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Kitty_scratched
  Posted: 9/13/2008 6:10 PM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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 This is really odd and I dont what to do about it. Everytime we have sex he cries a bit afterwards.  It makes me feel uncomfortable and self conscious but he says its not me.
 Anyone else have this happen? I don‘t think I can stay with him if this keeps going.
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  Posted: 4/25/2009 7:01 PM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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I wouldnt want to put anything negative in your head, but maybe he has been cheating and sleeping with other woman so when he has sex with you he might feel guilt afterwards and cant explain it because he is afraid of your reaction

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  Posted: 6/11/2009 2:50 PM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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I don‘t think it means he‘s cheating neccessarily but it is a possibility. It may also be that he is dealing with feelings towards you he may not be able to handle right now.

I would give it time, and if it continues let him know it bothers and maybe open up the door for him to tell you more about what goes through his head while he‘s so emotional..



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  Posted: 1/4/2010 12:55 AM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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Kitty_scratched wrote:
 This is really odd and I dont what to do about it. Everytime we have sex he cries a bit afterwards.  It makes me feel uncomfortable and self conscious but he says its not me.
 Anyone else have this happen? I don‘t think I can stay with him if this keeps going.
 Thanks


I wouldn‘t necessarily assume it has to do with cheating (although it certainly could).  Maybe it has to do with sexual abuse or something similar that he has endured some time in the past.  The best way to find out is just to be honest with him and ask him.  Better to have a few moments of awkward frank discussion that not to know.


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  Posted: 1/7/2010 12:51 AM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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After really good sex, my S/O will start to cry sometimes but she says it is simply because of the intensity of the orgasmic experience.  There‘s nothing really wrong; she‘s just getting a little emotional due to the orgasmic endocrine rollercoaster she was just on. 

After that, she likes to cuddle, more so than usual. :)

Is it possible that maybe this has something to do with what your guy is going through?

As a bodyworker, I‘ve experienced first-hand what is called "emotional release".  Clients will start having emotional upsets simply because they are going through a healing process in the midst of a healing environment.  That‘s another possible explanation.



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  Posted: 2/18/2010 10:11 PM Subject: BF cries after sex 
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hmmm... I think the molestation theory sounds pretty close, just my opinion.

Some people cry when they are extremely happy. Some cry while they are swinging their fists in a barroom brawl. I think it might also be possible that its something to that effect. Hormonal. Wire probably has it right.

Talk to him about it. Make sure he understands this is something that you need to understand because it is affecting the relationship. It‘s also possible he doesn‘t understand it himself, it might even scare him a little. Be patient. Love is patient, remember that.


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