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| sixtysixpixistix |
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Posted: 8/22/2009 8:31 AM |
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Subject: Wits End. Advice? |
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New WomanSaver
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I‘m a male. A very honor-bound male. And I‘m in a relationship with a cheating woman. The sad part is, I had planned a huge proposal for the month after I caught her cheating on me. I mean I was head over heels for this girl. [we‘d been dating for 4 years]
What I have is a moral question.
I know I could never stoop low enough to seek revenge by cheating on a significant other. But DAMN, it‘s so tempting.
I just have to keep asking myself "What Would Picard Do?"
Maybe I‘m just looking for 101 reasons to break it off with her forever and not feel pain when she‘s with another man. IDK, my wits end. Everyone here is in the same boat right?
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| Africanguy |
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Posted: 8/22/2009 10:37 AM |
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My advice:
Go out there and game dozens of other women. Have fun. Forget about her. Revenge isn‘t a positive thing to have in your life.
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| CaliforniaGirl |
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Posted: 8/22/2009 11:42 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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You need a reason to break it off with her? Her cheating was not reason enough? Or is your reasoning, she cheated, I’ll cheat, and we can call it even?
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| sixtysixpixistix |
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Posted: 8/22/2009 4:49 PM |
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New WomanSaver
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| CaliforniaGirl wrote: | |
You need a reason to break it off with her? Her cheating was not reason enough? Or is your reasoning, she cheated, I�ll cheat, and we can call it even?
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Yeah. Ridiculous isn‘t it.
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| Wire |
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Posted: 8/22/2009 7:44 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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I imagine you‘re going to feel pain whatever you might do. Choose the option that awards you the least pain. Just don‘t become addicted to indulgence. Dependency isn‘t good for anyone.
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Posted: 8/23/2009 6:58 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Cheating is not going to make you feel good. Tempting or not.
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Posted: 8/23/2009 10:58 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Confucious say, "Those who spend time to seek revenge, should 1st dig two graves."
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Posted: 8/24/2009 7:45 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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| Uncle Don wrote: | | Confucious say, "Those who spend time to seek revenge, should 1st dig two graves." |
Excellent advice!!
Don‘t go the revenge route, it will hurt you just as much if not more than her.
Don‘t go "gaming" women just because you‘ve been played...that makes you just as bad as her...and by doing that you are just cutting off the emotional part of you that wants a nice healthy relationship.
It hurts to be rejected, we all go through it at some point in our lives, but it better to except the rejection and feel the pain of it than to try to avoid the pain by inflicting similar on other people....this will not get rid of your own pain, it will come back to haunt you anyway at some stage.
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Posted: 8/25/2009 8:51 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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| sixtysixpixistix wrote: | I‘m a male. A very honor-bound male. And I‘m in a relationship with a cheating woman. The sad part is, I had planned a huge proposal for the month after I caught her cheating on me. I mean I was head over heels for this girl. [we‘d been dating for 4 years]
What I have is a moral question.
I know I could never stoop low enough to seek revenge by cheating on a significant other. But DAMN, it‘s so tempting.
I just have to keep asking myself "What Would Picard Do?"
Maybe I‘m just looking for 101 reasons to break it off with her forever and not feel pain when she‘s with another man. IDK, my wits end. Everyone here is in the same boat right?
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Do you plan to stay with her?
Is she still cheating on you?
Did you confront her about the cheating?
Revenge sex isn‘t rewarding to anybody. First off you would have to use another woman to seek revenge. Thats not fair to her. You will not feel better afterwards. You are bring your self down to her level.
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