WomanSavers.com Forum / WOMEN'S HEALTH AND SEX ISSUES / My man won‘t give me sex!

Graveworm wrote:

Blah woman, it may be your hometurf here but the lack of covering up your hypocrisy suprises me. A man is always a sex addict right? But when he does not want sex he cheats? Come on now. If a man does not want sex for NO reason, that means he is not cheating. If he was cheating he still boink you. If he is a basterd enough to cheat he is basterd enough to have sex with you while has an affair. That aside its proberly something personal, or boredom. Yes even men get tired of sex. Most of you will have married or are in a relationship with nice white males, most of them not having the luxery of a rich sex past. Thats where porn comes in, all the woman he wants all the time. Its addictive yes, but the reason he spends so much on it is because he is still exploring. He proberly has a "taste" now and that "sort" of woman he likes may be hard to find. Big chance though, that you are a big part of that sort of woman or the sex would had been absent from the start. My point is this, he is proberly not secure enough to tell you what the problem is right now, it MIGHT be you, big change that its not. Dont trow him away yet by saying he cheats, give him a change. And if all else fails, just put 200 of those puzzel games you woman like on his pc, his pc will be to slow to watch porn then

dont know how I missed this before ,but men who cheat dont all like to have sex as much with there wifes when they are getting it from some whore .

Like someone eles said if things dont cvhange and he still is not into having sex with you and you are not getting what you want out get out of this mess and please dont marry him thinking that will change him because it wont .

easer to get out of this when he is a bf and not a h.

and men dont like it when woman dont want to give them sex ,but ok for them to do the same thing.if woman didn‘t give a man sex like these men are doing to us woman then they would go get it eles where.but we dont do that to them .we sit and cry about it and think that we dont look good enough for them and that they are getting it from someone eles.

sweetfairy wrote:

You know my Husband is about the same way with me, i am lucky to get it once a Month. I have asked him whats wrong with me, and ame as yours , he replys nothing.I have walked around naked and tried to do different things , but honestly i have never met a man like him that would not chase me for it.I know i am not the most sexiest woman there is , but i still have needs too and feelings. His problem was cybering on the pc, i  have caught him cybering with other woman and then didn‘t want to touch me. How wrong is that!!Well i have come to the conclusion and i ahve told him this that if i don‘t get it form him i will get it else where, i am only 36 years old , so i am still young enough to party.          Sweetfairy

Hello

I have the same problem with my husband not ever wanting sex!  If I were you guys, I would just start meeting new guy friends and get something going with that! lol  Eventually if theres never any sex in the marriage relationship its going to fade out and everyone is going to part their ways...