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Posted: 6/30/2009 4:24 PM |
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Can anyone out there please tell me how to deal with the grief after divorce. My wife of almost 15 years left on Apr 1 09, and I haven‘t seen or heard from her except to sign the divorce papers. I don‘t know what I did that was so wrong. I am a very moderate dinker, I work hard, I never hit her. She never had to work as I made enough for her to live comfortable. She had a new home, new car. new home furshings. i just don‘t know what I did that was so bad. Can anyone out there help me please.
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| Africanguy |
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Posted: 6/30/2009 5:57 PM |
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Juanito
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Everyone gets dumped, even Brad pitt. Forget about it and act like a man. Many woman will dump their husbands or boyfriends to be completely alone. But in many cases they already have someone in the line to take care of all their needs. If you ask why, she wont tell you the truth. Anyway its over. Dont give her everything, fight for what you have the rights.
Remember to act like a man. Dont offer to be friends, NEVER beg her to come back, and cut all the contact with her. If you are not married and she calls, do not answer. If you are married, let the lawyers do all the talk.
If she already has another man, theres a good chance that is not going to work with him, and when that happens, she will try to come back. Dont let her.
After you get over it, you should focus on your life and resume dating.
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Posted: 6/30/2009 6:45 PM |
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| bikerboy30474 wrote: | | Can anyone out there please tell me how to deal with the grief after divorce. My wife of almost 15 years left on Apr 1 09, and I haven‘t seen or heard from her except to sign the divorce papers. I don‘t know what I did that was so wrong. I am a very moderate dinker, I work hard, I never hit her. She never had to work as I made enough for her to live comfortable. She had a new home, new car. new home furshings. i just don‘t know what I did that was so bad. Can anyone out there help me please. |
I am sorry she did that, sounds like she is the one with the problems.
It hasn‘t been long, the pain will get less everyday.
I had pain, then anger now I don‘t give a ****!
Some people always think the grass is greener on the other side. not always true.
Hang on it will get better.
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| Busty Spumonte |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 6:11 AM |
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There must be more to this story other than she just up and left.
Why do you think it was you that did something bad? Perhaps it was her.
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| Africanguy |
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Posted: 7/3/2009 11:02 AM |
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How would he know.
I‘d say she already is with another man. If he was supporting her, she would not leave without having another place to live and such.
Did you tried to contact her parents ?
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