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Seller62...having morals isnt a bad thing.  Quite the opposite.

What you really mean is ...you are so unsatisifed with your life ,you have to pretend to be a loving husband while endlessly searching for sex with strangers to  mistakenly prove yourself a man.

The irony is in you actually think you‘ve done something by "scoring" a one night stand with a woman of no morals.

That one cracks me up everytime!

Seriously dude....you cannot seduce a whore..........

There are "no points"......LOL!

In all reality...........she simply used you in the same manner you used her.  "That" is a score for a disquieted heart. 

You may think you‘re in love with your wife....sorry guy....but you dont love anybody...not even yourself.

Zip your pants up and at least try to show yourself a bit of respect. 

That dear friend is "the way it is."

Momof4 wrote:

Rhiannon wrote: Seller62:  I obviously cannot improve on anything the ladies here have already said.  I think they have pretty much already said it all.  I guess I would have to ask what kind of reaction you are expecting.  You come to a woman‘s website and ask what they think of your cheating?  What did you expect - approval?  And then when you are called on your ****, you call us "bitter, angry women." You say the illicit sex "doesn‘t mean anything" and I have to laugh at how warped that is.  It is a classic cheater‘s line.  It always means something. What doesn‘t mean anything - when you do something like that - is your credibility as a man and as a husband.  How can you have so little respect for your wife?  How can you betray her trust and her confidence in you?  How can you look her in the eye, tell her you love her, and then whore around behind her back?  Your word means nothing when you are dishonest to her, and can‘t keep your pants zipped.  Obviously, you aren‘t concerned about her well-being when you take the risk of contracting an STD.  Even condoms aren‘t foolproof. Do her a favor.  Don‘t have kids with her.  Don‘t break her heart any more than you already have.  Quit being such a selfish bastard. Rhi, shhhhh, I‘m busy being fat and angry. Anyone have any chocolate truffles? I seem to have run out. Oh, and some ice cream to dip it in would be divine. My large ass thanks you.

Dont you just love how he thinks all "moralistic" women are either fat or bulimic?!

He sure has a wide range of thought...eh?  Gosh.....Where the hell is Santa.....I want a man juuust like "him!" 

Using his own standards...

AND....

Providing the guy didnt marry a whore...LOL.....which do you think his wife is?  Fat or bulimic? 

P.S.  I‘ll trade ya some chocolate truffles for some white dipped oreo‘s!  LOL!

Momof4 wrote:

ToucheBaby wrote: Momof4 wrote: Rhiannon wrote: Seller62:  I obviously cannot improve on anything the ladies here have already said.  I think they have pretty much already said it all.  I guess I would have to ask what kind of reaction you are expecting.  You come to a woman‘s website and ask what they think of your cheating?  What did you expect - approval?  And then when you are called on your ****, you call us "bitter, angry women." You say the illicit sex "doesn‘t mean anything" and I have to laugh at how warped that is.  It is a classic cheater‘s line.  It always means something. What doesn‘t mean anything - when you do something like that - is your credibility as a man and as a husband.  How can you have so little respect for your wife?  How can you betray her trust and her confidence in you?  How can you look her in the eye, tell her you love her, and then whore around behind her back?  Your word means nothing when you are dishonest to her, and can‘t keep your pants zipped.  Obviously, you aren‘t concerned about her well-being when you take the risk of contracting an STD.  Even condoms aren‘t foolproof. Do her a favor.  Don‘t have kids with her.  Don‘t break her heart any more than you already have.  Quit being such a selfish bastard. Rhi, shhhhh, I‘m busy being fat and angry. Anyone have any chocolate truffles? I seem to have run out. Oh, and some ice cream to dip it in would be divine. My large ass thanks you.  Dont you just love how he thinks all "moralistic" women are either fat or bulimic?! He sure has a wide range of thought...eh?  Gosh.....Where the hell is Santa.....I want a man juuust like "him!"  Using his own standards... AND.... Providing the guy didnt marry a whore...LOL.....which do you think his wife is?  Fat or bulimic?        P.S.  I‘ll trade ya some chocolate truffles for some white dipped oreo‘s!  LOL! Here‘s the quote of the day.... "We pet each other like babies" Hello?? WTF??? Oreos it is!

LOL!  I laughed at that one too.  LOL!

I just have to say here...my ex H sounds just like him.  Its baffling to me as to why a man would be trying to become pregnant with his wife.....while out screwing around.

I find that to be very stupid.

The best thing my ex could come up with was....."It was only sex"......I was the one he loved and wanted to have children with.  I was supposed to feel "special!"  He picked me afterall.  LOL!

I didnt know to smack him or laugh!  LOL!  I did both!  LOL!

I was more upset about the betrayal than the actual sex....he couldnt understand that.

There are so many lifestyles out there for a person to choose from...why does a man like that pick one where he has to lie.

What?  He doesnt wish to "share" his wife?  The grand sense of entitlement is so far off base...its amusing!  LOL!

(Well...at the time...notsomuch....but now...all I can do is laugh at men like him.

Im sorry but entering a marriage or relationship where "cheating" is considered a dealbreaker.... and doing it anyway ,while actively trying to become pregnant is astoundingly stupid................

Hey tosspot,

Dont forget my saggy breasts and varicose veins now !!!

I wouldnt be surprised at all if Seller62‘s wife ....blows him a kiss on her way out the door either.............

I sure would like to see the look on his face though............the look on my ex‘x face was priceless! 

He kept saying...but but butt you;re pregnant...you cant leave............!!!

Uh Huh!    Bye!

“All we see of someone at any moment is a snapshot of their life, there in riches or poverty, in joy or despair. Snapshots don‘t show the million decisions that led to that moment.”

you want to see angry. tell your wife what you have been up to and you are gonna see angry dude.

i hope she pukes on you.

i personally do not care who you **** with behind your wife‘s back and i hope you realize that she has been ****ing three sailors and a donkey while you were gone.

whatt????

 get over to the nearest AA meeting. take your bottle of whiskey over there and explain to them that they are angry about YOUR drinking and see if they care.

HEY, Richard Cranium.  Here‘s a response for you from a man.

I‘m married and I‘m also secure enough in my manhood that I don‘t have to test it on sluts.  More importantly, I have too much love and respect for my wife to cheat on and possibly expose her to that which could kill her.

My suggestion is that you buy a pair.  But before your shopping spree for requisite parts to become a man, let your wife go so she can find a real one.

PS.  To answer the original question, infidelity is anything you wouldn‘t do with another in front of your spouse!

I think you are Wonderful!!!!

There should be more men like you!!!

yes its cheating and yes you are a bad husband.

Maybe you should just get a divorce so you can feel free to "re-feel" whatever it is you want to do.

And your wife can go out and find a man that won‘t do this to her.

And if you don‘t end up divorcing your wife in the future, then be a f#$%^n man already and go on your business trips....go to your meetings while there, go out to eat, go back to your hotel room and stay there.....ALONE.

Your wife deserves a man, and right now you aren‘t being one in any sense of the word.

I‘d say you haven‘t changed one damn bit from your younger years and you are still a player.  You are the reason men are on the Rate-A-Guy section.

Ok, now we can chalk this up to a troll post and chalk this guy up to a troll that wants to slam the women here.

I bet your wife doesn‘t realize you are just a snake in the grass and if she knew you looked for other women on business trips, then she‘d be booting your worthless ass out the door.

LMWS, how about giving this "man" a well deserved boot?

with your permission i am gonna use that line. thanks.

I will be thrilled if you do