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| The Truth Hurts |
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Posted: 3/29/2008 1:50 AM |
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Ok ladies and gentlemen, I‘d really like to know what anyone thinks is being accomplished with all of the things going on here. I‘m seeing a lot of bias about men here, and this really makes me wonder about some women. I know not all of you ladies are biased, I‘ve been with my beautiful girlfriend for going on three years and she is without a doubt the greatest thing that has ever happened to me, and I could not ask for more in a woman. However, I‘ve seen so much in so little time on these boards about how men are "pigs", "losers", "**** heads", and endless other profane nouns. I‘m starting to think that women are forgetting that normal relationships in most cases are harder on the man. There are bad, abusive, disgusting men out there, as there are women, but it is not them that I speak of.
For example, despite my false age on these boards I am fresh out of high school as of last year. During my stay in American high school, I found that it is always the man trying to pick up the woman, rarely ever the other way around. If a girl is good looking and not brain dead (not that the latter matters much to men anyways) she will always get hit on, and the men face serious competition here in not only winning her over, but keeping her on his side as compared to her running off with a different young man. Simply put, it has become part of Western Society‘s youth code for the woman to be put before the man in a relationship.
I‘m not exactly sure what this place‘s purpose is, but I can guess. I have a dreadful feeling that what goes on in this place for the ladies is the same that went on in the second grade when they would leave to the bathroom in packs. Guys really don‘t know what you were talking about in the bathroom but we were always certain that it was largely about us, which is most handsome, smart, the one that will die alone, the ugliest, etc. For the most part, men‘s discussions about girls usually go like this: Guy1: "Dude, Julie‘s pretty hot." Guy2,3,4,etc: "Yup, nah, eww, etc." Simple and to the point. I‘m not saying we aren‘t sneaky too, in-fact I think that most men on these boards right now are here either because they‘re homosexual or because they‘re the lonelier type looking for answers. I‘m not lonely, but I am looking for some feedback after being linked to this site from another.
I suppose without beating around the bush, what I‘m trying to find out is if people actually change their ways of dealing with relationships and sexual appeal through out their lives, or if they just find a new way to do the same thing, like an internet forum verses a grade school restroom.
One piece of advice before I go, this is something I realized shortly before I started dating my current girlfriend. (It took ten years of schooling for even me to realize this) Avoid getting sucked into things like this, these sites will rarely help out your real life problems. What you need to do is simply be straight forward with your partner. If you think your man has a problem, ask him, don‘t go off and talk with your girlfriends or try and find a solution online, mostly these will be generic generalizations that won‘t help you in the least with your real world problem. Cut out the middle man, be yourself, and if that‘s not good enough for your partner/crush/friend/whatever, that‘s that. Sympathy doesn‘t teach lessons, real life hardships and experiences teach lessons. Remember that your life is no one‘s business but your own.
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Posted: 3/30/2008 12:16 PM |
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This is" Inspiration For Women."
Nothing you wrote is inspiring.
So what are you; lonely, homosexual, or a lonely homosexual???
T.
ps ... no answer necessary.
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Posted: 3/30/2008 6:25 PM |
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New WomanSaver
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| TALUTAH wrote: | This is" Inspiration For Women."
Nothing you wrote is inspiring.
So what are you; lonely, homosexual, or a lonely homosexual???
T.
ps ... no answer necessary.
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Typical. I don‘t need anymore replies, nothing has changed. I come to this board looking for a single shred of open minded maturity and I get the same thing that I‘d get if I said this to a group of prepubescent girls. I wrote something open minded, actively searching for honest answers, which is perfectly inspiring to me, and it should have inspired someone here to think a little. I thought adult women would be different. Nothing has changed, nothing will change I suppose.
I already answered your childish remark in the above post, so good job making yourself look stupid while trying to insult my sexual orientation. :)
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Posted: 3/30/2008 7:38 PM |
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Listern you little simpering slug,
You are the one who wrote that only a homosexual OR a lonely person would post here!
Read your post again, you nitwit!!!
T.
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Posted: 3/30/2008 7:41 PM |
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| TALUTAH wrote: |
Listern you little simpering slug,
You are the one who wrote that only a homosexual OR a lonely person would post here!
Read your post again, you nitwit!!!
T.
