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leaving morals out of it we can take it up as a job. a demeaning soul- killing one that pays handsomly.

that said. as you grow older you will realize:  people that want to do things you don‘t approve of don‘t give a **** for your opinion. they do what they want. plus they start hiding things from you.

to me it says that a man is lonely and honestly wants to see a women naked. most are willing to pay for this because their are no strings attached and they ain‘t looking for romance.

most, if they ain‘t to drunk after, bring it home to mama. zero to 60 can be fun.

if it got to be a regular thing, like more then once every five years i would be complaining about the expense and demanding equal spending money.

leaving morals out of it we can take it up as a job. a demeaning soul- killing one that pays handsomly.

that said. as you grow older you will realize:  people that want to do things you don�t approve of don�t give a **** for your opinion. they do what they want. plus they start hiding things from you.

to me it says that a man is lonely and honestly wants to see a women naked. most are willing to pay for this because their are no strings attached and they ain�t looking for romance.

most, if they ain�t to drunk after, bring it home to mama. zero to 60 can be fun.

if it got to be a regular thing, like more then once every five years i would be complaining about the expense and demanding equal spending money.

Personally, I would have a big problem if my husband went to a strip club.  I have taken him to one, and he hated it (trust me, he honestly hated it, and in fact, he even told me when his friend told him they should sneak out and make sure and not take me....he told me what his friend said and told his friend hell no.  For him to come to me and tell me, it meant a lot to me.  He won‘t touch dollar bills in those places, receiving change from buying a beer....he just keeps it lying there.  He saw where those dollars have been.)

Since I have seen what goes on in those places, at least the ones I have went to, even taking into account my husband finds the women gross, I would not be accepting if he all of a sudden decided he should go.  I know how gang mentality works with men, and no matter how "gross" he thinks the women are, he may feel peer pressure from his dumbass friends.  Who knows.  But I don‘t want to go through that.  I went through it with my exhusband.  I won‘t deal with it again with any man.

Okay, so yeah, it would be a deal breaker.  Any sexual contact with a female other than me would be a deal breaker (and yet, I still am with him despite the fact that he did a deal breaker already - cyber sex on the net.....I‘m still dealing with that issue and how we are going to get through that.  He thinks saying "sorry, won‘t happen again" is good enough.  It‘s not.  Cuz it‘s empty promises.  Yeah, I‘m a mess lately.  haha)

my ex worked for a company that took the boys to ‘gentlemens clubs‘ for luncheons. can you believe that!!

strip clubs are not what they seem in the movies. some of the guys from work frequent them every weekend and payday, they boast about how much money they spend there on these girls. they pay for extras such as showering naked with her while she dances and writhes allover his naked body.  If i ever met a man that told me he goes to strip clubs once in a while instant DEAL BREAKER. men that crave friendship with these poor women are desperate and pathetic.

Going to a strip club for a bucks night or best friends function once in a blue moon is another story, its a trust issue between you and your man - not a deal breaker. However, a man that frequents this kind of place, is not marriage material in my opinion.

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why spend the money? just ask my wife, she keeps one handy at all times.

remember a true friend will help you hide the body.