I was watching one of the talk shows last week and a woman asked about this to the doctor who was on there.The person said to stop peeing in the middle of going to the bathroom and hold it for a bit.
and another thing you could to tey help or change your sex life with your h ,is get some sex toys if you dont have any already.There are a lot of places on line you can look up and check out and buy things.
hope I was some help.