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| Dante43 |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 8:21 AM |
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Subject: problems in bed |
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i‘ve been dateing this girl for over two months and our relationship is great except for we have not successfuly had intercourse. when we first started dateing it seemed like she was bragging about her sexual abilites (she lost her virginity late last year) but when we tried to have sex everytime i tried to penetrate she would stop me complaining about the pain, and when we‘re foreplaying if i go near the opening of her vagina with my finger she complains of discomfort (i‘m able to mess with the clit but that‘s it) penetration seems to be the problem we‘ve tried lube, music incense and back massages to relax her and lots of foreplay before sex but still the same results. she also seems to me uncomfortable or disinterested when we are trying to have intercourse or about to. when i talk to her about it she just says you‘re to big (i‘ve not had trouble with other girls and i‘m about average 8‘ lenght 5‘ around) if i purse it any further she says she‘s furstraded and seems to get depressed. womansavers i‘m starting to feel that she isnt attracted to me and i‘m worrying about why she was able with past guys but not me. please help me womansavers
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| MrTrueBlue |
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Posted: 6/3/2009 11:46 AM |
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So she brags about her sexual abilities....then when it comes time to put up or shut up she complains that its painful?
For someone bragging about how great they are in bed, you must have a member 5 inches thick or something....oh but forgot you mentioned a finger did the trick.
I might suspsect she has some sort of STD that makes it painful.
Otherwise I‘m not sure what to think.
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| CaliforniaGirl |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 4:38 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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I would suggest she visit her doctor and tell her/him about this discomfort and pain. She should make sure there is nothing physically wrong.
Maybe she lied about her sexual abilities and is still a virgin. That was my first thought.
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| bubblecropper |
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Posted: 6/4/2009 8:41 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Hey, if she wasn‘t attracted to you then she wouldn‘t be dating you, so thats not the answer.
It sounds like maybe she‘s nervous. It could be that she possibly exaggerated her sexual conquests in the past...young girls sometimes do that, there is a lot of pressure put on young people by their peers, so don‘t be too hard on her for that, I wouldn‘t challenge her on it at all...its certainly not going to help her feel more comfortable.
I wouldn‘t do anything for the moment but maybe spend some more time talking and dating and getting to trust each other a little more, don‘t make sex the big issue in your relationship, because if she is uncomfortable about it, then can you imagine how much strain you‘d put on the relationship if you kept trying to have sex when she wasn‘t ready??
Just relax and take it easy for a while, take sex off the agenda for a while, a few weeks maybe...organise some romantic evenings out, let her know you care about her as a person and not just as someone to have sex with.
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Posted: 6/30/2009 11:25 AM |
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| GodIsAMan wrote: | Have her sit on your face, and then go BlahyurrBlahyumyum MMmMMmMMm Yum-Yum splahahaha on her bum bum.
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I hate to admitt this, because I know you are a troll
But I laughed my ass of when I read that.
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Posted: 6/30/2009 10:59 PM |
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| sunny fl wrote: |
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Have her sit on your face, and then go BlahyurrBlahyumyum MMmMMmMMm Yum-Yum splahahaha on her bum bum.
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I hate to admitt this, because I know you are a troll
But I laughed my ass of when I read that.
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AND I JUST READ IT TO SEE WHAT SUNNY WROTE!
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Posted: 7/1/2009 2:16 PM |
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A trip to the doctor is definitely in order. You both need to rule out physiological issues, or figure out what they are and address them. Does not seem a typical kind of response from an experienced adult woman
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Posted: 7/1/2009 2:19 PM |
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A trip to the doctor is definitely in order. You both need to rule out physiological issues, or figure out what they are and address them. Does not seem a typical kind of response from an experienced adult woman
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| blueghost |
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Posted: 7/2/2009 11:58 AM |
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i think she wasn‘t telling you the truth about her past - sounds to me like she is still a virgin but just wanted the identity of being this wild, sexy thing. Perhaps you have had a past and maybe she was just trying to impress you (?)
I would ask her if she was still a virgin and tell her that it is ok if she was. If that is the case, you can decide to be with her or not.
Goodluck!!
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Posted: 7/6/2009 2:38 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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I‘m with Blueghost on this. She may have told you she was great in bed because she thought that‘s what you wanted to hear. If she‘s had sex, a average ish guy who‘s being patient wouldn‘t hurt her that bad. I‘d make sure she knew, you think being is a virgin ok. And you respect her for that...If not she needs to go see a DR. Something‘s not right...
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Posted: 7/9/2009 12:04 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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I was like that when I younger too. I think that she braged about her past sexual experience or it maybe never happened. I think she is nervous and inexperienced a little wine would help her unwind but that won‘t solve the issue. I say tell her to talk to her doctor about the problem. Also are you getting her horny enough to want sex? I mean before you even try to penetrate she should be dripping wett because that would indicate she is in the mood and then things won‘t have to be so forced.
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