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| ashleyb |
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Posted: 1/13/2010 9:55 AM |
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Subject: husband has sex probs |
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WomanSaver Lurker
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Age: 43
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my husband avoids sex at all costs always says he is ill/tired/not i mood etc always an excuse
the rare times we do do it he refuses to touch me intimately says the thought makes him want to vomit
he is getting much worse and is so controlling. everything is on his terms and wont listen ,leaving me in tears. it is aways same postion too saying he has bad knees he wnt try anything adveturous and says porn and toys is disgusting.most of the time he just goes to sleep shouts at me if i ask? is it normal for a man to say oral/foreplay is degrading/disgusting? he doesnt even like kissing after a few seconds he says i cant breathe/that l do/stop
i always make the first move. he says he can live without sex. i cant andhe knows it
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Posted: 1/13/2010 8:21 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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What exactly inspired you to marry this guy in the first place?
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| ashleyb |
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Posted: 1/14/2010 2:28 AM |
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WomanSaver Lurker
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he was differnt in the begining we lived in different towns, and ionly saw him at weekends, i put his reluctance down to shyness or tiredness.
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