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| Tiredmomma |
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Posted: 4/19/2008 10:33 AM |
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Subject: Men Who Have Lost Interest In Women |
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Isn‘t it kinda ironic that even though these women don‘t get the sex they want they still stay and love their husbands? They don‘t cheat they don‘t stray?
Yet if a women is all wired for sex 24/7 it‘s ok for a man to cheat?
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| Drew J |
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Posted: 4/20/2008 7:38 PM |
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Subject: Men Who Have Lost Interest In Women |
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| Tiredmomma wrote: | Isn‘t it kinda ironic that even though these women don‘t get the sex they want they still stay and love their husbands? They don‘t cheat they don‘t stray?
Yet if a women is all wired for sex 24/7 it‘s ok for a man to cheat?
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According to you. Never forget that stats state that upwards of sixty percent of women cheat and that a poll taken on here showed that forty nine percent of womansavers posters who took said poll thought women cheated more. While cheating may be for different ‘reasons‘, the amount is equal.
Is it just me or does this article seem to dance around the fact that maybe the guy doesn‘t want it because she hasn‘t lost some of the weight from the pregnancy?
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| Drew J |
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Posted: 4/20/2008 7:40 PM |
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| Persona Non Grata wrote: | | This was certainly true for Cath. ‘I made such an effort - I‘d put on make-up before Jim came home, do my hair, but he never noticed,‘ she says. ‘I‘d put on so much weight with the twins and, though I lost a lot of it, I wasn‘t a size eight any more. I kept asking if it was my body, but he‘d never answer. |
There we have it. Men know better than to answer questions like that for one reason. Jack Nicholson put it best...
‘YOU CAN‘T HANDLE THE TRUTH.‘
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| Drew J |
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Posted: 4/20/2008 7:43 PM |
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| Persona Non Grata wrote: | For Cath it was Jim‘s refusal to communicate that ultimately destroyed their marriage. ‘He sent me to madness and back,‘ she says. ‘The man who was supposed to love me found me repulsive, so I felt repulsive. For years I was ratty and miserable.‘
When the boys reached three and the pressure eased - and Cath just about had her old body back - she returned to her job as a mortgage broker. Their sex life suddenly picked up.
‘Jim was back to the old Jim, and in about two months I was pregnant again,‘ says Cath. ‘I was overjoyed - it turned out to be the girl I‘d wanted - but Jim was totally freaked out. He was upset, angry, stressed. While I was pregnant I tried to initiate sex once and he rejected me. By then he‘d done enough damage. I wasn‘t going to let him drag me down that low again.‘ They are now separated. |
There you go. You got your body back. But now he ditches you? Why - because you got big again? What the **** did he think would happen if he ejaculated inside you? This guy sounds like a loser. This woman gets a high five for leaving this jackass.
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| Tiredmomma |
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Posted: 4/21/2008 7:54 AM |
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| Drew J wrote: |
| Tiredmomma wrote: |
Isn‘t it kinda ironic that even though these women don‘t get the sex they want they still stay and love their husbands? They don‘t cheat they don‘t stray?
Yet if a women is all wired for sex 24/7 it‘s ok for a man to cheat?
TM
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According to you. Never forget that stats state that upwards of sixty percent of women cheat and that a poll taken on here showed that forty nine percent of womansavers posters who took said poll thought women cheated more. While cheating may be for different ‘reasons‘, the amount is equal.
Is it just me or does this article seem to dance around the fact that maybe the guy doesn‘t want it because she hasn‘t lost some of the weight from the pregnancy? |
I agree with you Drew.
And no, my post was being sarcastic is all. I have just read so many stories where the wife "supposedly" never wanted to have sex - didn‘t understand the husband.. ya da ya da so he cheated. I‘m well aware that there are plenty of women out there with no morals as well - would be grand if they paired up with men just like themselves.. then all the cheaters could cheat on each other and pass along their little STD‘s amongst themselves.. I‘d jsut hope they didn‘t decide to add children to the mix...
Best advice for any many who don‘t like a woman to gain weight - buy a blow up doll. Be happy with that. Took me 3 1/2 years to get my weight of after #3 and it was a goddarn struggle. My hormones were messed up - my metabolism - my bloodpressure.. you name it.. pregnancy messed with it. Honestly though I think I was the one who was turned off by my body - not my husband.
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Posted: 4/21/2008 7:55 AM |
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| Drew J wrote: |
| Persona Non Grata wrote: |
For Cath it was Jim‘s refusal to communicate that ultimately destroyed their marriage. ‘He sent me to madness and back,‘ she says. ‘The man who was supposed to love me found me repulsive, so I felt repulsive. For years I was ratty and miserable.‘
When the boys reached three and the pressure eased - and Cath just about had her old body back - she returned to her job as a mortgage broker. Their sex life suddenly picked up.
