called a "c" I‘ve said it about 25 times and today the words "You f**k*** c**t** a**h***" actually came out of my mouth....because my partner hadn‘t cleaned the bedroom to my standards (why did I ask him to do it? He‘s not good at "order") poor bloke. I have called his parents "Horrible people" and I called his very respectable father "scum" after a minor faux pas (not to their faces thank god)....holy sh*t whats wrong with me?
My partner is getting the brunt of it...he‘s been struck speechless and has escaped from the house on two occasions....I think the poor guy had a nice old-fashioned image of the glowing happy pregnant woman and that image has just been shattered to pieces.
This morning I got into an awful bad temper because of the way my hair bounced (not enough) as I ran down the stairs....SERIOUSLY!!!!!!
I have chewed my fathers, brothers and sisters ears off on the phone since thursday....my brother and sister took it in their stride but dad is still frosty with me.
I have turned into a monster and I‘m just hating myself right now...I need to try and control the anger and the random bursting into tears thing or I‘ll have no friends or family left and people will think that I‘m mentally unstable. (he described me today as "temporarily emotionally unstable" this did not elicit a positive response from me as you can imagine) Today in the car half of Dublin saw me in floods of tears, because of an inappropriately timed traffic jam.
We went for a walk and it seems that everywhere there are babies and toddlers, in prams and walking, all of them seemed to be screaming or misbehaving and all of the parents seemed to look harassed, embarrassed and exhausted. After passing by one particular anxious looking father and his screaming offspring my other half looked at me and said "that‘ll be us next year" with a big grin on his face...JAYSUS!
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Posted: 1/18/2010 7:24 AM |
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| bubblecropper wrote: | | I am a hormonal BEEEE-ATCH and for the last two days I have been out of control.
I never use the "c" word but in the last few days everyone and everything has been called a "c" I‘ve said it about 25 times and today the words "You f**k*** c**t** a**h***" actually came out of my mouth....because my partner hadn‘t cleaned the bedroom to my standards (why did I ask him to do it? He‘s not good at "order") poor bloke. I have called his parents "Horrible people" and I called his very respectable father "scum" after a minor faux pas (not to their faces thank god)....holy sh*t whats wrong with me?
My partner is getting the brunt of it...he‘s been struck speechless and has escaped from the house on two occasions....I think the poor guy had a nice old-fashioned image of the glowing happy pregnant woman and that image has just been shattered to pieces.
This morning I got into an awful bad temper because of the way my hair bounced (not enough) as I ran down the stairs....SERIOUSLY!!!!!!
I have chewed my fathers, brothers and sisters ears off on the phone since thursday....my brother and sister took it in their stride but dad is still frosty with me.
I have turned into a monster and I‘m just hating myself right now...I need to try and control the anger and the random bursting into tears thing or I‘ll have no friends or family left and people will think that I‘m mentally unstable. (he described me today as "temporarily emotionally unstable" this did not elicit a positive response from me as you can imagine) Today in the car half of Dublin saw me in floods of tears, because of an inappropriately timed traffic jam.
We went for a walk and it seems that everywhere there are babies and toddlers, in prams and walking, all of them seemed to be screaming or misbehaving and all of the parents seemed to look harassed, embarrassed and exhausted. After passing by one particular anxious looking father and his screaming offspring my other half looked at me and said "that‘ll be us next year" with a big grin on his face...JAYSUS!
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awwwwww bubble 
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Posted: 1/18/2010 8:41 AM |
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The good thing bubbles is that you are aware that you are doing this.
Talk to your doctor, I remember my boss telling me that If I got pregnant again, I was going on maturnity leave day one of the pregnancy. hahaha
Normally it is worse in the beginning. By month 4 it was better for me.
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Posted: 1/18/2010 11:13 AM |
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 Oh just wait, your journey is just beginning!
Pregnancy is about the most un-natural thing I‘ve experienced! I had my appendix out at three months pregnant. Then got Hellpp syndrome in the end and bloated up like a balloon. My gums bleed, my ankles swole up, my hair darkened, my blood pressure sky rocketed, I was peeing orange.......the list could go on.
Although I hear some women have no problems at all and it‘s pure bliss!
AND just wait.......after the baby arrives, DO NOT LOOK IN THE MIRROR NAKED. You will not recognize your body! It takes some women a year to get back to pre baby body. Well, I‘m still waiting and Boo is 8!!
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Posted: 1/18/2010 6:12 PM |
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Apologize, apologize, apologize...and remind yourself - and everyone else - "This, too, will pass."
