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Posted: 10/10/2007 12:30 PM |
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Subject: cheating husband |
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New WomanSaver
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Age: 25
Total Posts: 1
jersey CI
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Hello ladies im so glad i have come across this site i am desparate to talk to people in the same situation as me and make friends. I am a 25yrold jersey girl i have had a rough time the last few years i left my first love heavily pregnant after a five year on off verbaly and mentaly abusive relationship, i was on my own for a while then 3mnths before my son was due i met my husband, he was a sholder 2 cry on and a great friend my son was born we fell in love and were married 15mnths later in 2005, I have never been so happy we had the perfect relationship or so i thought he never went out at night worked hard and provided well and was a devoted husband to me and father to my son. However early this year that all changed he left his mobile at home one day and then phoned in a panic wanting me 2 drop it back to him, i would never have considered looking at it if he had not have called , But of course i did there were hundreds off sex messages from someone the number was stored under a fake name his brothers i was horrified and called the number,I found out that my husband had been sleeping with this woman in his lunch break and before work throughout our whole relationship and not only that they had had a child that was born while we were away on honeymoon. my life is a mess now i have kicked him out but he still has access to my son and it kills me to see him im so unhappy please help me
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Posted: 10/13/2007 11:43 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Age: 44
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Montreal
Canada
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Well, isn‘t he just the biggest toolbag going?
Do you have any family nearby?
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Posted: 10/16/2007 8:57 AM |
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WomanSaver Lurker
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Age: 30
Total Posts: 18
Confused
California
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Stick with it and don‘t turn back. Things are hard--and sad to say they will probably get harder---thats where I am right now---the even harder stage. Is he the biological father? Is he good to your child/children? Is he abusive? I know it kills you and it hurts--but is he a positive in their life or a negative. Make your choices considering those things. The pain will go away (well--I hope it will, I‘m still waiting--The betrayal is awful and the whole scenario is disgusting). They will get what they deserve, Its Karma. Good luck on either one of them being able to trust each other.--I gotta go, but I will write back later.
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