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Drew, you‘re messed up. 

You‘re like the small but really rabid wing of feminism that sees a "patriarchal" conspiracy in everything, but flipped on its head into some sort of really rabid ... masculinism?

You‘re not part of the solution ... you‘re part of the problem. Your knee-jerk gender advocacy is exactly the same thing as what you‘re constantly bitching about, and no less false and unethical. Doing it in retaliation for perceived mistreatment at the hands of some ideology ... well ... that‘s how the most dogmatic and rabid feminists justify themselves, too. You‘re the same.

OMG!!

She is with you and you say she isn‘t wasting her time?

No, she is not. Why, do you think I am cheater or something ? Don‘t confuse me with the men in your life.

Drew, you‘re messed up. 

You‘re like the small but really rabid wing of feminism that sees a "patriarchal" conspiracy in everything, but flipped on its head into some sort of really rabid ... masculinism?

You‘re not part of the solution ... you‘re part of the problem. Your knee-jerk gender advocacy is exactly the same thing as what you‘re constantly bitching about, and no less false and unethical. Doing it in retaliation for perceived mistreatment at the hands of some ideology ... well ... that‘s how the most dogmatic and rabid feminists justify themselves, too. You‘re the same.

Sooooo...do  you always refer to yourself as a sucker.......

I think you need to re read the sentence that led you to try this joke. You understood the opposite of what I said.

Still, good to see that your arguments are over. Let‘s see what kind of personal insult you can come up next.

I feel sorry for her!

You expectations are so high that they can never be ment.

She will not have faith in you because of the fear of being dumped.  She can‘t talk to you because of your additude. She will tire of your crap oneday and move on.  I just hope for her  she is smart enough to realize it before she waste her youth on you.

Oh an AF  you are so bad you can‘t even hold a candle to my cheater!

boy, I must have hit a nerve with you.

if she deserved better than "bad boys" as you say, then she could have refrained from comparing me to them and feeling the need to let me know how "fun" they were.

I‘m sorry, a past is a past, but i don‘t need to hear crap like that.  If she thought they were "fun", then she can keep it to herself.

I did MYSELF a favor.

and don‘t tell me if a man of yours were to tell you about how delicious the women he use to date were that you wouldn‘t want to hit him upside the head with a frying pan.

Nerve?  Not at all.  Im just saying your ex GF needs a good man WITH a sense of humor.  You‘re not that guy.  You quickly let her know.  You both won...so to speak.

In answer to your question.  No.  I wouldnt hit a man upside the head with a frying pan.  The reason?  I know I can be just as much fun as any "badgirl" hes met.

Its all about your attitude.

See the difference?

oh, and don‘t think this was the ONLY thing that caused the demise of the relationship.

here is another thing about her that threw up a red flag that just made her comments at the party maybe a bit more than they were.

she had no qualms about informing me how hot other guys were, mainly celebs, but informing me nonetheless...as if I had to have that info for some reason.  No problem, it doesn‘t phase me.  I realize we all are going to find other people attractive, doesn‘t mean we want them, but we can appreciate how someone looks.

I just never felt the need to broadcast it to any of my gf‘s.  What would be the point other than to possibly make her feel bad?

Anyway, she‘d make a comment about someone like Brad Pitt, or other good looking celeb guys, and I just basically ignore it because it doesn‘t get to me.  I just have to wonder about her desire to let me know it.

So one time we were watching something, she does her usually going ga ga over some guy, basically biting her bottom lip....eh...I know she can‘t have him, so why would I worry or care.  So later on, just to see how she‘d react, I made a similar comment, although watered down, about Charlize Theron.  I did one of those "mmm ...mm ..mmm, she is hot" (trust me, her giddiness over celeb guys was much more vocal and arousing than that).  And get this...she says, "oh...so you want to do her do you!!!!"  I politely reminded her that this is the first time I had ever mentioned the looks of another woman in front of her and that she does it all the time.

and she said, "ya, but I don‘t get all hot and bothered over the guys I comment on" (obviously not realizing she is practically drooling when making the comments.)

so I didn‘t care about the silly comments.  what bothered me then was her double standard.

and even though a gf commenting on another guy‘s looks doesn‘t bother me(although I think some of them can tone it down just a bit), it probably made me wonder about her craving her bad boy "fun" that she also felt the need to let me know about in front of everyone else.

oh, and don‘t think this was the ONLY thing that caused the demise of the relationship.

here is another thing about her that threw up a red flag that just made her comments at the party maybe a bit more than they were.

she had no qualms about informing me how hot other guys were, mainly celebs, but informing me nonetheless...as if I had to have that info for some reason.  No problem, it doesn‘t phase me.  I realize we all are going to find other people attractive, doesn‘t mean we want them, but we can appreciate how someone looks.

I just never felt the need to broadcast it to any of my gf‘s.  What would be the point other than to possibly make her feel bad?

Anyway, she‘d make a comment about someone like Brad Pitt, or other good looking celeb guys, and I just basically ignore it because it doesn‘t get to me.  I just have to wonder about her desire to let me know it.

So one time we were watching something, she does her usually going ga ga over some guy, basically biting her bottom lip....eh...I know she can‘t have him, so why would I worry or care.  So later on, just to see how she‘d react, I made a similar comment, although watered down, about Charlize Theron.  I did one of those "mmm ...mm ..mmm, she is hot" (trust me, her giddiness over celeb guys was much more vocal and arousing than that).  And get this...she says, "oh...so you want to do her do you!!!!"  I politely reminded her that this is the first time I had ever mentioned the looks of another woman in front of her and that she does it all the time.

and she said, "ya, but I don‘t get all hot and bothered over the guys I comment on" (obviously not realizing she is practically drooling when making the comments.)

so I didn‘t care about the silly comments.  what bothered me then was her double standard.

and even though a gf commenting on another guy‘s looks doesn‘t bother me(although I think some of them can tone it down just a bit), it probably made me wonder about her craving her bad boy "fun" that she also felt the need to let me know about in front of everyone else.

MTB. we will be watching tv and I may say,  I think she is pretty,  my bf will sometimes agree but not always.  He never makes rude comments like  hell yea she is hot!

My ex use to say stuff like that. 

Now we all have our celebrity hotties that we like,  but I would never be so disrespectful as to say something like  I want to do him.   I think Brendan Frasier is nice looking. 

It really sounds like you two have different outlooks in life and are better off with somebody else.

and there is absolutely nothing wrong with the way you put it.  If she would have said, "he is a good looking guy", I‘d say, "you think so?  I think so-and-so is better looking than him" or, "ya, I can see that"

if you would have said, "damn is he hot"...the idea behind it doesn‘t bother me, but geez...tell me what you really think!!  LOL