WomanSavers.com Forum / MEN'S AREA / girlfriend of 4 years cheated :(

I am going to be blunt and honest.

Ditch her!  You are 19 and to damn young to be settled down with a cheater!

Being Drunk is the oldest excuse in the book!  I don‘t know about you but I have never been that drunk!

Cuddling is more then sex, cuddling suggest emotion and feelings that a person that has a boyfriend shouldn‘t feel for another. I am willing to bet that the txt messages were not innocent and will continue until he gets what he wants out of her!

What they ^ said.  Don’t you think you deserve to be treated better than that?

Hi there,

If you are looking for a lasting committed relationship right now (and if you are only 19 I don‘t think its what you should be looking for...but thats just my opinion) then I don‘t believe this girl is for you. I know it hurts so much when someone betrays you, and it sounds to me like your trust in her is gone...don‘t prolong that agony. I don‘t know either of you and I don‘t know the person involved...so who is telling the truth about who kissed who etc? I don‘t know...but that doesn‘t really matter. What struck me most about your post was when you said she was lying on a bed and cuddling, and then lying on a bed and watching a movie. I‘m sorry hun, but if you are in a loving relationship with someone you DON‘T go anywhere near another guys bed...cuddling, watching a movie...whatever, you just don‘t do it...its a level of intimacy thats just unacceptable under the circumstances and it sounds to me likes she wants her cake and eat it.