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harleybaby
  Posted: 1/19/2007 7:29 PM Subject: I am not sexually satisfied by my husband what do I do?
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When my husband and I have sex there is NO foreplay. It is not me because I give him the foreplay he needs, wants and desires. But when it comes to me he is wayyyyy off base.  His idea of great foreplay is a little tickling on one contiuous place.  That does not get it for me.  Actually it gets rather annoying after a while and then all I want him to do is screw me and get it over with.  And if you ask why don‘t I tell him what I want.  I thought about that alot and a couple times I almost did then I found out he was screwing a whore.  Seems like he didn‘t float her boat either because she wrote comments on the bathroom walls at their workplace stating that he was lousy. hahahaha Anyway I want to tell him what I need but I am so afraid he will cheat again and use what I teach him on somebody else so why should I expand his knowledge and let somebody else reap the benefits of my tutorials? I guess I‘ll just stay with my Mr. Plastic that is always faithful, always ready and will lay beside me all night long if I want. hahaha

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  Posted: 2/5/2007 9:24 AM Subject: I am not sexually satisfied by my husband what do I do?
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ok first thing he has cheated on you,dosent satisfy you why are you with him??? you need to either kick him to the curb(which i suggest) or man up and tell him what you want him to do...but do it during sex....or what he calls foreplay....or if you dont want to do that get a woman who can eat it right...but you dont need to be with someone who is gonna cheat on you once a cheater always a cheater a leopard cant change his spots and a cheater cant quit cheating.

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  Posted: 2/5/2007 10:30 AM Subject: I am not sexually satisfied by my husband what do I do?
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why am i still with him? cause he owes me and until i feel that he has paid his debt i will stay.  i dont cheat regardless of gender.  i am not and never have been a cheater.  i know that a lepord doesnt change its spots, been there before. maybe i am just not meant to be with anybody or to be happy in my life being italian i have been brought up with what goes around comes around and vengence is a meal served best cold. i was raised to know it is all about timing and i am just waiting for karma to hit both of them. then i will feel satisfaction and move on.

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  Posted: 2/5/2007 3:24 PM Subject: I am not sexually satisfied by my husband what do I do?
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harleybaby wrote:
why am i still with him? cause he owes me and until i feel that he has paid his debt i will stay.  i dont cheat regardless of gender.  i am not and never have been a cheater.  i know that a lepord doesnt change its spots, been there before. maybe i am just not meant to be with anybody or to be happy in my life being italian i have been brought up with what goes around comes around and vengence is a meal served best cold. i was raised to know it is all about timing and i am just waiting for karma to hit both of them. then i will feel satisfaction and move on.


Harley, I think I would have problems too with being sexually satisfied if my husband had cheated on me.  My ex did things that I thought about at the time and felt he was (never definite proof though) and now I‘m even more certain.  But back then, I lost interest in him just knowing he "probably did."  "Probably" was enough to turn me off.  I couldn‘t get it back with him, even though he was the king of foreplay.  That could be part of the problem for you, perhaps?  Of course it sounds like he didn‘t do a lot BEFORE that either.  But I think that adding his cheating to the mix probably really turned you off, wouldn‘t you say?

I see you as a strong woman, Harley.  Maybe it‘s partly your screenname.  Harleys are strong bikes.  They are built well and strong.  They last.  They don‘t break down easily.  And they take no shit.  You seem like that too.  So whatever your choice is, whether staying for awhile or whatever, you will do it right.  What your husband did, he caused you to live with that the rest of your life.  He left a permanent scar there.  But he also left a scar on himself, and he will feel it like salt on a wound when you eventually move on to greener pastures.  If you do plan to eventually leave, then by all means, don‘t teach him any tricks of the trade.  Other women will not benefit from your instructions.  If he realizes that he needs to learn some things, let him read some books on it.  haha.

You hang in there, gal. 



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  Posted: 2/5/2007 7:25 PM Subject: I am not sexually satisfied by my husband what do I do?
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Exactly why I am not teaching him a damn thing and to tell the truth I have thought that since before we were married. I always deep in my heart thought I am going to accept what he does or does not do and not teach him anything to satisfy another female. And evidently it worked cause according to her writting on bathroom walls her dog eats better and believe me hard as it was I had to laugh at that one! I am strong and I will survive and even though our church friends have moved here with us and we are starting our quartet again when I am ready I will go off on my own.  I have my plan made and I will keep all  including my bike and he will not have one cause I sold the one he rode in November. He didn‘t deserve it! I am slow but surely selling stuff that I bought for him gifts etc. He doesn‘t deserve them. I will hang in there and believe me the entire world will know the day I have survived and moved on without him!

