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| supermom21664 |
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Posted: 6/9/2008 7:24 PM |
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Subject: heres a question or two..... |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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"i knew she was a BI but dammit i didnt know i was gonna walk into a dude (COMPLETE STRANGER) banging my wife. "
If you knew she was bi, why should you be surprised that she‘d cheat with you on another guy? Sorry but this is what you invite when you have these what I think are absurd fantasies in your head about two women together. I sure wouldn‘t tolerate a woman of mine being bisexual. Cheating is cheating. She‘d be mine and I‘d be hers. PERIOD.
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Wow Drew I agree with you for once!!
Write this down Shally!!
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Um I agree with Drew also. Shally are ya keeping score???
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| misterekted |
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Posted: 6/16/2008 4:05 AM |
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WomanSaver Lurker
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kokomo
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| Drew J wrote: | "i knew she was a BI but dammit i didnt know i was gonna walk into a dude (COMPLETE STRANGER) banging my wife. "
If you knew she was bi, why should you be surprised that she‘d cheat with you on another guy? Sorry but this is what you invite when you have these what I think are absurd fantasies in your head about two women together. I sure wouldn‘t tolerate a woman of mine being bisexual. Cheating is cheating. She‘d be mine and I‘d be hers. PERIOD.
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hmmm, i dunno man. 13 years of not having walked into a situation like that, just shocked me. (in retrospect it‘s not all that shocking)
I just need to get ma head straight man, and find me a nice STRAIGHT woman.
I have blocked her on ma cellphone, ain‘t bout to let her jack with ma head no more.
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Posted: 8/4/2008 8:32 AM |
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New WomanSaver
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| misterekted wrote: | |
question #1 why isn‘t there a site out there for men like this? question #2 any woman care to tell me how the hell after the divorce i should attempt to approach a woman, after a 13 year marriage (with me having 3 kids), to just say hi? question #3 how can i find a LOYAL, HONEST, GOOD lady. i don‘t want an emotional vampire like i am getting rid of.
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I am sorry to hear about what you have gone through.
Answer to question one....
Maybe that may be a sign for you to start a site to help men in the same boat!
Answer to question two...
This would be time to heal from what has happened to you. A little soul searching for the wounds. As the old saying goes..."How the hell are ya gonna love somebody else, if you can‘t love yourself?" It is my belief that a lot of the problems with dating/ relationships is that people do not take time for themselves to heal thus carrying over baggage that spills on to the next. It is kinda like a Jack Russell terrier chasing it‘s own tail.
Answer to question three....
There are good women out there (obviously) wondering the same question about men. When your heart is healed the universe will bring you that special someone. Also, just by getting on this site and doing further reading/ research will help you to ward off the emotional/energy vampires. Always remember, knowledge protects.
 
I wish you luck!
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Posted: 8/23/2008 5:02 PM |
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New WomanSaver
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Just a suggestion:
When you do begin to date, and find some sort of connection, be honest.
Get your paperwork in order, especially the police report.
TELL HER UPFRONT.
I had to break up with a guy who didn‘t tell me about his background.
After my personal experience with Domestic Violence, I didn‘t and couldn‘t get involved again. However, he couldn‘t provide evidence of his side of the story.
Frankly, his side of the story sounded a lot like my ex‘s MySpace page. I know the true facts, and I DO have documentation to support them.
Think of it this way: I have to protect my children. I am no longer single and can think only of myself.
They need for ME to maintain a clear head, not one stuck down south.
A woman will respect you a lot more.
Don‘t rush, find out who you are, start by meeting people in groups. Friends of friends, etc. "Practice" talking with others who you are not attracted to, and find out what you like and don‘t like. Take it from there.
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