Try writing things down VENT on paper. Every complaint, every irritant, every bit of rage It is much safer than talking You can get it out without taking it out on anyone else.
Are you getting plenty of rest? Eating right? Explain to your partner that you love him to death, and "ask" him for what you need and want. And when he does it, thank him profusely and compliment him and tell him how wonderful he is and how lucky you are to have him.
The way I kept from yelling at my kids - for years - was to tell them I was in a really bad mood, and that I was irritable, and that it had nothing to do with them. They had "forewarning" that this was NOT "the time" to be engaging in certain behaviors or I was in serious danger of blowing up. That kept them from taking it personally, and by taking care of myself that way, I managed not to explode.
Lots of changes going on in your body! Be good to yourself !
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Posted: 1/18/2010 8:46 PM |
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Oh, and Bubble, this will pass like Rhi said. Then you will be blessed with the most, incredible and amazing thing you could ever imagine. Love has no bounds like that of a Grizzly Bear Mama! You will be amazed at how long you can look into someones eyes with amazement. I am soo excited for you. Just think.....you may really need to grow eyes in the back of your head if there are two! That reminds me.....Boo one time had to check the back of my head, even moved my hair around looking for those eyes. He just couldn‘t believe I knew what he was up to!
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Posted: 1/18/2010 10:19 PM |
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| Rhiannon wrote: | Apologize, apologize, apologize...and remind yourself - and everyone else - "This, too, will pass."
Try writing things down VENT on paper. Every complaint, every irritant, every bit of rage It is much safer than talking You can get it out without taking it out on anyone else.
Are you getting plenty of rest? Eating right? Explain to your partner that you love him to death, and "ask" him for what you need and want. And when he does it, thank him profusely and compliment him and tell him how wonderful he is and how lucky you are to have him.
The way I kept from yelling at my kids - for years - was to tell them I was in a really bad mood, and that I was irritable, and that it had nothing to do with them. They had "forewarning" that this was NOT "the time" to be engaging in certain behaviors or I was in serious danger of blowing up. That kept them from taking it personally, and by taking care of myself that way, I managed not to explode.
Lots of changes going on in your body! Be good to yourself ! |
i thought u left this place! you still have the same avi and everything. I KNOW YOU FROM WAY BACK!
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Posted: 1/19/2010 7:32 AM |
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Apologize, apologize, apologize...and remind yourself - and everyone else - "This, too, will pass."
Try writing things down VENT on paper. Every complaint, every irritant, every bit of rage It is much safer than talking You can get it out without taking it out on anyone else.
Are you getting plenty of rest? Eating right? Explain to your partner that you love him to death, and "ask" him for what you need and want. And when he does it, thank him profusely and compliment him and tell him how wonderful he is and how lucky you are to have him.
The way I kept from yelling at my kids - for years - was to tell them I was in a really bad mood, and that I was irritable, and that it had nothing to do with them. They had "forewarning" that this was NOT "the time" to be engaging in certain behaviors or I was in serious danger of blowing up. That kept them from taking it personally, and by taking care of myself that way, I managed not to explode.
Lots of changes going on in your body! Be good to yourself ! |
i thought u left this place! you still have the same avi and everything. I KNOW YOU FROM WAY BACK! |
nice to see you as well.
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Posted: 1/19/2010 7:33 AM |
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Hello Goodbye! (Sounds like the Beatles tune here!)
I remember you too! Welcome back!
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Posted: 1/19/2010 7:35 AM |
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bubble, bubble, you‘re going about this all wrong. why are you stressing? you‘re queen of the world for the next year. sit back and let your servants tend you. just smile, touch your tummy and sigh...you‘ll be getting your own way in no time.
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Posted: 1/19/2010 7:43 AM |
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| Busty Spumonte wrote: | Oh just wait, your journey is just beginning!
Pregnancy is about the most un-natural thing I‘ve experienced! I had my appendix out at three months pregnant. Then got Hellpp syndrome in the end and bloated up like a balloon. My gums bleed, my ankles swole up, my hair darkened, my blood pressure sky rocketed, I was peeing orange.......the list could go on.
Although I hear some women have no problems at all and it‘s pure bliss!
AND just wait.......after the baby arrives, DO NOT LOOK IN THE MIRROR NAKED. You will not recognize your body! It takes some women a year to get back to pre baby body. Well, I‘m still waiting and Boo is 8!! |
i think any woman that tells anyone that she had it easy during pregnancy and delivery should be shot.
all these fing starlets running around 9 months pregnant, looking like i did at 4 months!! then they go and get their figures back in less then three months!@!
they ruined it for all of us. a woman‘s body used to be thought of as mysterious and powerful thing. not any more. all the secrets are out. and modern woman have only themselves to blame.
the first thing we did wrong was having the fathers present during labor. and wearing belly shirts as maternity clothes.
