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Posted: 1/10/2008 5:09 PM |
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Subject: For the first time ever, I was cheated on... |
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New WomanSaver
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Age: 26
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I thought I knew all there was to know about relationships, but it
seems your always thrown a curve ball when you get too satisfied or
anxious with how things are going. I was always very observant and thought she would never cheat on me like her ex did her, but I guess she had no self control and was too immature. I may not be the nicest guy or the
most romantic, but everyone I know or who has known me has told me I
am, so its confusing to me why I would have so much trouble finding the
love of my life and being the love of that person‘s life too, without
them getting bored with our relationship. Believe me, I have had plenty
of girls wanting to be with me, but many were too immature to know what
they really wanted or realize that they had everything they needed in
me. I know I know, sad little me, lol. I just want all those lucky couples out there to
know how lucky they are to have found their one true love and that that
person will always be there with them. Never take that for granted or
let boredom tempt you into wanting the single life again or cause you to cheat, because I am
here to tell you that the single life may be fun for a few years, but it
will never compare to true love and having that one true person in your
life that will always be there for you, who you can trust with your love. I know I will always find
someone else in life that can make me feel as special and loved as I
felt before, but sometimes when your ready to settle down and make a
future with someone, its hard to start over again if that doesnt work.
So
thats my little rant for now, but I did learn something about
relationships that has helped me understand how women can often cause
such rifts in a relationship that seems to be going well. It more of an
epipany i guess you can say, but i call it irony, lol. Basically, I
have found that men, in general, are happy in their relationships. And
yet women, the very people responsible for making guys so happy, spend
a great deal of time fretting over whether their men want to stay in
the relationship or are waiting to catch the next bus out of it.
Indeed, women spend so much time fretting that they often ask men to
talk more about ... gasp! ... their feelings. And the one thing that
can make a contented guy discontented is being asked to talk about his
feelings. This is not the problem I had mind you because I can express
my feelings if approached right, its just something I noticed in past
relationship and probably what has caused many women to think they
would rather be single than live happily ever after...
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