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I hear ya my man.  I have yet to date a faithful woman.  The one I‘m seeing now, things are going great and I don‘t doubt her.

But the minute she comes home after an outing with her friends at 2 or 4am in the morning, she‘s history.

Momof4 wrote:

MrTrueBlue wrote: woodywooder wrote: I really and truly love WomanSavers.com! But! I REALLY Wish I could find a ManSavers I have so many women that could go on it!! I got proof for every single one! If anyone knows a site that I could list women PLEASE message me I hear ya my man.  I have yet to date a faithful woman.  The one I‘m seeing now, things are going great and I don‘t doubt her. But the minute she comes home after an outing with her friends at 2 or 4am in the morning, she‘s history. MTB, I thnk maybe that‘s too harsh. I know your experience, but I have gone out with my girl friends and come home at 2am. I have never even considered cheating, but sometimes, we‘re just all dancing in a group, it‘s good music, and we just want to have fun. Mr M never had a problem with my going out, he usually gets some when I get home any ways!

Its great that you are that way.  But in my experience, more than not, there is no reason to stay out til 4am and nothing good ever came out of it.

Yes, there is a remote possibility that someone that comes home close to sunrise didn‘t cheat, but to me, its remote and I‘m not going to put up with it.

MrTrueBlue wrote:

Momof4 wrote: MrTrueBlue wrote: woodywooder wrote: I really and truly love WomanSavers.com! But! I REALLY Wish I could find a ManSavers I have so many women that could go on it!! I got proof for every single one! If anyone knows a site that I could list women PLEASE message me I hear ya my man.  I have yet to date a faithful woman.  The one I‘m seeing now, things are going great and I don‘t doubt her. But the minute she comes home after an outing with her friends at 2 or 4am in the morning, she‘s history. MTB, I thnk maybe that‘s too harsh. I know your experience, but I have gone out with my girl friends and come home at 2am. I have never even considered cheating, but sometimes, we‘re just all dancing in a group, it‘s good music, and we just want to have fun. Mr M never had a problem with my going out, he usually gets some when I get home any ways!  Its great that you are that way.  But in my experience, more than not, there is no reason to stay out til 4am and nothing good ever came out of it. Yes, there is a remote possibility that someone that comes home close to sunrise didn‘t cheat, but to me, its remote and I‘m not going to put up with it.

If my H came home that late he‘d be met with a frying pan!!!!!!!!!

MrTrueBlue wrote:

Momof4 wrote: MrTrueBlue wrote: woodywooder wrote: I really and truly love WomanSavers.com! But! I REALLY Wish I could find a ManSavers I have so many women that could go on it!! I got proof for every single one! If anyone knows a site that I could list women PLEASE message me I hear ya my man.  I have yet to date a faithful woman.  The one I‘m seeing now, things are going great and I don‘t doubt her. But the minute she comes home after an outing with her friends at 2 or 4am in the morning, she‘s history. MTB, I thnk maybe that‘s too harsh. I know your experience, but I have gone out with my girl friends and come home at 2am. I have never even considered cheating, but sometimes, we‘re just all dancing in a group, it‘s good music, and we just want to have fun. Mr M never had a problem with my going out, he usually gets some when I get home any ways!  Its great that you are that way.  But in my experience, more than not, there is no reason to stay out til 4am and nothing good ever came out of it. Yes, there is a remote possibility that someone that comes home close to sunrise didn‘t cheat, but to me, its remote and I‘m not going to put up with it.

well, thats one of the things that led to the downfall of my marriage....I "let" her go out with friends till one or two am!  She would go out with friends dancing, etc, once or twice a week. I stayed home with the kids. She told me she needed to get out, since she was going nuts (she‘d go out with folks from work, usually).....so, I didnt put up a fuss, shes an adult, who am I to say NO? Well, she starts coming home later, sometimes somewhat toasted (I would wait up to see if she was ok)....well, once she came home and changed her shirt immediately...said she spilled a drink on it.....i went to the dirty laundry, and yea, something was spilled on it, but it wasnt a drink! When confronted she denied it , told me it was a drink, and started a fight....well, Im a guy, and I know what semen looks and smells like.......

She continued to go out, eventually, one day, she didnt come home. My kids asked me where she was, I lied to them, telling them that she stayed at a friends‘ house. After she did this a few times, I stopped lying to the kids, and when they asked, I would say "I dont know"......eventually, she moved in with him, filed for divorce, got rewarded by the courts, since Massachusetts is a no-fault state, and now she has alienated all but one kid, and cant keep a steady relationship.....Karma...what a bitch

Me and my Frank go out with our mates and sometimes dont get home till late. The only reason I come home at about 12-1 is because I cant handle it like I did when I was in my 20‘s, he typically comes home at about 1 and he always texts me during the night. Its not an issue for us.

In response to the poster, I actually go on Askmen.com and mens health, they arent the same as this site but they do have tips about work/life in general. I dont bother with dating tips though as Im a woman but I like the sites. They are good for building confidence and I feel quite empowered when i read them