WomanSavers.com Forum / WOMEN'S ONLY FORUM / My husband‘s friend

OK, case scenerio, your husband tells you that a woman caught him off guard and his dick accidentally fell into her mouth.  He was frozen like a little lamb and couldn‘t help himself but let her pleasure him.   I am thinking you wouldn‘t buy that for a second.

I absolutely think you should tell your husband about what happened.  He deserves to know.  He deserves to be able to make a choice of whether or not to stay married to someone who soo easily cheats and whether or not he wants to keep a friend that is not trustworthy.  Tell him.

You still haven‘t said what happened.  If he just made you touch him once, that‘s one thing. If he had you jack him off, that‘s another.

And if this was in your own house, why didn‘t you pull away & tell him to get out? Why didn‘t you call your husband & tell him what his "friend" tried to do? Is there any chance your husband put him up to it?

We CAN be supportive here, and we usually are, but this just sounds a little too sketchy. What exactly happened?

I dunno girls, might be bogus?

Shy, I don’t buy your story.  Yes, Uber, I think bogus for these reasons.  Most people put lotion on after they get out of the shower, not once they are dressed.  Let’s say you are not the norm and put lotion on while watching TV in the family room.  He walks into the family room, which is normal for a guest to do, and you do not notice him nor that fact that he grabbed your arm?  Must have been some good TV show.

You are 34 years old.  You should know how to say “no” at this point.  My guess is you did not want to say no because he is “very good looking.”

How is your marriage working for you?  That is an honest question.

shally, i love johnny Depp look a likes, can i come and do the dance at your pole free? may be he will come out again

is he single, i am

peace

summer

shally....i am already on my way!

Shally, you so lie.  You know Johnny was with me!  I am the pole dancing queen and he gives me a $20.

What a warm welcome you all have given me as a new member.

Such hostility and bitterness, I am either a liar, or it is all my fault.

Perhaps maybe it is just you all cannot relate to some one that is attractive and gets attention from men.

But from someone that is attractive (me), it happens all the time.

I am sorry none of you know what that experience is like.

I consider myself to be a striking beauty for an old gal.  I do get attention from men quite regularly.  I can not go to a store without being approached by some horny old devil.  Not to mention if go I out with the girls without my H.  Free drinks!!   However that doesn‘t mean I am going fall into some awkward situation or do something to jeopardize my marriage and family. 

As Shell would say........"Geez!"

I don‘t think it is "hostility or bitterness"  I think it‘s more like..........OMG, has this woman heard of self control??

You are right Shywife.  I cannot relate to someone who gets hit on all the time.  I am pretty hot myself, but men do not hit on me.

If I were married and one of my husband’s friend hit on me, he would be on the ground after I slugged him.   If you like all that attention and your husband is not giving it to you, perhaps you should divorce so you have the freedom to get all the attention you want with no guilt.

I did ask you a legitimate question.  How is your marriage working out for you?

Liar!  You know you are damn fine and you‘re beating the men off with a stick!!

Hell, I‘d do ya!!

But only if I can bounce quarters off your buttox!!

OMG,

First you say you were "frozen like a little lamb"..oh my I just didn‘t know how to stop giving him a hand job to this:

Perhaps maybe it is just you all cannot relate to some one that is attractive and gets attention from men.

But from someone that is attractive (me), it happens all the time.

I am sorry none of you know what that experience is like.  

  You‘re first mistake is thinking that you are really all that hot.  Remember he didn‘t want to **** you.  He only wanted a hand job.  LOL  And then he wouldn‘t even talk to you afterwards.  Your second mistake is that again you think you are hot and so he must too...no he thinks you are a stupid cheating bitch.  And he is right.

Now that I have your attention... Go to college, read a book, get a job.  BECOME  a person.  It‘s either that or one day you will be the old lady hoping to give hand jobs or taken your teeth out for money.

There are plenty of women out there who wouldn‘t cheat and have integrity.  Something you don‘t.

Why don‘t you fess up to the hubby and step aside and let a real woman love him?  He deserves it.

i am so very sorry that you don‘t feel like you are getting a warm welcome.

at this site we take a very dim view of cheaters, men and women. then you cheated with a good friend of the family. coming here and telling us this doesn‘t get any sympathy or understanding.

you asked what you should do now. i believe you should just live with what you have done because you will only hurt your husband by telling him. the truth about what you have done should stay in you forever and focus on loving your husband and not doing anything like this ever again.

getting male attention is a part of everyday life. let your husbands attention be the only one that matters.