‘Jim was back to the old Jim, and in about two months I was pregnant again,‘ says Cath. ‘I was overjoyed - it turned out to be the girl I‘d wanted - but Jim was totally freaked out. He was upset, angry, stressed. While I was pregnant I tried to initiate sex once and he rejected me. By then he‘d done enough damage. I wasn‘t going to let him drag me down that low again.‘ They are now separated. |
There you go. You got your body back. But now he ditches you? Why - because you got big again? What the **** did he think would happen if he ejaculated inside you? This guy sounds like a loser. This woman gets a high five for leaving this jackass. |
AMEN 
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Posted: 4/21/2008 9:23 AM |
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| Tiredmomma wrote: | Isn‘t it kinda ironic that even though these women don‘t get the sex they want they still stay and love their husbands? They don‘t cheat they don‘t stray?
Yet if a women is all wired for sex 24/7 it‘s ok for a man to cheat?
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Nope. Its not ok for either to cheat. They should fix the relationship or get out.
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| Drew J |
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Posted: 5/1/2008 4:16 PM |
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Best advice for any many who don‘t like a woman to gain weight - buy a blow up doll. Be happy with that. Took me 3 1/2 years to get my weight of after #3 and it was a goddarn struggle. My hormones were messed up - my metabolism - my bloodpressure.. you name it.. pregnancy messed with it. Honestly though I think I was the one who was turned off by my body - not my husband.
Drew J: I find this interesting since I have seen some men say it should only take one year for a woman to get her body back. Of course they were not doctors and had not done proper research, they were just thinking with the little head and not being understanding. One year is not reasonable. Especially when the mother loses a lot of sleep due to the baby crying a lot and also having to be with it all the time since it‘s just brand new.
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Posted: 5/11/2008 12:25 PM |
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| Drew J wrote: | Best advice for any many who don‘t like a woman to gain weight - buy a blow up doll. Be happy with that. Took me 3 1/2 years to get my weight of after #3 and it was a goddarn struggle. My hormones were messed up - my metabolism - my bloodpressure.. you name it.. pregnancy messed with it. Honestly though I think I was the one who was turned off by my body - not my husband.
Drew J: I find this interesting since I have seen some men say it should only take one year for a woman to get her body back. Of course they were not doctors and had not done proper research, they were just thinking with the little head and not being understanding. One year is not reasonable. Especially when the mother loses a lot of sleep due to the baby crying a lot and also having to be with it all the time since it‘s just brand new. |
I think it‘s different for each woman and how their pregnancy went, what kinda of stress they are up against, how much help and support they have. For my first child I was back in my pre-preggo jeans 5 weeks after giving birth. Had my body back in 3 months, just about.
#2 was very different. I was on total bedrest for about 5 1/2 months and gained a huge amount. Suffered from post partum afterwards and struggled to get back to normal, which really didn‘t happen.
After #3 I had about 95 lbs to loose if I wanted to get back to what I was before the kids. That in itself overwhealmed me a lot. Then add the stress of moving from Europe to this swamp. Add that hubby got deployed - leaving me without my usual support net with 3 kids in a place I didn‘t want to be.
Yeah, I might have been able to loose the weight in 1 year if that was my only priority. It wasn‘t.
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Posted: 5/12/2008 12:07 AM |
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"Yeah, I might have been able to loose the weight in 1 year if that was my only priority. It wasn‘t."
Not when you have a flailing meatsack who needs constant attention because he is so small and so dependent on the mother. I think a neat idea would be trade baby watching duties for exercise time the wife could use when it comes to losing the weight again. You know, sometimes the dad watches the baby so mom can catch a nap. Except the nap would be some exercise time. If the dad wants the mom to lose the weight, he could make time for her to be able to do so by picking up a few chores she usually does.
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Posted: 5/12/2008 5:26 AM |
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| Drew J wrote: | "Yeah, I might have been able to loose the weight in 1 year if that was my only priority. It wasn‘t."
Not when you have a flailing meatsack who needs constant attention because he is so small and so dependent on the mother. I think a neat idea would be trade baby watching duties for exercise time the wife could use when it comes to losing the weight again. You know, sometimes the dad watches the baby so mom can catch a nap. Except the nap would be some exercise time. If the dad wants the mom to lose the weight, he could make time for her to be able to do so by picking up a few chores she usually does. |
Hehe Drew, none of my kids were on the small side. But, yes it would have been nice if he had been able to give me time for stuff like exercise. However he was gone from 4.30 am til 8 pm 5 days a week if not longer ( when they were in the field).
When I excercised it was usually with 1 -2 or 3 kids in tow. Still is. I don‘t lay any "blame" on him, not much he can do.
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