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Posted: 11/6/2007 8:06 AM |
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Married man, gets another woman pregnant (yes I will get flamed)
Situation, I am 30, wife is 28.
I prolly shoudl have gotten married in my early 30s...the following will show why....
Been married since Jan 2006...I met her in Nov 2004, got engaged Jul 2005, then married Jan 2006.
ANyhow I ended up cheating on her many times with a colleague from work
who is 4 yrs older than me. The cheating started in June 2006, sex was
always unprotected and she ended up getting pregnant.
Now she wants to keep the baby and is 3 mths pregnant.
I love my wife, (but of course not enuf to have stayed faithful to
her), but I also am really really feeling the connection with this
other women, this other woman is 6‘0, with a nice waist, right ol‘
child bearing hips, and a nice rack, smile, and overall very
nice-ladylike personality. Whereas my wife, when I met her she was 190
@ 5‘9" very very pretty (in the face), however now she is approx (and
when I cheated on her) 260lbs, and our sex life is almost non-existant.
I love my wife, and she is avery very innocent, when I married her I
told her that I had only had sex with 3 women (when the real number was
A LOT higher), she, herself was a virgin. Had never had a bf, and never
been intimate with a guy. THIS IS WHAT SHE TOLD ME at least, and I do
take her word for it.
Anyhow, now I know if this other woman is pregnant, I can‘t deny my
offspring, it is NOT within my nature. BUT a part of me knows how much
this will hurt my wife, she is very very loving, and DOES ANYTHING for
me. i know i **** this one up royally. I have let down A LOT of people,
my parents, myself and most importantly MY WIFE.
A part of me believes in this fallacy that when I tell my wife, that
somehow me, my wife, and this woman can somehow cohabitate together.
BUT I know the reality, my wife will be devasted, she will be so torn
beyond repair. I don‘t knwo where to go wtih this, and how to deal with
this, a part of me doesn‘t wanna deal with it, and in turn I don‘t feel
like telling my wfie about anything.
I told htis other woman to abort it manytimes, but again I care for her
and am not going to force her to do something that she will regret, and
she has done this before and said she didn‘t want to abort another
baby, "I cant live with it" etc etc.
I know, I want my wife to have a happy/normal life, but I can‘t see her
having one after I drop this bomb on her. A part of me also thinks she
may not divorce me and may stay with me, an attitude kinda like "where
else does she have to go" (I know she has plenty of options, there are
3 billion ppl of the opposite sex in this world, so no issues there,
but nonetheless a part of me believes she will not divorce me)
anyhow. HAS ANYONE EVER KNOWN ANYONE IN SUCH A SITUATION?
Help me.
Expected birth date is Jun 20th 2008.
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Posted: 11/6/2007 9:23 AM |
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Well, I think you should tell your wife and let her make that decision. Why did you marry her? You havent even been married very long. You almost sound like you pity her. Please... we are not as helpless as you think... you sound like you are hyped up about your other interest. Just tell your wife and let her move on. I would not expect her to stay though. If she does you will not be doing her any favors because its probably going to happen again with the issues you 2 have. Good luck
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Posted: 11/6/2007 9:52 AM |
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| L33T F00L wrote: | Married man, gets another woman pregnant (yes I will get flamed)
Situation, I am 30, wife is 28.
I prolly shoudl have gotten married in my early 30s...the following will show why....
Been married since Jan 2006...I met her in Nov 2004, got engaged Jul 2005, then married Jan 2006.
ANyhow I ended up cheating on her many times with a colleague from work who is 4 yrs older than me. The cheating started in June 2006, sex was always unprotected and she ended up getting pregnant.
Now she wants to keep the baby and is 3 mths pregnant.
I love my wife, (but of course not enuf to have stayed faithful to her), but I also am really really feeling the connection with this other women, this other woman is 6‘0, with a nice waist, right ol‘ child bearing hips, and a nice rack, smile, and overall very nice-ladylike personality. Whereas my wife, when I met her she was 190 @ 5‘9" very very pretty (in the face), however now she is approx (and when I cheated on her) 260lbs, and our sex life is almost non-existant.
I love my wife, and she is avery very innocent, when I married her I told her that I had only had sex with 3 women (when the real number was A LOT higher), she, herself was a virgin. Had never had a bf, and never been intimate with a guy. THIS IS WHAT SHE TOLD ME at least, and I do take her word for it.
Anyhow, now I know if this other woman is pregnant, I can‘t deny my offspring, it is NOT within my nature. BUT a part of me knows how much this will hurt my wife, she is very very loving, and DOES ANYTHING for me. i know i **** this one up royally. I have let down A LOT of people, my parents, myself and most importantly MY WIFE.
