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Kitty_scratched
  Posted: 9/13/2008 6:10 PM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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 This is really odd and I dont what to do about it. Everytime we have sex he cries a bit afterwards.  It makes me feel uncomfortable and self conscious but he says its not me.
 Anyone else have this happen? I don‘t think I can stay with him if this keeps going.
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  Posted: 4/25/2009 7:01 PM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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I wouldnt want to put anything negative in your head, but maybe he has been cheating and sleeping with other woman so when he has sex with you he might feel guilt afterwards and cant explain it because he is afraid of your reaction

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  Posted: 6/11/2009 2:50 PM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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I don‘t think it means he‘s cheating neccessarily but it is a possibility. It may also be that he is dealing with feelings towards you he may not be able to handle right now.

I would give it time, and if it continues let him know it bothers and maybe open up the door for him to tell you more about what goes through his head while he‘s so emotional..



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  Posted: 1/4/2010 12:55 AM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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Kitty_scratched wrote:
 This is really odd and I dont what to do about it. Everytime we have sex he cries a bit afterwards.  It makes me feel uncomfortable and self conscious but he says its not me.
 Anyone else have this happen? I don‘t think I can stay with him if this keeps going.
 Thanks


I wouldn‘t necessarily assume it has to do with cheating (although it certainly could).  Maybe it has to do with sexual abuse or something similar that he has endured some time in the past.  The best way to find out is just to be honest with him and ask him.  Better to have a few moments of awkward frank discussion that not to know.


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  Posted: 1/7/2010 12:51 AM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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After really good sex, my S/O will start to cry sometimes but she says it is simply because of the intensity of the orgasmic experience.  There‘s nothing really wrong; she‘s just getting a little emotional due to the orgasmic endocrine rollercoaster she was just on. 

After that, she likes to cuddle, more so than usual. :)

Is it possible that maybe this has something to do with what your guy is going through?

As a bodyworker, I‘ve experienced first-hand what is called "emotional release".  Clients will start having emotional upsets simply because they are going through a healing process in the midst of a healing environment.  That‘s another possible explanation.



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  Posted: 2/18/2010 10:11 PM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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hmmm... I think the molestation theory sounds pretty close, just my opinion.

Some people cry when they are extremely happy. Some cry while they are swinging their fists in a barroom brawl. I think it might also be possible that its something to that effect. Hormonal. Wire probably has it right.

Talk to him about it. Make sure he understands this is something that you need to understand because it is affecting the relationship. It‘s also possible he doesn‘t understand it himself, it might even scare him a little. Be patient. Love is patient, remember that.


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  Posted: 4/14/2010 5:19 PM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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Kitty_scratched wrote:
 This is really odd and I dont what to do about it. Everytime we have sex he cries a bit afterwards.  It makes me feel uncomfortable and self conscious but he says its not me.
 Anyone else have this happen? I don‘t think I can stay with him if this keeps going.
 Thanks


What is he crying about?

Is it posible he feels guilty?

 

 



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  Posted: 4/17/2010 12:32 PM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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I‘d hand him some Kleenex to wipe his nose and tears.  In the meantime I‘d go and get myself something to drink, eat and allow him his alone time to get over his sniffles.  Some people are just super soft and emotional.  Of course it could be what the others here have stated too...

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  Posted: 4/20/2010 3:19 PM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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I‘ve cried during, and after sex.  It only happened with the love of my life, and it was because the sex was so intimate and because I was truly making love to the man.  I was overwhelmed by the intensity of the experience.

I would equate it with the same sort of tears that women cry at weddings, or at the birth of a new baby.  And if a man cried in the same way, I wouldn‘t think less of him.  I would feel honored that it meant so much to him.



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  Posted: 1/18/2012 11:38 PM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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What does he say it‘s because of?I‘d want to know from his mouth exactly what‘s going on before I made any changes.

 



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  Posted: 1/9/2013 9:56 AM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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Crying is about emotional release. For instance, ever seen a woman being proposed to? She is usually emotional to the point of tears. Its overwhelming happiness.  In your bf‘s case, maybe its the love and acceptance he never had and thought he‘d never get, and now has in your lovemaking. This likely to be his feeling if he is a great bf to you. If he isnt a good bf, his crying might have problematic or ominous origins. Hopefully, he is just one happy,lucky dude.

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