can anyone offer me some direction here. I really dont think there is a cure .... but rather I need to know what‘s going on or maybe to have some sort of label for this. I do know that ITS NOT ME. I am beautiful, sexy and a wonderful person to be around.
However, I have this issue where my bf can‘t maintain an erection when he is alone with me. Other than that, our relationship is fantastic.
We do have a sexual relationship on the kinky side.... and it seems the problem only exists when we are alone together - one on one sex. Yes, we go to swing parties, porn theathers..etc and never does he have this problem.
I will soon be going into therapy to discuss this. ... your thoughts? he wants a future with me and I can‘t see this issue magically turning itself around.
I am sorry you are going threw this,but please dont marry this man.go talk to someone.I would have never went to swingers in the first place that is just a way to cheat so one can get away with it because you are both doing it.
I would end the relationship and move on ,because I couldnt be with someone who could give me sex unless he was with another woman.