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why I don‘t believe he‘s changed.....  The divorce has been final for over 10 months, yet he‘s still trying to convince me and his family that he‘s "changed", he‘s "responsible, he‘s "grown up".  He can‘t understand why we won‘t believe him, (or give him money, or pay his bills, etc., etc.)...LMAO...Anyway, found out this weekend that his latest girlfriend is pregnant and he‘s refusing to return her calls or speak to her.  In his mind he‘s not responsible cause he TOLD her he didn‘t want anymore kids.  SO WEAR A CONDEM OR GET SNIPPED JACKASS, telling her isn‘t going to prevent a pregnancy.    What a marooooon!!! (as bugs would say.)

Poor girl, I feel sorry for her, yet in a way I think someday she might be glad he‘s not a part of their lives.  I‘m still waiting to find out if I have to tell my kids that their Daddy is going to prison.  If it weren‘t for them, I think I‘d be saying....good riddance to bad garbage.  As it is I have to play nice even when he doesn‘t..   JERK...anyway, just a vent.  Had to get that off my chest!!!

hey lady  where you been???

He will never change!!!!!

Yeah, I‘ve accepted that and moved on to a MUCH better life.  I just hate having to deal with all his leftover crap and hearing about how he‘s screwing more innocent lives up.  I need a pooper scooper!! hehehe

Things have been crazy around here lately.  Vacations, camp, etc...  I‘m trying to get re-organized and used to the "school" routines around here.  Hopefully will be back on more now.  I missed all you guys!!!  I‘m off to pick up the little one...We‘re meeting my daughter and her best friends family for pizza tonight.   Godfathers, yummmmmm!!!  If all goes well, I‘ll sneak back on after everybody goes to bed tonight and try to catch up on my reading!! hahaha

Tiredmomma wrote:

You know what Supermom? Look at it this way.. yes you still have to hear about stupid things he does, yes, he is the father of your children and will in that sense always be part of your family, but you are RID of him in your daily routines.  He‘s not your responsibility, never was. You did good dumping his sorry butt. And I hear you about getting into the school routine - the biggest thing around here is the homework... GAH TM

Hi, Super

TM is right!

Everytime you hear about him, close your eyes, exhale and repeat to yourself:  "This has nothing to do with me"

If that meditation doesnt work, imagine yourself taking off in a jet plane into the clear blue sky, leaving your ex as nothing but a dissapearing dot in your slip stream.

Hugs,

Yasmina

shally wrote:

Well I‘m so glad that you did. Rant away! What have you decided about country living? Last we talked you couldn‘t make up your mind. Does he have a court date set?

Hi Shally!!!  How‘s you??   I think I‘ve decided to stick it out, at least for another year, we‘ll see how the finances are doing next spring, but I think we‘ll be staying.   I‘d like to find a place out here without so much land to maintain, but that‘s probably not likely.   Maybe I‘ll fence off part of it and get me a dairy cow.  It can do part of the mowing for me and supply the milk. lol  As far as the trial goes, i‘m not holding my breath.  They‘ve postponed several times, but the judge got ticked off with all the stalling and said it was gonna happen in July, come hell or high water, then the court had to postpone it cause they‘ve got too many jury trials on the books.  It is set now for the end of October, but I think I‘ll believe it when I see it.

and bless you 2mom

I‘m glad you divorced him and are having peaceful days. Enjoy them all

T

2mom72 wrote:

OMG...the dumbass (that‘s his new nickname) just sent me a pic of his hand....wearing his wedding band.....get over yourself buddy!!!  What a putz

What an idiot!  Send him back a picture of your hand, sans wedding ring, in the FUCK YOU gesture!

UB

Godfathers????   Wayyy Yummm!!  They went out of business here years ago.  I am jealous!

Best thing I can tell you is to distance yourself as much as possible from him and live your life to the fullest!