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  Posted: 2/5/2007 7:56 PM Subject: I am not sexually satisfied by my husband what do I do?
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harleybaby wrote:
Exactly why I am not teaching him a damn thing and to tell the truth I have thought that since before we were married. I always deep in my heart thought I am going to accept what he does or does not do and not teach him anything to satisfy another female. And evidently it worked cause according to her writting on bathroom walls her dog eats better and believe me hard as it was I had to laugh at that one! I am strong and I will survive and even though our church friends have moved here with us and we are starting our quartet again when I am ready I will go off on my own.  I have my plan made and I will keep all  including my bike and he will not have one cause I sold the one he rode in November. He didn‘t deserve it! I am slow but surely selling stuff that I bought for him gifts etc. He doesn‘t deserve them. I will hang in there and believe me the entire world will know the day I have survived and moved on without him!


Good girl!  Does he ever try to ride your Harley, or ask to?  Hope you say HELL NO! 

You are strong, and you‘re a survivor for sure. 



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  Posted: 2/8/2007 1:07 PM Subject: I am not sexually satisfied by my husband what do I do?
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I told him the night that all the crap broke loose to keep his ass off my bikes.  And it just so happens that I sold one last November and it was the one he rode so all we have left is the bike I ride. hehehehe

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  Posted: 2/18/2007 8:39 PM Subject: I am not sexually satisfied by my husband what do I do?
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You are right about them always only after one thing then run back to their faithful spouse and hope she doesn‘t hear about the affair. Men are pigs!

Tinkey
  Posted: 2/20/2007 6:31 PM Subject: I am not sexually satisfied by my husband what do I do?
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Persona Non Grata wrote:
If anyone is doubtful about the above, just remember, women are always complaining about how men are ‘lousy‘ in bed.  You never hear men talking about a woman in the same way, and no men do not do this even when alone with each other away from women.  Men are really only interested in sexual intercourse, everything preceding that is just prelimanery and to be rushed through as quickly as she will allow.  That is why women complain about men‘s lack of foreplay, men are not really interested, why linger over the soup, when you can rush to the steak, is what men think.

   For the above reasons, it does not really matter if a woman is good in bed, the only true satisfaction a woman can give a man is to let him put his ‘key in her keyhole‘.

Now remember I am telling you these male secrets, not to hurt or undermine women.  I believe that women have the right to know how men think and what their priorities are.
   The few men here will either ignore these posts or post the following "I am a nice guy, I don‘t think or behave like that", but just remember ladies, the men here and in the wider world would say that wouldn‘t they?  The man who calls himself "a nice guy" rarely is.




Well, I‘m not a man so I can‘t say what is truly in a man‘s mind, but you did say "You never hear men talking about a woman in the same way, and no men do not do this even when alone wiht each other away from women."  I have to say that I have heard men talk about it, either good or bad....I‘ve had lots of male friends.  They will go into detail if they are really comfortable about talking.  They will talk about what they find interesting and not so interesting.  And as much as I hate to talk about my ex here....he was one that wasn‘t happy unless I was "satisfied", even if he was "finished for the night."


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  Posted: 4/17/2007 12:18 PM Subject: I am not sexually satisfied by my husband what do I do?
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mzdredre1986 wrote:
ok first thing he has cheated on you,dosent satisfy you why are you with him??? you need to either kick him to the curb(which i suggest) or man up and tell him what you want him to do...but do it during sex....or what he calls foreplay....or if you dont want to do that get a woman who can eat it right...but you dont need to be with someone who is gonna cheat on you once a cheater always a cheater a leopard cant change his spots and a cheater cant quit cheating.


Are you suggesting she get a woman to eat it right as you put it? <shaking head>


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  Posted: 4/24/2007 7:24 PM Subject: I am not sexually satisfied by my husband what do I do?
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Thanks for all your ideas and suggestions I really appreciate it.  As far as the ol bastart getting on my bike ohh hell no! He had a bike I bought for him and he messed it up.  You‘re right I am strong and my doctor has told me on more than one occassion that if I were not this strong I would have collapsed by now! I will go on and I will survive and only time will tell but what really pisses me off is that we started a life only 3 years before he got caught and we now have a grandchild and another on the way.  Our family is growing and he has put me in the position to give up.  It‘s not fair and it‘s not right I should not have to make this decision. I gave him everything he wanted everything he never had before and yes even sex anytime and anywhere he wanted it. But it wasn‘t enough. Only time will tell and I am definately not teaching him any tricks.

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  Posted: 6/5/2007 8:10 AM Subject: I am not sexually satisfied by my husband what do I do?
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Good luck, I have told my husband in every, single way imaginable and he still does the same things over and over and over.  We have sex about hmmmm twice a week, maybe.  I havnt been satisfied in a month! No matter what I say, hell I have SHOWED him what to do....doesnt work.  I started wondering if he wasnt getting it from somewhere else too and just too tired to give me what I need. But I am starting to think he has just always been bad at it!!!  When he is finished, thats it, you can forget it..... It sucks! 

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  Posted: 6/14/2007 9:38 AM Subject: I am not sexually satisfied by my husband what do I do?
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chaos40 wrote:
Soooo, how bout dem Mets?


I am just rolling on the floor here! And I‘m in my shop working!  What if someone comes in ? Chaos you R crazy funny!

    Plus what happened to your other pic? I liked it better! Change it back! Please!

Peace to ya" hair El



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