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Posted: 2/28/2010 5:08 PM |
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ok!! Before i go ahead and ask the question for the lovely women in the forum, let me first start by saying that i am a very handsome guy and it is not just me saying this.I have been told by most girls and many guys alike. From girls i hardly knew shouting from a far just to say hi in midst of people to a guy saying i wish i had your face. It has been quite overwhelming to say the truth. Sincerely, this doesn‘t get into my head. For some time now i have been noticing that whenever i walk into a crowd of women or in a party in the midst of women, they seem to act strangely and ever where become quite and they just sit or stand around or they just like open to other guys and kind of like cold toward me. Maybe not cold but they act differently around me. Some might just have a little chuckled look. So! to my question! Do women just put up a strong guard when they come in contact with a hot guy? Would really like honesty answers. Thanks Franklyn....
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Posted: 2/28/2010 6:02 PM |
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| ok!! Before i go ahead and ask the question for the lovely women in the forum, let me first start by saying that i am a very handsome guy and it is not just me saying this.I have been told by most girls and many guys alike. From girls i hardly knew shouting from a far just to say hi in midst of people to a guy saying i wish i had your face. It has been quite overwhelming to say the truth. Sincerely, this doesn‘t get into my head. For some time now i have been noticing that whenever i walk into a crowd of women or in a party in the midst of women, they seem to act strangely and ever where become quite and they just sit or stand around or they just like open to other guys and kind of like cold toward me. Maybe not cold but they act differently around me. Some might just have a little chuckled look. So! to my question! Do women just put up a strong guard when they come in contact with a hot guy? Would really like honesty answers. Thanks Franklyn.... |
Whew.. whatta laugh I had with this one. On the extreme outside remote possibility that you are serious (and now I‘m laughing all over again!!) the answer is NO.
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Posted: 2/28/2010 7:48 PM |
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ok!! Before i go ahead and ask the question for the lovely women in the forum, let me first start by saying that i am a very handsome guy and it is not just me saying this.I have been told by most girls and many guys alike. From girls i hardly knew shouting from a far just to say hi in midst of people to a guy saying i wish i had your face. It has been quite overwhelming to say the truth. Sincerely, this doesn‘t get into my head. For some time now i have been noticing that whenever i walk into a crowd of women or in a party in the midst of women, they seem to act strangely and ever where become quite and they just sit or stand around or they just like open to other guys and kind of like cold toward me. Maybe not cold but they act differently around me. Some might just have a little chuckled look. So! to my question! Do women just put up a strong guard when they come in contact with a hot guy? Would really like honesty answers. Thanks Franklyn....
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I‘m going to take a shot and assume this is a serious question.
The answer is, in my opinion: some girls do.
It varies from girl to girl. Some will give you a coldness because they have a preexisting belief in what extremely handsome guys are like and throw up a wall and not even think about approaching you. Some will approach you anyway drawn by your looks and, I‘m guessing, self confidence. Some might approach you like a skittish colt, drawn by those traits but also afraid to get too close in case you ARE an ego maniac.
You sound very confident. :) Good for you!
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Posted: 2/28/2010 8:23 PM |
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Maybe if you dropped the arrogance a notch or two. Maybe.
Instead of feeling like everyone is ooohing and aaahing over you why don‘t you see beyond yourself and do some ooohing and aaahing of your own, concerning others?
Geez I‘m so tempted to ask you to post a picture.....
But don‘t. The honesty here is overwhelming sometimes even brutal.
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Posted: 2/28/2010 8:40 PM |
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ok!! Before i go ahead and ask the question for the lovely women in the forum, let me first start by saying that i am a very handsome guy and it is not just me saying this.I have been told by most girls and many guys alike. From girls i hardly knew shouting from a far just to say hi in midst of people to a guy saying i wish i had your face. It has been quite overwhelming to say the truth. Sincerely, this doesn‘t get into my head. For some time now i have been noticing that whenever i walk into a crowd of women or in a party in the midst of women, they seem to act strangely and ever where become quite and they just sit or stand around or they just like open to other guys and kind of like cold toward me. Maybe not cold but they act differently around me. Some might just have a little chuckled look. So! to my question! Do women just put up a strong guard when they come in contact with a hot guy? Would really like honesty answers. Thanks Franklyn....
