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Posted: 11/6/2007 7:36 AM |
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Subject: the other woman |
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I hope you dont judge what I say but I want to post this. I have been married for most of my life. Kids are almost grown. I had been feeling lonely, unappreciated and low. I had trust issues with my husband a few yrs back but I got over that. I thought I loved him. A yr or so ago someone came along and played on my heart strings for several months,telling me all I wanted to hear. He was so smooth-he told me he didnt care if his wife left him. That he was only there for his kids. Oh, and he could not believe I would have any interest in him. I slept with him. I never did anything like this ever. I felt guilty-he played on that too. Until I got attached-stupid me. 2 months have passed and I hate him for he knew what the hell he was doing.(snake) I feel like a young child on a busy street. Someone said, oh you dont know what its like to cheat. Well, hell no. Never done it before. I was under the impression that he was leaving an unhappy marriage as he told me he had done a couple of times before only to recant that the other day. He said he could care less if his wife left him only to tell me the other day that he loved his wife. I said go work things out with her. I started thinking about everything he has ever said to me. (that liar) He said whatever it took to get me in the sack. Jerk! He said his wife checks everything he does. Maybe because he cheats. He will move on to his next victim in a few months. I figure that he has these flings and stops them in time for him to get caught, loves on his wife for a while and then tries to justify why he thinks he deserves to rip out some girls heart. Oh, he says, dont get emotional-get real-we do. Thats what we do. I realize now that it didnt bother him when I asked him why he would even think about cheating on his wife. Because he didnt think about her or anyone else- just him. Now it is not in my character at all to cheat. I felt like dying and still do for doing this. I am going to get away from him and also, since he thinks I am so stupid he might just get alittle surprize. I did not want to or ever think about ruining his marriage- as I thought according to HIM- there was nothing there until the other day. When I realized how he wants to be my friend no matter what. Oh- mistake... I seen his wife a couple of weeks ago and felt sorry for the situation. When he moves on to the next girl. Sad part, he does this and tells her that he only talks to girls. What a man...
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Posted: 11/9/2007 8:31 AM |
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OK- I saw this man out in public as I was going thru a fastfood drive thru- within about 30 min. he calls me. Talks like nothing ever happened. I‘m like WTF. Then I see him again in a public place this week- I just brushed him off and told him told him to go on home. On Wed- he calls me twice-I miss you. I am going to call you on Thurs- he doesnt call. I would not have answered it but my phone has caller ID. Trying to figure out what kind of games he is playing with my head. I do not want to think about him- but I do- I think about how he can be so sly that his wife has no clue. I am thinking about all the crap he has ever said to me-like I feel guilty cause I‘d like to give you a part of my heart. BS!It isnt his to give. When we got into it a couple of weeks ago and he says OH- I love my wife and I had figured out that they were infact together he said all kinds of things. I started wondering if I was being too stupid emotional to see that he was a freaking con man. The things he said for a year- slow to start and then move in for the kill. He prepped me up until he got me where he wanted saying all the right things. Damn I am so mad...still. But to think he only has sex with girls-long enough for his wife to not be suspicious. He tries them out- hell he is good-he aint even paying for it. Stupid on my part. Ya know he would meet me out in empty parking lots just to talk to me. Yeap, still mad... he did not quit me- I have made that decision because he is a lying sneaking, cheat, manipulator. I believe he could be caught but he does all the right things at home to keep his wife ok with things. I know this because I know some of their friends. But as I have been rattling on- I am sorry for that. I just am very bitter right now and hurt that I would take part in something like this.
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Posted: 11/9/2007 1:59 PM |
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I think I will stay as far away as I can. I have my own self to worry about. Fu** him! I am too good to be dealing with that crap. I dont need that kind of drama in my life. He can save his marriage this time. The next girl might not be so easy.
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