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sillygurlinAK
  Posted: 7/26/2006 9:58 AM Subject: Why is my husband looking up shemale porn?
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I can‘t get a straight answer from my husband, is response is "I‘m not sure why I do it." He promised that he wouldn‘t look up porn anymore, then that night right to the computer and bam, shemale porn again. What gives?

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  Posted: 7/26/2006 12:02 PM Subject: Why is my husband looking up shemale porn?
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Since you aren‘t going to get a straight answer from him - have you thought about putting a block on porn sites on your computer?

Any of the men here have any insight?

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  Posted: 7/26/2006 12:15 PM Subject: Why is my husband looking up shemale porn?
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Well,

He is a man who has a kink.. thats all I see.

Its an unusual kink (or maybe not), but its just a kink.

 

Unless this porn looking is hurting your relationship, or hes missing work or staying up all hours to watch it .. then why does it matter?

 

If it gives him a kick, and its harmless I say leave him alone.

 

Sit down, tell him that you know he looks at it, that you understand that its just a kink he has and that as long as he remains faithful and loving and it does not effect your family or love life, then you will not bring it up again.

Or if you really cant deal with it.. lay down the law.. (he will sneak around) but lay it down if you like.

 

 

 

 

 

 



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  Posted: 7/26/2006 1:02 PM Subject: Why is my husband looking up shemale porn?
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sillygurlinAK wrote:
I can‘t get a straight answer from my husband, is response is "I‘m not sure why I do it." He promised that he wouldn‘t look up porn anymore, then that night right to the computer and bam, shemale porn again. What gives?


Because she-males = the best of both worlds.


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  Posted: 7/26/2006 1:51 PM Subject: Why is my husband looking up shemale porn?
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Patrick Bateman wrote:
Because she-males = the best of both worlds.


At last we find out what kind of woman Patrick Bateman goes for! I was wondering.



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  Posted: 7/26/2006 1:53 PM Subject: Why is my husband looking up shemale porn?
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Ok guys, but think of it from another point of view, would you?

Suppose your wife/girlfriend started looking at lots of lesbian porn. Every time you looked, for extended amounts of time, she was checking out other chicks. Wouldn‘t you think she wanted to try it? Maybe her obsession with lesbian porn indicated a bi-sexual tendency?

That would be my biggest concern if I found my husband looking at she-male porn.



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  Posted: 7/26/2006 2:48 PM Subject: Why is my husband looking up shemale porn?
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I agree with Tera completely.  I could not chalk it up to an innocent kink or a guy wanting the "best of both worlds."  This man‘s fantasies involve a penis.  I‘d be really worried if this were going on with my husband or boyfriend.

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  Posted: 7/27/2006 7:58 AM Subject: Why is my husband looking up shemale porn?
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Sassafras wrote:
I agree with Tera completely.  I could not chalk it up to an innocent kink or a guy wanting the "best of both worlds."  This man‘s fantasies involve a penis.  I‘d be really worried if this were going on with my husband or boyfriend.


Men do not feel or think like women do.

We dont associate sex and desire with love all the time, for us sex can be love, intamacy or just fun like playing a card game.

 

Just because he gets off on some shemale chick when your not around does not mean he is gay, wants to leave you for a shemale, wants to see one in real life, does not love you,  or does not enjoy your sex life together.

 

In his mind and heart this does not involve you, this  for some reason turns him on.... since he hides it.. he most likely is not proud of that fact, but it does... His actions show that other than looking  at it descreetly he is scared to death to have those desires anyway.

 

It sounds like you are judgeing his action as something wrong and evil  and some sort of commentary on his love for you or his manhood.

 

ladies we are not women, our brains do not work like yours..

 

We do not allways associate sexual desire with love, or affection. Sometimes its just something to do like playing a video game... a fun activity.

 

Unless your husband has been a bad husband, or neglects you or some other action that shows that this is more than a kink he gets enjoyment from but is ashamed of.. the your only problem is that you find his kink particularly offensive to your sensibilites or you think that it means he does not love and desire you and that is not the way a man thinks.

 

I can make you a promise.

If your marriage is happy, you can talk about this. Lay down some ground rules and let him know that you love him and that as long as its kept in its place you will respect his privacy on this issue. This way keeping some control over the issue.

OR

You can raise hell, demand he stop, threaten to tell people he knows and  he will agree with you, feel blackmailed, resent the hell out of you and end up sneaking around behind your back all the while growing a hot coal of resentment in his heart because you shamed him for what he sees as a harmless but embarrassing activity.

 

Hey its your marriage.. so of course its your choice..

But I promise bullying, blackmailing, and bitching a man into doing or not doing anything will allways knock a leg out from under the relationship table.

 

 

 

 

 



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  Posted: 7/27/2006 2:32 PM Subject: Why is my husband looking up shemale porn?
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Patrick Bateman wrote:
sillygurlinAK wrote:
I can‘t get a straight answer from my husband, is response is "I‘m not sure why I do it." He promised that he wouldn‘t look up porn anymore, then that night right to the computer and bam, shemale porn again. What gives?


Because she-males = the best of both worlds.


That reminds me, I need to see Clerks 2!


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  Posted: 7/27/2006 7:47 PM Subject: Why is my husband looking up shemale porn?
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digital_director wrote:
Patrick Bateman wrote:
sillygurlinAK wrote:
I can‘t get a straight answer from my husband, is response is "I‘m not sure why I do it." He promised that he wouldn‘t look up porn anymore, then that night right to the computer and bam, shemale porn again. What gives?


Because she-males = the best of both worlds.


That reminds me, I need to see Clerks 2!


I saw it the other night....all i will say is that Kevin Smith is one sick  bastard....and that‘s why i love him.


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