WomanSavers.com Forum / ABUSE HELP / Dirty, Nasty, Things and I am scarred

For more than a year I thought it was my

fault. I thought he must be in a bad mood.

Then I found erotic sensual phone number

on our celll. Now there are those hot

and heavy chat lines. 4 of them and he

swears to my face he did not put them there.

And knows nothing about it.

And, he is not taking care of his bills and

or his car and hes getting mean and nasty!

I just want the old husband he use to be before

a year ago. Do any one know or had this happen

to you. I want out but why am I so scarred?

I just want to suck it up and go to counseling.

Just some advice would be good right now.

Thanks

I know you are right. Why am I still with him

and counseling will help me.

I am going through the why me stage!

Why did he have to do that to me.

And I need to focus on me.

He use to be loving and kind!