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| shelbelle |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 7:30 AM |
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Subject: A Video for Bubble: Talking with a Buddhist Nun |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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| shally wrote: | Don‘t ever underestimate the wisdom you hold, my sweet lil shell!
We are all the same. Hurt is hurt there is no measure when one is experiencing it.
You are a valued member here because of who you are ~ and that is one sweet sweet spirit!
xxxxxx
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omg....i dont know what i did but thaaaaaaaaaaaaaaank ya!
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| shally |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 8:04 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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You‘re you. Adored beyond measure, sweetie!
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| shelbelle |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 9:07 AM |
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Subject: A Video for Bubble: Talking with a Buddhist Nun |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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| shally wrote: |
You‘re you. Adored beyond measure, sweetie!
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now im tearing up!!! those are the most kindest words that i can remember being said about me.
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| dd5 |
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Posted: 2/19/2010 11:21 AM |
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Steph.....wow...I don‘t know what to say...I normally don‘t click on your threads....I have just been reminded why....way to much drama.
Does it ever end?
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| shally |
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Posted: 2/20/2010 10:03 AM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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| shelbelle wrote: |
| shally wrote: |
You‘re you. Adored beyond measure, sweetie!
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now im tearing up!!! those are the most kindest words that i can remember being said about me.
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Well, if someone isn‘t saying them to you. Say them to yourself!
Better yet, listen to that still quiet voice within, He‘s telling you.
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| Sunny fl |
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Posted: 2/25/2010 2:29 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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| Lady Gaga wrote: | Bubble I am surprised at you. I haven‘t attacked anyone here.
My comments about the member called ‘Shally‘ were indirect and exceptionally mild!
Have you forgotten that back in Oct-Dec 2008 ‘Shally‘ behaved in an abominable manner with me. She was all smiles to my face, but behind my back she was sending hateful, gossipy PMs to everyone. I have this from a reliable source. In fact I have this from two reliable sources. Bubble you are a perceptive person, did you never wonder why Shally and I who used to be such good friends had this terrible and long-lasting fall-out?
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| Sunny fl |
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Posted: 2/25/2010 2:29 PM |
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| Lady Gaga wrote: |
Shally I had stopped reading anything from you so I didn‘t know anything about your mother‘s heart attack until it was too late, and too much had been posted. I apologise for the pain my actions caused you.
I was saddened to read that you never considered me as a friend because I certainly liked you a lot at one time. That was why your ‘betrayal‘ hurt so much.
. . .With hindsight I should have behaved much better than I did. Even after finding out about your great dislike of me I should have apologised to you for starting all that business when I belatedly found out about your mother‘s serious medical condition. However, I was too upset to think clearly. My mind is clear now and I want to apologise unreservedly for inadvertently adding to your troubles at a very upsetting time.
My mother had her heart trouble back in March 2009 so I now know just how emotionally devastating a sudden serious illness/medical condition of a close family member can be.
Shally I am not surprised that you feel the way you do about me. I was so focussed on my own feelings, on how ‘I‘ was feeling that my behaviour at the time now appals me.
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| Sunny fl |
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Posted: 2/25/2010 2:33 PM |
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| Lady Gaga wrote: | I don‘t get you people at all. I make a full and frank apology to Shally regarding my terrible behaviour in October/November 2008 and I get accused by Bubble of trying to provoke and yes once more ‘attack‘ Shally.
I really do not understand you people at all. What do you want from me? Nothing that I write is ever it seems to be taken at face value at Womansavers. My writing is always to be scrutinised for second and third meanings. You flatter me greatly if you think that I am capable of such subtlety. Perhaps it is my tone? Do I appear to write in a mocking or condescending manner?
The default position regarding me is always to question the genuineness and sincerity of my posts. My long-standing enemies here are absolutely determined to undermine my goodwill at every turn. They also are determined through posturing and brow-beating of others to portray me in the worst light possible.
To have such long-standing and highly determined enemies I must have greatly offended a number of people at Womansavers over the years?! The only person I can honestly say that I HAVE greatly offended is Shally.
I sometimes wonder, if, giving my peculiar personal circumstances I have been a great disappointment to certain influential Womansavers members. Momof4 once told me when I was defending a male poster that I ‘should pick a side -Female - and stick to it‘. Mom obviously meant that I should always defend the female version of things, even when a male member was making a calm and reasonable argument.
I have to tell you that I abhor blinkered thinking and lynch mob mentality. Adopting a ‘them-and-us‘ attitude is alien to me. So you will never get a blinkered, biased, and heavily partisan opinion from me.
I personally believe that both sexes have a generalised, inchoate dislike/distrust of the other. This feeling is vague and its intensity varies with the individual‘s mood and the situation they find themselves in.
Perhaps certain people here were first excited, then aggrieved and then enraged when I didn‘t tell them what they so desperately wanted to hear? Namely, that men are just as interested/fascinated with love/relationships/marriage/parenthood/babies as women are, only as is their ancient custom, men don‘t talk about these things. This was insensitive of me and I apologise for that. What I intended by writing about the above was to offer from my unique perspective, my views and opinions of the ideas attitudes, and mind-set of the cisgendered population . I am astonished now by my naivety. I blush at my lack of sophistication. One of the great secrets of life is that if we wish to be happy,we should not try to look to clearly into certain matters. And we should not try and reveal our truth to those whose greatest wish - despite words to the contrary - is to remain in the most delicious, the most comforting eternal ignorance.
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Posted: 2/25/2010 9:59 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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Why thank you sunny!
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Posted: 2/26/2010 3:27 PM |
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| Lady Gaga wrote: | "The only person I can honestly say that I HAVE greatly offended is Shally."
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I haven‘t read all of your posts ( read quite a few though) so I have no idea whether or not this is true, you may very well have greatly offended another person and they chose not to "feed the troll" so to speak. What I can say is this; We tend to be a very close knit group, some of us at least, and when you attack one of our sisters you offend more than just her. You offend those of us close to her.
We, as grown ups, know there are risks to posting on these forums. One of those risks is being harassed by other ppl, which you seem to enjoy doing to Shally. If that‘s not what you are trying to do, then stop bringing her up every other thread. Even to apologize. In fact, stop talking about her from here on out, even to try to defend yourself. Grow up and walk away from the need to throw the occasional jab her way by mentioning her offhand or directly. Your need to mention her so much speaks of obsession and she really should report you and have you banned from the forum.
I‘m sorry but you just need to leave her alone altogether. Move on.
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Posted: 2/26/2010 3:35 PM |
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WomanSaver MoFo
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| moogleangelgirl wrote: |
| Lady Gaga wrote: |
"The only person I can honestly say that I HAVE greatly offended is Shally."
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I haven‘t read all of your posts ( read quite a few though) so I have no idea whether or not this is true, you may very well have greatly offended another person and they chose not to "feed the troll" so to speak. What I can say is this; We tend to be a very close knit group, some of us at least, and when you attack one of our sisters you offend more than just her. You offend those of us close to her.
We, as grown ups, know there are risks to posting on these forums. One of those risks is being harassed by other ppl, which you seem to enjoy doing to Shally. If that‘s not what you are trying to do, then stop bringing her up every other thread. Even to apologize. In fact, stop talking about her from here on out, even to try to defend yourself. Grow up and walk away from the need to throw the occasional jab her way by mentioning her offhand or directly. Your need to mention her so much speaks of obsession and she really should report you and have you banned from the forum.
I‘m sorry but you just need to leave her alone altogether. Move on.
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