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I never thought a bad boy had to be using drugs or massive amounts of alcohol....but rather a guy that thinks his s##t doesn‘t stink and thinks he is god‘s gift to women and is cocky as hell.

So you pretty much confirmed my take on bad boys being risky, and that non-bad boys are predictable....hence it would seem that women settle for stable guys later on in life while problaby still wanting that thrill of a bad boy.

And I won‘t be settled for.  If I have to be single the rest of my life, so be it.  I like my freedom right now.

You should never be settled for!

You are better then that.

yes. i feel in order to qualify for the label "bad boy" there has to be an element of danger.

i think you are discribing a "player" or as we called them a "rake".  a man that trifles with womans‘s hearts. mostly using them in bed for awhile till they get bored and more on. they have to move on because either a. they knew all along she wasn‘t for them of b. they are affraid she will find out that underneath is a frightened misfit, afraid of "intimacy".

i wanted to share a line i heard on "law and order" and it stuck with me ....

...your soulmate is whoever you end up with when you run out of steam...

You really think they‘d tell you the truth on that? I suspect that yes, they would want to be with him. Simply for the excitement. You see, some women never grow up or never really change and ARE just settling. Case in point.

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Vasectomy: $400. Speechless look on her face: priceless.

Date: 2007-02-06, 2:24PM PST

Drew,

    Funny you should post that story.  The woman I am seeing knows I have a vasectomy.  We were talking one night and she said, "what would you do if I wound up pregnant?"  She knows I‘m sterile, but was asking in a "what if" sort of way.

I told her, "I‘d leave you".  Boy, she got pissed.  She told me that vasectomies aren‘t 100%.  Sure, BOTCHED vasectomies aren‘t.  The chances of winning the lottery are better than having a child after a vasectomy.

I told her, "if you were pregnant, there is no way it would be mine"...well she got mad.

I may have to rethink my desire to stay in this relationship.

Well my exs neice just had a baby and she had her tubes tied.  the docter told her it happens more then people think.

I also know a girl that came up pregnant after her husband had a vasectomy  and  he though she was screwing around,  they split up over it  and after she had the baby  the DNA proved it was his.   So don‘t think it doesn‘t happen boys!!

Now I had a hysterectomy   I sure hope that is full proof!! hahaha

Nah, thats the kind of sh!t I expect over at loveshack.org

The f#####s over there are truly worthless.

But there is a big difference from having tubes tied where the "knot" may not be all that tight, to having the seminal vesicles completely severed and cauterized.

And I don‘t see how, if the sperm tests show absolutely NO sperm, that somehow the vasectomy reverses itself.

I was shown to be 100% sterile and have sex every night except around THAT time of the month....you‘d think if my vasectomy didn‘t take, I‘d have known it by now...its been more than 15 months since I had it done.

Miss Luvly1 wrote:

I think we all know that there are "not so nice guys" and "not so nice girls" out there. The line of the "Nice Guy" really hit a nerve with me.  My hubby put an Ad on Match.com and his head liner was: "One of The Few Nice Guys Left!" He stated he had never been married, no children etc.  The picture was taken in our bedroom in our old house.  I was either pregnant with one of my last 2 children at the time. I am seriously considering forwarding his Ad to all of his God fearing relatives when our divorce is over.  We‘ve all been screwed over Drew so please give up the whole "All women are evil routine."  I have to figure out why I keep picking out losers and so do you.  So why do you keep picking the Bimbos?   I am no more going to give respect to a woman who states that all men are cheating asses than a man who says that all women are trapping sluts.  I believe it‘s the women you are picking out and your expectations. I‘m working on figuring out why I have kept picking abusive men.  You work on the Bimbo factor.

Ingnore  Drew  miss luvy   he thinks we are all helpless women that need our men to take care of us,  both mentally and financially!

Oneday  he will meet a strong independent woman that will knock his socks off and  then I would love to talk to him!

Sunny, remember that one topic that went on a long time about cuckolded husbands when I uncovered the fact that women stay with cheating husbands because of economics (one of the many factors)? That pretty much proves I‘m right that women want men to take care of them. However you are right that they don‘t need them. Am I backpeddling? No because I never said women need men. They clearly don‘t if they can go into the workplace. Arguing against an argument that was never made gets one nowhere.

I admire anyone who has the courage to leave a bad situation despite risks because they refuse to settle for living in fear. Such as a woman who leaves an abusive husband and can afford to, or nearly can‘t but does anyway. It is relatively easy if you‘re a working woman, but there are some women that have been killed trying to do so in the past and yes, sometimes it may be hard to get a restraining order enforced. I know that. I am not ignorant nor am I insensitive to things like this.
http://www.legalmomentum.org/news-room/press-releases/life-in-prison-for-roger.html

My woman would have to be somewhat independent minded and have the ability to die alone without going nuts. Like me. But she prefers a companion because she would like it. This is the same kind of mentality that is in the authentic strong, nice guy I have previously described in my long post at the start of this topic.

" We‘ve all been screwed over Drew so please give up the whole "All women are evil routine."  I have to figure out why I keep picking out losers and so do you.  So why do you keep picking the Bimbos?"

I don‘t pick out bimbos. Since that‘s practically all there are, I don‘t bother trying. I‘ve had bimbos come on to me and I was like, "Fuck off. I‘m not into that friends with benefits sh_t."

I‘m sick of you.  Stuff a sock in it already!

Better yet...........stuff your dick in a sock, jack off and get over women.

It was an exaggeration saying that‘s practically all there are. Did you really think I was serious? Did you not notice the quotation marks? You really thought the quotation marks were real? You really think I would tell someone who looks nice and professes to like me to **** off?  No. Chill.

But I have seen too many supposedly nice, educated, intelligent girls, who don‘t even go to slutty clubs, **** a lot of guys and give it up too quickly. That‘s why, as I said earlier, for now I insist on dying alone, as one other lady poster has said about herself.

Funny...you wrote this story as if your proud of it. I don‘t understand why?

I‘m glad I read it, it proves the point that unhealthy people tend to attract other unhealthy people.

She sounds like a silly girl, and she sounds nasty and needy...then again, so do you!

I‘ve dated guys who‘ve played games...but I wouldn‘t bother playing them back...I‘ve just walked away, with a feeling of relief and a glad heart!

When she told you she was "pregnant" you should have told her you were sterile and then just walked out the door...like a true "nice guy". Instead you stayed for more sex and to humiliate the girl...you are just as much of an asshole as she is...you‘ve got nothing to be proud of here.

I have to be honest here Drew.  I have no idea what you are talking about and I haven‘t read what you‘ve posted in this thread.   I picked your last post and qouted it.

I just think you are a moron.