A part of me believes in this fallacy that when I tell my wife, that somehow me, my wife, and this woman can somehow cohabitate together. BUT I know the reality, my wife will be devasted, she will be so torn beyond repair. I don‘t knwo where to go wtih this, and how to deal with this, a part of me doesn‘t wanna deal with it, and in turn I don‘t feel like telling my wfie about anything.
I told htis other woman to abort it manytimes, but again I care for her and am not going to force her to do something that she will regret, and she has done this before and said she didn‘t want to abort another baby, "I cant live with it" etc etc.
I know, I want my wife to have a happy/normal life, but I can‘t see her having one after I drop this bomb on her. A part of me also thinks she may not divorce me and may stay with me, an attitude kinda like "where else does she have to go" (I know she has plenty of options, there are 3 billion ppl of the opposite sex in this world, so no issues there, but nonetheless a part of me believes she will not divorce me)
anyhow. HAS ANYONE EVER KNOWN ANYONE IN SUCH A SITUATION?
Help me.
Expected birth date is Jun 20th 2008. |
I can believe i just wasted 2 minutes of my life reading the garbage that you typed.
If your wife beats you with in an inch of your life it is still to good for you!!
What a scum sucking dog you started this relationship with a lie end it with the truth.
I bet you still look hot as hell and the years of life have done no damage to you. (insert sarcasm here)
Your a winner i bet Fstybich would love you!!!
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Posted: 11/6/2007 10:16 AM |
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I think that this toolbag should post his own name on Rate-A-Guy.
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Posted: 11/6/2007 1:49 PM |
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| L33T F00L wrote: | Married man, gets another woman pregnant (yes I will get flamed)
Situation, I am 30, wife is 28.
I prolly shoudl have gotten married in my early 30s...the following will show why....
Been married since Jan 2006...I met her in Nov 2004, got engaged Jul 2005, then married Jan 2006.
ANyhow I ended up cheating on her many times with a colleague from work who is 4 yrs older than me. The cheating started in June 2006, sex was always unprotected and she ended up getting pregnant.
Now she wants to keep the baby and is 3 mths pregnant.
I love my wife, (but of course not enuf to have stayed faithful to her), but I also am really really feeling the connection with this other women, this other woman is 6‘0, with a nice waist, right ol‘ child bearing hips, and a nice rack, smile, and overall very nice-ladylike personality. Whereas my wife, when I met her she was 190 @ 5‘9" very very pretty (in the face), however now she is approx (and when I cheated on her) 260lbs, and our sex life is almost non-existant.
I love my wife, and she is avery very innocent, when I married her I told her that I had only had sex with 3 women (when the real number was A LOT higher), she, herself was a virgin. Had never had a bf, and never been intimate with a guy. THIS IS WHAT SHE TOLD ME at least, and I do take her word for it.
Anyhow, now I know if this other woman is pregnant, I can‘t deny my offspring, it is NOT within my nature. BUT a part of me knows how much this will hurt my wife, she is very very loving, and DOES ANYTHING for me. i know i **** this one up royally. I have let down A LOT of people, my parents, myself and most importantly MY WIFE.
A part of me believes in this fallacy that when I tell my wife, that somehow me, my wife, and this woman can somehow cohabitate together. BUT I know the reality, my wife will be devasted, she will be so torn beyond repair. I don‘t knwo where to go wtih this, and how to deal with this, a part of me doesn‘t wanna deal with it, and in turn I don‘t feel like telling my wfie about anything.
I told htis other woman to abort it manytimes, but again I care for her and am not going to force her to do something that she will regret, and she has done this before and said she didn‘t want to abort another baby, "I cant live with it" etc etc.
I know, I want my wife to have a happy/normal life, but I can‘t see her having one after I drop this bomb on her. A part of me also thinks she may not divorce me and may stay with me, an attitude kinda like "where else does she have to go" (I know she has plenty of options, there are 3 billion ppl of the opposite sex in this world, so no issues there, but nonetheless a part of me believes she will not divorce me)
anyhow. HAS ANYONE EVER KNOWN ANYONE IN SUCH A SITUATION?
Help me.
Expected birth date is Jun 20th 2008. |
 An older woman! How exciting! Details, please! I‘m nosy that way. So was it mostly in the car, parked oh, I don‘t know, behind the dumpster? I‘m right huh?  What do I WIN? Tell me quick! Validating your love, how sweet, how touching, just sends chills up my spine, honey. You good lookin‘ ? Prolly just think you are. Bet she made you feel oh so speeeeeshal! Huh, honey? Well what the hell ya gonna do now??  You‘re up a creek without a paddle! Are ya gonna need someplace to stay sweetie? 
