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Posted: 1/26/2012 12:13 PM |
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Subject: Advice or thoughts |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Man here. I‘d say she still has feelings for the guy. Nobody in a good relationship with someone seeks out an internet forum so they can specifically post questions about her X.
If I‘m in a relationship with a woman, or even if I‘m not, what my X‘s have done in the past are irrelevant. That is unless I still pine for them.
Be very careful
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Posted: 1/27/2012 2:10 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Im coming here because I assume most of you women have been hurt in some way by a man and I would like your thoughts on this. I recentley saw a post that my girl friend for 2 plus years had put on here regarding her x. I knew she had posted something and didnt really think much of it. But was curious because of some recent events that just took place. So I did a search and read what she has posted on here. I knew she was in love with this guy but he did a number on her for years cheated on her for many occasions but she stayed for years. They were not married have no children together but she is still angry at him after 4 plus years apart. She wont talk about place she‘s been or things she‘s done if it had involved him. Im reluctant to ask anything about it. She has always been good to me, very loving and giving but we have had our struggles to, guess were both set in our ways to some extent (me more then her) and we live over 2 hours from each other so it that regard it hasnt been the ideal situation. Ok so after reading her post and I have been able to find out about him and he seems like a very accomplished man, much more then myself and they have much in common. My question is this: Is her anger normal or does she still have feelings for this guy? I may have more questions later. Thank You
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I don‘t know if I totally agree with what MTB said.
Is she seeking advise or maybe helping others with her knowledge of what she went thru?? I am sooooo over my ex, yet still post here sometimes.
What a lot of people don‘t understand is that when you get hurt really bad, even if you are over that person, you still have some self doubt about things. Some may have some self belame for the situation too.
Its really not cut and dry.
That part that bothers me is that she doesn‘t talk to you about it, I will tell my man anything he wants to know, even if its not good.
Good luck to you.
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