I am pretty new to these forums but what is the difference if any between a fling and an affair? Some of the men are just in it for the sex and have no intentions of leaving their homes-while some do consider leaving their homes and families. They dont consider the consequences of their selfish actions. They dont think about the hurt they cause and the trust they betray. But when they get caught, they want forgiveness and security of the home they put in jeopardy. They dont think thier wives would leave them because oh-she loves me too much and I am the bread winner-uugh- I am still thinking about my plan to uncover this cheater husband that I know to his family. If he was sorry, I might not or if he only did it once. But when he says, she would never leave me-uugh-or I just did it for sex-or she checks the cell phone bill or I have it covered. And I mean, really has his tracks covered. I guess he is protecting her-because he does it just enough to not get her suspicious. All the while, he tells people that it wouldnt hurt him abit if she left him. Or that she nags and they fight all the time. So, she puts up with his shit and he does whatever he wants. She wants some help around the house-he wants her to appreciate him more. So anyway, what is the differnce?
Flings lead to affairs,and they‘re both as bad in my opinion.
Never do to others what you wouldn‘t like done to yourself has always been my motto.