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Oh after it again are we? Learn to read an entire post. I‘m not going to bother quoting myself, if you can‘t find it on your own like a big girl I think you should spend more time getting hooked on phonics and less trolling an online board.
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Posted: 3/31/2008 7:16 AM |
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SO, YOU ARE GAY !!!
THANKS FOR SETTING ME STRAIGHT!
DID I SAY STRAIGHT? A WORD THAT IS NOT IN YOUR VOCABULARY!! POOR BABY.
T.
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Posted: 3/31/2008 6:38 PM |
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| TALUTAH wrote: |
SO, YOU ARE GAY !!!
THANKS FOR SETTING ME STRAIGHT!
DID I SAY STRAIGHT? A WORD THAT IS NOT IN YOUR VOCABULARY!! POOR BABY.
T.
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And people come in here wondering why men can be so sexist. You can‘t read, you can‘t make a valid argument, and all you can do is make immature insults that make you look stupid in the long run. For your own sake and your entire gender‘s sake I hope that you‘re thirteen.
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Posted: 4/1/2008 1:19 PM |
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Are you a politician ?
T.
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Posted: 4/1/2008 6:05 PM |
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New WomanSaver
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| TALUTAH wrote: |
Are you a politician ?
T.
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No, I give personal fitness and guitar lessons. Just a kid out of high school making his way.
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Posted: 4/1/2008 7:08 PM |
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Oh, btw, one has to be at least 18 to be in here.
So you know I am not 13. hahaha
T.
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Posted: 4/3/2008 2:45 AM |
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| The Truth Hurts wrote: | Ok ladies and gentlemen, I‘d really like to know what anyone thinks is being accomplished with all of the things going on here. I‘m seeing a lot of bias about men here, and this really makes me wonder about some women. I know not all of you ladies are biased, I‘ve been with my beautiful girlfriend for going on three years and she is without a doubt the greatest thing that has ever happened to me, and I could not ask for more in a woman. However, I‘ve seen so much in so little time on these boards about how men are "pigs", "losers", "**** heads", and endless other profane nouns. I‘m starting to think that women are forgetting that normal relationships in most cases are harder on the man. There are bad, abusive, disgusting men out there, as there are women, but it is not them that I speak of.
For example, despite my false age on these boards I am fresh out of high school as of last year. During my stay in American high school, I found that it is always the man trying to pick up the woman, rarely ever the other way around. If a girl is good looking and not brain dead (not that the latter matters much to men anyways) she will always get hit on, and the men face serious competition here in not only winning her over, but keeping her on his side as compared to her running off with a different young man. Simply put, it has become part of Western Society‘s youth code for the woman to be put before the man in a relationship.
I‘m not exactly sure what this place‘s purpose is, but I can guess. I have a dreadful feeling that what goes on in this place for the ladies is the same that went on in the second grade when they would leave to the bathroom in packs. Guys really don‘t know what you were talking about in the bathroom but we were always certain that it was largely about us, which is most handsome, smart, the one that will die alone, the ugliest, etc. For the most part, men‘s discussions about girls usually go like this: Guy1: "Dude, Julie‘s pretty hot." Guy2,3,4,etc: "Yup, nah, eww, etc." Simple and to the point. I‘m not saying we aren‘t sneaky too, in-fact I think that most men on these boards right now are here either because they‘re homosexual or because they‘re the lonelier type looking for answers. I‘m not lonely, but I am looking for some feedback after being linked to this site from another.
I suppose without beating around the bush, what I‘m trying to find out is if people actually change their ways of dealing with relationships and sexual appeal through out their lives, or if they just find a new way to do the same thing, like an internet forum verses a grade school restroom.
One piece of advice before I go, this is something I realized shortly before I started dating my current girlfriend. (It took ten years of schooling for even me to realize this) Avoid getting sucked into things like this, these sites will rarely help out your real life problems. What you need to do is simply be straight forward with your partner. If you think your man has a problem, ask him, don‘t go off and talk with your girlfriends or try and find a solution online, mostly these will be generic generalizations that won‘t help you in the least with your real world problem. Cut out the middle man, be yourself, and if that‘s not good enough for your partner/crush/friend/whatever, that‘s that. Sympathy doesn‘t teach lessons, real life hardships and experiences teach lessons. Remember that your life is no one‘s business but your own.
