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I have a question that has puzzled me for several years regarding different types of orgasms. I have been told there are different types, and I have two distinct types of what I presume are orgasms, but they don‘t seem to fit into the descriptions I hear about.
Statistics that I read are that it takes a woman up to 20 minutes to orgasm, yet when I am using a vibrator I can have a clitoral orgasm within 3 minutes. The sensation is very strong pulsing of my clitoris and sensitivity and lasts only about 5-10 seconds. I can experience this without hardly even getting wet and I will use my vibrator several times a week because I enjoy the sensation.
The second sensation does take 20 mintues or more to happen, and does not involve any distinct sensations, just a sudden overflow of wetness usually from internal or g-spot stimulation. There is a light "wave" sensation through my body, but it‘s not a strong definite pulsing like with the clitoral stimulation and it is definitely more difficult to reach this point... I have to almost reach a point of total relaxation while having some fairly intense internal stimulation. If my boyfriend is just wanting a short sex session I very seldom reach this point.
My question is: Are both of these scenarios considered to be orgasms? My girlfriend differentiates between the two as one being an orgasm while the other is merely "cumming". Is there a difference in terminology and the definition of an orgasm?
I think your girlfriend‘s idea of "cumming" involves some sort of ejaculation. That orgasm was caused by g-spot stimulation, right?
To "cum" and to have an orgasm are only different in the sense that more juices are made when cumming. But both clitoral and g-spot climaxes are classified as orgasms.