Because I had a relationship with a man who was married and said he wasnt- I had heard a bunch of stupid lies they tell- and when I was in the process of catching him in them-he would say oh she would never leave me-(thats what he said when I confronted him and told him that she deserved to know he was trash)- just how many times should you forgive them? When I was married and found out things about my EX- the trust stayed gone for years until I just didnt care anymore. It seems like more guys cheat than I ever thought. If things have been going on for years or they only agree to change when they get caught- they think they will just get away with it or they just get slicker. I know you are supposed to be there for better or worse for life-but I think if you stay with them and have to put up with them-they deserve whatever the HELL you put them through.
I do agree & Im tryin to find ways to do it
any suggestions?
I personally couldn‘t forgive if it was done to me,once a cheat,always a cheat in my eyes.
And if I was with someone who I didn‘t know was married at the time and lets say he left his wife for me,I‘d always be thinking,well he‘s done it to her,so whats to stop him doing it to me!!!
If there‘s no trust,there‘s no relationship,well not a happy one anyway!