 Oh, congrats on the little blessing!
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Posted: 11/6/2007 1:54 PM |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 2:31 PM |
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You know you are a real DICKHEAD to have unprotected sex with your whore and then have sex with your wife. did you forget that you were fucking a whore there is no telling how many other men she is screwing, neither of you have any morals !! you need to get out of that marriage so that your innocent wife doesnt die from so STD you bring home.
I feel sorry for the baby with two assholes as parents.
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Posted: 11/6/2007 4:20 PM |
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Tell your wife so she can decide what she wants to do with her life. Then tell her about this site so we can help her move forward with whatever she decides. As you can see, most will tell her to leave you and find someone who deserves and respects her. Be sure she gets tested for STD’s, but if you forget, we will remind her.
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Posted: 11/6/2007 5:43 PM |
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you can so tell..you do not love your wife..
where will she go? well I bet far away from you..
just sad. your wife didn‘t deserve this, but maybe it is just the right thing for her to get pointed into the right direction..
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Posted: 11/6/2007 8:07 PM |
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| meandnotyou wrote: | | I think that this toolbag should post his own name on Rate-A-Guy. |
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Posted: 11/6/2007 8:09 PM |
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ladies, truly, imo, he is only trying to start an abortion debate.
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Posted: 11/6/2007 8:36 PM |
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I agree this asshole should post himself in Rate-A-Guy. I feel bad for his wife and unborn child. What a mess.
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Posted: 11/7/2007 8:43 AM |
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Ya...what she said...and her and the other her around here...I agree with it all.
My question: How the hell do you know this is even your child? ROFL....this other woman you were screwing...maybe you should take off your rose coloured glasses and see that if she‘s willing to participate in an affair with a married man...she‘s willing to do just about anything that lacks moral.....men are stupid aren‘t they?
Not saying it‘s not your kid....but you really need not be so vulnerable.
How big of a dumbass could a person be?
And really....was the whole affair all about physical attraction and desire? What else are you lying about?
I will never understand any justification for cheating other than "I tripped and landed on his dick"....now that there is some good justification! 
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Hey dumbass, your wife can have a happy life after you tell about this mess you have made. It just won‘t be with you. And the telling the other woman to abort the child.. was that because you are a selfish self centered pig that does not want to support your child? Or were you trying to keep the affair secret from your wife.
Perhaps you should wear pants that button instead of zipping that you would have to think as you were unbuttoning!
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Posted: 11/9/2007 8:50 AM |
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so, what does her height and weight have to do with anything?
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Posted: 11/9/2007 9:39 AM |
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| supermom21664 wrote: | |
Hey dumbass, your wife can have a happy life after you tell about this mess you have made. It just won‘t be with you. And the telling the other woman to abort the child.. was that because you are a selfish self centered pig that does not want to support your child? Or were you trying to keep the affair secret from your wife. Perhaps you should wear pants that button instead of zipping that you would have to think as you were unbuttoning!
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Tried it. It wont work.
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Posted: 11/9/2007 10:21 AM |
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Hey dumbass, your wife can have a happy life after you tell about this mess you have made. It just won‘t be with you. And the telling the other woman to abort the child.. was that because you are a selfish self centered pig that does not want to support your child? Or were you trying to keep the affair secret from your wife.
Perhaps you should wear pants that button instead of zipping that you would have to think as you were unbuttoning! |
Tried it. It wont work.
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maybe we should superglue them to your ass, whould that help???
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Sorry...I don‘t think there is any help you can get except advice on what you need to do.
You do need to tell your wife. There is NO WAY you can our should keep this from her.
And yes, she may not leave you...but she will be scarred for life and will never see you the same again. Hell...she may even step out on you and get her some strange.
But you need to tell your wife no matter what outcome you think it will bring. She deserves to know and there is no way you are going to be able to keep a child with another woman from her.
Ok..now for the harsh stuff....what the fuck were you thinking? You‘re wife really needs to divorce you so she can find a man that won‘t fuck her over like you have
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All I read was blah blah I can‘t keep my dick in my pants and it‘s all my wife‘s fault cause she isn‘t 90 lbs with a double D cup.. oh and I spilled some sperm in another woman.. blah..
Honestly.. You have to tell your wife. I hope you and your wife don‘t have any children so she can just walk away and never look back at that sham you called a marriage. I hope your wife gets to have a happy future and a great life without you in it.
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I never thought it possible !!!! This jerkweed actually makes that lying, cheating, piece of shit ex-husband of mine look like a fucking prince.
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