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diet pepsi
  Posted: 5/7/2006 5:33 PM Subject: caught husband in my bra and panties
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Help i feel really strange i came home from work early only to catch my husband in my bra and panties! Says he has done this in the last 3 or 4 months 4 times! I am in shock I thought i had a good marriage says I PUSH HIM AWAY ALL THE TIME THIS IS THE CLOSE SENSATION HE GETS CAUSE HE IS CLOSE TOME. I THINK HE IS VERY EMBARRASSED I SAID I WAS LEAVING. WHAT DO I DO I FEEL REALLY NAUSEATED DO I CHANCE THIS help!

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  Posted: 5/8/2006 7:13 AM Subject: caught husband in my bra and panties
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Normally when a man misses a woman he either tells her or show her or maybe sniff her perfume my boyfriend likes for me to spray perfume on his pillow sometimes.You need to fully investigate this,that is weird and your first reaction was to leave because you don‘t know how to deal with or think of the situation.Try spending a little more time with him and if he still does it,then you know he was just using you as an excuse.



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  Posted: 5/13/2006 2:00 PM Subject: caught husband in my bra and panties
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Honestly about 8 yrs ago when I was just dating my husband he commented he liked to wear thigh highs. I freaked and thought the worst.  Turns out he likes the feel on his legs. When I became more accepting and not freaking he hasn‘t done it in about 7 yrs. My best friend of 18 yrs , her husband was caught in her underwear by her. She went thru his clothes and found more silky underwear than what she had herself.  She was mad and thought he was going gay or something. Him like my husband liked the feel of the silk and satin.  Think about it..we like to feel smooth lingerie, our panties etc.  Why is it wrong that a man like smooth things too? Now him wearing yours in a different story too..I don‘t want anyone else wearing my panties. Why don‘t you sit down with him and not be defensive and let him know you‘d like to know what he finds enticing of wearing your underwear. If it turns out he likes the silkiness or the smoothness offer to get him some satin boxers or silk ones. Alot of times a man will be fine with that. You‘ll find with some men that when you approach it as something you‘d like to understand and not attack them...they usually will explain to you and alot of times come up with a solution together that will make you both more comfortable.

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  Posted: 5/18/2006 7:51 PM Subject: caught husband in my bra and panties
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I‘ve known 2 men in my life who have a version of this. 1 asked to role play once and I was open minded as he used a woman‘s voice and sat with legs crossed like a girl, and it was just comical (my ex husband). We both laughed. The other person actually took my red lacy underwear without telling me, put it on, then hinted about it so I would look and find out. That does not mean I would not be shocked by what you saw and by the frequency. I would keep reaching out and ask some professional because it is not a one time, but repeated behaviour and was not with you. I understand you are concerned. I would be too.

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  Posted: 5/19/2006 9:07 AM Subject: caught husband in my bra and panties
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diet pepsi wrote:
Help i feel really strange i came home from work early only to catch my husband in my bra and panties! Says he has done this in the last 3 or 4 months 4 times! I am in shock I thought i had a good marriage says I PUSH HIM AWAY ALL THE TIME THIS IS THE CLOSE SENSATION HE GETS CAUSE HE IS CLOSE TOME. I THINK HE IS VERY EMBARRASSED I SAID I WAS LEAVING. WHAT DO I DO I FEEL REALLY NAUSEATED DO I CHANCE THIS help!


diet pepsi,

What you are describing sounds like a sexual fetish called "Transvestite Fetishism"   Contrary to what people think, most men that have this fetish are heterosexual men.  (Only about 8% of transvestites are homosexual)

This could be a problem if it interferes with your normal sex life in any way (eg, if your husband can ONLY get sexual satisfaction from dressing in women‘s clothing, instead of intercourse with you).  If its not a problem, then maybe you could talk to your husband and find out what what turns him on, and make it a part of your foreplay or sexual activity.  I would highly suggest that you don‘t push him away, but try to talk things out, and keep an open line of communication.

I know Blog Mistress has some excellent articles on this topic if you would like to read up on it.

BMW, if you stop by here, could you please provide the link.


Dr. Womansaver


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