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| supermom21664 |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 7:38 AM |
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Subject: what now? |
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| calepley@cfl.rr.com wrote: | separated from husband of over twenty years, just got back together, caught him giving woman orgasm over phone,
worked through that, have agreement for him to have no phone contact with her, now i find her number all over cell phone bill.
he claims not romantically interested, but just friends. just know that if i confront him on this, he will either turn around somehow, or have some sort of logical reason for why. not so easy to just go, love him so very much, nothing he does touches it.
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He is not going to change. He has all ready broke an agreement with you. You have to decide, do you love him so much that you can overlook his indescritions?? I say that plural because they will only continue.
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| CaliforniaGirl |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 9:47 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Supermom is right. He is not going to change. Ask yourself, would your life be better with him or without him?
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| kaylar |
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Posted: 8/29/2009 8:24 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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As you love him so much, just accept the fact he will be
having sex with lots and lots of women. Just live around
it. Get hobbies. Stop reading his email, his phone records,
it will only make you unhappy.
As other women who will take whatever drips are left over
when a man is finished with his whores, you have to grin
and bear it.
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| Kitty Kitty |
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Posted: 8/30/2009 7:01 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Yeah, I agree.
Do you really love him enough to look the other way? That‘s what you will have to keep doing to keep your santity...I couldn‘t do it...no matter how much I loved him...Sounds like he‘s not respecting your wishes at all...do you really need someone like that in your life?
Are you able to have have a boyfriend on the side? Will he tolerate that as he expects you to tolerate his??
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| Sunny fl |
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Posted: 9/3/2009 2:29 PM |
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| calepley@cfl.rr.com wrote: | separated from husband of over twenty years, just got back together, caught him giving woman orgasm over phone,
worked through that, have agreement for him to have no phone contact with her, now i find her number all over cell phone bill.
he claims not romantically interested, but just friends. just know that if i confront him on this, he will either turn around somehow, or have some sort of logical reason for why. not so easy to just go, love him so very much, nothing he does touches it.
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No contact is NO contact
there is no logical reason why he would need to talk to her.
He needs to make you number 1 or he needs to divorce you.
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| bubblecropper |
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Posted: 9/3/2009 5:51 PM |
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| calepley@cfl.rr.com wrote: | separated from husband of over twenty years, just got back together, caught him giving woman orgasm over phone,
worked through that, have agreement for him to have no phone contact with her, now i find her number all over cell phone bill.
he claims not romantically interested, but just friends. just know that if i confront him on this, he will either turn around somehow, or have some sort of logical reason for why. not so easy to just go, love him so very much, nothing he does touches it.
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Whats so fabulous about this guy thats making you stay to be treated like dirt? Or is it that you don‘t believe you are good enough to be treated well?
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| overandout |
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Posted: 9/4/2009 9:33 PM |
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| sunny fl wrote: |
| calepley@cfl.rr.com wrote: | separated from husband of over twenty years, just got back together, caught him giving woman orgasm over phone,
worked through that, have agreement for him to have no phone contact with her, now i find her number all over cell phone bill.
he claims not romantically interested, but just friends. just know that if i confront him on this, he will either turn around somehow, or have some sort of logical reason for why. not so easy to just go, love him so very much, nothing he does touches it.
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No contact is NO contact there is no logical reason why he would need to talk to her. He needs to make you number 1 or he needs to divorce you.
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it seems he is not going to make you #1. he continues messing around. trying to have it both ways. he will not change. the only person capable of change is you at this point. so, you wanna change?
staying this way means staying with a man who doesn‘t respect you, who doesn‘t love you the way you need, who expects to continue having affairs.
might be time for a change.
I‘m so sorry.
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| Measle |
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Posted: 9/5/2009 4:34 AM |
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Hell, you‘ve got her phone number, why don‘t YOU call her up and ask her if you could "help" relieve some of that built up tension?
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| malarkey marie |
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Posted: 9/7/2009 8:31 AM |
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| Measle wrote: | Hell, you‘ve got her phone number, why don‘t YOU call her up and ask her if you could "help" relieve some of that built up tension?
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like cracking her walnut? 
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| aprillove20 |
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Posted: 9/7/2009 8:14 PM |
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Everyone deserve chances.. thats what they say. But you need to put yourself into two situations, try to imagine what if he will never change? Can you handle that?
If you‘ll answer no, then move on.
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| Measle |
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Posted: 9/8/2009 4:48 PM |
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| malarkey marie wrote: |
| Measle wrote: | Hell, you‘ve got her phone number, why don‘t YOU call her up and ask her if you could "help" relieve some of that built up tension?
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like cracking her walnut?
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Like giving her some phone luvin‘...
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| overandout |
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Posted: 12/10/2009 7:44 PM |
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| supermom21664 wrote: |
| calepley@cfl.rr.com wrote: | separated from husband of over twenty years, just got back together, caught him giving woman orgasm over phone,
worked through that, have agreement for him to have no phone contact with her, now i find her number all over cell phone bill.
he claims not romantically interested, but just friends. just know that if i confront him on this, he will either turn around somehow, or have some sort of logical reason for why. not so easy to just go, love him so very much, nothing he does touches it.
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He is not going to change. He has all ready broke an agreement with you. You have to decide, do you love him so much that you can overlook his indescritions?? I say that plural because they will only continue.
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2nd time I‘ve read this.
have to say, I could enjoy getting an orgasm over the phone. no muss, no fuss, get back to my soap. sorry. couldn‘t resist
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