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christian or athiest it is still called Adultry.

It’s so wrong.  I would distance myself from them quickly.  It’s their marriage and you cannot be the knight in shining armor and rescue her.

For some guys, that is rescuing.

Sounds like all 3 of you are made for each other!

Hi there,

What are you doing here? bragging & seeking approval from others because you are such a prince that you had (what sounds to be mercy sex)  with a woman who by your own statement is in a very upset, confused and unhappy time of her life? 

Her life doesn‘t look set to change until she gets some confidence and processes in place to deal with one faithless man - why would she swap one crappy situation for another?

If I were you I would be asking myself what is it that appeals to me now about her when (the group has been friends for years) previously she was just a friend. Do you secretely want a "victim" as a partner? or are you getting off on what an idiot hubby is -aren‘t i so much better?

What is lacking in you that you feel you cannot get a real caring/sharing woman as a full time partner -but are happy to go with what is currently damaged goods.

Be a man who is a real friend and listen with your ears not your penis.

Encourage her to discover what she wants for herself and then help her find that path - it may be you but it may not be.

Remember the 1st time for anything is the hardest and you both have already proved you are ok with adultery - this has the ability to get very messy and yucky.

:-(

rightorwrong

what exactly are you looking for here?

her husband is a cheating bastard

she is a cheating beyotch

and you are a d!cksmoke for messing around with a married woman.

or are you just a troll looking to stir up sh#t?