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Overconfidence is a major turn off, as is trying too hard. Believe it or not, its the personality shining through that REALLY attracts women...and its got to be genuine or we‘ll spot it.
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Posted: 2/28/2010 9:39 PM |
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| shally wrote: |
Maybe if you dropped the arrogance a notch or two. Maybe.
Instead of feeling like everyone is ooohing and aaahing over you why don‘t you see beyond yourself and do some ooohing and aaahing of your own, concerning others?
Geez I‘m so tempted to ask you to post a picture.....
But don‘t. The honesty here is overwhelming sometimes even brutal.
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Thanks for your honest reply. But i feel i don‘t have to go over the edge just because i want them to treat me like a normal guy. It crazy you know! The other guys they talk to don‘t necessarily do much of oohing and aaahing!!!. It like they just expect so much more from you.
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Posted: 2/28/2010 9:46 PM |
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| tegh7 wrote: | | ok!! Before i go ahead and ask the question for the lovely women in the forum, let me first start by saying that i am a very handsome guy and it is not just me saying this.I have been told by most girls and many guys alike. From girls i hardly knew shouting from a far just to say hi in midst of people to a guy saying i wish i had your face. It has been quite overwhelming to say the truth. Sincerely, this doesn�t get into my head. For some time now i have been noticing that whenever i walk into a crowd of women or in a party in the midst of women, they seem to act strangely and ever where become quite and they just sit or stand around or they just like open to other guys and kind of like cold toward me. Maybe not cold but they act differently around me. Some might just have a little chuckled look. So! to my question! Do women just put up a strong guard when they come in contact with a hot guy? Would really like honesty answers. Thanks Franklyn.... |
Overconfidence is a major turn off, as is trying too hard. Believe it or not, its the personality shining through that REALLY attracts women...and its got to be genuine or we‘ll spot it.
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Thanks for your honest reply. However though i don‘t think i am overly over confident, neither am i trying too hard. It just seem strange that some rule don‘t apply to me just because of my looks. I remember a girls i just meet telling me " you must be a player". What!!! You can imagine my frustration.She didn‘t even know me well. You can just take one experience and lay it on someone else doorstep.
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Posted: 2/28/2010 9:52 PM |
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| tegh7 wrote: | | ok!! Before i go ahead and ask the question for the lovely women in the forum, let me first start by saying that i am a very handsome guy and it is not just me saying this.I have been told by most girls and many guys alike. From girls i hardly knew shouting from a far just to say hi in midst of people to a guy saying i wish i had your face. It has been quite overwhelming to say the truth. Sincerely, this doesn�t get into my head. For some time now i have been noticing that whenever i walk into a crowd of women or in a party in the midst of women, they seem to act strangely and ever where become quite and they just sit or stand around or they just like open to other guys and kind of like cold toward me. Maybe not cold but they act differently around me. Some might just have a little chuckled look. So! to my question! Do women just put up a strong guard when they come in contact with a hot guy? Would really like honesty answers. Thanks Franklyn.... |
I‘m going to take a shot and assume this is a serious question.
The answer is, in my opinion: some girls do.
It varies from girl to girl. Some will give you a coldness because they have a preexisting belief in what extremely handsome guys are like and throw up a wall and not even think about approaching you. Some will approach you anyway drawn by your looks and, I‘m guessing, self confidence. Some might approach you like a skittish colt, drawn by those traits but also afraid to get too close in case you ARE an ego maniac.
You sound very confident. :) Good for you!
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I think you are right!! They tend to give you the shoulder just because they have this general belief that guys like this have rebuffing characteristic which might not necessarily be correct in all cases.
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