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Posted: 11/19/2009 4:21 PM |
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Subject: i don‘t know what I‘m doing wrong? |
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New WomanSaver
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Age: 35
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Opelousas
Louisiana
United States
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I began dating W one year ago. In this time, he has never ejaculated. We go for what seems like forever. Well, 4 months ago, I came home and found a hefty reciept showing 200 dollars of porn and a pocket vagina. I found out his little dark secret. He attempted to quit and this has led to lies and frustration. Recently, I left a tape recorder in his computer room in the house we share. In the midst of this I heard him begin to masturbate and finished within 35 seconds. He then went back to his game on the computer. I am floored. I know I have a tight vagina. I do not deprive him of sex or treat him badly. He says he has been doing this for 20 years. What are the risks associated with this behavior? It is highly unlikely he sleeps around but this is just as damaging. I am on the pill, and we have tried to be open about this, but I do not want to bring this up all the time. I am trying to be supportive. What part of the brain does this? Is there anything that can help? How likely will this resolve? And no, W will not go to therapy because of his high powered job. I have explained Hippa but he is afraid of being labeled. Please shed some light on this. I am more easily convinced with science than opinions and I can‘t find clear evidence of what has happened to his sensations. How can we have sex for an hour and nothing and then this toy makes him ejaculate in under a minute? Thanks.
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