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Posted: 1/19/2010 7:14 PM |
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| malarkey marie wrote: |
the first thing we did wrong was having the fathers present during labor. and wearing belly shirts as maternity clothes.
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Belly shirt, pffft, H gained more weight than I did!! He was eating for three! hahahaha
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Posted: 1/20/2010 4:47 AM |
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Hi girls, thanks for the understanding...I seem to have calmed down for now!!
Has anyone noticed though that once something says "maternity" it all‘a sudden gets twice as expensive?
My friend recommended I get a soft maternity bra for my poor sore boobies...so that they could stay in place at night when I move around, so I went in to marks and spencers (famous UK/Ireland department store) to buy one...a two pack (and they only come in two‘s) cost 35 euro!!!! thats about $47 I think.....for two simple cotton bra‘s?????
When the bump starts growing I‘m just buying normal clothes in bigger sizes, I‘m not going to buy maternity clothes as they seem so expensive, and smocks and empire line tops seem to be in right now! Lucky me!
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Posted: 1/20/2010 5:39 AM |
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| Rhiannon wrote: | Hello Goodbye! (Sounds like the Beatles tune here!)
I remember you too! Welcome back! |
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Posted: 1/21/2010 7:27 AM |
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Bubbles, get yourself a good sports bra to sleep in.
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Posted: 1/21/2010 12:42 PM |
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| Busty Spumonte wrote: | | Bubbles, get yourself a good sports bra to sleep in. |
Got one, have to say its done the trick, those mamas are wrapped up so tight at night now with nowhere to go! Poor OH can‘t get a free feel so easy now haha!!!
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Posted: 1/22/2010 6:51 AM |
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| Bubbles, get yourself a good sports bra to sleep in. |
Got one, have to say its done the trick, those mamas are wrapped up so tight at night now with nowhere to go! Poor OH can‘t get a free feel so easy now haha!!! |
 Have no fear, once the "mood killer" gets here he won‘t want a free feel for long!
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Posted: 1/22/2010 3:28 PM |
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| bubblecropper wrote: | | Busty Spumonte wrote: | | Bubbles, get yourself a good sports bra to sleep in. |
Got one, have to say its done the trick, those mamas are wrapped up so tight at night now with nowhere to go! Poor OH can‘t get a free feel so easy now haha!!! |
Have no fear, once the "mood killer" gets here he won‘t want a free feel for long!
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I tell you what Busty, at this moment in time, if Ryan Gosling knocked at my door naked, I would say "Not today Ryan" and shut the door in his face. Thats how un-sexy I feel...morning sickness (morning???) has kicked in now and all I want to do is sleep. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
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Posted: 1/23/2010 8:05 AM |
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| bubblecropper wrote: |
I tell you what Busty, at this moment in time, if Ryan Gosling knocked at my door naked, I would say "Not today Ryan" and shut the door in his face. Thats how un-sexy I feel...morning sickness (morning???) has kicked in now and all I want to do is sleep. zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz |
I bet you look radiant though! There is a glow to a pregnant woman in the first trimester. Just wait till you are near the end, you don‘t know tired yet! I remember Boo liked to settle right on my bladder. I had the pressure to pee constrantly. Then the little booger started doing areobics!! Very cool to see your tummy extend out from a stretched arm or leg!!!
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Posted: 1/23/2010 9:58 AM |
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| Busty Spumonte wrote: | Oh just wait, your journey is just beginning!
Pregnancy is about the most un-natural thing I‘ve experienced! I had my appendix out at three months pregnant. Then got Hellpp syndrome in the end and bloated up like a balloon. My gums bleed, my ankles swole up, my hair darkened, my blood pressure sky rocketed, I was peeing orange.......the list could go on.
Although I hear some women have no problems at all and it‘s pure bliss!
AND just wait.......after the baby arrives, DO NOT LOOK IN THE MIRROR NAKED. You will not recognize your body! It takes some women a year to get back to pre baby body. Well, I‘m still waiting and Boo is 8!! |
OH My Busty!! That sounds horrid.
Agree with the don‘t look in the mirror thing Mine little boy is 5 ha ha!
I agree if you are that emotional then talk to the dr. But it should get better for you.
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