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thanx for your "open minded" post. you should have posted this in the agree to disagree forum so that could argue. i do think though that if you dont understand what this site is for then maybe you shouldnt waste your precious time to type out your thinking and your demeaning view of us.
one funny thing i cant resist saying something about though is when we "go to the bathroom in packs". it might be nice for you to think we are always talking about men but guess what...NOT!
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Posted: 4/4/2008 4:58 PM |
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| shelbelle wrote: |
thanx for your "open minded" post. you should have posted this in the agree to disagree forum so that could argue. i do think though that if you dont understand what this site is for then maybe you shouldnt waste your precious time to type out your thinking and your demeaning view of us. one funny thing i cant resist saying something about though is when we "go to the bathroom in packs". it might be nice for you to think we are always talking about men but guess what...NOT!
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Well, that‘s honestly what guys think. I didn‘t think I was wasting my time until no one bothered to answer my question.
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Posted: 4/4/2008 6:33 PM |
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truth...
You know why we go to the bathroom in packs?
well you know those handicapped bars on the stalls? Well honestly, you need a spotter for the dismount..you really do..the rest of us hold up score cards...thought you might want to know a "woman secret"...LOL
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Posted: 4/10/2008 8:19 AM |
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| The Truth Hurts wrote: | Ok ladies and gentlemen, I‘d really like to know what anyone thinks is being accomplished with all of the things going on here. I‘m seeing a lot of bias about men here, and this really makes me wonder about some women. I know not all of you ladies are biased, I‘ve been with my beautiful girlfriend for going on three years and she is without a doubt the greatest thing that has ever happened to me, and I could not ask for more in a woman. However, I‘ve seen so much in so little time on these boards about how men are "pigs", "losers", "**** heads", and endless other profane nouns. I‘m starting to think that women are forgetting that normal relationships in most cases are harder on the man. There are bad, abusive, disgusting men out there, as there are women, but it is not them that I speak of.
For example, despite my false age on these boards I am fresh out of high school as of last year. During my stay in American high school, I found that it is always the man trying to pick up the woman, rarely ever the other way around. If a girl is good looking and not brain dead (not that the latter matters much to men anyways) she will always get hit on, and the men face serious competition here in not only winning her over, but keeping her on his side as compared to her running off with a different young man. Simply put, it has become part of Western Society‘s youth code for the woman to be put before the man in a relationship.
I‘m not exactly sure what this place‘s purpose is, but I can guess. I have a dreadful feeling that what goes on in this place for the ladies is the same that went on in the second grade when they would leave to the bathroom in packs. Guys really don‘t know what you were talking about in the bathroom but we were always certain that it was largely about us, which is most handsome, smart, the one that will die alone, the ugliest, etc. For the most part, men‘s discussions about girls usually go like this: Guy1: "Dude, Julie‘s pretty hot." Guy2,3,4,etc: "Yup, nah, eww, etc." Simple and to the point. I‘m not saying we aren‘t sneaky too, in-fact I think that most men on these boards right now are here either because they‘re homosexual or because they‘re the lonelier type looking for answers. I‘m not lonely, but I am looking for some feedback after being linked to this site from another.
I suppose without beating around the bush, what I‘m trying to find out is if people actually change their ways of dealing with relationships and sexual appeal through out their lives, or if they just find a new way to do the same thing, like an internet forum verses a grade school restroom.
One piece of advice before I go, this is something I realized shortly before I started dating my current girlfriend. (It took ten years of schooling for even me to realize this) Avoid getting sucked into things like this, these sites will rarely help out your real life problems. What you need to do is simply be straight forward with your partner. If you think your man has a problem, ask him, don‘t go off and talk with your girlfriends or try and find a solution online, mostly these will be generic generalizations that won‘t help you in the least with your real world problem. Cut out the middle man, be yourself, and if that‘s not good enough for your partner/crush/friend/whatever, that‘s that. Sympathy doesn‘t teach lessons, real life hardships and experiences teach lessons. Remember that your life is no one‘s business but your own.
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Perhaps we tried talking to our partners and he/she lied to us about their feelings or what was going on. You can not fully understand our disposition on the men/ SO in our lives until you have either been beaten so badly that your family does not recognize you or your spouse rips your heart out and stomps on it by cheating on you. So please do not pass judgement on us until you have been down the road of life in our shoes.
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