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| intuition101 |
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Posted: 3/26/2009 9:29 PM |
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Subject: what is infidelity? |
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New WomanSaver
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Cheaters have no character and have major personality flaws.
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Posted: 3/29/2009 12:43 PM |
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Subject: what is infidelity? |
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| seller62 wrote: | | I am happily married since 2006. Very much in love, we do a lot of things together as a team, we plan to have babies soon, ...... Before meeting her I had a lot of girlfriends and I was used to treat them badly, seducing and leving them. But with my wife everything is different. She is really THE ONE. Some times I travel for work and when I am somewhere alone I look for other women. Just to re-feel like the old times. A couple of times I also got two "one night stands". They were just sex and they did not mean anything to me. They were great, but the day after I totally forgot. In both cases I came back, met my wife and everything was fine inside me. I was not even thinking about the sex I had had. No regrets, nothing. I love her a lot and nothing has changed into me. No I have a question: wat do you think about this? Is this cheating? Am I a bad husband? |
Then she is not the one.You tell yourself she is really the "one" because it makes you fell good. Hey that‘s cool , what ever helps you sleep at night. If she was truly the one you would not be reliving the good ole days and posting your issues here. Get a divorce , cause you are obviously not ready to really settle down like you think you are. You should bow out gracefully so that you don‘t screw up a good woman. Bad relationships are the one of many things in this world that can screw a person up mentally as well as physically. Do not make her bitter and hateful towards men. Be honest , let her know what‘s going on , then let her decide if she should stay or go. Either way , the ending may surprise you. Also everyday you do not tell her about this , you are lying to her and slapping her in the face. You say you have no regrets , well if you do not have any , it should not be hard to tell her the truth. Do you fell you will actually have regret if you let her know. Her knowing allows you to have no regret. I bet if she found out you would have regret. In the worse way imaginable. I promise you.
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Stop saying you are in love , if you were in love , then there would be no other woman but the "one" you are in love with.
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